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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Morning all. Yeah, some people seem so desperate to get their end away.... Surely it must be a bit off putting if they're willing to travel far.
Harrogate,- well, depends how well we are getting on........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do have great memories of an amazing night in a very nice hotel just outside Harrogate though..... For the life of me I can't remember the hotel name though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure I'd travel 200 miles for a meet, but I've travelled a fair few miles in the past.
If the chemistry and attraction are there, why not?
Some people work all over the place, so 200 miles apart one day could be just around the corner the next.
I've known people with plenty of miles between them meet half way.
I don't see it as desperate, if the mutual interest is there go for it. |
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It depends if you really connect with sombody and it's obviously more than just a fuck. I regularly drive to jaydees for a night or a weekend out because I love the club. So why not travel for sombody that special enough. so long as they are willing to return the trip I don't see a problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's my point it is sort of off putting and a little weird "
Yeah. I can imagine it would be.....there's got to be a 'limit' as to what most people would consider a respectable 'yeah, I'll jump in the car and head over to you' distance without thinking about it. Above that, and it's just desperation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really people who will drive 200 miles plus to meet people on here ? "
We've done an 800 mile round trip to meet someone. No big deal.....travel is easy these days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really people who will drive 200 miles plus to meet people on here ? "
I say in my profile I'm not comfortable with guys travelling more than 30 miles of me. Past experience has shown me with travelling comes expectations! So they then lie and say an hour plus journey takes 20mins tops! I do have google maps you know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had someone travel from Newcastle to London on the train with me to stay with me in a nice hotel.
Is that any different?
Or, what if you are travelling anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's my point it is sort of off putting and a little weird "
Could be they travel a lot anyway and are just saying it's worth it, when really it's convenient? |
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"Is there really people who will drive 200 miles plus to meet people on here ? "
Him has travelled over 200 to be with me and I have for Him... but we are a couple and atm we can't be together all the time so each visit is precious and sooooo worth it! DG |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone has drove over a 100 miles to see me and i'm so glad he did as the meet was amazing....well it was for me also I'm meeting someone this week(been talking months) whos coming over a 100 miles but he is working this way so would be here anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really people who will drive 200 miles plus to meet people on here ?
I rode my bicycle 40plus miles to a meeting "
I think that days more about your energy than anything else haha. |
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199? I just view those who contact from long distance as possible meets if someone is coincidentally traveling for something else.
Everyone is different and I can appreciate that people don't always just want another hole.
As for expecting me to do very long distance travel only for that - I don't think so. |
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I'll travel for someone if it's someone I've known for quite a while on here. Might not necessarily be for sex might just be to finally meet that person you've been chatting to for months or over a year and you just want to meet them in person. It's unlikely I'd travel hundreds of miles just for sex with someone I don't really know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have travelled that far to meet at a club or a party
We wouldn't go that far for a stranger we have never met before unless we there for another reason anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've tried that and been stood up before. There are people I'm interested in meeting quite a way away, but unless I have a backup plan, it ain't happening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really people who will drive 200 miles plus to meet people on here ? "
I'd travel even 500 miles if it is to meet Rachel Khoo, Kerry Marie or Marion Cottilard |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I have travelled 200 miles to meet someone before but I'd only do it in exceptional circumstances.
The most I've travelled, though, is 550 miles, to meet someone I *really* wanted to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont expect men to travel 100's of miles to meet me. "
reading this thread has given me some food for thought too. perhaps one shouldnt read things like this, tmi. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I'll be travelling 240 miles today and will be meeting a lovely gentleman for reacquaintance. Difference is I don't drive, so the train is taking the strain, and I'm travelling for work.
If someone offered to drive miles just to see me I'd turn them down, because I know they don't mean it. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I've had men say "I can drive" when they've messaged me and I've pointed out they are hundreds of miles away.
I would be uncomfortable with the idea of anyone travelling that far to meet me, in case we weren't attracted to each other. It might be harder to say no if they'd travelled a long way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given the fickleness of people on here it would be unwise to travel a long distance to meet somebody I did not know"
Exactly the above!
I did an 80 mile round trip last Thursday night for a meet,but I wouldn't go much more than that. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I like to travel. Train, iPod, good book. If I get to meet someone I've been chatting to for a while whilst travelling then I have no issue. As to them travelling specifically to meet me; I'd rather meet halfway. Puts us both in the same boat. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I have travelled 200 miles to meet someone before but I'd only do it in exceptional circumstances.
The most I've travelled, though, is 550 miles, to meet someone I *really* wanted to meet."
These are one way distances so the round trip was twice that.
I didn't drive the 550 mile one. I flew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would for the right people! The majority of my friends are 100+ miles away.
The fact I am willing to travel to meet them doesn't make me desperate. It's not just about the sex but the connection too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does it really matter? Lots of people travel and if they believe there's connection it's hardly an odd thing to do in this modern day and age?
Some live in rural areas with limited choices of interested people. I agree desperate offers to travel may seem odd,but necessarily so, if both parties have chatted for awhile exploring mutual interest? |
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I have shared on here before about the lengths some will go, (in my case just to have their cock sucked)lasting no more than ten mins in some cases,& sometimes less..This highlights the power of sex/desire/etc.
I always point out the distance and the fact that each town & city will have people like me..mind you I am not complaining,just astonished how far people will go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id travel to surrounding cities for a meet. So leeds, Liverpool, Sheffield, Stoke. All within an hour and given it can take an hour to drive to other side of Manchester some days not really that far... X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I generally wouldn't.
I've met people who have travelled that distance as work schedules have allowed that to happen."
Still trying to find a second reason to travel to Berkshire |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Max I have travelled was 60 miles but that was 2 years ago. I only travel that now if im going to a club. And I don't expect guys to travel that to see me. As I like a social first and don't want to people to presume they will get play because they have travelled a distance. Travel now for a one to one meet maximum an hour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have to find another reason to go that far if I hadn't met them before, Work/sightseeing, I would probably stay in the area for 2 nights as well, I wouldn't even drive for 2 hours and come straight back home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really people who will drive 200 miles plus to meet people on here ?
I rode my bicycle 40plus miles to a meeting
I think that days more about your energy than anything else haha. "
or iv lots of time on me hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did a search in my area of men who fit my criteria,there were 6,half of them hadn't been online for weeks, I didn't like the look of the others
Sometimes you have to go further afield to find what you want
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I generally wouldn't.
I've met people who have travelled that distance as work schedules have allowed that to happen.
Still trying to find a second reason to travel to Berkshire "
Keep trying... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there really people who will drive 200 miles plus to meet people on here ? "
Furthest I'd travel would be to Harrogate. But only for those that like beards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not generally as just more convenient time wise to meet locally but for the right person who i have been talking to for ages then yes.
Even for a long distance meet would not have expectations that play would happen...obviously just hope! |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there really people who will drive 200 miles plus to meet people on here ? "
There may be a few but in my experience distance meets tend to cancel the most often so I always turn them down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont expect men to travel 100's of miles to meet me.
reading this thread has given me some food for thought too. perhaps one shouldnt read things like this, tmi."
I wouldn't either especially as I only meet socially first so makes it an expensive trip |
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I can understand the fuck-n-go merchants not willing to travel any distance, but, if you've spent weeks communicating with someone, written and verbally, and you just know in your bones you'll get on, regardless of the sex, then why not travel?
If the sex turns out to be shite there's always the spare room or the sofa but you've had yourself a nice mini break with some decent company. |
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I've been chatting to a girl in Shrewsbury for a long time.....
I went down for the weekend a couple of months ago.......and we had a lovely time.....
I arranged to do some trkking....and met in her in the evening...
We got on so well....we have arranged to do it again......x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love clubs and on our rare nights away we are happy to travel either for a club night or just because.
No reason we couldn't combine meeting some of our favourite fabbers with one of our trips away, even if just for a social. Our usual day when away by ourselves is a tasty lunch and cocktails, so happily meet site friends for that and see where things lead then or in the future.
So for us, yes we would travel some distance to meet others, but our meet would be am element of our trip rather than the only reason for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"About 2 miles. I guess 5 miles is max "
5 miles, this is a major policy shift for you buddy. Have you eaten to many cola bottles and going a little crazy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"About 2 miles. I guess 5 miles is max
5 miles, this is a major policy shift for you buddy. Have you eaten to many cola bottles and going a little crazy? " Yes I think I done, might had one or 2 cola bottle to much |
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