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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all,

A little advice needed. I've been on and off fab for years. And yeah occasionally the odd guy will look at my profile and message etc but in the last couple of weeks I have been getting viewed by guys at an alarming rate?

Have I missed something or have my settings changed or something? They aren't messaging me or troubling me I just wondered if there's an explanation for the sudden surge?

Thanks

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

How long have you had that specific avatar? The answer might be there...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get hundreds of men viewing my profile. It doesn't bother me because they rarely do anything more than look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it alarming. They're only looking, doesn't mean you're catching the ghey or your gonna get a queue of blokes wanting to roar up yer bum with their disco sticks

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If they look often enough ..They're hoping .youll catch the ghey..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Haha I'm not worried at all!

Some real funny people on here that feel the need to comment on anything and everything whether they know what they are talking about or not!

Cheers anyway. I'm in stitches

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't want people commenting, don't start the thread

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By *CoastFunMan over a year ago

Southampron

I get viewed by men too. It's going to happen, it is a swinging site after all. I even get messages sometimes but I just send a polite thanks but no thanks not my thing reply. Yet to have any abuse back from anyone either.

Don't worry about it, there can be many reasons. Some are just nosy, some want to maybe work out the type of person you are due to things you're posting in the forums, some might just want to suck your cock!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guys who are looking to meet/message people you've verified might be checking you out? I wouldn't worry about it, you won't catch anything!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, few million single men have joined recently lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

putting it in a thread does not help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they think its a couples profile looking at the profile pic?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they look often enough ..They're hoping .youll catch the ghey..

youve already got that, you need to sex a beast up to get shot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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The avatar is like a beacon to gay and bi men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of my views come from men,

I guess people don't know if your straight, gay or bi etc until they look.

Once they've looked and realise you're straight most won't contact you.

Also a lot of women / couples will look in 'stealth' mode (i.e. won't show up in 'looked at me') to prevent the guys they've looked at but aren't interested in contacting them.

Most men in here will have more guys viewing their profile I think.

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"Hi all,

Have I missed something or have my settings changed or something? They aren't messaging me or troubling me I just wondered if there's an explanation for the sudden surge?

Thanks "
What is your definition of an alarming rate .As it is mainly men that view pictures of cocks , that is what you would expect .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long have you had that specific avatar? The answer might be there..."

I just clicked on his profile to have a closer look at his avatar pic. Maybe other (nosey) guys are doing the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i might look to see if he has copied my cock pick, errr oh no his is a little bigger than mine, boo hoo xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive had blokes checking me out mostly from day one.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Hi all,

Have I missed something or have my settings changed or something? They aren't messaging me or troubling me I just wondered if there's an explanation for the sudden surge?

Thanks "

Your avatar is of a woman kissing your (I assume) cock, that kind of picture will attract men who are hoping that there are more pictures of this lady (who I am absolutely sure has given her permission to feature on your single male profile) in your gallery.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Have I missed something or have my settings changed or something? They aren't messaging me or troubling me I just wondered if there's an explanation for the sudden surge?

Thanks

I saw a pic of a woman's boobs only in one pic on a single mans profile, I didn't think that would be allowed?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Hi all,

Have I missed something or have my settings changed or something? They aren't messaging me or troubling me I just wondered if there's an explanation for the sudden surge?

Thanks

I saw a pic of a woman's boobs only in one pic on a single mans profile, I didn't think that would be allowed?"

If you report anything like that it will get sorted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have pictures of your cock.

People who are interested in cock will look

These may not all be women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Have I missed something or have my settings changed or something? They aren't messaging me or troubling me I just wondered if there's an explanation for the sudden surge?

Thanks

I saw a pic of a woman's boobs only in one pic on a single mans profile, I didn't think that would be allowed?

If you report anything like that it will get sorted."

Ah I couldn't see the option to report. Also are single guys allowed pics of them with women in them? I'm sure half of the women probably haven't given consent lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all,

Have I missed something or have my settings changed or something? They aren't messaging me or troubling me I just wondered if there's an explanation for the sudden surge?

Thanks "

You've had a few recent verifications, it's probably guys checking out other women's veris to see how genuine they seem, or see who they've been meeting... I've noticed more random views after verifications too...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Could be they're checking out recent or fabbed pics and looking for others.

A lot of male profiles can be women undercover, it's well known, according to a post I read.

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By *estsideukMan over a year ago

Hatfield area

Short answer - lots of reasons, don't worry about it. Long answer follows!

So I've occasionally looked at a male profile - reasons:

- first glance from the avatar, I thought it was one of my pics. Thankfully, never been true!

- I've been talking to a cpl/f and they've mentioned them/been verified by them, so I'm checking they're genuine. I'd say a small but significant proportion are quite obviously the same person, so always worth checking (yes, reported them!)

- before I've approached someone, read their veri's, then looked at the guys profiles. Am I likely to be their type, etc?

- looking for a guy to join a fb & I in a mmf. She may choose/shortlist but I still have a say!

To your question more generally, I think there has been a spike in new members which I think has increased my male visitor count (one person has told me they suggested looking at my profile text as a pointer). But also it spikes when I go on cam - what I'd call the "its late on a Friday, I'm s8, but I've had a few too many so I'm looking at these blokes cocks" effect

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Hi all,

Have I missed something or have my settings changed or something? They aren't messaging me or troubling me I just wondered if there's an explanation for the sudden surge?

Thanks

I saw a pic of a woman's boobs only in one pic on a single mans profile, I didn't think that would be allowed?

If you report anything like that it will get sorted.

Ah I couldn't see the option to report. Also are single guys allowed pics of them with women in them? I'm sure half of the women probably haven't given consent lol "

As far as I know as long as the women have consented, yes.

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

This is exactly what i was going to say. They are looking at you and thinking "well of she'll fuck him, why not me?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just looked at your profile. I love your decor! Dont worry..im female.