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over a year ago
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"Ever had that situation where someone is working really hard but their main selling point is actually putting you off?  "
Happens every time a guy wants a meet, and his main attribute is VWE. No thank you. 
-Courtney |
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"Ever had that situation where someone is working really hard but their main selling point is actually putting you off?
Happens every time a guy wants a meet, and his main attribute is VWE. No thank you.
-Courtney"
I'm getting the stamina line - the idea of hammering away for ages with no variation just doesn't do it for me |
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"Ever had that situation where someone is working really hard but their main selling point is actually putting you off?
Happens every time a guy wants a meet, and his main attribute is VWE. No thank you.
-Courtney
I'm getting the stamina line - the idea of hammering away for ages with no variation just doesn't do it for me "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ever had that situation where someone is working really hard but their main selling point is actually putting you off?
Happens every time a guy wants a meet, and his main attribute is VWE. No thank you.
-Courtney
I'm getting the stamina line - the idea of hammering away for ages with no variation just doesn't do it for me
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Or when they keep insisting that they'll treat you with respect if we meet. Surely that's a given and not something that makes you exceptional? |
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So as far as I can tell, so far it's wrong if men are VWE, have stamina, like to lick a lot, are respectful to the people they meet ...
The smaller cocked, unfit, selfish and arrogant/disrespectful guys will be lapping this up!
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"So as far as I can tell, so far it's wrong if men are VWE, have stamina, like to lick a lot, are respectful to the people they meet ...
The smaller cocked, unfit, selfish and arrogant/disrespectful guys will be lapping this up!
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It's not wrong, it's just when people use one thing only as a hook then wonder why it doesn't catch anything! We're all more than the sum of our parts and reducing yourself to just one part is unappealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So as far as I can tell, so far it's wrong if men are VWE, have stamina, like to lick a lot, are respectful to the people they meet ...
The smaller cocked, unfit, selfish and arrogant/disrespectful guys will be lapping this up!
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Haha. I think its more that guys shouldn't rest all their worth on one attribute because the woman they are trying to meet may not be particularly into that attribute.
If you come off as a one-trick pony and I don't like the trick, where does that leave you?
-Courtney |
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"So as far as I can tell, so far it's wrong if men are VWE, have stamina, like to lick a lot, are respectful to the people they meet ...
The smaller cocked, unfit, selfish and arrogant/disrespectful guys will be lapping this up!
Haha. I think its more that guys shouldn't rest all their worth on one attribute because the woman they are trying to meet may not be particularly into that attribute.
If you come off as a one-trick pony and I don't like the trick, where does that leave you?
-Courtney"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So as far as I can tell, so far it's wrong if men are VWE, have stamina, like to lick a lot, are respectful to the people they meet ...
The smaller cocked, unfit, selfish and arrogant/disrespectful guys will be lapping this up!
Haha. I think its more that guys shouldn't rest all their worth on one attribute because the woman they are trying to meet may not be particularly into that attribute.
If you come off as a one-trick pony and I don't like the trick, where does that leave you?
-Courtney
Riderless "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So my line about my ability to cum in a variety of different colours is no good. 
That could be interesting to see but only if you promise to attend the GUM clinic for a full screening!  "
I can't really. |
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"So as far as I can tell, so far it's wrong if men are VWE, have stamina, like to lick a lot, are respectful to the people they meet ...
The smaller cocked, unfit, selfish and arrogant/disrespectful guys will be lapping this up!
Haha. I think its more that guys shouldn't rest all their worth on one attribute because the woman they are trying to meet may not be particularly into that attribute.
If you come off as a one-trick pony and I don't like the trick, where does that leave you?
-Courtney"
 ...exactly! |
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I try to see past the words and focus on the personality. Trying to please the women on here is a dauntless task,I must imagine. I will assure them though don't need a magic trick or gimmick with me,they need to be themselves and the sex will work itself out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try to see past the words and focus on the personality. Trying to please the women on here is a dauntless task,I must imagine. I will assure them though don't need a magic trick or gimmick with me,they need to be themselves and the sex will work itself out. "
I dunno, I wouldn't mind a magic trick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try to see past the words and focus on the personality. Trying to please the women on here is a dauntless task,I must imagine. I will assure them though don't need a magic trick or gimmick with me,they need to be themselves and the sex will work itself out. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Is it just me or does it put you off when a guy seems very needy? I get turned off by the 'meet me now. Here is my number. Come to my house soon' comments.
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"Is it just me or does it put you off when a guy seems very needy? I get turned off by the 'meet me now. Here is my number. Come to my house soon' comments.
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Needy is not an attractive quality in anyone. There's no rush in my world... an insta-shag I'm not. |
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"So as far as I can tell, so far it's wrong if men are VWE, have stamina, like to lick a lot, are respectful to the people they meet ...
The smaller cocked, unfit, selfish and arrogant/disrespectful guys will be lapping this up!
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You summoned sir? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or does it put you off when a guy seems very needy? I get turned off by the 'meet me now. Here is my number. Come to my house soon' comments.
Needy is not an attractive quality in anyone. There's no rush in my world... an insta-shag I'm not. "
You should totally market instashag. To apply you need 20 photos of a penis or gynecology shot from a variety of angles (which makes it look exactly the same in every angle) and only spontaneous meets are accepted with a 5 minute notice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ever had that situation where someone is working really hard but their main selling point is actually putting you off? "
it happens just about every time I have a good command of the English language ,I'm a gentleman ,I love sex but don't lead with it and have many interests and pastimes but still women let you down had a meet organised from Thursday she pulled out this morning when I was already on my way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when they say they will lick me for hours.......noooo do the job right then fuck me "
this --- yawn imagine what you could do whilst they lick for hours - good book comes to mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ever had that situation where someone is working really hard but their main selling point is actually putting you off? it happens just about every time I have a good command of the English language ,I'm a gentleman ,I love sex but don't lead with it and have many interests and pastimes but still women let you down had a meet organised from Thursday she pulled out this morning when I was already on my way "
Eh?
Says he has a good command of English language then completely missreads the question ^_^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ever had that situation where someone is working really hard but their main selling point is actually putting you off? it happens just about every time I have a good command of the English language ,I'm a gentleman ,I love sex but don't lead with it and have many interests and pastimes but still women let you down had a meet organised from Thursday she pulled out this morning when I was already on my way
Eh?
Says he has a good command of English language then completely missreads the question ^_^"
how did I misread it I was working really hard at meeting her ,the question was open to ambiguity |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blimey no wonder the guys have a hard time meeting they now have to have a selling point "
I think the point is that they don't need one particular selling point. That the package is more important.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blimey no wonder the guys have a hard time meeting they now have to have a selling point
I think the point is that they don't need one particular selling point. That the package is more important.
-Courtney"
That still sounds like a lot of pressure.
I'd rather a man be himself and I'll be myself and we'll just decide if we like each other on that basis. No "performance" required. |
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"when they say they will lick me for hours.......noooo do the job right then fuck me
this --- yawn imagine what you could do whilst they lick for hours - good book comes to mind "
Eat a box of choccies, double pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when they say they will lick me for hours.......noooo do the job right then fuck me
this --- yawn imagine what you could do whilst they lick for hours - good book comes to mind
Eat a box of choccies, double pleasure. "
I think that would be an interesting meet, just licking pussy while women go about what they're normally doing. Maybe on a coffee morning, just be careful not to spill any. Great. Now I have a hardon for work lol |
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"Blimey no wonder the guys have a hard time meeting they now have to have a selling point
I think the point is that they don't need one particular selling point. That the package is more important.
-Courtney
That still sounds like a lot of pressure.
I'd rather a man be himself and I'll be myself and we'll just decide if we like each other on that basis. No "performance" required. "
That's the point Ruby. Instead of just being themselves guys (I only get messages from men so can't comment if women or couples do it too) shout loudly about one particular skill or attribute they have but it often backfires.
It's nice if a man has stamina, but by just drawing attention to that and nothing else it makes me think that's all there will be. And frankly I don't fancy friction burns on my foof! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ever had that situation where someone is working really hard but their main selling point is actually putting you off? it happens just about every time I have a good command of the English language ,I'm a gentleman ,I love sex but don't lead with it and have many interests and pastimes but still women let you down had a meet organised from Thursday she pulled out this morning when I was already on my way
Eh?
Says he has a good command of English language then completely missreads the question ^_^how did I misread it I was working really hard at meeting her ,the question was open to ambiguity "
The "selling point putting you off" part?
Unless you're saying you bigged up an aspect of yourself that she found a turn off |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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It can be a bit depressing when a chap messages telling you that they can shag all night. Don't think know I've got someone levelling up on a game?
I'd rather a chap just be themselves rather than trying to impress. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Heavy cummer 
Like that's an attractive prospect unless you're trying to pro-create. An extra large mouthful of raw chlorine sounds delicious! Have a pineapple or ten! "
The thought makes me gag |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or does it put you off when a guy seems very needy? I get turned off by the 'meet me now. Here is my number. Come to my house soon' comments.
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Not attractive |
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