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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It makes them feel good  "
It honestly doesn't bother me that much. I guess if people want to say it to make them feel better, hearing it is the least I can do after turning them down. 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Along with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway'  "
Oh and don't forget 'wot are you a lezza or sumfing?'
Ps OP your a single male.....I thought it was against the rules for you desperate darlings to turn anything down...Ur all so gagging for it!! Hehe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just love those who reply after you've sent a polite no thanks, you get "your loss" sent back to you.  "
All who write "your loss"
Should be made to go unlos.
(copyright HappyGit inc. - - crap verse for all occasions) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Along with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway'
Oh and don't forget 'wot are you a lezza or sumfing?'
Ps OP your a single male.....I thought it was against the rules for you desperate darlings to turn anything down...Ur all so gagging for it!! Hehe "
Not this single guy, not enough alcohol in the world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just love those who reply after you've sent a polite no thanks, you get "your loss" sent back to you. "
Yes just shows there anger and the fact it's most definitely there's lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our one off favourite was an 18 year old who asked 'have you seen my penis?' I fell off the chair laughing at that one
I wonder if he ever found it? "
Pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our one off favourite was an 18 year old who asked 'have you seen my penis?' I fell off the chair laughing at that one
I wonder if he ever found it?
Pmsl "
like all men. he has no control over his penis, but to lose one is careless.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had a reply saying that, they're usually along the lines of 'thanks for your message and Happy Fabbing'"
Same here. Makes me wonder what on earth other people say to get rude responses. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never had a reply saying that, they're usually along the lines of 'thanks for your message and Happy Fabbing'
Same here. Makes me wonder what on earth other people say to get rude responses. "
As I said, my reply was "no thanks" nothing more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had a reply saying that, they're usually along the lines of 'thanks for your message and Happy Fabbing'
Same here. Makes me wonder what on earth other people say to get rude responses.
As I said, my reply was "no thanks" nothing more."
And as I replied, it's "your loss" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My standard reply was along the lines of; thanks for taking the time to message me but you're not what I'm looking for on here at present, take care and happy swinging. The majority of replies where respectful but I did get some abuse. People who think abuse is acceptable will do it regardless of how you say it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My standard reply was along the lines of; thanks for taking the time to message me but you're not what I'm looking for on here at present, take care and happy swinging. The majority of replies where respectful but I did get some abuse. People who think abuse is acceptable will do it regardless of how you say it."
Very true, fair point. Report them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very difficult to answer the OPs question as I don't get any introductory messages hitting my inbox that give me an opportunity to ever say no lol!
But if ever I do in the future (well a boys gotta dream, right?) and they're not for me then I would hope I would reply in the way that I would like to replied to, civil and respectful. If I get a 'your loss' from that then so be it I won't be losing any sleep over it |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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The thing is, we men actually DO have time to enter into pointless discussion via message, so if this did happen, i'd quite happily go back and forth until they got bored.
In the past I've had snotty messages about forum posts (hard to believe, I'm sure) where someone says something, then blocks me to prevent a reply. That's always amusing - so desperate to have the last word! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol, that and "shame". Not for me it isn't "
God, why even bother messaging someone and saying that? Just more crap to delete for me.
Anyway OP, i don't even reply to say no thanks, i wait for the ' ??? ' message then block. |
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It is my loss! Meeting someone where it would be uncomfortable, tedious and awkward, as the inevitable rejection occurs in person. Thank goodness I lose that.
If they need to do something to regain their power or self esteem, let them. But a block saves you the trouble. |
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