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Do women look at men's profiles?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look at lots of men's profiles (though we are a couple, not a single woman).
Its mostly done via stealth mode. I think women use stealth more than anyone, followed by couples, so you are likely to see them less....
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Yea I do it but I use my privacy setting to opt out of who's looked at me, I used to find when I didn't all the guys I looked at would message with wording along the lines of "noticed you looked at me, so let's chat/meet/fuck etc so it's easier to hide and perve in stealth mode |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah ninja mode, of course, so I'm guessing most women turn on the function where they don't appear on the who looked at me list then.
Guess it stops unwanted mail from desperate guys saying "you looked at my profile but you never messaged me.... Why!!! For the love of God WHYYYYYY ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look before even reading the message, i also look if they post in the forums as well, am a nosey bitch lol.
I also do it in stealth mode, can't stand the desperados who seem to be stalking their own who's looked at me so they can't message you about looking as sonn as you looked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look before even reading the message, i also look if they post in the forums as well, am a nosey bitch lol.
I also do it in stealth mode, can't stand the desperados who seem to be stalking their own who's looked at me so they can't message you about looking as sonn as you looked." ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I always read profiles, especially those of people who message me.
If they are shite....I don't bother the read or respond.
Plus I am in stealth mode, so they will never know I have looked. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I always read profiles, especially those of people who message me.
If they are shite....I don't bother the read or respond.
Plus I am in stealth mode, so they will never know I have looked."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few seem to look at me, but they never drop me a line
I'm sort of hoping there are stealth pervs out.
Hang on, they don't message either "
^ this. Get the odd 'public' view, have no idea how many 'stealth' views. But all to no avail, they all just pass on through and never stop by lol ... (Need that violin enoticon!) ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few seem to look at me, but they never drop me a line
I'm sort of hoping there are stealth pervs out.
Hang on, they don't message either
^ this. Get the odd 'public' view, have no idea how many 'stealth' views. But all to no avail, they all just pass on through and never stop by lol ... (Need that violin enoticon!) "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah ninja mode, of course, so I'm guessing most women turn on the function where they don't appear on the who looked at me list then.
Guess it stops unwanted mail from desperate guys saying "you looked at my profile but you never messaged me.... Why!!! For the love of God WHYYYYYY "
Yup! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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i use stealth mode, so i don't show on looked at me..sometimes i leave a fab, which tells them i've been about, i never wink, and i dont have a hot list.
if it's someone from the forums,im interested in, i read a lot of what they have to say, and also how much they've interacted with me, before i message..but i do message..it just takes a while ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few seem to look at me, but they never drop me a line
I'm sort of hoping there are stealth pervs out.
Hang on, they don't message either "
Welcome.to my world bud lol ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i use stealth mode, so i don't show on looked at me..sometimes i leave a fab, which tells them i've been about, i never wink, and i dont have a hot list.
if it's someone from the forums,im interested in, i read a lot of what they have to say, and also how much they've interacted with me, before i message..but i do message..it just takes a while "
Don't be shy suzi message away![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i use stealth mode, so i don't show on looked at me..sometimes i leave a fab, which tells them i've been about, i never wink, and i dont have a hot list.
if it's someone from the forums,im interested in, i read a lot of what they have to say, and also how much they've interacted with me, before i message..but i do message..it just takes a while
Don't be shy suzi message away "
Anyone messaged you yet? ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
i may be in the minority, however, it takes a sledgehammer for me to realize people are being more than polite and sociable on the forums etc etc..i dont like to assume...accumulation takes time, but gets through eventually..
im the same at clubs though..i just think people are being polite, i never think they are interested.
it never fails to amaze me, how many gorgeous peeps, sometimes are not meeting in the evening, or, over the weekend..i always assume they'll be like really busy..should we have a sledgehammer thread for the brave? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few seem to look at me, but they never drop me a line
I'm sort of hoping there are stealth pervs out.
Hang on, they don't message either
^ this. Get the odd 'public' view, have no idea how many 'stealth' views. But all to no avail, they all just pass on through and never stop by lol ... (Need that violin enoticon!)
" . That's the fella! There is another list isn't there, eg the Santa hat etc? Where is it? ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"i use stealth mode, so i don't show on looked at me..sometimes i leave a fab, which tells them i've been about, i never wink, and i dont have a hot list.
if it's someone from the forums,im interested in, i read a lot of what they have to say, and also how much they've interacted with me, before i message..but i do message..it just takes a while
Don't be shy suzi message away
Anyone messaged you yet? "
no one can, on my single profile...this is not to keep the great ones at arms length its just to keep the ones i wont possibly meet, out ..dont have enough time to meet the ones i want to, let alone those i might do. i feel bad for asking someone to be patient and wait..so id rather not put them in that position, doesnt mean i dont want to... ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I don't use stealth mode, i want women who i haven't messaged to know that i looked, wasn't impressed and moved on! "
I always suspected this was the case hence why I never checked my 'looked at me'. I don't want to know I was considered less than hot on further inspection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i use stealth mode, so i don't show on looked at me..sometimes i leave a fab, which tells them i've been about, i never wink, and i dont have a hot list.
if it's someone from the forums,im interested in, i read a lot of what they have to say, and also how much they've interacted with me, before i message..but i do message..it just takes a while
Don't be shy suzi message away
Anyone messaged you yet? "
Nope ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Ah ninja mode, of course, so I'm guessing most women turn on the function where they don't appear on the who looked at me list then.
Guess it stops unwanted mail from desperate guys saying "you looked at my profile but you never messaged me.... Why!!! For the love of God WHYYYYYY "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i use stealth mode, so i don't show on looked at me..sometimes i leave a fab, which tells them i've been about, i never wink, and i dont have a hot list.
if it's someone from the forums,im interested in, i read a lot of what they have to say, and also how much they've interacted with me, before i message..but i do message..it just takes a while
Don't be shy suzi message away
Anyone messaged you yet?
no one can, on my single profile...this is not to keep the great ones at arms length its just to keep the ones i wont possibly meet, out ..dont have enough time to meet the ones i want to, let alone those i might do. i feel bad for asking someone to be patient and wait..so id rather not put them in that position, doesnt mean i dont want to... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I fab pics of men.
I sometimes even send messages but this is usually because of things they've said in the forums."
I would but outside your age range ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious as mine if being viewed by single men (some who state they're not looking for single men?) and the occasional couple."
I do. I check before messaging to see if they fit what I'm looking for. I shouldn't let it but time wasters really get on my nerves. I'm not here to waste a gentleman's time, so wouldn't waste his if I saw I didn't even match what was stated on his profile. Isn't that what profile info is all about? To check suitability so you aren't going to waste your time ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fab pics of men.
I sometimes even send messages but this is usually because of things they've said in the forums.
I would but outside your age range "
No you're not. |
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