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"Yes, if you've looked at images online they'll be stored in a history folder. Sometimes images can end up in temp directories too." Not in the documents folder though!  | |||
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"she asked me what are these pictures, I said do not know, and she said its you getting fucked by another guy, I told her not to be silly, I know she does not believe me. Well pictures were in sample music folder" Oh dear. I'm sure she's not dumb... seriously... if you were to come clean about your sexuality how do you think she would react? | |||
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"she asked me what are these pictures, I said do not know, and she said its you getting fucked by another guy, I told her not to be silly, I know she does not believe me. Well pictures were in sample music folder" They could not have got there accidentally. You could try blaming a computer virus for sticking them there. Very flimsy but it's the only potential explanation I can think of. | |||
"not sure how she would react if tell her my sexuality to be honest, she is not very adventorous at all" Did you want to discuss your relationship with your gf or find an answer to your OP? | |||
"not sure how she would react if tell her my sexuality to be honest, she is not very adventorous at all" How do you see your future together? If it's long term do you think you can live with concealing one part of your sexuality from her? I know many people do but it must cause huge anxiety. | |||
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"well its early days but i know your right if long term needs discussing, do not want her to think i am a liar seems I insisted it was not me , need a good explanation why they are there" Come clean. She already knows you've lied to her. Unless you tell her the truth she'll always suspect and will not trust you. | |||
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"Would like to think she got turned on by my sexuality but I really do not think she would" Well, if she can't at least accept it, the relationship is unlikely to go anywhere. You're not right for each other and it will only end in tears if that's the case. | |||
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"Poor GF. I'd do her a huge favour and just dump her because you clearly don't give a fuck. " This is a little unfair. OP is posting in good faith... and you should walk a mile in someone's shoe... | |||
"well she found them last night, she not going really mad but she not spoke to me" She's processing what she saw and thinking about how to deal with it,be honest now don't leave it to long! Shaz | |||
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"Poor GF. I'd do her a huge favour and just dump her because you clearly don't give a fuck. This is a little unfair. OP is posting in good faith... and you should walk a mile in someone's shoe..." ...because you'll have their shoes and a good head start  | |||
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"Ask her if she wants to try an mmf with you." like a boss  | |||
"Poor GF. I'd do her a huge favour and just dump her because you clearly don't give a fuck. This is a little unfair. OP is posting in good faith... and you should walk a mile in someone's shoe..." Not unfair at all. And know you're making him sound hard done by....poor poor OP. Walk a mile in his shoes? He's hardly living the toughest life is he?  | |||
"well she found them last night, she not going really mad but she not spoke to me" Its a huge shock if she thought you were straight. Doesnt mean shes not open to play. You need to be up front. It gets much more conplicated down the line... Imagine it gets serious and you have to ask permission to play later down the line thats not an easy conversation trust me and not fair to her if you already know what you want. I only wish i knew this was for me years ago as its been hard on my hubby telling him these things after almost 11 years... | |||
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"yes I know its going to be harder longer I leave it to tell her, have tryed to stop my urge for cock but easier said than done. " Of you cant stop the urge then you have no choice but to tell her. Yes ypu might lose her but thats her choice to make im afraid. | |||
"yes I know its going to be harder longer I leave it to tell her, have tryed to stop my urge for cock but easier said than done. " We can't change who we are mate. You have to tell her and accept her decision. | |||
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"yes I know its going to be harder longer I leave it to tell her, have tryed to stop my urge for cock but easier said than done. " Well then in the most politest way. Ditch the GF. Or let her ditch you when she finds out the truth. Does she not know that your Bi? Or on Fab? | |||
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"I guess lots of people on here have been in same situation, bisexual and in straight relationship or wanting to swing and partner does not know" Loads who are open about it and those that arent so open about it. No ones perfect but i bet some are jealous cause they have a lot more to lose.. | |||
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"I'm not totally twat like. I do get that it must be difficult with Bi sexuality but fucking behind her back? I think that's just really sad sorry.."Gosh, you're rather mean! | |||
"Tell her you're looking for a pet and did a search for a cockatoo, but your spelling isn't great and you got a cock or two instead "That made me laugh | |||
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"I'm not totally twat like. I do get that it must be difficult with Bi sexuality but fucking behind her back? I think that's just really sad sorry..
Gosh, you're rather mean! "Why is it mean? Sometimes the best thing for someone to do is to take a reality check? Consider if the post came from a guy who had slept with a woman and his gf had found pictures - he would be hung drawn and quartered in here for being a cheat. The same rules apply, whether you are straight, bi, or gay - honesty is best, particularly being honest with yourself. | |||
"no she does not know i am bi or on fab, I know I am a twat for still coming on here but its so hard to stop" twat is putting it mildly, if it was me your feet wouldn't hit the floor as you exited the building. what a terrible, horrible lie to tell. clearly the idea doesn't bode well with her. tell the truth and let her know what youre really like. then she can make her mind up if she wants you or not. | |||
"Yes its 2015 but their is still a stigma attached to men sleeping with men. Not sure if it easier or more difficult to explain you are bi to someone (rather than gay). I'd be inclined to say it is more difficult in some respects. Some of these comments are bang out of order.Explaining your sexuality to someone is not necessarily easy. I have engaged in activities with men before but I would never date or kiss a man.What does that make me? God knows. I don't want to to turn this into a bi or not bi debate but people should recognise it is difficult enough coming to terms with your own sexuality. To then explain this to another person is even more difficult. " Very, very good post | |||
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"I'm not totally twat like. I do get that it must be difficult with Bi sexuality but fucking behind her back? I think that's just really sad sorry..
Gosh, you're rather mean! "Yeah a real meany | |||
"no she does not know i am bi or on fab, I know I am a twat for still coming on here but its so hard to stop twat is putting it mildly, if it was me your feet wouldn't hit the floor as you exited the building. what a terrible, horrible lie to tell. clearly the idea doesn't bode well with her. tell the truth and let her know what youre really like. then she can make her mind up if she wants you or not." Terrible? Horrible? | |||
"My phone is connected to my pc. I had to unsynch the pic share option. I've accidentally put things in different folders when moving stuff from my usb to my laptop. If it wasn't deliberate it can happen by accident. Where should they have been?" I did not know they were still on my computer, wish had deleted them | |||
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"I'm not totally twat like. I do get that it must be difficult with Bi sexuality but fucking behind her back? I think that's just really sad sorry..
Gosh, you're rather mean!
Yeah a real meany "The OP has commented he hasn't cheated on her. Accepting this for one moment, and I appreciate that might seem naive , then what is your issue? The failure to tell her he is bi? | |||
"no she does not know i am bi or on fab, I know I am a twat for still coming on here but its so hard to stop twat is putting it mildly, if it was me your feet wouldn't hit the floor as you exited the building. what a terrible, horrible lie to tell. clearly the idea doesn't bode well with her. tell the truth and let her know what youre really like. then she can make her mind up if she wants you or not." He has said he hasn't done it behind her back ( I assumed, yes I'll admit when I'm wrong, that he had been, joys of Internet communication). He just has to come clean about his lifestyle....I personally wouldn't want to have to deal with this. Good fucking job I just love cock eh! | |||
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"not sure how she would react if tell her my sexuality to be honest, she is not very adventorous at all" Get her a strap on , a false moustache and a lumberjack uniform and everyone's happy | |||
"Would like to think she got turned on by my sexuality but I really do not think she would" like the Person just said on the post just before This one "she is at least talking to you" if thats any saviour for the long Term, right from the start you should Have told her you were bi, but more than This you,ve been unfaithful to her, thats the part you need to worry about, thou it all Seems a bit late now you realise at Least you did wrong, there,s no easy Way round it long term and even if you Do tell her will she be able to trust you again, by not being open enough with one another from the start of your relationship with her you have landed yourself in this mess, but apart from that you have got to ask yourself if those photo,s were not found in the first place by your girlfriend would you have carried on in denial of telling her or keeping your secret to yourself because after all your only here because they were found, its all about being true to yourself and anyone your with as in any relationship.. GOOD LUCK.. | |||
"I'm not totally twat like. I do get that it must be difficult with Bi sexuality but fucking behind her back? I think that's just really sad sorry.."He didn't say the photos are from a time since he has been dating her. In fact he's just clarified that he hasn't been with anyone since dating her. You just made assumptions. | |||
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"I'm not totally twat like. I do get that it must be difficult with Bi sexuality but fucking behind her back? I think that's just really sad sorry..
Gosh, you're rather mean!
Yeah a real meany
The OP has commented he hasn't cheated on her. Accepting this for one moment, and I appreciate that might seem naive , then what is your issue? The failure to tell her he is bi?"That he wants to think of all other excuses as to why those pics are there. And my presuming he's cheating comes from the fact that he has a profile here....whilst he talks about his GF. Fair enough he hasn't a recent verification saying he's met but that means nothing. And people, we can all agree that we get to know more of a situation as it is talked about. | |||
"not sure how she would react if tell her my sexuality to be honest, she is not very adventorous at all Get her a strap on , a false moustache and a lumberjack uniform and everyone's happy "hahahhaa Plan A: fess up Plan B: tell her your friend synced his phone to the PC meaning everything on his phone got transferred. Plan C( the moral highground): your a douche... i hope your cock falls off | |||
"I'm not totally twat like. I do get that it must be difficult with Bi sexuality but fucking behind her back? I think that's just really sad sorry..
He didn't say the photos are from a time since he has been dating her. In fact he's just clarified that he hasn't been with anyone since dating her. You just made assumptions."Did you not read the previous posts before typing out this one?.....  | |||
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"Did you not read the previous posts before typing out this one?..... "Quadcumquae, as they probably never said in ancient Rome. | |||
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"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy?" This!! | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy?" Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. | |||
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"Did you not read the previous posts before typing out this one?.....
Quadcumquae, as they probably never said in ancient Rome.
"Oh Joe! | |||
"OP I really do hope it works out, for you both or on your Todd. Life is hard and complicated enough hey! And everyone deserves to be happy "thankyou, thats what life is all about being happy to need to make the right choices on the way | |||
"I'd just 'fess up, if I were you. It'll save soooo much trouble in the long run. " | |||
"Did you not read the previous posts before typing out this one?.....
Quadcumquae, as they probably never said in ancient Rome.
Oh Joe! "* Hey Joe https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXwMrBb2x1Q | |||
"I should of been honest right from the start I know but once start seeing somebody I do not want to put her off by telling her i like cock too, tricky situation" Being honest.........I'm guessing she doesn't know you're on here! | |||
"Did you not read the previous posts before typing out this one?.....
Quadcumquae, as they probably never said in ancient Rome.
Oh Joe!
* Hey Joe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXwMrBb2x1Q
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"Did you not read the previous posts before typing out this one?.....
Quadcumquae, as they probably never said in ancient Rome.
Oh Joe!
* Hey Joe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXwMrBb2x1Q
Interesting track "As is this... Peggy Lee - He's a tramp https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IwR4JewmdWU | |||
" He has said he hasn't done it behind her back ( I assumed, yes I'll admit when I'm wrong, that he had been, joys of Internet communication). He just has to come clean about his lifestyle....I personally wouldn't want to have to deal with this. Good fucking job I just love cock eh! " Apparently so does OP. | |||
"I have never dated guys or kissed them its just for fun, I have not cheated since been with her" If you havent cheated then im a lot less bothered but you should still be honest... | |||
"well she found them last night, she not going really mad but she not spoke to me" Well speaking as a lady that means your in deep shit, Dick knows I'm really pissed off if I don't speak to him.Just be honest it's much better for you and her. | |||
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"Did you not read the previous posts before typing out this one?.....
Quadcumquae, as they probably never said in ancient Rome.
Oh Joe!
* Hey Joe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXwMrBb2x1Q
Interesting track
As is this...
Peggy Lee - He's a tramp
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IwR4JewmdWU"It is indeed.... Can't believe you think I'm a meany | |||
"Get I'm a bisexual tattooed on your forehead. Saves any misunderstandings " Or skinhead.. | |||
" This isn't aimed at anyone individually, but for those suggesting he should have told her from the start, Is it now the case that when we meet a new partner we have to list every sexual activity that we have undertaken in private prior to the new relationship? Lets face it, we have all done stuff in private that we would not want to discuss. Not because we didn't like it but because the world is a judgmental place. The OP is, it would seem, a closet bi. I mean know offence by this but he does not date guys. He has not cheated on her. None of us can speculate to whether he would or not. This therefore leaves us with a man who has has sex with another man in the past and not said so from the start. Cut him some slack please. " I'd want to know if my boyfriend was Bi, especially active (I now know OP is not! all of it is just my preference) Just my opinion. And if it were myself that was Bi I would say so. | |||
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"my new girlfriend found pics on my computer with me with other guys, no face pictures but i have told her its not me, can pictures get onto your computer without you putting them in documents" If you think you have a future with your girlfriend. I'd fess up and be honest... Who knows, it might be something that appeals to her. | |||
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"my new girlfriend found pics on my computer with me with other guys, no face pictures but i have told her its not me, can pictures get onto your computer without you putting them in documents" What was she doing snooping on your computer?  | |||
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"Did she any other cocks she knew apart from yours" | |||
"Poor GF. I'd do her a huge favour and just dump her because you clearly don't give a fuck. This is a little unfair. OP is posting in good faith... and you should walk a mile in someone's shoe..." I agree with her. This relationship is unlikely to lead anywhere so why drag it out. The fact he's on here asking is testament to that! | |||
"I'm not totally twat like. I do get that it must be difficult with Bi sexuality but fucking behind her back? I think that's just really sad sorry..
Gosh, you're rather mean! "I don't think she is. Whenever you post on an open forum you should expect differing views. She's giving hers. | |||
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"What he did before he met his girlfriend really is none of her business." I'd agree 100% if he wasn't on here with a view to continue what he'd done before exposing her to potential risks too. | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks." Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it." Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me. | |||
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"You're fucked, literally and figuratively !"
So funny it's brilliant - you couldn't make this up! | |||
"my new girlfriend found pics on my computer with me with other guys, no face pictures but i have told her its not me, can pictures get onto your computer without you putting them in documents" ,,surely you should have realised,, new girlfriend,, first chance she gets will search your computer more thoroughly than the F.B.I.,there's only one way to go and that's your separate ways,, she's suspicious, you've lied,, sounds like a great relationship in the making,, | |||
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"my new girlfriend found pics on my computer with me with other guys, no face pictures but i have told her its not me, can pictures get onto your computer without you putting them in documents" Dump the psycho bitch now , next thing you know she will be following you around Hasn't she heard of privacy | |||
"I guess lots of people on here have been in same situation, bisexual and in straight relationship or wanting to swing and partner does not know" All my relationships were with me trying to banish my feelings for men from my mind. I was never happy and I never explored those feelings except for once when I was single and d*unk. When I came clean and told my partner that I thought I was bi she embraced it. She has helped me explore. Swinging with me. I know I'm very fortunate. The biggest difference for me is no longer hiding my sexuality. Many of my friends now know. I've not had a bad reaction yet. My mother knows. I've yet to tell my kids but I will when the time feels right. She's caught you out. I think the best you can do is be honest. Perhaps not to the point of admitting to cheating on her with guys. If you come clean and admit that in the past you have had sex with men she will either accept it and you can talk about it or she will simply leave. If you leave it, or continue to deny it you are unlikely to have a happy outcome. She already knows. If you treat her like a fool she can stay and resent it and not trust you or leave and think you're an arse. Make today the chance to open up and be happy. | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me." What if you find no evidence and are caught going through someone's private property? | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me. What if you find no evidence and are caught going through someone's private property? " Single , psycho , bunny boiler, dumped , crazy Take your pick | |||
"I guess lots of people on here have been in same situation, bisexual and in straight relationship or wanting to swing and partner does not know All my relationships were with me trying to banish my feelings for men from my mind. I was never happy and I never explored those feelings except for once when I was single and d*unk. When I came clean and told my partner that I thought I was bi she embraced it. She has helped me explore. Swinging with me. I know I'm very fortunate. The biggest difference for me is no longer hiding my sexuality. Many of my friends now know. I've not had a bad reaction yet. My mother knows. I've yet to tell my kids but I will when the time feels right. She's caught you out. I think the best you can do is be honest. Perhaps not to the point of admitting to cheating on her with guys. If you come clean and admit that in the past you have had sex with men she will either accept it and you can talk about it or she will simply leave. If you leave it, or continue to deny it you are unlikely to have a happy outcome. She already knows. If you treat her like a fool she can stay and resent it and not trust you or leave and think you're an arse. Make today the chance to open up and be happy. " Took the words right out of my mouth | |||
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"Oops. Would you like them back? "Please | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me. What if you find no evidence and are caught going through someone's private property? " That's never happened. People never get suspicious without a reason. Lies make you doubt yourself that's all and you never get the truth from a liar either and have to find it yourself. It's not unreasonable to expect the truth from someone you're investing yourself in and if they won't give it to me to allow me make my own choices then i will find it out for myself. | |||
"Oops. Would you like them back?
Please "I'll email them across to you. Apologies. I just saw them and thought I'd put them out there for all to see as they seemed so fitting for this ongoing conversation | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me. What if you find no evidence and are caught going through someone's private property? That's never happened. People never get suspicious without a reason. Lies make you doubt yourself that's all and you never get the truth from a liar either and have to find it yourself. It's not unreasonable to expect the truth from someone you're investing yourself in and if they won't give it to me to allow me make my own choices then i will find it out for myself." Paranoid people get suspicious without any reason. You still don't have any right to go through people's private property | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me. What if you find no evidence and are caught going through someone's private property? That's never happened. People never get suspicious without a reason. Lies make you doubt yourself that's all and you never get the truth from a liar either and have to find it yourself. It's not unreasonable to expect the truth from someone you're investing yourself in and if they won't give it to me to allow me make my own choices then i will find it out for myself. Paranoid people get suspicious without any reason. You still don't have any right to go through people's private property " I'm not paranoid. I don't get suspicious without reason. I don't care if i have the right or not, i get the result i wanted and it enables me to stop investing myself in people who don't deserve me or my time. | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me." Who's trying to shame you? | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me. Who's trying to shame you? " Poor choice of words then and my mistake? | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me. What if you find no evidence and are caught going through someone's private property? That's never happened. People never get suspicious without a reason. Lies make you doubt yourself that's all and you never get the truth from a liar either and have to find it yourself. It's not unreasonable to expect the truth from someone you're investing yourself in and if they won't give it to me to allow me make my own choices then i will find it out for myself. Paranoid people get suspicious without any reason. You still don't have any right to go through people's private property I'm not paranoid. I don't get suspicious without reason. I don't care if i have the right or not, i get the result i wanted and it enables me to stop investing myself in people who don't deserve me or my time." You won't mind when someone does it to you then. As for being paranoid,I was making a point that paranoid people make false accusations and become suspicious over nothing. | |||
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"my new girlfriend found pics on my computer with me with other guys, no face pictures but i have told her its not me, can pictures get onto your computer without you putting them in documents,,surely you should have realised,, new girlfriend,, first chance she gets will search your computer more thoroughly than the F.B.I.,there's only one way to go and that's your separate ways,, she's suspicious, you've lied,, sounds like a great relationship in the making,, " My other half moved in with me. Not once have I gone through any of his things, would never cross my mind!
Not all of us overstep boundaries, nosey, insecure or paranoid, just so you know! | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me. What if you find no evidence and are caught going through someone's private property? That's never happened. People never get suspicious without a reason. Lies make you doubt yourself that's all and you never get the truth from a liar either and have to find it yourself. It's not unreasonable to expect the truth from someone you're investing yourself in and if they won't give it to me to allow me make my own choices then i will find it out for myself. Paranoid people get suspicious without any reason. You still don't have any right to go through people's private property I'm not paranoid. I don't get suspicious without reason. I don't care if i have the right or not, i get the result i wanted and it enables me to stop investing myself in people who don't deserve me or my time. You won't mind when someone does it to you then. As for being paranoid,I was making a point that paranoid people make false accusations and become suspicious over nothing. " An ex (who cheated on me loads, denied it every time but eventually his mates told me about it and few other people) used to follow me all the time if i went out without him. I didn't even notice he was doing it, my friends used to tell me. Nope i didn't care if he was acting weird, it just added up to more reasons why i should just get rid. His own poor behaviour used to cause him to paranoid. If you're wondering why i didn't just get rid anyway, i was young, very naive, and didn't have much experience of mentally ill people before i met him. It wouldn't bother me if someone was in my stuff no, what would bother me is they don't trust me because i know liars don't trust other people very easily, probably because they know how easy it is to lie. I'm very open, not easily shamed, and i don't lie to anyone i care about exactly because i care about them and don't wanna mess with their head. I don't actually lie tbh, am a bit weird like that and find social situations uncomfortable because of it and hate to be asked questions that i know will lead to an offensive answer. My best mate helps me out by butting into conversations a fair bit. | |||
"What was she doing looking on your computer in the first place? Isn't that an invasion of your privacy? Probably already suspicious. I've done the same when i've been suspicious, started looking for evidence. Every time my suspicions were right. One thing i do know about liars is you have to find out the truth for yourself, they won't give it to you. Then i walk away and leave them to it, i don't need their headfucks. Something I'd never do: snoop. If I have suspicions I walk away and leave them to it. Yeah that's up to you. I personally already feel like my heads been messed up when someone lies to me so i seek the truth and i feel better for finding it, it comfirms i wasn't imagining things. I've been in abusive relationships and need to do this. Call it snooping if you want but my need to find the truth overrides any form of trying to shame me. What if you find no evidence and are caught going through someone's private property? That's never happened. People never get suspicious without a reason. Lies make you doubt yourself that's all and you never get the truth from a liar either and have to find it yourself. It's not unreasonable to expect the truth from someone you're investing yourself in and if they won't give it to me to allow me make my own choices then i will find it out for myself. Paranoid people get suspicious without any reason. You still don't have any right to go through people's private property " | |||
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"I'm not totally twat like. I do get that it must be difficult with Bi sexuality but fucking behind her back? I think that's just really sad sorry..
Gosh, you're rather mean!
I don't think she is.
Whenever you post on an open forum you should expect differing views. She's giving hers."Thank you! X | |||
"she asked me what are these pictures, I said do not know, and she said its you getting fucked by another guy, I told her not to be silly, I know she does not believe me. Well pictures were in sample music folder" take it she hasn't seen your arse before then ;o) | |||
"I should of been honest right from the start I know but once start seeing somebody I do not want to put her off by telling her i like cock too, tricky situation" What's her number...I like pussy | |||
"You have to remember the world we live in, even my 80 year old Nana has an iPad and is entirely computer literate. She won't be daft trust me. If I was you say they're not pics of you...but you find you're getting turned on by watching male porn and saving pics for fantasy wanks... See how she is... Broach it gently and easily and then if she completely overreacts and thinks it's awful then you need to take a step back and rethin why you're with her, who would want to be with someone they couldn't fully be themselves with for life? Rach xx" Well said rach, just what I was thinking! | |||
"OP does your new girlfriend know you're on a swinging site stating - 'bi male looking for filthy fun, i am very filthy minded and up for anything , very submissive and unshockable, i love to please'? Great start to a relationship do you think? "To be fair the bloke probably had this profile up before meeting the girl! Telling a vanilla you like cock is going to be a delicate conversation! | |||
