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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So a few times a year, I go out on the town, with my girlie friends, who are not swingers, but know that I am.
The next one is coming up soon, weather permitting.
I have been swinging for just under a year now, and in this time, i seem to attract fellow swingers, unconsciously, on my vanilla nights out. (The last three times actually)
So my question is this-
Do we send out vibes that attract swingers to us?
(Got there in the end!)
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"No I mean that they are people I have 'pulled' for want of a better term, or who have 'pulled' me, and it turns out that they are swingers"
Oh i understand now lmao. I thought you just went up to random people and asked them if they where swingers lol. I dont go out to pull here as the town is too small and everyone knows everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I mean that they are people I have 'pulled' for want of a better term, or who have 'pulled' me, and it turns out that they are swingers"
I think its because most swingers are confident and at ease themselves and they can sense each other.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think there's a certain confidence and 'twinkle' about those who swing or who are open minded enough to swing however I've never randomly identified anyone or been identified by anyone in vanilla land who does.
It's like wondering how affairs between married people begin. There must be something in there somewhere that lends itself to two people getting together suddenly. Surely it would only happen if both parties are open or 'susceptible' to it?
Well it makes sense to me. Maybe I think about things too much  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think there's a certain confidence and 'twinkle' about those who swing or who are open minded enough to swing however I've never randomly identified anyone or been identified by anyone in vanilla land who does.
It's like wondering how affairs between married people begin. There must be something in there somewhere that lends itself to two people getting together suddenly. Surely it would only happen if both parties are open or 'susceptible' to it?
Well it makes sense to me. Maybe I think about things too much "
Last time it happened I was stood with a mate in a busy bar and she said, 'c'mon then which one is the swinger in here?'
So I looked around and saw a fairly unassuming but decent looking guy in specs with his coat on, alone, back to the wall.
And went over and struck up a conversation. Hours later and what do you know, he mentions that he regularly attends a certain swinging club! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think there's a certain confidence and 'twinkle' about those who swing or who are open minded enough to swing however I've never randomly identified anyone or been identified by anyone in vanilla land who does.
It's like wondering how affairs between married people begin. There must be something in there somewhere that lends itself to two people getting together suddenly. Surely it would only happen if both parties are open or 'susceptible' to it?
Well it makes sense to me. Maybe I think about things too much
Last time it happened I was stood with a mate in a busy bar and she said, 'c'mon then which one is the swinger in here?'
So I looked around and saw a fairly unassuming but decent looking guy in specs with his coat on, alone, back to the wall.
And went over and struck up a conversation. Hours later and what do you know, he mentions that he regularly attends a certain swinging club!"
Stalker?  |
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