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This is going to be the worst week of my life!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I live in a houseshare with a Mauritius woman, her mum and dad are staying for a week on holiday.
After 5 minutes of being here the mum walks straight in my room unannounced and catches me in my boxer shorts laying on my bed, we both stare at eachother silently for the longest 10 seconds of my life and then she closes my door, awkward!
What a great introduction!
My housemate has already warned me and apologised in advance for her mum who is likely to try and mother me and arrange a marriage between us!
I'm really not the kind of guy who handles mothering very well, why can't my housemate just tell her to leave me alone!
What's the best way of dealing with this situation??? I want to be left alone as much as possible but can't be rude???
I might go stay in a hotel for a week!
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Hardly the worst week of your life but the lock suggestion is a good idea if she starts to mother you just be polite about it and let it go over your head and before you know it they will have gone home... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Buy a lock for the door be cheaper than a hotel "
Iv got a lock but I don't use it as didn't expect her to just storm in!
I will lock it tonight for sure!!
They have taken over the cottage! I might go sleep in the stables with horses! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you share a house and there are bounderies that should not be broken, that room is your domain and should not be entered by anyone without permission you should not have to move out as you pay for that room, tell them politely to leave you alone . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hardly the worst week of your life but the lock suggestion is a good idea if she starts to mother you just be polite about it and let it go over your head and before you know it they will have gone home..."
Seriously it's a awkward situation, my housemate tried it on with me after 3 days of moving in and iv tried avoiding her ever since, Iv been here 6 months. It's normally ok cause I live on a farm and have the place to myself. But this week I feel like I'm shut in my room hiding!
There all speaking in another language, I think it might be French! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no make sense being rude or something, because parents will back to home, and your housemate not.
Just use your lock, close the doors each time in your bedroom, if you want to avoid her mum with her marriage ideas then just invite a girl -friend even for coffe 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you share a house and there are bounderies that should not be broken, that room is your domain and should not be entered by anyone without permission you should not have to move out as you pay for that room, tell them politely to leave you alone ."
That's how I feel, but like others have said I need to make some effort as it's not fair on my housemate. But that being said they should be staying in a hotel not here when we pay half on bills |
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"Hardly the worst week of your life but the lock suggestion is a good idea if she starts to mother you just be polite about it and let it go over your head and before you know it they will have gone home...
Seriously it's a awkward situation, my housemate tried it on with me after 3 days of moving in and iv tried avoiding her ever since, Iv been here 6 months. It's normally ok cause I live on a farm and have the place to myself. But this week I feel like I'm shut in my room hiding!
There all speaking in another language, I think it might be French! "
Why don't you communicate to them if at all possible and maybe speak with her regarding the situation than avoidance she maybe feeling just as awkward as you. They are visiting their daughter I do think you are making a mountain out of a molehill in this situation.. |
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"Oh pass me my tiny violin so I can play a tune, cottages with stables and horses a mauritian woman and her parents - oh it sounds like such a hard life "
I know I wouldn't mind a cottage with stables sounds bliss lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just smile and get through it they'll be gone before yiu know it. It will be nice for her parents to leave happy knowing she's living with a nice man!"
Yeah but I'm not a nice man! |
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"Just smile and get through it they'll be gone before yiu know it. It will be nice for her parents to leave happy knowing she's living with a nice man!
Yeah but I'm not a nice man!"
Says it all really then...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And bozo they've come from a long way a way, no point in them adding more expense to hotel fees when you've got the space! I'm sure if it was the other way round your housemate would be fine with it!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh pass me my tiny violin so I can play a tune, cottages with stables and horses a mauritian woman and her parents - oh it sounds like such a hard life "
I do pay a lot of money to live here mate, but yeah your right I do feel like playing my violin! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Is this really a problem for you? Are you curled up foetal on your bed in horror? Or did you just feel the need to tell us that not only do you live in a cottage with stables, not only did your Mauritian housemate come on to you, but now her (probably smoking hot) mother barged in on you while you were nearly naked?
Stories and fantasies section is thattaway. |
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"So you share a house and there are bounderies that should not be broken, that room is your domain and should not be entered by anyone without permission you should not have to move out as you pay for that room, tell them politely to leave you alone .
That's how I feel, but like others have said I need to make some effort as it's not fair on my housemate. But that being said they should be staying in a hotel not here when we pay half on bills"
If it vexes you that much ask your housemate to contribute some extra money towards to bills whilst parents stay for a whole week op, or you could try and be a grown up and be nice to them, remember there's worse things going in in the world  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this really a problem for you? Are you curled up foetal on your bed in horror? Or did you just feel the need to tell us that not only do you live in a cottage with stables, not only did your Mauritian housemate come on to you, but now her (probably smoking hot) mother barged in on you while you were nearly naked?
Stories and fantasies section is thattaway."
 On it like Sonic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh pass me my tiny violin so I can play a tune, cottages with stables and horses a mauritian woman and her parents - oh it sounds like such a hard life
I do pay a lot of money to live here mate, but yeah your right I do feel like playing my violin! "
hehe just leave your cock out that would be enough to put me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hardly the worst week of your life but the lock suggestion is a good idea if she starts to mother you just be polite about it and let it go over your head and before you know it they will have gone home...
Seriously it's a awkward situation, my housemate tried it on with me after 3 days of moving in and iv tried avoiding her ever since, Iv been here 6 months. It's normally ok cause I live on a farm and have the place to myself. But this week I feel like I'm shut in my room hiding!
There all speaking in another language, I think it might be French! "
It's creole. Pidgin French. I'm half Mauritian. The people aren't animals. Just say 'please respect my privacy' and ask you housemate to translate.
And LOCK YOUR DOOR.
Be a big boy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do think your all being a Tad mean nothing like having your personal space invaded x"
He admitted to having a lock though. Not exactly rocket science to use it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is this really a problem for you? Are you curled up foetal on your bed in horror? Or did you just feel the need to tell us that not only do you live in a cottage with stables, not only did your Mauritian housemate come on to you, but now her (probably smoking hot) mother barged in on you while you were nearly naked?
Stories and fantasies section is thattaway."
Her mum looks about 80 years old so no!
And like I've said if I was going to make up a story I would make up a better o e than that!
As far as where I live, I only rent, it's hardly something to brag about! I houseshare a 2 bedroom cottage on a farm, and now there's 4 people living in it!
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I will agree that having houseguests is stressful at the best of times, and if they are strangers that's even worse, but some discussion must have been had prior to their visit.
I'm sure they speak English, so have a chat, and if she tries to match-make just tell them you're gay. That'll stop her! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hardly the worst week of your life but the lock suggestion is a good idea if she starts to mother you just be polite about it and let it go over your head and before you know it they will have gone home...
Seriously it's a awkward situation, my housemate tried it on with me after 3 days of moving in and iv tried avoiding her ever since, Iv been here 6 months. It's normally ok cause I live on a farm and have the place to myself. But this week I feel like I'm shut in my room hiding!
There all speaking in another language, I think it might be French!
It's creole. Pidgin French. I'm half Mauritian. The people aren't animals. Just say 'please respect my privacy' and ask you housemate to translate.
And LOCK YOUR DOOR.
Be a big boy."
Who said they was animals? Why put words in my mouth??? Strange woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this really a problem for you? Are you curled up foetal on your bed in horror? Or did you just feel the need to tell us that not only do you live in a cottage with stables, not only did your Mauritian housemate come on to you, but now her (probably smoking hot) mother barged in on you while you were nearly naked?
Stories and fantasies section is thattaway.
Her mum looks about 80 years old so no!
And like I've said if I was going to make up a story I would make up a better o e than that!
As far as where I live, I only rent, it's hardly something to brag about! I houseshare a 2 bedroom cottage on a farm, and now there's 4 people living in it!
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How can they stay if there's no room for them to sleep? |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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Its only a week and I guess that her parents dont pop over from Mauritius every weekend.
I know that its your home too but if it was me Id show my face to make them welcome and then make myself as scarce as possible and let them have some time together.
Just lock the door. Its 7 days.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is this really a problem for you? Are you curled up foetal on your bed in horror? Or did you just feel the need to tell us that not only do you live in a cottage with stables, not only did your Mauritian housemate come on to you, but now her (probably smoking hot) mother barged in on you while you were nearly naked?
Stories and fantasies section is thattaway.
Her mum looks about 80 years old so no!
And like I've said if I was going to make up a story I would make up a better o e than that!
As far as where I live, I only rent, it's hardly something to brag about! I houseshare a 2 bedroom cottage on a farm, and now there's 4 people living in it!
How can they stay if there's no room for them to sleep?"
Exactly, my housemate has taken over the front room and the mum and dad have her room, there currently in the kitchen and we only have one bathroom!
Obviously I was being melodramatic by saying this is going to be the worst week of my life!
But I'm definitely entitled to play my tiny violin! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so two Mauritius women have come on to you and you haven't bummed either?
and we're still going with straight on your profile? kays "
What are you talking about? I never said 2 Mauritius women come on to me!? |
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By *icky999Man
over a year ago
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"so two Mauritius women have come on to you and you haven't bummed either?
and we're still going with straight on your profile? kays
What are you talking about? I never said 2 Mauritius women come on to me!?"
"we both stared at each other silently for the longest ten seconds of my life"
classic mills and boon. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so two Mauritius women have come on to you and you haven't bummed either?
and we're still going with straight on your profile? kays
What are you talking about? I never said 2 Mauritius women come on to me!?
"we both stared at each other silently for the longest ten seconds of my life"
classic mills and boon. "
Haha whatever mate, shes about 80 years old it probably took her a while to realise she walked in the wrong door!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do think your all being a Tad mean nothing like having your personal space invaded x
He admitted to having a lock though. Not exactly rocket science to use it "
Perhaps the wording jolly inconvenient would have got a more sympathetic reaction |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hardly the worst week of your life but the lock suggestion is a good idea if she starts to mother you just be polite about it and let it go over your head and before you know it they will have gone home...
Seriously it's a awkward situation, my housemate tried it on with me after 3 days of moving in and iv tried avoiding her ever since, Iv been here 6 months. It's normally ok cause I live on a farm and have the place to myself. But this week I feel like I'm shut in my room hiding!
There all speaking in another language, I think it might be French!
It's creole. Pidgin French. I'm half Mauritian. The people aren't animals. Just say 'please respect my privacy' and ask you housemate to translate.
And LOCK YOUR DOOR.
Be a big boy.
Who said they was animals? Why put words in my mouth??? Strange woman"
Not strange. But mauritians aren't all socially backward room-bargers who wilfully invade people's privacy.
Did it occur to you to say, 'I'm sorry, this is my room, there's nothing you need, in here.'?
Then LOCK THE DOOR.
Am I still sounding 'strange'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this really a problem for you? Are you curled up foetal on your bed in horror? Or did you just feel the need to tell us that not only do you live in a cottage with stables, not only did your Mauritian housemate come on to you, but now her (probably smoking hot) mother barged in on you while you were nearly naked?
Stories and fantasies section is thattaway.
Her mum looks about 80 years old so no!
And like I've said if I was going to make up a story I would make up a better o e than that!
As far as where I live, I only rent, it's hardly something to brag about! I houseshare a 2 bedroom cottage on a farm, and now there's 4 people living in it!
How can they stay if there's no room for them to sleep?
Exactly, my housemate has taken over the front room and the mum and dad have her room, there currently in the kitchen and we only have one bathroom!
Obviously I was being melodramatic by saying this is going to be the worst week of my life!
But I'm definitely entitled to play my tiny violin! "
I feel your pain. I'd be bloody pissed off too. Did your housemate ask if it was ok with you?
I understood your OP. Hope they sod off soon. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I do think your all being a Tad mean nothing like having your personal space invaded x
He admitted to having a lock though. Not exactly rocket science to use it
Perhaps the wording jolly inconvenient would have got a more sympathetic reaction "
Yes I do have a lock but they had just arrived and she walked straight in on me!
I wasn't told what time of day they was coming, plus I don't like the idea of locking myself away in my own home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This sounds more like a look at me thread....as clearly any perceived problems are tiny..... Most guys would kill to be in your position....especially a Mauritious woman coming on to you.
Give her what she wants and make it clear that it is just sex..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do think your all being a Tad mean nothing like having your personal space invaded x
He admitted to having a lock though. Not exactly rocket science to use it
Perhaps the wording jolly inconvenient would have got a more sympathetic reaction
Yes I do have a lock but they had just arrived and she walked straight in on me!
I wasn't told what time of day they was coming, plus I don't like the idea of locking myself away in my own home. "
It was incredibly rude of her to just walk in without knocking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is this really a problem for you? Are you curled up foetal on your bed in horror? Or did you just feel the need to tell us that not only do you live in a cottage with stables, not only did your Mauritian housemate come on to you, but now her (probably smoking hot) mother barged in on you while you were nearly naked?
Stories and fantasies section is thattaway.
Her mum looks about 80 years old so no!
And like I've said if I was going to make up a story I would make up a better o e than that!
As far as where I live, I only rent, it's hardly something to brag about! I houseshare a 2 bedroom cottage on a farm, and now there's 4 people living in it!
How can they stay if there's no room for them to sleep?
Exactly, my housemate has taken over the front room and the mum and dad have her room, there currently in the kitchen and we only have one bathroom!
Obviously I was being melodramatic by saying this is going to be the worst week of my life!
But I'm definitely entitled to play my tiny violin!
I feel your pain. I'd be bloody pissed off too. Did your housemate ask if it was ok with you?
I understood your OP. Hope they sod off soon. "
Blimey!
Thanks lol
She mentioned it to me a week before! If she had given me notice I would of went away for a week!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This sounds more like a look at me thread....as clearly any perceived problems are tiny..... Most guys would kill to be in your position....especially a Mauritious woman coming on to you.
Give her what she wants and make it clear that it is just sex....."
Mauritius women are not my type and I dont just fuck anyone. Plus why would I want to fuck the woman I live with!! Sod that
Also the look at me thread I posted yesterday! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So,you go to visit your daughter who lives with someone else and you decide to have a wander around the house,being nosy. You walk around the place looking in all the rooms,because you're nosy and you walk into a room of someone who pays to live there and see them in their undies,and it's their fault for not locking the door. Of course she may have been looking for the toilet and opened the wrong door,but I would have knocked first,or asked my daughter to show me around. It's not rocket science |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right.  "
Your going to think this is mad, I dreamt about you the other night..  we've never spoke but maybe it's your username. I dreamt I was at a social and you turned up with this gigantic tits, I remember saying where have you been for ages on fab Tina titz! As if I remembered your username, was so weird considering we haven't spoke haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right. "
That would be a nice gesture,and put a big sign on your door reminding them whose room it is and you won't have to lock yourself in if you don't want to. I'd lock the bathroom door though,you don't want her dad walking in on you scrubbing your arse |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right. "
Why would I buy her flowers!
I'm already giving up my front room, sharing my one shower and letting them have the run of the cottage!
Plus I'm actively making effort to stay away from my own home so they can have family time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have the perfect solution find a meet off here...go over with your toothbrush and spare undies have ind blowing sex and then say do you mind if I stop a week.... "
Hahaha that sounds like a nightmare to!
Iv already arranged to go out as much as possible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP ~ best way to handle the situation?
Have a quiet word with your housemate and explain you don't want to lock the door & would appreciate is she could tell her mum that your bedroom is a no go area.
Calm approach should do the trick.
If that fails then maybe next time she barges is make sure your having a tug... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Plus I'm actively making effort to stay away from my own home so they can have family time."
So are you the house owner? I would be setting out the boundaries in that case then, not locking my door. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's just a week! Hardly the rest of your life.......... "
Your absolutely right, iv said iv been melodramatic!
It is just a week but it's still a crap situation! And the end of the day weather it's right or wrong of me I feel uncomfortable in my own home. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right.
Why would I buy her flowers!
I'm already giving up my front room, sharing my one shower and letting them have the run of the cottage!
Plus I'm actively making effort to stay away from my own home so they can have family time."
Well since you're so begrudging of their presence, you'll definitely have a rotten week. Little things like a bunch of flowers and making a personal effort can go a long way. I'd see about taking them out and showing them the sights, sharing some meals. Act like a gracious host. They may even ask you over to theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plus I'm actively making effort to stay away from my own home so they can have family time.
So are you the house owner? I would be setting out the boundaries in that case then, not locking my door."
No I'm renting we are both in a houseshare |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right.
Your going to think this is mad, I dreamt about you the other night.. we've never spoke but maybe it's your username. I dreamt I was at a social and you turned up with this gigantic tits, I remember saying where have you been for ages on fab Tina titz! As if I remembered your username, was so weird considering we haven't spoke haha "
That's lovely. No autographs, though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just a quick chat - say you will give them as much family time as you can but it is your home too and they have to respect that - surely your housemate can make that clear ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy I know and used to work with occasionally, he is originally from Mauritius.
I know what the OP means with the word mothering, his mum was exactly the same but I thought it was lovely, came across as really friendly and genuine. Plus she was always offering food when you was at her house |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right.
Why would I buy her flowers!
I'm already giving up my front room, sharing my one shower and letting them have the run of the cottage!
Plus I'm actively making effort to stay away from my own home so they can have family time.
Well since you're so begrudging of their presence, you'll definitely have a rotten week. Little things like a bunch of flowers and making a personal effort can go a long way. I'd see about taking them out and showing them the sights, sharing some meals. Act like a gracious host. They may even ask you over to theirs. "
I just like my own space! I moved back to England after living in Peru for a year, I'm just saving money in a houseshare until iv got enough money to disappear again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about you pretend to sleep walk and get in bed with her mum and dad. Snuggle down in between them and hug the dad. Make it a really fun week by playing pranks on them
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If this is going to be the worst week of your life, why don't you have the champagne out celebrating the fact that you got off lightly? "
Yes iv had a very sheltered life!
Like iv said on many of occasions in this post I was being melodramatic!
It's not the worst week of my life but like iv said I do feel uncomfortable in my home.
Anyway I'm going to get dressed and go face the music, say hello and get in my van and go out for the day!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just a week! Hardly the rest of your life..........
Your absolutely right, iv said iv been melodramatic!
It is just a week but it's still a crap situation! And the end of the day weather it's right or wrong of me I feel uncomfortable in my own home."
You're not wrong. It's your home too. They are being rude. |
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"It's just a week! Hardly the rest of your life..........
Your absolutely right, iv said iv been melodramatic!
It is just a week but it's still a crap situation! And the end of the day weather it's right or wrong of me I feel uncomfortable in my own home.
You're not wrong. It's your home too. They are being rude. "
I like my own space. If anyone barged into my room like that I'd be seriously unimpressed. It's a total invasion of private space. |
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"If this is going to be the worst week of your life, why don't you have the champagne out celebrating the fact that you got off lightly?
Yes iv had a very sheltered life!
Like iv said on many of occasions in this post I was being melodramatic!
It's not the worst week of my life but like iv said I do feel uncomfortable in my home.
Anyway I'm going to get dressed and go face the music, say hello and get in my van and go out for the day!
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It's horrible not to feel comfortable in your own home. I rented a room in a house years ago and never felt settled, I used to spend a lot of time driving around & in Starbucks. |
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Update
So I just went and welcomed my housemates parents, it went ok I made a little joke about already meeting the mum!
I shaked hands with the dad the mum insisted on a kiss and she already call me son!
They mean well and I'm going to make as much effort as I can but still not that pleased about it
Also I just got some bad news that there staying for 2 weeks!!!
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"If this is going to be the worst week of your life, why don't you have the champagne out celebrating the fact that you got off lightly?
Yes iv had a very sheltered life!
Like iv said on many of occasions in this post I was being melodramatic!
It's not the worst week of my life but like iv said I do feel uncomfortable in my home.
Anyway I'm going to get dressed and go face the music, say hello and get in my van and go out for the day!
It's horrible not to feel comfortable in your own home. I rented a room in a house years ago and never felt settled, I used to spend a lot of time driving around & in Starbucks."
Starbucks is an ingenious idea! |
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What if your housemate has actually told her parents more is going on between you both than there actually is, which is nothing going by what you say.
This might not be your worst few weeks but it could end up being rather entertaining for us all if your housemates folks do think there is something going on between you and their daughter Let us know how it pans out. |
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"What if your housemate has actually told her parents more is going on between you both than there actually is, which is nothing going by what you say.
This might not be your worst few weeks but it could end up being rather entertaining for us all if your housemates folks do think there is something going on between you and their daughter Let us know how it pans out."
Haha I don't think it's so much my housemate telling her parents anything is going on but more the fact her mum is from another generation and culture that might not quite understand how or why a single man and woman live together!
Also the farms beautiful so it's set in a romantic setting!!
It is strange she calls me son straight away??
Maybe that's a language thing though.
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"Update
So I just went and welcomed my housemates parents, it went ok I made a little joke about already meeting the mum!
I shaked hands with the dad the mum insisted on a kiss and she already call me son!
They mean well and I'm going to make as much effort as I can but still not that pleased about it
Also I just got some bad news that there staying for 2 weeks!!!
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I do think your housemate should have consulted you before she invited them over |
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right.
Why would I buy her flowers!
I'm already giving up my front room, sharing my one shower and letting them have the run of the cottage!
Plus I'm actively making effort to stay away from my own home so they can have family time.
Well since you're so begrudging of their presence, you'll definitely have a rotten week. Little things like a bunch of flowers and making a personal effort can go a long way. I'd see about taking them out and showing them the sights, sharing some meals. Act like a gracious host. They may even ask you over to theirs. "
This is totally the best thing to do.
Whilst she shouldn't have barged into your room it's not the end of the world. It's a big deal because of your attitude. You're not able to do anything about them staying for the week. Your housemate pays the bills too and most people have friends or family visiting now and again. The only thing you can change is the way you're dealing with it. Be charming, be kind and be a decent housemate. Moaning about it just makes you feel worse. Embrace it an not only will you feel like a better person but your housemates family will be glad she lives with such a good guy. |
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"I live in a houseshare with a Mauritius woman, her mum and dad are staying for a week on holiday.
After 5 minutes of being here the mum walks straight in my room unannounced and catches me in my boxer shorts laying on my bed, we both stare at eachother silently for the longest 10 seconds of my life and then she closes my door, awkward!
What a great introduction!
My housemate has already warned me and apologised in advance for her mum who is likely to try and mother me and arrange a marriage between us!
I'm really not the kind of guy who handles mothering very well, why can't my housemate just tell her to leave me alone!
What's the best way of dealing with this situation??? I want to be left alone as much as possible but can't be rude???
I might go stay in a hotel for a week!
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Suck it up cupcake! Sounds like the mum was sizing you up!
As are the forum of fab and you have been found wanting!
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"I live in a houseshare with a Mauritius woman, her mum and dad are staying for a week on holiday.
After 5 minutes of being here the mum walks straight in my room unannounced and catches me in my boxer shorts laying on my bed, we both stare at eachother silently for the longest 10 seconds of my life and then she closes my door, awkward!
What a great introduction!
My housemate has already warned me and apologised in advance for her mum who is likely to try and mother me and arrange a marriage between us!
I'm really not the kind of guy who handles mothering very well, why can't my housemate just tell her to leave me alone!
What's the best way of dealing with this situation??? I want to be left alone as much as possible but can't be rude???
I might go stay in a hotel for a week!
Suck it up cupcake! Sounds like the mum was sizing you up!
As are the forum of fab and you have been found wanting!
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right.
Why would I buy her flowers!
I'm already giving up my front room, sharing my one shower and letting them have the run of the cottage!
Plus I'm actively making effort to stay away from my own home so they can have family time.
Well since you're so begrudging of their presence, you'll definitely have a rotten week. Little things like a bunch of flowers and making a personal effort can go a long way. I'd see about taking them out and showing them the sights, sharing some meals. Act like a gracious host. They may even ask you over to theirs.
This is totally the best thing to do.
Whilst she shouldn't have barged into your room it's not the end of the world. It's a big deal because of your attitude. You're not able to do anything about them staying for the week. Your housemate pays the bills too and most people have friends or family visiting now and again. The only thing you can change is the way you're dealing with it. Be charming, be kind and be a decent housemate. Moaning about it just makes you feel worse. Embrace it an not only will you feel like a better person but your housemates family will be glad she lives with such a good guy. "
2 weeks it turns out, lucky me! |
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"I've got the perfect solution...
Organise a gang bang round yours!
Have the parents checking into a hotel in no time!! "
Thats a great solution, but in reality the people that would turn up are men!! |
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right.
Why would I buy her flowers!
I'm already giving up my front room, sharing my one shower and letting them have the run of the cottage!
Plus I'm actively making effort to stay away from my own home so they can have family time.
Well since you're so begrudging of their presence, you'll definitely have a rotten week. Little things like a bunch of flowers and making a personal effort can go a long way. I'd see about taking them out and showing them the sights, sharing some meals. Act like a gracious host. They may even ask you over to theirs.
This is totally the best thing to do.
Whilst she shouldn't have barged into your room it's not the end of the world. It's a big deal because of your attitude. You're not able to do anything about them staying for the week. Your housemate pays the bills too and most people have friends or family visiting now and again. The only thing you can change is the way you're dealing with it. Be charming, be kind and be a decent housemate. Moaning about it just makes you feel worse. Embrace it an not only will you feel like a better person but your housemates family will be glad she lives with such a good guy.
2 weeks it turns out, lucky me! "
Well step up and get on with it then! |
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"Buy the mother some flowers and make the most of the week. They are probably wonderful people and you'll most likely enjoy their stay if you handle it right.
Why would I buy her flowers!
I'm already giving up my front room, sharing my one shower and letting them have the run of the cottage!
Plus I'm actively making effort to stay away from my own home so they can have family time.
Well since you're so begrudging of their presence, you'll definitely have a rotten week. Little things like a bunch of flowers and making a personal effort can go a long way. I'd see about taking them out and showing them the sights, sharing some meals. Act like a gracious host. They may even ask you over to theirs.
This is totally the best thing to do.
Whilst she shouldn't have barged into your room it's not the end of the world. It's a big deal because of your attitude. You're not able to do anything about them staying for the week. Your housemate pays the bills too and most people have friends or family visiting now and again. The only thing you can change is the way you're dealing with it. Be charming, be kind and be a decent housemate. Moaning about it just makes you feel worse. Embrace it an not only will you feel like a better person but your housemates family will be glad she lives with such a good guy.
2 weeks it turns out, lucky me!
Well step up and get on with it then! "
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If you have spent lengthy time traveling to places like Peru, I am sure you will have received other peoples' hospitality, or if not, you may need to take advantage of it on your next trip. So why not act graciously now, you never know when you might really welcome a similar situation yourself. Or you might need a friend or family to stay with you at some point.
Anyway, you can't really complain. Your profile says you accommodate! |
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"If you have spent lengthy time traveling to places like Peru, I am sure you will have received other peoples' hospitality, or if not, you may need to take advantage of it on your next trip. So why not act graciously now, you never know when you might really welcome a similar situation yourself. Or you might need a friend or family to stay with you at some point.
Anyway, you can't really complain. Your profile says you accommodate!"
Haha I lived in the Amazon for a year so no hospitality other than from the spiders and rats ect!
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"I've got the perfect solution...
Organise a gang bang round yours!
Have the parents checking into a hotel in no time!!
Thats a great solution, but in reality the people that would turn up are men!! "
Doh! Sorry thinking with my minge again |
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OP firstly this thread will have taught you a few things:
Everything you say, every word you use, will be taken literally, ie the 'worst week of my life'.
Everything will be sexual, ie the mother coming into the room will obviously be coming in for sex.
Words will be put into your mouth ie; the Mauritions are not animals, statement.
And of course you should be grateful that you live in a cottage with stables in a romantic setting rather than a cardboard box under a bridge, regardless of the fact you pay for the right.
I wouldn't be happy with people walking into my room either, you have the right to privacy and you don't have to be grateful for it.
It is unfortunately the pitfalls of house sharing. If you try and get along with them then it won't be quite so awkward for you. Hope it goes well |
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"I've got the perfect solution...
Organise a gang bang round yours!
Have the parents checking into a hotel in no time!!
Thats a great solution, but in reality the people that would turn up are men!!
Doh! Sorry thinking with my minge again "
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"OP firstly this thread will have taught you a few things:
Everything you say, every word you use, will be taken literally, ie the 'worst week of my life'.
Everything will be sexual, ie the mother coming into the room will obviously be coming in for sex.
Words will be put into your mouth ie; the Mauritions are not animals, statement.
And of course you should be grateful that you live in a cottage with stables in a romantic setting rather than a cardboard box under a bridge, regardless of the fact you pay for the right.
I wouldn't be happy with people walking into my room either, you have the right to privacy and you don't have to be grateful for it.
It is unfortunately the pitfalls of house sharing. If you try and get along with them then it won't be quite so awkward for you. Hope it goes well "
Yeah I agree, I dont feel grateful though I work hard and pay to live here
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I read a fair few posts, but not all on the thread - do you not think you're being a little dramatic?
If you need to deal with it, then do it, can't be hard to be upfront and fair, whilst being nice as possible. I guess you have boundaries with your housemate, sure she would understand. |
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"I read a fair few posts, but not all on the thread - do you not think you're being a little dramatic?
If you need to deal with it, then do it, can't be hard to be upfront and fair, whilst being nice as possible. I guess you have boundaries with your housemate, sure she would understand. "
Yes I am obviously being melodramatic, it's hardly the worst week of my life!
That being said, I'm not bloody happy, and I'm being polite to her parents and cleaning there piss off my toilet, I'm just blowing off steam on the forum! |
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