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Women only ... Would u say yes or no ?
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Brave post but no. "
Thats what I thought [brave post]; I would never post something like that as a 90% "no" would certainly make me think that there is something wrong with me
OP, there is nothing wrong with you. You are a handsome guy and a different set of women responding here would probably say "yes" |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Brave post but no.
Thats what I thought [brave post]; I would never post something like that as a 90% "no" would certainly make me think that there is something wrong with me
OP, there is nothing wrong with you. You are a handsome guy and a different set of women responding here would probably say "yes""
You wouldn't get 90% no.
I did one of these a while ago and even I got mostly yeses.
I also got a lot of white knights having a go at those who did say no, even though my op said I wanted complete honesty and to please respect everyone's answers. ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Not my type (these threads are never a good idea)
I can't see what purpose these types of threads serve, can't be good for the moral as they're rarely started by the confident."
I think in general they are started by guys who had unrealistic expectations of the site and haven't had the success they anticipated, because they think perhaps they just haven't contacted/been noticed by the right people yet.
I think some genuinely can't understand why/believe that they weren't inundated with horny women the moment they got here. (They usually go on to blame the women, the site, other men, and anything but themselves for that).
This particular guy has been here a week and has already posted a thread about his lack of replies.
I think these threads are just attempts to get some positive attention, mostly by those who have misunderstood the nature of the site and who have unrealistic expectations.
That's my take on it. I could be wrong though. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I think women on fab are different from women in a nightclub.
Personally I think you would do great in a nightclub / pub but not on fab.
Don't let all the nos knock your confidence."
This is true.
Fab requires a different approach to a nightclub. I don't see why the OP couldn't be successful here, with a bit more understanding of the site and the women on here.
I'll say the same OP. Don't let the no thank yous put you off. You just need to change your expectations and your approach a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look, I'm not trying to be mean here, OP, but did you really think this thread would make you feel good or would get you a shag? Were you going to private message every girl who said yes?
These threads don't end well for men. Perhaps you should revaluate what you hope to get out of the site, or move on if it isn't working for you.
Messaging women who actually strike your fancy will always be a better strategy then casting a wide net and taking anyone who looks in your direction.
Good luck to you in the future.
-Courtney |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
Near enough |
OP my answer would be no for a few reasons. You're pics all look like different guys and you've been here a week and apparently you give up already. This site is not 'insta-shag' and if you want the experiences that this site and lifestyle can offer you then i suggest you re-evaluate your expectations. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
There are worse looking guys out there, but the negativity isn't that appealing, so I'd probably meet you for a social.
Advice - get some more pics, showing a variety. Also take a more positive approach and be prepared for the long game on here. Go to socials, make some friends, put the kettle on, enjoy life. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"If a woman posted the same it would be all yes.
The op will be back no daubt lol."
I have no doubt he will, but trust me on this, if I put up a similar post, it won't be all yeses. I message many a bloke/couple/lady and get told I'm not their type.
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