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The average cost of a night out to your swingers club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

We usually spend somewhere in the region of £110 but that's including Accommodation, Petrol, Drinks, Admission, Which we think is decent and we do travel out a bit. How much do you guys spend as it can get very expensive and especially for single guys....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Women (myself probably £15) as my local club is free for single women.

Single men have to take a small mortgage out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide

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By *awandOrderCouple  over a year ago

SW London

Depends on which club we go to. we don't need any accommodation or drinks, aside from a couple of cans of . Patrol is less than a tenner and entrance is fifteen for our local parties, held in a large house which is akin to a club in that the numbers are there. When we go to North London, petrol is about twenty of so, if that, but the entrance is fifty ... however, the experience is so unlike any other club we have attended, and truly pan sexual that we think its worth it. The drinks are provided free there ... alcoholic as well as non alcoholic. There is no way we could be spending money on accommodation etc. Wouldn't be able to do it ...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide "

Walk via my house lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Probably £25 - £30

£10 admission (we prefer Wednesday's)

£10 petrol

£5 - £10 on drinks

Most expensive we've done was £250

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I guess I'm lucky as I 2 clubs vertually on my doorstep and a night owl of a housemate who usually drops me off and picks me up when it's kicking out time

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Over £100 train, taxi, accommodation, new outfit, drink..

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By *expuss2015Woman  over a year ago

Planet Sex


"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide "

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By *expuss2015Woman  over a year ago

Planet Sex

I'm a single female too going to Chams beach party and costs me petrol for a 40 min total drive there and back and probably about £5 on bottled water

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Women (myself probably £15) as my local club is free for single women.

Single men have to take a small mortgage out "

Yep single guys do seem to get the rough end of it, and you do get some good genuine guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Over £100 train, taxi, accommodation, new outfit, drink..

"

Now you've mentioned outfits you've taken the thread to a whole new level

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By *he Milf ClubCouple  over a year ago

Peterborough

Used to always be a new outfit etc

Now just petrol. Cash for soft drinks.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Women (myself probably £15) as my local club is free for single women.

Single men have to take a small mortgage out

Yep single guys do seem to get the rough end of it, and you do get some good genuine guys "

You do I have met some really lovely guys at clubs and a few that I just wanted to kick them in the balls but that statement goes for single women and couples also.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

going chams later so thats £23 then cost of fuel plus soft drinks bought at the club .cheap nite out .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Over £100 train, taxi, accommodation, new outfit, drink..

Now you've mentioned outfits you've taken the thread to a whole new level "

if I went often I wouldn't buy a new outfit each time, but it does make me laugh when a local guy moans he's paid £30 entrance and I've paid nothing, yet the £30 is the entire cost of his night and mind is far more

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide

Walk via my house lol "

Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley

I'll see you there

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide

Walk via my house lol

Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley

I'll see you there "

Well that answered my last PM lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide

Walk via my house lol

Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley

I'll see you there

Well that answered my last PM lol "

Haha I read that after I posted I feel bad now, I feel obligated to pop over

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't do it the club at Heathrow adfabs wants £75 for me just to get in without travel expenses drinks and hotel just wouldn't consider it at those prices and no guarantee of anything xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide

Walk via my house lol

Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley

I'll see you there

Well that answered my last PM lol

Haha I read that after I posted I feel bad now, I feel obligated to pop over "

Lol no it's ok moxley will miss you

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley

Either free entry or £10, depending on the club

£9.99 for a nice bottle of wine which I allways buy in advance when on offer

Gasoline between £5 - £20, depending how far and traffic

£4.99 condoms, which are not all used; sometimes, none are used!

£9.99 for the pizza on my way back home; ESSENTIAL

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well I've just gone and looked at two leading clubs, abs bit surprisingly there is very little info about prices for single guys.

One talks about "guests" at £40.

The other doesn't mention single guys at all

Though I'm reliably informed that annual membership is near £100 and entry about £35.

My local club does does certain events where it's just £10 for a single guy, and I'm more than happy to pay that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The cost for a night out is cheaper than going to a nightclub, yes we pay more for entry, but it is worth every penny spent.

For my nights out I spend approx £50 that includes entry fee, fuel and drinks there.

Reasonable fee considering the fun I have when I'm there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't do it the club at Heathrow adfabs wants £75 for me just to get in without travel expenses drinks and hotel just wouldn't consider it at those prices and no guarantee of anything xx"

Think we would have ventured out to other clubs but with membership fees and entrance fees and not knowing if we'd ever go again we stick to the devil we know. Wow £75 just to get in.......

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"I don't do it the club at Heathrow adfabs wants £75 for me just to get in without travel expenses drinks and hotel just wouldn't consider it at those prices and no guarantee of anything xx"

There is a brothel close-by and they almost guarantee sex for £75. Have you triied that, instead?

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple  over a year ago

Nr coleford

for us about £50 with food and everything we haven't had a overnight stay yet

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

£15 including petrol and entrance fee

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

On the rare occasion I go, it's usually just door price and drinks, travelling is part and parcel but varies obviously from venue to venue.

It's cheaper than a night out, for me.

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"£15 including petrol and entrance fee "

You are cheap date; I'll take you out

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By *aveandkate35Couple  over a year ago

telford


"We usually spend somewhere in the region of £110 but that's including Accommodation, Petrol, Drinks, Admission, Which we think is decent and we do travel out a bit. How much do you guys spend as it can get very expensive and especially for single guys...."

Probably similar for us too depending on where we stay.

I spent 140 in the pub last night having a meal and drinks and no sex... So looks clubs look like a bargain to me.

D

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By *awandOrderCouple  over a year ago

SW London


"Either free entry or £10, depending on the club

£9.99 for a nice bottle of wine which I allways buy in advance when on offer

Gasoline between £5 - £20, depending how far and traffic

£4.99 condoms, which are not all used; sometimes, none are used!

£9.99 for the pizza on my way back home; ESSENTIAL "

Oh yes! How could we forget, bagels, samosas and salt beef sandwich for Mr on the way home from the 24 hour bagelery in Hackney

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple  over a year ago

Nr coleford

mrs don't drink or drive so I get a very cheap date

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By *ubybabyCouple  over a year ago

lincoln ish

If we go to chams we have to stay over so with the travel costs hotel and drinks were looking at £150 .. living in skegness and running a big 4x4 has its draw backs we want a local club xxxx ruby

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By *orflondonerMan  over a year ago

Wood Green

If i go to OP4F on a Sunday its £25 in,£1 for a locker,4 quid for a bottler of cider.So a cheap night out really.

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"If i go to OP4F on a Sunday its £25 in,£1 for a locker,4 quid for a bottler of cider.So a cheap night out really."

Don't forget to leave a £1 tip for the lovely ladies behind the bar there; xxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To go to my local place would cost me:

Travel £0

Drink £2 for 2 bottles of water.

Entry £0

Outfit £0

Wipes and condoms £10

So £12

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When we go to jaydees and stay over, drinks, fuel, entry, room, breakfast at a little cafe we've found nearby, about 80quid. Not bad as I can get through that amount on a night out in my home town alone!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't mind paying it at all as its not often I go, I would pay that to go any place where I had to travel and stay over, plus all but once I've had a fantastic night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

In the comments a lot say they pay for condoms is that a preference or that the club don't provide? Every club we ever been to its standard to have them in the play area.

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By *ikeC81Man  over a year ago

harrow

Well next time I am

Going to amours 60 quid but that includes membership for 6 months but I am in Manchester anyway as I am at football so the 33 quid I saved getting a coach rather than a train makes it ok for Me

75 quid for ab fabs is expensive but considering I paid over 100 quid in watford including taxi home it's not to bad

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My regular club friend and I usually take it in turns to pay for entrance. I'm usually the driver. I try and buy condoms when they are on offer. I don't drink and drive so he will take something for himself. He also bought a new shirt for last night, so men can incur outfit costs too.

All in it averages out at about £35 a visit to our usual localish clubs for me (based on some nights being less expensive for couples and splitting the costs).

If I travel to the socials then it gets closer to £150/200 with hotels, food, drinks, and outfits.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"In the comments a lot say they pay for condoms is that a preference or that the club don't provide? Every club we ever been to its standard to have them in the play area."

I use latex free and prefer to have my own on hand.

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

as a single guy to my local club on a saturday night

35 pounds entry

5 pounds for drinks (8 non alcoholic beets of some sort)

petrol there and back... not really that much

5 pound food on the way home......

so just short of 50 quid.... which is probably a lot less than i would spend on a normal saturday night out in a city centre...

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By *osieWoman  over a year ago

Wembley


"In the comments a lot say they pay for condoms is that a preference or that the club don't provide? Every club we ever been to its standard to have them in the play area."

OP4F sells a load of them for £1. I think one can purchase these at a low cost at AbFab too (don't rely on it as I don't know for certain; just that once this guy did not have condoms with him and when I told him that I don't want sex without, he returned 10 mins later with a few)

I just prefer the ones which I have purchased myself. These hardly get used as, invariably, the guy pulls out his own citing that mine must be standard size and he needs XXL

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By *otlovefun42Couple  over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

The club we mainly use in Germany charges 40€ (£29) for a couple on a Saturday night including all drinks and top class hot/cold buffet. Single guys pay 50€ (£37) and single ladies 10€(£7) It is only a short drive so we get change out of a fiver on fuel.

There is also a special Sunday event once a month that includes the same package at 25€ (£18) for couples but no difference for the single girls/guys.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple  over a year ago

manchester

£20 entry and a couple of drinks usually rather cheap night for us

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By *icky999Man  over a year ago

warrington

£10 petrol

£20 entry

£0 condoms

£75 prescriptions

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple  over a year ago

Nr coleford

can always get free condoms form the gum clinic

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By *om and JennieCouple  over a year ago

Chams or Socials

£0 because I'm a big chicken & not been to a club yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not a great deal, I'm going to chameleons tonight, got a pack of bud £5, £6 each way in a taxi, in the summer I have been know to walk there so only get taxi home, free entry so will cost me £17 tonight £11 if I walk there, I'm waiting to see if the rain holds or not before I decide

Walk via my house lol

Get lost that's well out my way I go through moxley

I'll see you there

Well that answered my last PM lol

Haha I read that after I posted I feel bad now, I feel obligated to pop over

Lol no it's ok moxley will miss you "

If anyone passing the Aldi in Moxley just realised I'm out of coffee....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we were at chams a fortnight ago for 2 nights,cost us just over £550.That's return flights,car hire,petrol,2 overnight stays,entrance fees drinks n food.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World

Lets see, my local club -

£21 couples admission

£4-5 in fuel

Take our own drinks, so depends what I want to drink.

A cheap night out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

£30 entry

£10 diesel

£10/20 drinks

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By *nnyMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


"£30 entry

£10 diesel

£10/20 drinks"

£50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag?

I don't think so.

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By *icky999Man  over a year ago

warrington


"£30 entry

£10 diesel

£10/20 drinks

£50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag?

I don't think so.

"

the deisel and drink money your gonna spend anywhere. 30 quids not a lot its 20 odd for the pics and no fuckers made a decent film in ten years

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"£30 entry

£10 diesel

£10/20 drinks

£50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag?

I don't think so.

"

I think the idea that it's to 'maybe get a shag' is what makes people react like it's outrageous.

It's a night out with like minded people. It may or may not lead to a shag but if you go in expecting to get one because you handed over your cash you're limiting your night before you've even begun.

I get really annoyed when I read club reviews that say, No one was playing. Well, if that's what you want and expect get it started!

Last weekend I went to a club party with some friends. I saw a couple of them last night and the reflection on what made the previous weekend's club party good was that we danced a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"£30 entry

£10 diesel

£10/20 drinks

£50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag?

I don't think so.

"

I dont see it as paying to get a shag as do many others, theres been times ive gone and socialised and made friends for future meets and also picked up veris too

Its about the bigger picture of profile building and making good friends for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

went to one in manchester i got in for £5 as i was not fully a women or it would of been free the guys paid £25 and drinks had to be bought inside and were expensive

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Isis Quest:

Train fare - £15

Entry - £0

Wine - £8 ish

Taxi home - £10

Our Place for Fun:

Train fare - £50

Hotel room - £70

Taxis - £20

Entry (inc membership) - £25

Wine - £10 (bleddy London prices)

I could list for all the clubs I have visited but you'd all die of boredom. Costs really do depend on the location of the club, the entry fee, and so on. But I always have a blast, wherever I go.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"£30 entry

£10 diesel

£10/20 drinks

£50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag?

I don't think so.

"

Yes only, but don't you realise it's a 'cheap night out'??

Who knew so many single guys went out and drank cognac and champers all night, bought drinks for the whole crowd in every boozer they went in, tip all the bar staff, neck a few oysters then fly home in the hired-for-da-night Lear jet?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Marc and I tend to spend quite a bit when we go to clubs, but its mostly because we use it as an opportunity to travel. So, we pick a club relatively far away (a couple of weeks back we went to Secrets), then we plan an entire trip for about 3 days. We get to see a ton of stuff, and also visit a club while we're at it!

I won't break down the price, because most of it isn't for the club. We love just going around the country, and having a little fun while we're at it Its a good way to spend most weekends.

-Courtney

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By *ack LondonMan  over a year ago

London

Would love to go to a club. But I'm a singleton. I wouldn't be expecting that much. And a £50.00 entry fee is not for me, rather meet and chat a lady in one of my local's.

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By *ynecplCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Depends on where we are going if it is our local club then approx £50 if you include entrance and drinks. If visiting a club away then we make a weekend of it, probably the most expensive was when we went to Abfab as it involved three hotels over three days along with the meals, entrance to club plus the activities we did during the day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't do it the club at Heathrow adfabs wants £75 for me just to get in without travel expenses drinks and hotel just wouldn't consider it at those prices and no guarantee of anything xx

Think we would have ventured out to other clubs but with membership fees and entrance fees and not knowing if we'd ever go again we stick to the devil we know. Wow £75 just to get in......."

yes its almost like paying for sex and am told a lot of out of shape older people go because they can afford it and its only way they can get sex cheaper to go to weight watchers surely I personally don't have a problem with the larger woman well some of them

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been to socials in clubs and the average cost for me is about £300 - but then I do have to buy flights and accommodation (then I have outfits etc to factor in as well)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The cost for a night out is cheaper than going to a nightclub, yes we pay more for entry, but it is worth every penny spent.

For my nights out I spend approx £50 that includes entry fee, fuel and drinks there.

Reasonable fee considering the fun I have when I'm there. "

Which nightclubs are you going? No nightclub near me is anywhere near the cost of the nearest swingers club too me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

some of these clubs are basically dick turpin in disguise

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I usually pay £5 entrance get dropped off and picked up.so £5 total. So cheap.

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By *umpkinMan  over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I only go to Chams, Darlston and only go to the BBW nights as a guest from here so I don`t have to include cost of a single guy`s membership (haven`t been lucky enough to get a membership as yet )

My costs are :-

£80 for diesel (Lead-footing it in an older Land Rover Discovery from Dorset)

£30-£45 for the hotel room depending on how quickly I`ve booked and if I`ve had breakfast

£33 entrance (£34 if I pay with a card)

£? Alkyhole (if I bring any!)

£? soft drinks

Condoms

Food/drink on the way up

I could go much more locally but Chams is my No.1 choice of club so it makes it worthwhile for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I only go to Chams, Darlston and only go to the BBW nights as a guest from here so I don`t have to include cost of a single guy`s membership (haven`t been lucky enough to get a membership as yet )

My costs are :-

£80 for diesel (Lead-footing it in an older Land Rover Discovery from Dorset)

£30-£45 for the hotel room depending on how quickly I`ve booked and if I`ve had breakfast

£33 entrance (£34 if I pay with a card)

£? Alkyhole (if I bring any!)

£? soft drinks

Condoms

Food/drink on the way up

I could go much more locally but Chams is my No.1 choice of club so it makes it worthwhile for me. "

Couldn't you use some red diesel in that Landrover?

Just trying save you some money

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different."

I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i dont go to the london clubs as i heard they recycle condoms by turning them inside out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different.

I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight.

"

Bet your not paying 30-50 quid to get in anywhere though lol.

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By *icky999Man  over a year ago

warrington


"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different.

I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight.

Bet your not paying 30-50 quid to get in anywhere though lol."

clubs sell booze, thats the point. swingers clubs dont sell ewt.

get a girl off fab an it'll only cost ya 20 quid

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different.

I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight.

Bet your not paying 30-50 quid to get in anywhere though lol.

clubs sell booze, thats the point. swingers clubs dont sell ewt.

get a girl off fab an it'll only cost ya 20 quid "

Some swingers clubs are fully licensed and do sell booze. I'd have to drink a fair bit of self taken booze to recoup the cost of the entrance fee still in a take your own place. I'll look into that actually. Might swing my decision. Pun intended.

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By *umpkinMan  over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"

Couldn't you use some red diesel in that Landrover?

Just trying save you some money "

Of course I couldn`t use "cherry"!!!

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By *estinysswingersCouple  over a year ago

Worsley

Wow. We feel like total cheapskates now. Does Martin Lewis need to a segment on this?

Condoms free. Travel usually less than a tenner. Cheap booze. Admission maximum £30.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It depends on whether we stop over locally or not. We tend to go Manchester way when we go to a club.

Petrol - £20

Drinks (BYO) - £15-£20

Entry - £25-35

So £60-£80 unless we stay over then it's £50-80 on top. So in all we have spent about £150 on a night out at a club and never regretted it, although, I do prefer to head home afterwards as if you don't play or have a notable night you don't feel like you've wasted loads of money.

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman  over a year ago

Dartford

For me when I go to Jaydee's it varies,

Travel is around £40 quid

Entry is free

I don't get new outfits for each visit

Alchol is £5-10

Then if I stay over £20-50 or if one of my lovely friends puts me up then it's free.

So in total from £50-100

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The cost for a night out is cheaper than going to a nightclub, yes we pay more for entry, but it is worth every penny spent.

For my nights out I spend approx £50 that includes entry fee, fuel and drinks there.

Reasonable fee considering the fun I have when I'm there.

Which nightclubs are you going? No nightclub near me is anywhere near the cost of the nearest swingers club too me."

For a decent night out in london,I can spend far more than £50

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Compare like for like. A lot of people saying it's an expensive night out drinking in city centre for example. It seems most people going to clubs dont drink. So they are saving money right there. If I went out with my mates and didn't drink it would be a real cheap night. Cost of entry to the club is the only differing factor full stop. You can stay over or not if you go to a club or have a night out. Ladies you might get a new outfit if you go to a club or on a night out. There are travel costs to consider for a club or a night out. You can have a good time with like minded people if you go to a club or have a night out. Nightclubs charge an entry fee a lot lower than swingers clubs. I dont know of any that charge membership fees. Certainly not the 50 quid and upwards I hear about swinger venues. Im not saying to anyone don't go. Im just pointing out that this is the reason a lot won't go. Yeah I've heard the argument about budgeting and thats fair enough. I Budget for gigs, nights out etc. It just simply doesn't make sense financially to a lot of people. To others it's nothing. We're all different.

I'm going out tonight, on a like for life comparison (without the sex, obviously). I am expecting to spend about £60 tonight.

Bet your not paying 30-50 quid to get in anywhere though lol."

No, I didn't have to pay to get in as it was an arranged party in a bar but I have paid to get into 'ordinary' nightclubs. Standard drinks (not cocktails or Champagne etc.) were around £8 each so that was £50 just for my small group of friends last night.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"£30 entry

£10 diesel

£10/20 drinks

£50/60 to 'maybe' get a shag?

I don't think so.

Yes only, but don't you realise it's a 'cheap night out'??

Who knew so many single guys went out and drank cognac and champers all night, bought drinks for the whole crowd in every boozer they went in, tip all the bar staff, neck a few oysters then fly home in the hired-for-da-night Lear jet?

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Entry £10

Drink £15 - £20

Condoms £5

Travel practicality zero. We live 5 minutes drive away from Eureka

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Entry 20

Drinks 5-10

Petrol is less than or equal to getting to work and back, so I don't count it

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By *_nny MCMan  over a year ago

Crawley

OP4F is 50 quid for single guys Fridays, cheaper in the week, 15 quid for train into London, cab in the early hours means getting home is another 50. Add in 20 more for food and drink and that's 135 quid. I work with guys who'll drop that at the bar in a regular club on a night out and not bat an eyelid. I'll do 70 myself without worrying. I don't think it's extortionate for a night out and always have a really good time in the bar as well as the playrooms.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My night to Chams last night cost me £11.50

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