Back in the day we where growing up and started to get sexual, everything we did and learnt was by trial and error.
Today so much sexual knowledge can be gained through literature, on and off the internet, how to have an orgasm, how tongive an orgasm, how to experiment with your body..
Anything you want to know is out there.
So if you had the choice would it still be trial and error or would you read up on everything first.
Personally I would still go with trial and error, but as a woman it would be nice to have been able to discuss the fact that I wasn't "odd" because I thought of sex differently to my friends |
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over a year ago
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"Such a giggle thinking back, first time I gave a blowjob I literally put my mouth over it and blew  would of been easier if they had called it a suckjob"
So true. Strange terminology. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read up on the female orgasm.
Cosmopolitan Magazine told me how to give a woman 10 orgasms a Day
FHM learnt me how to give her 5 orgasms a day.
Womans Own learnt me how to knit one lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely the old way, it was all so exciting and unexpected, not knowing what to do and so on...
These day's there is nothing new or unexpected everything is available to view I'm one form or another.where is the excitement?
The thrill?
How many lad's these day's have ever lived the ecstasy that was finding a porn mag in a bush and sitting goggle eyed with your mate's looking thru it in amazement and wonder with a hard on like a stick of rock?? |
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"I think one of the first things I ever typed into a search engine was 'naked women' 
My eldest son's was "big bobbies". He's 14 next week & no better!!!!!
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my son had his friend here and I heard him boasting about his " porn" so I made him show me, in don't know where they where from but it was folded up page 3s  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think one of the first things I ever typed into a search engine was 'naked women' "
My eldest did that too,much to my dismay when I took the pc to be repaired,and asked them to save the pics on it.
How was I supposed to know they were good save every pic viewed too!  |
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By *aaLaaWoman
over a year ago
Pontesbury |
I think I preferred learning through trial and error. With so much porn available nowadays I have 16 year old lads who work for me worried that they're not doing it right because their not getting anal!
I think we grew up learning what we (and a few readers wives) wanted rather than being told that we had to finish with a cum shot for the camera! |
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"I think one of the first things I ever typed into a search engine was 'naked women' "
How old were you?
I was about 20 before I got anywhere near the Internet. Tell you what, now I feel ancient! I bet half the folk in here have no idea about life before the World Wide Web!
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"I think one of the first things I ever typed into a search engine was 'naked women'
How old were you?
I was about 20 before I got anywhere near the Internet. Tell you what, now I
feel ancient! I bet half the folk in here
have no idea about life before the World
Wide Web!
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It was about 1994 I think. I remember all the different search engines and someone said use google so I did and it was about 100 times faster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's the trouble today - most people, especially those under 30, do everything like they've just read the book of instructions...
Nobody seems to want to communicate - to actually try to find out what you want, or what might be nice to try -
It's just dive in, fiddle about, and bonk by the book...
It's boring - so utterly boring - I'd rather sit at home eating strawberry cupcakes and watching Inspector Montalbano.... at least I'd be enjoying myself...!
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I think I was lucky. My formative years were all trial-and-error and it wasn't until my late teens/early twenties that the Internet was readily available (I still remember the text only days when you had to wait an aeon for pictures to download. As for videos, we're talking an hour for a 5 minute clip). It meant I could easily separate real life from porn and do what I wanted rather than what I might have thought was the norm if I'd grown up with hardcore porn on demand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trial and error. I don't remember anyone telling me how to give a blow job,but my first was a success. I married young so we learnt together,although he had been seeing an older girl before me. Someone I was seeing before I got married had a natural gift for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Such a giggle thinking back, first time I gave a blowjob I literally put my mouth over it and blew would of been easier if they had called it a suckjob
So true. Strange terminology."
It comes from 'below job', a term used by Victorian prostitutes for oral sex. If you say it fast it sounds like 'blow'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 33 /34 before I was able to make any use of the Internet for anything interesting. It took so long to download pictures using a modem that it wasn't really worth it. However it was about then I discovered the Adult chat rooms and that started broadening my horizons |
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