FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Dating a larger lady
Dating a larger lady
Jump to: Newest in thread
It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
Two of my longest relationships were with ladies who would be considered larger than average. I was happy to be seen out with them, though one of them I made insecure because I was an arsehole. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"i dont do relationships so tbh not me lol but i prefer the bigger lady more to hold squeeze and snuggle with if that makes sence x"
Ive always admired/fancied the larger lady...apart from most being taller than me, they have fabulous womanly curves,those breasts and arse are so sexy...as the song says 'big girls your are beautiful' |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
The fat woman worship on here is half genuine-there are people who genuinely like the obese look on a woman-and then there are those who are desperate/sex crazed and will fuck anything remotely feminine. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"The fat woman worship on here is half genuine-there are people who genuinely like the obese look on a woman-and then there are those who are desperate/sex crazed and will fuck anything remotely feminine."
Lets not turn it into 'that' kind of thread. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"The fat woman worship on here is half genuine-there are people who genuinely like the obese look on a woman-and then there are those who are desperate/sex crazed and will fuck anything remotely feminine.
Lets not turn it into 'that' kind of thread."
What kind of thread? OP asked a question. Received response. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
I don't like the term but my workmates call me chubby chaser. Dont give a fuck what anyone thinks of who I sleep with, date, walk out in public with. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"The fat woman worship on here is half genuine-there are people who genuinely like the obese look on a woman-and then there are those who are desperate/sex crazed and will fuck anything remotely feminine.
Lets not turn it into 'that' kind of thread.
What kind of thread? OP asked a question. Received response."
You didn't answer my original question at all. Just rude. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"The fat woman worship on here is half genuine-there are people who genuinely like the obese look on a woman-and then there are those who are desperate/sex crazed and will fuck anything remotely feminine.
Lets not turn it into 'that' kind of thread.
What kind of thread? OP asked a question. Received response."
A response that had nothing to do with the actual question. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
The people who have liked me enough to have a relationship with me have always been happy to be seen with me.
I don't think I have met anyone who just wants sex with a fat woman here. If I have they have put on a good enough act that they like more than just my fat to have got through my personal filters. Most have met me socially or have asked me to meet for dinner or drinks over and above the sex.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
Southend |
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
We meet one at a spa and it was uncomfortable, not her or us, just the rude people xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"The fat woman worship on here is half genuine-there are people who genuinely like the obese look on a woman-and then there are those who are desperate/sex crazed and will fuck anything remotely feminine.
Lets not turn it into 'that' kind of thread.
What kind of thread? OP asked a question. Received response.
You didn't answer my original question at all. Just rude."
I have answered your question, just not in a direct way. Perhaps BBW types are used to constant adoration and are unable to glean an answer from a more nuanced post?? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
Hi Merkin.
You've touched a nerve for a few people with this one I think.
To be honest, this is a sex dates site rather than somewhere I'd go to find 'the one'. It's where people come to play out fantasies nsa.
In other words, a BBW and I might meet and have a fling or two but we would probably not go out together. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested.
Hi Merkin.
You've touched a nerve for a few people with this one I think.
To be honest, this is a sex dates site rather than somewhere I'd go to find 'the one'. It's where people come to play out fantasies nsa.
In other words, a BBW and I might meet and have a fling or two but we would probably not go out together. "
Thats a very honest answer  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"The fat woman worship on here is half genuine-there are people who genuinely like the obese look on a woman-and then there are those who are desperate/sex crazed and will fuck anything remotely feminine.
Lets not turn it into 'that' kind of thread.
What kind of thread? OP asked a question. Received response.
You didn't answer my original question at all. Just rude.
I have answered your question, just not in a direct way. Perhaps BBW types are used to constant adoration and are unable to glean an answer from a more nuanced post??"
How is being rude about both big girls and those who may or may not like them answering a question?
If you can't say anything nice... be funny   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"The fat woman worship on here is half genuine-there are people who genuinely like the obese look on a woman-and then there are those who are desperate/sex crazed and will fuck anything remotely feminine.
Lets not turn it into 'that' kind of thread.
What kind of thread? OP asked a question. Received response.
You didn't answer my original question at all. Just rude.
I have answered your question, just not in a direct way. Perhaps BBW types are used to constant adoration and are unable to glean an answer from a more nuanced post??"
No you pretty much got a dig in about site politics. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested.
Hi Merkin.
You've touched a nerve for a few people with this one I think.
To be honest, this is a sex dates site rather than somewhere I'd go to find 'the one'. It's where people come to play out fantasies nsa.
In other words, a BBW and I might meet and have a fling or two but we would probably not go out together.
Thats a very honest answer "
Very hinest indeed. Honesty is good. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Depends really size isnt usually an issue for me but there would be a limit i guess..."
Shoud clarify it would be a limit as to the size attraction wise. As for being seen in public with someone of ay size no problem at all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
having met a larger woman on here that I really liked she's left now but am still in contact with her I know from her experiences which were quite a few many of the guys were just interested in sex with her no interest in dating her at all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested.
Hi Merkin.
You've touched a nerve for a few people with this one I think.
To be honest, this is a sex dates site rather than somewhere I'd go to find 'the one'. It's where people come to play out fantasies nsa.
In other words, a BBW and I might meet and have a fling or two but we would probably not go out together. "
Hmm...you wouldn't go out with anyone you met on here for a fling or two, as this is a sex dates site, or you just wouldn't go out with a bbw you met on here for a fling or two? Just asking for clarification |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess."
So you like meeting people the opposite to you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
Speaking honestly and not wishing to offend, I am neither interested in dating or simply having sex with very large women....and personally (sorry if this upsets anyone), I absolutely hate the term BBW |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I think there are an awful lot of people on here who would happily have sex with a fellow fabswinger in private, yet not want to be seen out in public with them in front of their mates... Not just a size issue, but looks, image and even gender.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess."
Are you 7'+ tall? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess.
So you like meeting people the opposite to you. "
People with one pic shouldn't throw stones, especially when they are clearly trolling. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess.
So you like meeting people the opposite to you. "
Burn! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess.
So you like meeting people the opposite to you.
People with one pic shouldn't throw stones, especially when they are clearly trolling."
To be fair though, given those sizes/weights, you're both overweight. A size 14 at 5'2 isn't taking care, neither is being 19 stone. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'm don't think anyone would honestly want to date me size issues aside I'm just plan nutty  and when asked I tend to think they are taken the piss anyway so end up dodging it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
Haven't bothered to read past the OP, but I find nothing more exciting that a confident larger lady. Being able to celebrate her curves makes me wanna be around her- so let's go to bed, behind the hedge, into town or for a nice meal...count me in.
You have the ability to make people want to be seen with you and it's nothing to do with your dress size, it's your attitude and outlook mostly.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess."
5ft 2 and size 14 isn't exactly slim. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess.
So you like meeting people the opposite to you.
People with one pic shouldn't throw stones, especially when they are clearly trolling."
Ask your mummy to explain to you what irony means. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Does size matter? You could be stick thin or the Michelin man or woman and have the personality of a stone! We are all different shapes and sizes.. "
I think it does to a degree. For example, it doesn't do anything for me when I see those 30-50 stone men on those obesity documentaries. I find them unattractive - and I wouldn't be able to look past that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess."
Ah! If only life, self esteem, mental health and other factors were all so simple.
You took the OP's sentiment to not have one of those threads to heart. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have met many guys in public, i.e. pub or café, for social meets. Not one complained about being seen with a larger lady. I was the one worried that the younger guys wouldn't want to be seen with a lady old enough to be their mum, but they loved it  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have had this discussions many times with tom . My _iew is that on here I have no problem with lots of admirers. But when I am out with my friends at the pub I very rarely a atttract male attention my friends who are slim always attract the attention. Please note I'm not looking for attention just something I have noticed since joining fab . In fab world I am a catch in my normal life not so .  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested.having met a larger woman on here that I really liked she's left now but am still in contact with her I know from her experiences which were quite a few many of the guys were just interested in sex with her no interest in dating her at all "
Was that because of her size or because they just wanted nsa sex & not a relationship like most on here do? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested.
Speaking honestly and not wishing to offend, I am neither interested in dating or simply having sex with very large women....and personally (sorry if this upsets anyone), I absolutely hate the term BBW "
I'm with you on not liking the term BBW but I accept that people use it and it means something to them and those looking for people like them.
I'm short and fat and female so I'll be SSF.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A persons size diesn't bother me but then again I am happily married so I'm not here to date people.
The first thing i look for is if they practice safe sex or not and it has been most enlightening looking at some of the photos here |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"The fat woman worship on here is half genuine-there are people who genuinely like the obese look on a woman-and then there are those who are desperate/sex crazed and will fuck anything remotely feminine."
Source? Evidence.. No.. Assumption. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I really don't do relationships, but fancy the pants off a lady who is size 30 and I'd be happy to be seen out with her, holding hands.
I get called a hypocrite a lot on here, as my usual preferences are ladies who are slimmer than myself. Size 18 and below. I have played with larger ladies, but as with anyone, I need the attraction and personality. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I had a brief relationship earlier this year with a 'fat' lady and being totally 100% truthful I didn't like being seen out with her and I didn't like having sex with her, so I didn't do it - well ok I did - twice but that was it. She was a smashing lass, lovely nature but apart from that I wasn't turned on by her in any way.
That's me being honest and isn't meant to, in any way, be offensive to fat people, it is merely my preference. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess.
So you like meeting people the opposite to you.
People with one pic shouldn't throw stones, especially when they are clearly trolling.
Ask your mummy to explain to you what irony means. "
hehe scarlet its when iron falls of the board and hits your knee everyone knows that x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"All this thread is proving is that it is not someone's body shape or BMI that shows how beautiful they are. Rude, insensitive, egotistical and offensive is ugly no matter what size.
T "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess.
So you like meeting people the opposite to you. "
You saw the irony too |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I had a brief relationship earlier this year with a 'fat' lady and being totally 100% truthful I didn't like being seen out with her and I didn't like having sex with her, so I didn't do it - well ok I did - twice but that was it. She was a smashing lass, lovely nature but apart from that I wasn't turned on by her in any way.
That's me being honest and isn't meant to, in any way, be offensive to fat people, it is merely my preference."
Why did you have a relationship with her in the first place then? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I had a brief relationship earlier this year with a 'fat' lady and being totally 100% truthful I didn't like being seen out with her and I didn't like having sex with her, so I didn't do it - well ok I did - twice but that was it. She was a smashing lass, lovely nature but apart from that I wasn't turned on by her in any way.
That's me being honest and isn't meant to, in any way, be offensive to fat people, it is merely my preference."
Why on earth would you bother dating her then?!? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I had a brief relationship earlier this year with a 'fat' lady and being totally 100% truthful I didn't like being seen out with her and I didn't like having sex with her, so I didn't do it - well ok I did - twice but that was it. She was a smashing lass, lovely nature but apart from that I wasn't turned on by her in any way.
That's me being honest and isn't meant to, in any way, be offensive to fat people, it is merely my preference.
Why on earth would you bother dating her then?!?"
yeah, I'm curious as to why too! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Mr B has 'dated' me for years. At my biggest I've been a size 20 and the smallest size 12, at all sizes hes been happy to be seen out with me. "
Difficult to believe you were a 20 going from your pictures. Your skin looks amazing. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I wonder why why don't have a male term for BBW....
It would be interesting to know how many slim women would date a bigger curvier man..... Or if they find it attractive
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I wonder why why don't have a male term for BBW....
It would be interesting to know how many slim women would date a bigger curvier man..... Or if they find it attractive
"
It's BHM - Big handsome man. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I had a brief relationship earlier this year with a 'fat' lady and being totally 100% truthful I didn't like being seen out with her and I didn't like having sex with her, so I didn't do it - well ok I did - twice but that was it. She was a smashing lass, lovely nature but apart from that I wasn't turned on by her in any way.
That's me being honest and isn't meant to, in any way, be offensive to fat people, it is merely my preference.
Why did you have a relationship with her in the first place then?"
Simple - because I wasn't in a very good place at the time and she was actually a very nice, genuine kind person.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
hehe you've stirred up a hornets nest now x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I wonder why why don't have a male term for BBW....
It would be interesting to know how many slim women would date a bigger curvier man..... Or if they find it attractive
"
Before I turned into a land beast I dated overweight men. I had a lovely trim 5ft 8,shapely legs, size 12 curvy body,36 DD boobs and nice vagina. I repeat a NICE,NEAT vagina. Not that they were only after my vagina  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested.
Hi Merkin.
You've touched a nerve for a few people with this one I think.
To be honest, this is a sex dates site rather than somewhere I'd go to find 'the one'. It's where people come to play out fantasies nsa.
In other words, a BBW and I might meet and have a fling or two but we would probably not go out together.
Hmm...you wouldn't go out with anyone you met on here for a fling or two, as this is a sex dates site, or you just wouldn't go out with a bbw you met on here for a fling or two? Just asking for clarification "
What I meant to say was that I might be sexually attracted to a bbw and if the lady agreed to a meeting and we played we may play again and we might decide to go on to have a relationship, go out with each other, (as has happened for me a few times in the past). If we had met through this site then my preconceptions would be that each perspective partner is only looking for short term experiences.
Perhaps another way of saying it is that I'm not turned on or turned off ladies only on the basis of their size. I chose longer term partners on lots of much more subjective qualities.
Confused you even more now? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Mr B has 'dated' me for years. At my biggest I've been a size 20 and the smallest size 12, at all sizes hes been happy to be seen out with me.
Difficult to believe you were a 20 going from your pictures. Your skin looks amazing. "
I have a lot of stretch marks on my tummy, hips,thighs and top of my arms but they have faded in colour now.
Fair amount of loose / wobbly skin in places...but thank you.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Mr B has 'dated' me for years. At my biggest I've been a size 20 and the smallest size 12, at all sizes hes been happy to be seen out with me.
Difficult to believe you were a 20 going from your pictures. Your skin looks amazing.
I have a lot of stretch marks on my tummy, hips,thighs and top of my arms but they have faded in colour now.
Fair amount of loose / wobbly skin in places...but thank you.
"
you look wonderful. Well done for keeping trim |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I'd rather be fucked because I'm a pretty,pleasant,overweight woman than because I'm a slut who let's men use me "
Thank you Destiny. You managed to sum up in one sentence what it took me about half a page to say. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I wonder why why don't have a male term for BBW....
It would be interesting to know how many slim women would date a bigger curvier man..... Or if they find it attractive
It's BHM - Big handsome man."
Ooh I like that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I wonder why why don't have a male term for BBW....
It would be interesting to know how many slim women would date a bigger curvier man..... Or if they find it attractive
Before I turned into a land beast I dated overweight men. I had a lovely trim 5ft 8,shapely legs, size 12 curvy body,36 DD boobs and nice vagina. I repeat a NICE,NEAT vagina. Not that they were only after my vagina "
What's your vagina like now? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have always been the one men are happy to play with. However in the 6 years I've been single it's clear I'm not seen as relationship material.
I don't think it's completely down to my looks or the fact I'm a size 16. Other factors probably do play a part. However other women manage to find love when they've been divorced and have children. The common theme is they are all slim and undeniably pretty. It does make me wonder. It's therefore no surprise that there's many women like me who are quite insecure or who are now probably happier in the no strings situations than risk putting themselves out there and facing rejection.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
since I was about 17 years of age I've found the larger ladies very attractive.For me personally dating someone with a fuller figure has never been a issue as in the past I've dated women who were bigger and hope to again in the future
If her size is an issue for the man in the relationship then he shouldn't be so narrow minded.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I wonder why why don't have a male term for BBW....
It would be interesting to know how many slim women would date a bigger curvier man..... Or if they find it attractive
It's BHM - Big handsome man. Wonder if that applies to me
Ooh I like that. "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I have always been the one men are happy to play with. However in the 6 years I've been single it's clear I'm not seen as relationship material.
I don't think it's completely down to my looks or the fact I'm a size 16. Other factors probably do play a part. However other women manage to find love when they've been divorced and have children. The common theme is they are all slim and undeniably pretty. It does make me wonder. It's therefore no surprise that there's many women like me who are quite insecure or who are now probably happier in the no strings situations than risk putting themselves out there and facing rejection.
"
I've been single for over 10 years and I would love to know how women meet men nowadays......now I will admit I have not looked for a relationship in those 10 years, and probably to stuck in my ways to want one, but I do think some people just settle because they don't want to be on their own x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have always been the one men are happy to play with. However in the 6 years I've been single it's clear I'm not seen as relationship material.
I don't think it's completely down to my looks or the fact I'm a size 16. Other factors probably do play a part. However other women manage to find love when they've been divorced and have children. The common theme is they are all slim and undeniably pretty. It does make me wonder. It's therefore no surprise that there's many women like me who are quite insecure or who are now probably happier in the no strings situations than risk putting themselves out there and facing rejection.
I've been single for over 10 years and I would love to know how women meet men nowadays......now I will admit I have not looked for a relationship in those 10 years, and probably to stuck in my ways to want one, but I do think some people just settle because they don't want to be on their own x"
I think it happens too and I also think I'd probably get swept up in something and end up doing that too. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Mr B has 'dated' me for years. At my biggest I've been a size 20 and the smallest size 12, at all sizes hes been happy to be seen out with me. "
Same, we've been together 3 years and when we met I was a size 24. I've lost 5 stone since then and am now a size 18, but still got a lot to lose. Not once has he commented on my weight, other than to tell me to do what makes me happy, and point out all the guys messaging to meet me!
In vanilla life I haven't had guys wanting to date me, but I believe the reason wasn't merely my size, but my attitude. I had very low self esteem, didn't think I was worth anything, and that would have come off me in waves. One of my friends once told me I gave a "talk to the hand" vibe any time a bloke came near.
So thanks to my man, and fab, I have a lot more confidence and a smaller booty, which I shake with pride 
And I also hate 'BBW', lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I think there are an awful lot of people on here who would happily have sex with a fellow fabswinger in private, yet not want to be seen out in public with them in front of their mates... Not just a size issue, but looks, image and even gender.... "
I've raised this point before. Some people because they are fawned over here believe those that will fuck them in private would be seen dead with them in public.
Some see people on site a mess with no pride in themselves because they let their partners be fucked by all comers and have no respect for themselves.
Always been fat: my husband was 6ft, handsome, gave me four smashing kids. The death of our only son broke us up.
I always meet socially, not a problem. The last single meet I had was with 6ft 1 Dutch man who owns his own business and would give Jason Statham a run for his money.
He loves me. He's a keep fit nut and yes, he's happy I've discovered the gym and he nags a bit, but he needs to as I am a couch potato and basically lazy.
He's used to dating Scandinavian types, we shouldn't work but we do. Funny thing is he thinks I'm ashamed to be seen with him as I don't like public displays of affection. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think there are an awful lot of people on here who would happily have sex with a fellow fabswinger in private, yet not want to be seen out in public with them in front of their mates... Not just a size issue, but looks, image and even gender....
I've raised this point before. Some people because they are fawned over here believe those that will fuck them in private would be seen dead with them in public.
Some see people on site a mess with no pride in themselves because they let their partners be fucked by all comers and have no respect for themselves.
Always been fat: my husband was 6ft, handsome, gave me four smashing kids. The death of our only son broke us up.
I always meet socially, not a problem. The last single meet I had was with 6ft 1 Dutch man who owns his own business and would give Jason Statham a run for his money.
He loves me. He's a keep fit nut and yes, he's happy I've discovered the gym and he nags a bit, but he needs to as I am a couch potato and basically lazy.
He's used to dating Scandinavian types, we shouldn't work but we do. Funny thing is he thinks I'm ashamed to be seen with him as I don't like public displays of affection. "
This is lovely to read x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Mr B has 'dated' me for years. At my biggest I've been a size 20 and the smallest size 12, at all sizes hes been happy to be seen out with me.
Same, we've been together 3 years and when we met I was a size 24. I've lost 5 stone since then and am now a size 18, but still got a lot to lose. Not once has he commented on my weight, other than to tell me to do what makes me happy, and point out all the guys messaging to meet me!
In vanilla life I haven't had guys wanting to date me, but I believe the reason wasn't merely my size, but my attitude. I had very low self esteem, didn't think I was worth anything, and that would have come off me in waves. One of my friends once told me I gave a "talk to the hand" vibe any time a bloke came near.
So thanks to my man, and fab, I have a lot more confidence and a smaller booty, which I shake with pride
And I also hate 'BBW', lol "
Totally agree with this i was a 22 at my largest 18 now on the verge of a 16. But its since my confidence has been at its best ive had much more attention in the vanilla world lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I wonder why why don't have a male term for BBW....
It would be interesting to know how many slim women would date a bigger curvier man..... Or if they find it attractive
Before I turned into a land beast I dated overweight men. I had a lovely trim 5ft 8,shapely legs, size 12 curvy body,36 DD boobs and nice vagina. I repeat a NICE,NEAT vagina. Not that they were only after my vagina
What's your vagina like now? "
Right now? Like the amazon with a silver back in the middle. Still neat but meatier,a proper handful
I forgot tight,it's still nice and snug in there |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
This is an attitude I tend to associate more with younger men. Certainly a lot of my male friends when I was younger would talk about women in terms of those who they'd fuck in private but wouldn't want to date in public.
I remember one lad at uni telling me he was 'strangely attracted' to me because I was of a size I'd usually fall into that category (probably a 16 at the time) but I had a nice enough face to make up for it
It's a bit depressing if it persists in older men and women too. Fancy big women or don't fancy big women, either is fine but to have that kind of "not in public" categorisation is pretty shit. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don't like the term bbw personally.
I am big- both height and weight, but I consider myself attractive rather than beautiful.
There are some absolutely beautiful bigger women on here by the way but I digress!
I don't date presently. I don't get asked. But then my social life is very limited. I have found that irl plenty of people (as in here) are happy to fuck me but don't want a relationship!
As for my Own preferences, I will date (and meet on Fab) tubby/bear/rugby type build over slender because it makes me feel less of a heffer! I am not attracted to fatter men.
Is this hypocritical? Maybe x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Mr B has 'dated' me for years. At my biggest I've been a size 20 and the smallest size 12, at all sizes hes been happy to be seen out with me.
Same, we've been together 3 years and when we met I was a size 24. I've lost 5 stone since then and am now a size 18, but still got a lot to lose. Not once has he commented on my weight, other than to tell me to do what makes me happy, and point out all the guys messaging to meet me!
In vanilla life I haven't had guys wanting to date me, but I believe the reason wasn't merely my size, but my attitude. I had very low self esteem, didn't think I was worth anything, and that would have come off me in waves. One of my friends once told me I gave a "talk to the hand" vibe any time a bloke came near.
So thanks to my man, and fab, I have a lot more confidence and a smaller booty, which I shake with pride
And I also hate 'BBW', lol "
Its lovely he understand all the things we go through re our size. My husband really doesnt care.
I relate to paragraph two of your post, this is me too. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Mr B has 'dated' me for years. At my biggest I've been a size 20 and the smallest size 12, at all sizes hes been happy to be seen out with me.
Difficult to believe you were a 20 going from your pictures. Your skin looks amazing.
I have a lot of stretch marks on my tummy, hips,thighs and top of my arms but they have faded in colour now.
Fair amount of loose / wobbly skin in places...but thank you.
you look wonderful. Well done for keeping trim "
Not sure about trim at 5ft2 and a size 14 to 16 but thank you. 
I'm pretty happy with my size now, most of the time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Mr B has 'dated' me for years. At my biggest I've been a size 20 and the smallest size 12, at all sizes hes been happy to be seen out with me.
Difficult to believe you were a 20 going from your pictures. Your skin looks amazing.
I have a lot of stretch marks on my tummy, hips,thighs and top of my arms but they have faded in colour now.
Fair amount of loose / wobbly skin in places...but thank you.
you look wonderful. Well done for keeping trim
Not sure about trim at 5ft2 and a size 14 to 16 but thank you.
I'm pretty happy with my size now, most of the time."
You have a gorgeous figure
Don't argue I'm always right |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I've never had trouble getting vanilla dates and always been on the larger size in fact I tend to get more attention when I'm out with my slimmer friends but I've always carried myself confidently and I think that makes a big difference |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
randy wouldnt have looked twice at me if i hadnt been a bit squidgy when we met and he still likes his women that way |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If your willing to sleep with someone then being willing to date walk out be seen with them should be normal "
Not sure about date
I have met and had sex with lots I wouldn't date
I've never met anybody i'e be ashamed to be seen in public with though
And nobody has me because all my meets are in public first so if they're not willing to do that they don't get a meet |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've never had trouble getting vanilla dates and always been on the larger size in fact I tend to get more attention when I'm out with my slimmer friends but I've always carried myself confidently and I think that makes a big difference "
Yes definately. Confidence wins over all. Confident men do well with the ladies do they not? It's the same the other way. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Not for us in terms of playing.
Would step out with a larger lady any day of the week though and have accompanied ladies out and about as a vanilla date to weddings etc without giving it a moments thought about what people think. I am unsure about dating one if I was single I would be open minded as to the person.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Im in Happy Size I m larger , but I can swim 30 lengths on swimming pool,I'm teaching The tango,I'm active, I'm more smiling and optimistic. And happy.
Who from you guys can swam on swimming pool that distance?
Big size is discrimination?
I ve been slim before pregnant. I can compare both situations, being slim, and larger. And never insult people or looks decided about dating.
My opinion, especially after the posts a few of you guys, who being rude, first.. Just look at yourself and ask did I looking like David Beckham or Salma Hayek and then judge others. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
What comes through in all the replies I've read is that attractiveness comes from within more than outer appearance. Someone who is happy will attract lots of admirers whatever their size.
Ugly attitudes come from unhappy people who will stay alone until they change their minds.
And, as Freddie Mercury, says: Fat bottom girls, you make the rockin' world go round. YEAH! '  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Ok here it is .. i met and fell in love with a larger lady i dont see size as an issue i see the person i was proud to be seen anywere with her and when she introduced me as her boyfriend i also felt a warm glow .. sadly by my supid actions i lost said girl but size well it truly does not matter at all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've got to be honest I've never had a guy of here refuse to meet me in public
Maybe I've just been lucky that guys I've arranged to meet have genuinely liked me rather than just being after a guilty pleasure shag |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've got to be honest I've never had a guy of here refuse to meet me in public
Maybe I've just been lucky that guys I've arranged to meet have genuinely liked me rather than just being after a guilty pleasure shag "
You not BBW anyway |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I've got to be honest I've never had a guy of here refuse to meet me in public
Maybe I've just been lucky that guys I've arranged to meet have genuinely liked me rather than just being after a guilty pleasure shag
You not BBW anyway"
OK sorry I have been
I was a size 24
But even before I lost weight I still never had anybody refuse to meet me in public
All my meets have been in public first for my safty, regardless of my size and even at my biggest men understood this and met me in public first |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I think there's a difference between meeting in public and openly dating, as in all their friends and family knowing about it. I knew no men (or women) cuntish enough to actually refuse to be seen in public having a coffee with someone they considered beneath them in the dating pecking order, but I do know some who wouldn't want their friends knowing they were dating a fat person. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Well, all the men I've dated, gone out with, been engaged to and married have been happy to be seen with me in public, I've had plenty of guys want to take out on here, so some men are happy to be seen with big women.
Although I've never worn the "I'm fat I'm going to go and sit and hide hat" I've always been me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Any person that I share a friendship with I am happy to be seen in public with. I have also been various sizes but my partner has never bothered because I'm still me.
The other point I wish to make without quoting that post again, there are many aspects of looking a mess, not all of them are weight related. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess.
5ft 2 and size 14 isn't exactly slim."
Bingo |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?"
How smart is this hypothetical woman? Cause I'm only into being seen in public with smart women.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Personally it's a no. N is a size 14, very curvy and womanly, but not large. I am large-19stone, but tall and very muscular. For us it's all about not being with someone who values themselves so little that they cannot restrain basic urges that lead to obesity and looking a mess.
5ft 2 and size 14 isn't exactly slim.
Bingo"
Yea not to mention that most that muscular guys are usually always classified as overweight/obese regardless of height given the fact muscle weighs more than fat.
Also it's a matter of prespective and personal preference, I know a lot and I mean a lot of women that find muscular guys a huge turn off so guess what to those women you look a mess too.
By all means state a preference but don't be a dick about it makes you look a mess on a whole different level |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
I personally wouldn't have sex with a larger lady as I'm not attracted to them at all, so guess my contribution to this thread is... I wouldn't have sex or date a large lady. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"My ex was about a size 26 when I met her.
She was as big as a 32 and as small as a 14 in our time together.
She was a cowbag in all sizes "
Sorry but that made me giggle
I haven't had any problems with men being seen with me in the past, I recently visited London with my FB and I said to him "will you hold my hand while we are walking round?", he just looked at my like I was crazy and said "of course I'll hold your hand you daft woman"
Some men are just pure gold |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have been away, in real life, back for a bit ... can't believe larger women are made to feel less than ... no-one should feel this. Some posting has been downright abusive here. I have had two fwb on here and both had not problems being seen out with me, to the cinema, shopping, etc - and one was twenty years my junior. Similar with Mr law, who totally prefers being with a larger women - hats off to those who are positive about themselves and have not joined in bitching about other people and what their size may mean about their habits and their personality. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
As i said before the girl i dated previously would possibly be deemed above average size .. let me just say this . She is a stunningly beautiful lady id hold her hand anywere and gladly introduce her to anybody size is never an issue its the person that counts !!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's evident that a lot of people appreciate BBW/fat girl/larger ladies for sex but how many are happy to date or be seen out in public with one?
Let's not turn this into yet another "Oh I love big girls thread" thread please. Genuinely interested."
I love this question!
I have been a size 8 and a size 18 and there's a very clear difference in a lot of peoples behaviour depending on my size!
Fab has no bearing on reality for me because in real life I simply don't get hot 25yr olds hitting on me!
Sex and relationships are two different things and some of the people I fuck I wouldn't have a relationship with ever!
I am comfortable in my own skin at 40 and no longer feel that I have to look a certain way!
I wish I knew this 20 years ago!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
