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over a year ago
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I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
Is this sexy anyone?  |
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"I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
Is this sexy anyone? "
Nope, but i'm sure you're not the only one on here. X |
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"I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
Is this sexy anyone?
Nope, but i'm sure you're not the only one on here. X"
this.. |
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"I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
Is this sexy anyone? "
Sorry, saying 'nope' like that might have sounded a bit harsh!
Not necessarily an attractive thing to me, but i'm sure some people will find it sexy!
And when I said you're not the only one, I speak from experience. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
Is this sexy anyone?
Nope, but i'm sure you're not the only one on here. X"
I didn't think it would be tbh.  |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
Is this sexy anyone? "
Well, since you are a female-type person.... of course it is. |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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"I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
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This is a truer form of addiction, I think, one which I've succumbed to in the past as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi my name is Mae and I'm a sex addict  
What's your sex drive like? Are you insatiable?   "
Simple answer is yes .
We did wonder a short while back whether we should seek help , but couldn't see our way clear to spending valuable shagging time being counselled .
We have been together over 5 years and swinging for 4 . We go out swinging at least twice a week and often have multiple meets . We always play together when we get home too, and in the 5 years together haven't had a day we haven't had sex together .
So with the fun we have together and well in excess of 1000 meets on 4 years , I would say we are sex addicts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
Is this sexy anyone?
Nope, but i'm sure you're not the only one on here. X"
I feel I used to be but I've grown out of this x |
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"Hi my name is Mae and I'm a sex addict
What's your sex drive like? Are you insatiable?
Simple answer is yes .
We did wonder a short while back whether we should seek help , but couldn't see our way clear to spending valuable shagging time being counselled .
We have been together over 5 years and swinging for 4 . We go out swinging at least twice a week and often have multiple meets . We always play together when we get home too, and in the 5 years together haven't had a day we haven't had sex together .
So with the fun we have together and well in excess of 1000 meets on 4 years , I would say we are sex addicts "
Wow. Just wow. That is all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
Is this sexy anyone? "
Ive done exactly the same... Im just coming to terms with it... Fab is helping me keep it under control.... Just about... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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I would be insatiable if I was getting regular sex.
Sex makes me want more. And more. And more.
The only way to control it when I'm not getting regular sex is to abstain completely.
I haven't had sex this year. That sounds pretty pathetic but since I'm not in a position to meet regularly and struggle to find meets that are on my wavelength, it's much easier to cope with than sporadic sex.
I try to limit the amount I masturbate too, because that makes me want more and makes me crave sex. I only do it when I'm so horny I'm at risk of jumping on people in the street.
So, my name's Dee and I am both insatiable and abstaining. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spoke to a nurse about weather I might be a sex addict. He said probably not as you would need sex or wank 5 times a day!
I said is that it! Jesus maybe I am then?
After reading some other posts above I'm thinking I'm probably not as I wouldn't ever sleep with someone I don't fancy, nor would I put my health in danger.
That being said iv had sex with 4 different women since last Wednesday so I really don't know!
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I used to be hyposexual, I'm too embarrassed to say some of the things I would do to get sex, it was terrible and if anyone is a sex addict I genuinely feel sorry for you.
Now I'm just a sexual person, love it when I'm having it but I don't eat, sleep, breath sex.
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"Is this really the best place to be for recovering sex addicts "
Yes, I think it's an ideal place. People understand a fair bit about others here, plenty of similar people too.
It's also not easy for everyone to get sex here, so whilst it may seem like being in a sweet shop, the reality - as some who've posted above, is different.
A lot of us like accepting others, warts and all (herpes is fine too), and there's good frank discussion, which makes it all the better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a selective sex addict
Ah I think that's a better term to describe me...
I think you're too selective.
 
Nothing wrong with that! "
Look up, something just went over your head.
But in general I tend to agree with your post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can take it or leave it to be honest. In 8 days it will be exactly one year since I last had sex! "
We should arrange some kind of anniversary , celebration ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this really the best place to be for recovering sex addicts "
I know it's a joke but i feel it is. I can talk about sex and that helps me not to fantasize about it as much, also i can 'get to know' people a little before i have sex with them and am learning not to make rash decisions.
I can actually see the predatory behaviour some people have as well when they think you're up for anything and people talk about that in here and confirm it's not nice for the person being treated like that. Little things help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi my name is Mae and I'm a sex addict
What's your sex drive like? Are you insatiable? "
I'm insatiable when I'm horny.
By no means a Sex Addict though. Don't think I'd want to be one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to be hyposexual, I'm too embarrassed to say some of the things I would do to get sex, it was terrible and if anyone is a sex addict I genuinely feel sorry for you.
Now I'm just a sexual person, love it when I'm having it but I don't eat, sleep, breath sex.
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"I actually am a recovering sex addict who has performed risky sexual behaviours and fucked people i didn't particularly fancy to feed my addiction.
Is this sexy anyone? "
very very sexy, i love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this really the best place to be for recovering sex addicts
I know it's a joke but i feel it is. I can talk about sex and that helps me not to fantasize about it as much, also i can 'get to know' people a little before i have sex with them and am learning not to make rash decisions.
I can actually see the predatory behaviour some people have as well when they think you're up for anything and people talk about that in here and confirm it's not nice for the person being treated like that. Little things help."
That's a really interesting and honest reply, it's made me think, thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this really the best place to be for recovering sex addicts
I know it's a joke but i feel it is. I can talk about sex and that helps me not to fantasize about it as much, also i can 'get to know' people a little before i have sex with them and am learning not to make rash decisions.
I can actually see the predatory behaviour some people have as well when they think you're up for anything and people talk about that in here and confirm it's not nice for the person being treated like that. Little things help.
That's a really interesting and honest reply, it's made me think, thank you "
You're welcome. I think i'm coping really well too now. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
I held back on this thread because I am aware that sex addiction is no fun at all and can become a serious issue. In terms of addicitive personality it can be as damaging to the person affected as alcoholism, gambling and other addictive behaviours. It also takes guts to admit being an addict! |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I held back on this thread because I am aware that sex addiction is no fun at all and can become a serious issue. In terms of addicitive personality it can be as damaging to the person affected as alcoholism, gambling and other addictive behaviours. It also takes guts to admit being an addict! "
To be very honest I wasn't this sexually liberated till I joined fab. I come from a very strict Asian upbringing even when growing up in London. When I joined fab it was as a couple and he decided to do it with his current girlfriend. I was upset and was like "fcuk this, I'll do it on my own" and I did. I did some things that I would not normally do, I risked my safety in some situations in more ways than one. It was liberating, but it got out of control at times. My friends said I was becoming a different person. I was becoming more of my swingers persona than myself in my normal life. I am learning to slow down and even taking a break from swinging soon. I don't want this lifestyle to consume me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was thinking more along the lines of a site like this is not helping the addiction as it's pretty full on here, not just meeting others for sex, which is not always plentiful of course, but the pictures, discussions, messaging etc. It's being involved in a hobby which is keeping sex to the forefront instead of distracting oneself from it.
It's interesting to hear other takes on it
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
" I am learning to slow down and even taking a break from swinging soon. I don't want this lifestyle to consume me..."
And that is where you are managing to control it rather than it controlling you. You don't want it to consume you ... Honesty towards oneself is the first step as they say.
I really, really wish you well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was thinking more along the lines of a site like this is not helping the addiction as it's pretty full on here, not just meeting others for sex, which is not always plentiful of course, but the pictures, discussions, messaging etc. It's being involved in a hobby which is keeping sex to the forefront instead of distracting oneself from it.
It's interesting to hear other takes on it
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I think that's true also. But the risky behaviour is one main problem with for me (as well as it interfering with real life), idk some people might use somewhere like this to enable them to act out their risky behaviour in real time, but for me i can calm down and take my time to think before doing anything. I'm not into pics or dirty chat so i do spend more time socially chatting on here then being sexual, might sound weird or not make sense even coz i mainly talk to guys i'm only sexually interested in. Dunno will have a think more, i feel better about myself though and like the way i've changed. |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
" I am learning to slow down and even taking a break from swinging soon. I don't want this lifestyle to consume me...And that is where you are managing to control it rather than it controlling you. You don't want it to consume you ... Honesty towards oneself is the first step as they say.
I really, really wish you well. "
Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I realised I was using fab as an escape and also things were beginning to control me rather than the other way around. Not addiction but it was a crutch and certainly I was starting to edge towards things that should have taken avlittle more thought. |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
Limerick |
"I was thinking more along the lines of a site like this is not helping the addiction as it's pretty full on here, not just meeting others for sex, which is not always plentiful of course, but the pictures, discussions, messaging etc. It's being involved in a hobby which is keeping sex to the forefront instead of distracting oneself from it.
It's interesting to hear other takes on it
I think that's true also. But the risky behaviour is one main problem with for me (as well as it interfering with real life), idk some people might use somewhere like this to enable them to act out their risky behaviour in real time, but for me i can calm down and take my time to think before doing anything. I'm not into pics or dirty chat so i do spend more time socially chatting on here then being sexual, might sound weird or not make sense even coz i mainly talk to guys i'm only sexually interested in. Dunno will have a think more, i feel better about myself though and like the way i've changed."
Whatever works to get you through. Really admire your honesty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was thinking more along the lines of a site like this is not helping the addiction as it's pretty full on here, not just meeting others for sex, which is not always plentiful of course, but the pictures, discussions, messaging etc. It's being involved in a hobby which is keeping sex to the forefront instead of distracting oneself from it.
It's interesting to hear other takes on it
I think that's true also. But the risky behaviour is one main problem with for me (as well as it interfering with real life), idk some people might use somewhere like this to enable them to act out their risky behaviour in real time, but for me i can calm down and take my time to think before doing anything. I'm not into pics or dirty chat so i do spend more time socially chatting on here then being sexual, might sound weird or not make sense even coz i mainly talk to guys i'm only sexually interested in. Dunno will have a think more, i feel better about myself though and like the way i've changed.
Whatever works to get you through. Really admire your honesty. "
Thanks, i just have no shame lol. Plus you have to be honest or else you won't be able to fix yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for posting on this thread.. what started off feeling like a bit of fun became very interesting and educational. I think most people on here probably have pretty high sex drives and I can see how this could turn predatory once someone confesses to being a sex addict.. it's almost like finding someone whose weak spot matches your needs. But of course that's a horrible way of trying to take advantage of others. I'm not really the kind of guy that'd do that anyway, I can't even bring myself to pay for sex as it just seems like I'm taking advantage of someone, but thanks for making it clear to me
You all seem like strong individuals coming to terms with who you are. So I have every faith that you're on the right track and I hope it doesn't spoil your enjoyment of sex nor your adventurousness. All the best to you and thanks for the honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'm more of a porn addict than a sex addict, because I can't get the sex. I probably get about 2 or 3 fucks a year. Even at my age, my sex drive is still massive, I need to cum most nights. Its a worry sometimes because I'm running out of categories to wank over! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love great sex not just any sex but the better it is the more I want.....and its not always easy to get would rather go without than have crap sex.....although that's never happened yet .....tell a lie once and never again |
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"I love great sex not just any sex but the better it is the more I want.....and its not always easy to get would rather go without than have crap sex.....although that's never happened yet .....tell a lie once and never again "
I love great sex and long sessions 5/6 hours exploring licking kissing sucking think most on fab are a little addicted to it |
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"I love great sex not just any sex but the better it is the more I want.....and its not always easy to get would rather go without than have crap sex.....although that's never happened yet .....tell a lie once and never again I love great sex and long sessions 5/6 hours exploring licking kissing sucking think most on fab are a little addicted to it "
not in to quickies always nice long sessions |
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