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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not using the exact wording as I will get banned again but what is this with people holding parties for couples who are presumably physically fit from the description? Do you need a fitness test? I can cycle all day but bet we wouldn't meet the criteria! Is this some sort of apartheid. Perhaps I should have a party for the shapely and I will be the gate keeper. Note to admin no naming quoting or shaming in this post. Rant over!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

I prefer a professional couple myself. Much better than those amateur ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment. "
The post referred to body shape being in shape basically.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You've seen the same post then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment. The post referred to body shape being in shape basically. "

Not seen a post, but I don't see any difference between requesting BBWs and requesting athletic body types to a party.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment. The post referred to body shape being in shape basically. "

I don't know what post you are talking about, but I agree with cr5-7, how is it any different than a BBW night? Unless I'm not understanding your post?

-Courtney

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

it's their party, they can invite or include who they like.

organise your own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

can't see anything wrong with people only wanting 'fit' people at their parties

I've seen many black man fan club parties and BBW parties what's the diffrence

you hold a party you invite who you like surely

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

A fit party sounds awful!

I get into some yoga positions at parties and clubs but I don't want to do jumping jacks or lift weights at a party.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree, I think if you're hosting a party you should be able to invite who you want.

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By *agan_PairCouple over a year ago

portchester

Would you like some ketchup for your chip???

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Would you like some ketchup for your chip???"

Did you rub some salt in too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely 'fit' is the wrong word though if you want to hold a party for those of a particular (presumably slim) shape. Having watched the shot-putters and hammer-throwers (male and female) at the World Athletics Championships they were certainly 'fit' but also pretty big. Though, if asked, I'd happily attend a party of 'fit' shot-putters!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

If someone is holding a party for "in shape" people i sure as hell wouldn't be pushing to attend it! If you find this personally excludes you then move on and look elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm just looking forward to the day there's a 'chubby, facially challenged, attached but playing alone, not particularly well endowed and bang average' party ... gonna properly fill my boots that day..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If someone is holding a party for "in shape" people i sure as hell wouldn't be pushing to attend it! If you find this personally excludes you then move on and look elsewhere "

I second this. Even the word 'fit' makes me need to comfort eat!

But as has been said, it's their party. This isn't about equal opportunities.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not using the exact wording as I will get banned again but what is this with people holding parties for couples who are presumably physically fit from the description? Do you need a fitness test? I can cycle all day but bet we wouldn't meet the criteria! Is this some sort of apartheid. Perhaps I should have a party for the shapely and I will be the gate keeper. Note to admin no naming quoting or shaming in this post. Rant over! "

People can invite whoever they want to attend their parties. Why the rant? Are you saying that people should be forced to invite people they don't fancy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely 'fit' is the wrong word though if you want to hold a party for those of a particular (presumably slim) shape. Having watched the shot-putters and hammer-throwers (male and female) at the World Athletics Championships they were certainly 'fit' but also pretty big. Though, if asked, I'd happily attend a party of 'fit' shot-putters! "

They aren't using the word fit in a pysical ability way thought are they, they mean fit as in attractive, I have a 14 year old and she's always walking by boys saying he's fit

she don't think he can run a marathon

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

Put my name down please.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

Put my name down please.

No way! I've seen you and you're bloody fit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

Put my name down please.

No way! I've seen you and you're bloody fit.

I take great offence to that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

Put my name down please.

No way! I've seen you and you're bloody fit.

I take great offence to that

You can go and I can't!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment. The post referred to body shape being in shape basically.

I don't know what post you are talking about, but I agree with cr5-7, how is it any different than a BBW night? Unless I'm not understanding your post?

-Courtney"
a BBw night I think none BBw woman would still get in ? . A BBC I don't know if none black men would get in . A fit night I know Iv no chance lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

Put my name down please.

No way! I've seen you and you're bloody fit.

Thank you.

Gonna go apply for the Fit Party....

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

Put my name down please.

No way! I've seen you and you're bloody fit.

I take great offence to that

You're bringing the bags. She wasn't offering anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

I was reading a different thread when my cake senses went off..Count this chunky boy in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

I was reading a different thread when my cake senses went off..Count this chunky boy in

Its the law of fab. Let a thread go on long enough and someone will bring cake.

Apple anyone?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

I was reading a different thread when my cake senses went off..Count this chunky boy in

Its the law of fab. Let a thread go on long enough and someone will bring cake.

Apple anyone?"

Then you bob along with an apple.

There will be carrot sticks and hummus too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

I was reading a different thread when my cake senses went off..Count this chunky boy in

Its the law of fab. Let a thread go on long enough and someone will bring cake.

Apple anyone?"

yeah chuck it here I'll cook it and put a crust on the top.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

I was reading a different thread when my cake senses went off..Count this chunky boy in

Its the law of fab. Let a thread go on long enough and someone will bring cake.

Apple anyone?

Then you bob along with an apple.

There will be carrot sticks and hummus too.

Looks like I'm coming along then. May I?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

I was reading a different thread when my cake senses went off..Count this chunky boy in

Its the law of fab. Let a thread go on long enough and someone will bring cake.

Apple anyone?

yeah chuck it here I'll cook it and put a crust on the top.

Please do!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll happily join the cake party...

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

I was reading a different thread when my cake senses went off..Count this chunky boy in

Its the law of fab. Let a thread go on long enough and someone will bring cake.

Apple anyone?

Then you bob along with an apple.

There will be carrot sticks and hummus too.

Looks like I'm coming along then. May I?"

Your pictures suggest you might be fit. If you come I suppose that Steely Heeled woman will have to come too.

Go on then. I wouldn't want to be accused of excluding the fitties.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'll happily join the cake party..."

NN will give you a bag to wear.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Did someone mention cake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll happily join the cake party...

NN will give you a bag to wear.

yeah come and sit in the mingers corner with me seeing as we having been told we're to good looking to come

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't see the problem to be honest ~ we all have our preferences and theirs is for fit / good looking people to party with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll happily join the cake party...

NN will give you a bag to wear.

yeah come and sit in the mingers corner with me seeing as we having been told we're to good looking to come

We can share cake!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment. The post referred to body shape being in shape basically.

I don't know what post you are talking about, but I agree with cr5-7, how is it any different than a BBW night? Unless I'm not understanding your post?

-Courtneya BBw night I think none BBw woman would still get in ? . A BBC I don't know if none black men would get in . A fit night I know Iv no chance lol"

i guess that depends on where the party was being held. In clubs the club is generally open for all comers as well as for the organised party where as at an exclusive venue the organisers will have control over those who get in.

I do feel that the OP has perhaps taken this a bit too personally. They have assumed that they wont get in, they have not been turned down.

This is no different to Killing Kitten parties though who have selection criteria for their members.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't see the problem to be honest ~ we all have our preferences and theirs is for fit / good looking people to party with."

Oh shit I forgot what the thread was about them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment. "

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Having fun winding the buggers up though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't see the problem to be honest ~ we all have our preferences and theirs is for fit / good looking people to party with."

This, people can invite who they want to a party,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment. The post referred to body shape being in shape basically.

I don't know what post you are talking about, but I agree with cr5-7, how is it any different than a BBW night? Unless I'm not understanding your post?

-Courtneya BBw night I think none BBw woman would still get in ? . A BBC I don't know if none black men would get in . A fit night I know Iv no chance lol

I do feel that the OP has perhaps taken this a bit too personally. They have assumed that they wont get in, they have not been turned down.

This is no different to Killing Kitten parties though who have selection criteria for their members."

dont see why a none BBW woman wouldn't be allowed to a private BBW even

are we to assum that all big ladies or straight or those who aren't only like other big woman, are slim ladies not allowed to be BBW admirers too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't see the problem to be honest ~ we all have our preferences and theirs is for fit / good looking people to party with.

Oh shit I forgot what the thread was about them

I thought I'd bring it back on track

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's a party in my pants and you're all invited....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about an above average iq party 104.5 or above

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Can't see the problem to be honest ~ we all have our preferences and theirs is for fit / good looking people to party with.

Oh shit I forgot what the thread was about them

I thought I'd bring it back on track

Pah!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a party in my pants and you're all invited...."

somebody had to say it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a party in my pants and you're all invited....

somebody had to say it

But are you going?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a party in my pants and you're all invited...."

Hope you have big pants.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"There's a party in my pants and you're all invited....

somebody had to say it

I was worried in case he added, Come on down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a party in my pants and you're all invited....

somebody had to say it

I didn't wish to disappoint...

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

Put our names down please, we are well up for this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a party in my pants and you're all invited...."

I'll have to decline I'm afraid. I'm washing my dog's hair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a party in my pants and you're all invited....

somebody had to say it

I didn't wish to disappoint..."

open up then I'm coming in, sod the cake I'm having sausage tonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm going to have a "can't get a shag and you won't get one here either" party. Who's cumming?

I'll bring paper bags

increase our chances

Great plan!

There will be cake.

I was reading a different thread when my cake senses went off..Count this chunky boy in

Its the law of fab. Let a thread go on long enough and someone will bring cake.

Apple anyone?

yeah chuck it here I'll cook it and put a crust on the top.

Marry me.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Having fun winding the buggers up though! "

Not sure about winding them up. Ive seen the thread and unless posts have been deleted you appear to be talking to yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I do feel that the OP has perhaps taken this a bit too personally. They have assumed that they wont get in, they have not been turned down.

This is no different to Killing Kitten parties though who have selection criteria for their members."

Actually OP would get in, he's very fit and in shape - cycling coast to coast this year is enough proof of that. However OP's wife, me, wouldn't be welcome. So I'll just stay at home. With cake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see no problem with such a party and it sounds like the kind of party I'd love. I tend to seek people who are physically fit anyway

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

In attempt to drag this thread back on track....

I've been to BBW nights where there have been slim girls. They're not banned.

Was recently invited to a certain party (which shall remain unnamed) but then told I couldn't go because I'm over a certain dress size. Sod em.

Their loss.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event. "

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule. "

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?"

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule. "

see I don't get that, who's to say who likes big woman, what if a slim woman likes big women why can't women go to BBW events if they like big woman

my head hurts

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment. The post referred to body shape being in shape basically.

I don't know what post you are talking about, but I agree with cr5-7, how is it any different than a BBW night? Unless I'm not understanding your post?

-Courtneya BBw night I think none BBw woman would still get in ? . A BBC I don't know if none black men would get in . A fit night I know Iv no chance lol

I do feel that the OP has perhaps taken this a bit too personally. They have assumed that they wont get in, they have not been turned down.

This is no different to Killing Kitten parties though who have selection criteria for their members.

dont see why a none BBW woman wouldn't be allowed to a private BBW even

are we to assum that all big ladies or straight or those who aren't only like other big woman, are slim ladies not allowed to be BBW admirers too?"

anyone would be allowed if i was organising the party lol i was just saying that private party organisers in exclusive venues can pick and choose who they want to go to their party

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in. "

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

see I don't get that, who's to say who likes big woman, what if a slim woman likes big women why can't women go to BBW events if they like big woman

my head hurts

I dunno, I was just told to go to a different party instead. Didn't bother me though, I wouldn't want to go to a party where I would be ostracised.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do feel that the OP has perhaps taken this a bit too personally. They have assumed that they wont get in, they have not been turned down.

This is no different to Killing Kitten parties though who have selection criteria for their members.

Actually OP would get in, he's very fit and in shape - cycling coast to coast this year is enough proof of that. However OP's wife, me, wouldn't be welcome. So I'll just stay at home. With cake.

Well they're not unique in requesting a certain type of person to attend, City Slickers have had that in place for years as well as KK mentioned above, although I think they have an age restriction too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go"

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know why people don't just have parties for everybody

and when you get there play with who you fancy and avoid those you don't

no need to exclude just choose who you play with when you get there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know why people don't just have parties for everybody

and when you get there play with who you fancy and avoid those you don't

no need to exclude just choose who you play with when you get there "

Because overweight people make some people feel ill and they don't want to look at them. Surrounding themselves only in beauty may make them feel more beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cant see a problem with only good looking people going.no one would ever expect a stunning couple to want to play with a fat middle aged couple of dole whallers from a council estate.

I've seen the heaven circle parties advertised in London and hats off to them.its what they want

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Having fun winding the buggers up though! "

why? are you that desperate to go to their party?they can invite whoever they want, if that doesnt include you there is not much you can do. you are just making yourself seem bitter about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just got my invite.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

I think it's hugely dumb, but some don't realise it (or they don't want to change).

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

That's pathetic. If I felt so bad about my body that I couldn't be around slimmer women I would sort myself out and lose weight. And if I thought the men wouldn't want me if slimmer women were there I wouldn't want them. "
Rock on with that reply. My beautiful curvaceous wife wipes the floor with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

I think it's hugely dumb, but some don't realise it (or they don't want to change)."

Seriously though,why would anyone want to be at a party where others are excluded in case the men were attracted to them. Are these events open to all size and shape men?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

That's pathetic. If I felt so bad about my body that I couldn't be around slimmer women I would sort myself out and lose weight. And if I thought the men wouldn't want me if slimmer women were there I wouldn't want them. Rock on with that reply. My beautiful curvaceous wife wipes the floor with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun!"

So am I

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

That's pathetic. If I felt so bad about my body that I couldn't be around slimmer women I would sort myself out and lose weight. And if I thought the men wouldn't want me if slimmer women were there I wouldn't want them. Rock on with that reply. My beautiful curvaceous wife wipes the floor with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun!"

So these people are closed minded for only wanting "fit" people at their party, but its ok to say that you wife "wipes the floors with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun?" Really?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I don't know why people don't just have parties for everybody

and when you get there play with who you fancy and avoid those you don't

no need to exclude just choose who you play with when you get there "

It depends where you have the party, I suppose.

Anything in my home will need people to be vetted. If I'm organising something in a club then it's open, including to those I don't particularly like as I can just let them get on with enjoying the party.

I have been invited to parties and then experienced being uninvited because of my colour as, supposedly, other guests have objected to having someone of my hue there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

I think it's hugely dumb, but some don't realise it (or they don't want to change).

Seriously though,why would anyone want to be at a party where others are excluded in case the men were attracted to them. Are these events open to all size and shape men?"

I'd guess it's mainly insecure women that do not want to see smaller women. It makes sense that the organisers will obviously pander to them as they're the focal point (and money maker). I doubt the men attending exclusively demand larger women.

I don't know as I didn't attend, so didn't see the male attendees.

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

It's disgusting. Sorry to be blunt over this because I know and understand some people really do just want stereotypically gorgeous types to play with. But who's to say those types you have zero chemistry with. What if they're genuinely horrible people. Or what if they're so self obsessed with their physical image they don't bother satisfying the other couples???? Yes I completely agree that each to their own and everyone has a personal preference. But there is a way of being a little respectful about it!! So you message someone about their party and you get a no?? You would feel so horrible because you know in their eyes you're not physically fit to them. Which is absolute bollocks.

Maybe I only feel this way because I was a 17 stone girl but still had exactly the same filthy side and personality as I do now, that's why we would NEVER discriminate based on looks. It's bullshit and infuriates me.

I completely agree that everyone can ask for a type, because it's only fair - but please people have a bit of etiquette about it!! Lots of egotisticals which we all expect but I wish some people would just handle things with a little more kindness and respect.

Anyway I'm blabbing like I always do.

Rach xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

That's pathetic. If I felt so bad about my body that I couldn't be around slimmer women I would sort myself out and lose weight. And if I thought the men wouldn't want me if slimmer women were there I wouldn't want them. Rock on with that reply. My beautiful curvaceous wife wipes the floor with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun!"

That was rude. If you don't want slimmer people as they're less sexy and less fun, why were you even wanting to go to an event targeted to that body type?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

That's pathetic. If I felt so bad about my body that I couldn't be around slimmer women I would sort myself out and lose weight. And if I thought the men wouldn't want me if slimmer women were there I wouldn't want them. Rock on with that reply. My beautiful curvaceous wife wipes the floor with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun!

So these people are closed minded for only wanting "fit" people at their party, but its ok to say that you wife "wipes the floors with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun?" Really?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go"

If your a bloke going to a BBW event .... And there is a slim girl in the room , is it going to change your tastes .surley the bloke knows what he likes and why he's there.

I think you've got this all wrong . Who wants to go to a party where everyone is playing with the wii

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's disgusting. Sorry to be blunt over this because I know and understand some people really do just want stereotypically gorgeous types to play with. But who's to say those types you have zero chemistry with. What if they're genuinely horrible people. Or what if they're so self obsessed with their physical image they don't bother satisfying the other couples???? Yes I completely agree that each to their own and everyone has a personal preference. But there is a way of being a little respectful about it!! So you message someone about their party and you get a no?? You would feel so horrible because you know in their eyes you're not physically fit to them. Which is absolute bollocks.

Anyway I'm blabbing like I always do.

Rach xxxx"

It's not disgusting.

If someone said they only wanted black people, would you lose your shit over it too?

I also sincerely doubt looks do not come into your meet qualifying process.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cant see a problem with only good looking people going.no one would ever expect a stunning couple to want to play with a fat middle aged couple of dole whallers from a council estate.

I've seen the heaven circle parties advertised in London and hats off to them.its what they want"

hang on why are we bringing people financial status and where they live into it

and stunning people can be on the dole and live in council property too or is it ok to be poor if your stunning

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

the indignation would be enough to exclude people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know why this is such a big issue.

Don't take it so personally.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

as for the 'it's their loss' mentality, they DIDNT want you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyway I'm blabbing like I always do.

Rach xxxx"

That's a really good point about asking in a respectful way for guests they find attractive.

But I think the way it's asked will also be a filter as the people they offend won't want to go. The people that agree with the invitation wording will fit in.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

That's pathetic. If I felt so bad about my body that I couldn't be around slimmer women I would sort myself out and lose weight. And if I thought the men wouldn't want me if slimmer women were there I wouldn't want them. Rock on with that reply. My beautiful curvaceous wife wipes the floor with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun!"

Oh the irony!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"as for the 'it's their loss' mentality, they DIDNT want you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyway I'm blabbing like I always do.

Rach xxxx

That's a really good point about asking in a respectful way for guests they find attractive.

But I think the way it's asked will also be a filter as the people they offend won't want to go. The people that agree with the invitation wording will fit in. "

The OP is complaining about a post, not being rudely messaged for enquiring about a party.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the indignation would be enough to exclude people"

Fantastically put as always

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fit parties sound great to me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer inclusive events but can see the desire by some to make them exclusive.

Let 'em shag. I usually prefer a Pizza Hut anyway

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"as for the 'it's their loss' mentality, they DIDNT want you

Of course they do. THEY JUST DON'T KNOW IT YET. If they met me they would only want short fatties forevermore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer inclusive events but can see the desire by some to make them exclusive.

Let 'em shag. I usually prefer a Pizza Hut anyway

I always put cookies out and a carrot for Rudolph.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If any one does see a post for short arses . Runts and little folk party .

You'll let me know right .

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

Anyway I'm blabbing like I always do.

Rach xxxx

That's a really good point about asking in a respectful way for guests they find attractive.

But I think the way it's asked will also be a filter as the people they offend won't want to go. The people that agree with the invitation wording will fit in.

The OP is complaining about a post, not being rudely messaged for enquiring about a party. "

I am saying hypothetically, if you see a post and decide oh maybe id like to go to this and receive a flat out no it's pretty disheartening for someone. I just think there's nicer ways of going about it. People can still have their own preferences and requirements without having to put others down in the process.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

A fit woman wouldn't be barred from a bbw event.

Eh, that's not true. When I was active, I was told to not attend a BBW event by the organisers once. It's not a blanket rule.

We're you offered the option of necking a couple of cream buns to get in, like Lewis Hamilton being offered a tie at Wimbledon?

I was told I wouldn't fit in.

Personally I think

and this is only my opinion

but a lot of big women may feel intimidated by a slim women at a BBW event and may feel the guys wouldn't go for her so wouldn't sooner no slim women go

I think that this may be the real reason. Sadly, a lot of larger women are mean to the thinner women on here. Tends to go unnoticed though.

That's pathetic. If I felt so bad about my body that I couldn't be around slimmer women I would sort myself out and lose weight. And if I thought the men wouldn't want me if slimmer women were there I wouldn't want them. Rock on with that reply. My beautiful curvaceous wife wipes the floor with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun!

So these people are closed minded for only wanting "fit" people at their party, but its ok to say that you wife "wipes the floors with the skinnies because she is sexy and fun?" Really?"

Lol I'm one of those skinny ones and I can tell you I'm sexy and fun! Reminds me of the whole 'real women' debacle

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

You need to be able to run 50 meters carrying a strong box loaded with weapons and amo weighing atleast 25 Kgs in under 30 seconds. You are invited, if you can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyway I'm blabbing like I always do.

Rach xxxx

That's a really good point about asking in a respectful way for guests they find attractive.

But I think the way it's asked will also be a filter as the people they offend won't want to go. The people that agree with the invitation wording will fit in.

The OP is complaining about a post, not being rudely messaged for enquiring about a party.

Xx"

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer inclusive events but can see the desire by some to make them exclusive.

Let 'em shag. I usually prefer a Pizza Hut anyway

I always put cookies out and a carrot for Rudolph.

So it's your fault I'm fat and don't get invited to fit parties ?

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

What about parties for the nearly dead people

Loud music

Lots of booze and maybe even be able to smoke

Oooooh the mind boggles

And that's only for starters

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Fab is all about excluding other people. Threads run daily that exclude all but a few people on the forum, profiles exclude age ranges and races its much better to concentrate on the people and events that include you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyway I'm blabbing like I always do.

Rach xxxx

That's a really good point about asking in a respectful way for guests they find attractive.

But I think the way it's asked will also be a filter as the people they offend won't want to go. The people that agree with the invitation wording will fit in.

The OP is complaining about a post, not being rudely messaged for enquiring about a party.

Xx"

I think that's hugely over sensitive. I don't get upset about not being black or not being a gay male, it's out of my control. I think if you get upset over someone else's requirements, you're best off working on yourself and not trying to change them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyway I'm blabbing like I always do.

Rach xxxx

That's a really good point about asking in a respectful way for guests they find attractive.

But I think the way it's asked will also be a filter as the people they offend won't want to go. The people that agree with the invitation wording will fit in.

The OP is complaining about a post, not being rudely messaged for enquiring about a party.

Xx"

Yes of course you would like to think people would reject party requests nicely if they don't meet the criteria.

Having read the party post it was pretty clear the type they were looking for so you have to ask yourself honestly 'do I fit their criteria' before applying.

Well that's what I would do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab is all about excluding other people. Threads run daily that exclude all but a few people on the forum, profiles exclude age ranges and races its much better to concentrate on the people and events that include you.

Well said.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"
ah, if it was only that simple, you have forgotten about the folk that like to feel offended, and can then moan and rant about it

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

That does create ghettos; ok if one likes living in a ghetto; otherwise it is up to the rest not to let that happen by 'looking down' on the ones who think they are 'exclusive' and start excluding them; soon their 'club' dwindles down to them and ANO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a single man I'm excluded quite a lot on fab. I'm not offended if people reply that I'm not what they are looking for.

I can imagine the host of the 'fit party' is trying to create the elitist Hollywood look and good on them. It's what they want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not gonna quote the entire post but

"Discriminate based on looks"

Of course we discriminate on looks!

Why would we meet people we didn't fancy?

I find lee Evans hilarious..doesn't mean I want to shag him.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I don't suggest looking down on anyone or excluding them socially but what would be the point of us asking someone whose profile excluded us to meet?

In real life I socialise with loads of different people but only have sex with a few, same applies here.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

I don't suggest looking down on anyone or excluding them socially but what would be the point of us asking someone whose profile excluded us to meet?

In real life I socialise with loads of different people but only have sex with a few, same applies here."

Sorry, didn't mean to quote you in as you; was too lazy to write my whole comment out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a single man I'm excluded quite a lot on fab. I'm not offended if people reply that I'm not what they are looking for.

I can imagine the host of the 'fit party' is trying to create the elitist Hollywood look and good on them. It's what they want.

I don't understand why people who don't fit into a category get upset about it. There's plenty of other people and parties around. It's not like one can't have sex with a "fit" person if one wanted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As a single man I'm excluded quite a lot on fab. I'm not offended if people reply that I'm not what they are looking for.

I can imagine the host of the 'fit party' is trying to create the elitist Hollywood look and good on them. It's what they want.

"
It's the concept of the selection and the use of the word fit which is the point of my thread. It's quite hilarious. I'm sure I could post fake pictures and get on the guest list and then be denied entry. I presume they are hiring security! I have asked them if Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise are on the list!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"As a single man I'm excluded quite a lot on fab. I'm not offended if people reply that I'm not what they are looking for.

I can imagine the host of the 'fit party' is trying to create the elitist Hollywood look and good on them. It's what they want.

It's the concept of the selection and the use of the word fit which is the point of my thread. It's quite hilarious. I'm sure I could post fake pictures and get on the guest list and then be denied entry. I presume they are hiring security! I have asked them if Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise are on the list!"

but if you don't like what their stance is, why would you want to go....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As a single man I'm excluded quite a lot on fab. I'm not offended if people reply that I'm not what they are looking for.

I can imagine the host of the 'fit party' is trying to create the elitist Hollywood look and good on them. It's what they want. The point is what is shapely which is what they stated? If they said no fat ugly bastards fair enough!

I don't understand why people who don't fit into a category get upset about it. There's plenty of other people and parties around. It's not like one can't have sex with a "fit" person if one wanted. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a single man I'm excluded quite a lot on fab. I'm not offended if people reply that I'm not what they are looking for.

I can imagine the host of the 'fit party' is trying to create the elitist Hollywood look and good on them. It's what they want.

Are you just going to ignore your earlier comment regarding "wiping the floor with the skinnies?" You really lost me on that one.

-Courtney

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"As a single man I'm excluded quite a lot on fab. I'm not offended if people reply that I'm not what they are looking for.

I can imagine the host of the 'fit party' is trying to create the elitist Hollywood look and good on them. It's what they want.

Why?

We all select by various criteria and use certain words to express those criteria.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"As a single man I'm excluded quite a lot on fab. I'm not offended if people reply that I'm not what they are looking for.

I can imagine the host of the 'fit party' is trying to create the elitist Hollywood look and good on them. It's what they want.

again.....why are you so bothered by it? They want parties for the beautiful people, let them. Manchester is a big place and there are lots of inclusive parties happening all over the place.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

" The point is what is shapely which is what they stated? If they said no fat ugly bastards fair enough!

no they didnt....the said in shape sexy couples, not shapely.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Sometimes someone suggests an under 40s party I couldn't get into that either. I never used to get picked first for the netball team either, come to think of it I was usually second to last with the girl with b.o.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think some folk just look for offence anywhere, gives them a reason to moan then (Mr)

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By *agan_PairCouple over a year ago

portchester

They probably just want to ensure there is enough buffet to go round. They don't want some tubsters hoarding all the pie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a single man I'm excluded quite a lot on fab. I'm not offended if people reply that I'm not what they are looking for.

I can imagine the host of the 'fit party' is trying to create the elitist Hollywood look and good on them. It's what they want.

I'm sure you could post fake pics and get accepted but what's the point in that as I'm pretty sure they wouldn't hesitate denying you access on the night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" The point is what is shapely which is what they stated? If they said no fat ugly bastards fair enough!

So what is In shape? I'm In shape but wouldn't get in. See my point?

no they didnt....the said in shape sexy couples, not shapely."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They probably just want to ensure there is enough buffet to go round. They don't want some tubsters hoarding all the pie."

I shouldn't laugh but I did!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"They probably just want to ensure there is enough buffet to go round. They don't want some tubsters hoarding all the pie."

i shouldn't but

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"They probably just want to ensure there is enough buffet to go round. They don't want some tubsters hoarding all the pie.

I shouldn't laugh but I did!

snap

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney"
Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!"

How would you describe yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think some folk just look for offence anywhere, gives them a reason to moan then (Mr) "
Not offended just seeking clarification.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!"

Or being petty and childish. Whatever you'd like to call it, eh?

-Courtney

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Can someone tell me where this thread is that has caused some people so much angst?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!

How would you describe yourself?"
Body wise?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can someone tell me where this thread is that has caused some people so much angst? "

Click on the OPs green arrow and pick the one about Manchester Parties.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Calm down!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" The point is what is shapely which is what they stated? If they said no fat ugly bastards fair enough!

So what is In shape? I'm In shape but wouldn't get in. See my point?

no they didnt....the said in shape sexy couples, not shapely."

In shape/in condition - Also, in good condition or shape ; in shape. Physically fit; also, in a state of readiness. For example, I've got to get in condition before the next road race, or This project's in good shape now, or Is this report in shape to show to the president? The first expression dates from the late 1700s; the use of shape for “a state of health or repair” dates from the mid-1800s. The antonyms of these expressions, out of condition and out of shape, date from the mid-1800s. For example, Their stock was out of condition and not suitable for selling, or I'm so out of shape that I can barely run a mile.

You obviously know what it means. Everyone knows.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"They probably just want to ensure there is enough buffet to go round. They don't want some tubsters hoarding all the pie."

pork pie? [emoticon for drool]

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" The point is what is shapely which is what they stated? If they said no fat ugly bastards fair enough!

So what is In shape? I'm In shape but wouldn't get in. See my point?

no they didnt....the said in shape sexy couples, not shapely.

You obviously know what it means. Everyone knows. "
Yes I'm in!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!"

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By *he Ring WraithMan over a year ago

Bradford

Some people will meet many criteria, others will meet very few.

But there is no point bitching or worrying just enjoy what you can on here.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Can someone tell me where this thread is that has caused some people so much angst?

Click on the OPs green arrow and pick the one about Manchester Parties.

Thanks lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So it's Qed to me. In shape means physically fit. Anyone want to come to a party in Manchester with me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They maybe thought they'd get less grief than if they said it was a no over size 12s party or some other measure of size.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" The point is what is shapely which is what they stated? If they said no fat ugly bastards fair enough!

So what is In shape? I'm In shape but wouldn't get in. See my point?

no they didnt....the said in shape sexy couples, not shapely.

You obviously know what it means. Everyone knows. Yes I'm in!"

Perhaps, but the Mrs clearly doesn't fit that definition.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"Can someone tell me where this thread is that has caused some people so much angst?

Click on the OPs green arrow and pick the one about Manchester Parties.

thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!"

Is it self opinionated tho to have a preference?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!

How would you describe yourself? Body wise? "

I think Courtney means in the context of your post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!

Is it self opinionated tho to have a preference?

Only for other people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!

How would you describe yourself? Body wise? "

Self opinionated?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!

How would you describe yourself? Body wise?

I think Courtney means in the context of your post. "

No, no. I mean that I went to the original post, looked, and saw that they have posted some 5 times in a row mocking the OP of that post. It seems rather childish to me.

-Courtney

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!

How would you describe yourself? Body wise?

I think Courtney means in the context of your post.

No, no. I mean that I went to the original post, looked, and saw that they have posted some 5 times in a row mocking the OP of that post. It seems rather childish to me.

-Courtney"
Stick your head above the battlements.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!

How would you describe yourself? Body wise?

I think Courtney means in the context of your post.

No, no. I mean that I went to the original post, looked, and saw that they have posted some 5 times in a row mocking the OP of that post. It seems rather childish to me.

-Courtney"

thought exactly the same....as i said earlier, just look bitter about it all. although the OP didnt mention the thread by name the green arrow makes it quite easy to find what thread they were talking about

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

All I can say is wow! It was a thread started and ended 6 days ago until you resurrected it today......continuously....

Why do some people get so upset by some trivial things

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"No different than the BBW or BBC parties. It's just a preference, can't harbour resentment.

Yeah, but the fit people can attend those [BBW] but the fat ones cannot attend the fit parties

The BBW parties too should have a criteria; nobody under 100 Kgs; that'll teach 'em

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And it looks to me like you are now just trolling their thread....well done.

-Courtney Yes winding the self opinionated beautiful people up!

How would you describe yourself? Body wise?

I think Courtney means in the context of your post.

No, no. I mean that I went to the original post, looked, and saw that they have posted some 5 times in a row mocking the OP of that post. It seems rather childish to me.

-CourtneyStick your head above the battlements. "

Sorry, but what do you mean by that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they had to budget a bit on the buffet?

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I've been thinking about how I'd feel if I saw that original post and I think on balance I'd be offended. But (and it's a big but) that offence would entirely be due to my own body image issues and not the fault of the person just expressing their preference, especially when they're not being rude or nasty about it. I'm more in shape than I was but still wouldn't count myself in shape and seeing that would remind me of that fact. They've done nothing wrong by asking for that; my brain has done wrong by going into 'well, I'm obviously not good enough then' mode.

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By *he Ring WraithMan over a year ago

Bradford

Why do people worry so much about what other people on fab want?

I am male (so not a couple so no invite); 55 (too old so no invite); ugly (so no invite). 17 stone (so no invite).

I just hope they all have fun (it matters not a jot to me that i have no invite) !

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"They probably just want to ensure there is enough buffet to go round. They don't want some tubsters hoarding all the pie.

I shouldn't laugh but I did!

snap

the only time you are guaranteed to find a room at the bbw nights at chams is when the buffet is out

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I hope the organiser of said has a successful party and others organise their own and have equally a great time......

it's about having fun with people you are attracted to by looks, body size, sexuality and a shit load other choices

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe they had to budget a bit on the buffet?"

Lib, it's listed down as nibbles, slim pickings I suspect

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've been thinking about how I'd feel if I saw that original post and I think on balance I'd be offended. But (and it's a big but) that offence would entirely be due to my own body image issues and not the fault of the person just expressing their preference, especially when they're not being rude or nasty about it. I'm more in shape than I was but still wouldn't count myself in shape and seeing that would remind me of that fact. They've done nothing wrong by asking for that; my brain has done wrong by going into 'well, I'm obviously not good enough then' mode."
I'm sure you are far better than them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm offended. No idea what about though.

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