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"wish people dho I mge, if not interested would reply with some kind of acknowledgement It's manners shock cost not nothkng" From the FAQ's on site op, just so you know! There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages! It's not rude not to reply. Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? | |||
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"Oh btw OP, I can totally understand why getting no responses is frustrating for you. You've clearly spent a very long time on your profile, ensuring it shows you to your very best advantage and makes it clear you're someone every woman should be gagging to meet. I'm willing to bet an equal amount of effort goes into your messages. I can't understand why you don't have a queue." | |||
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"Op, if they replied with a "no thanks" would you message them back to say "ok, well thanks for replying"? If you would that would then DOUBLE the number of messages a woman or a couple gets. All it is doing is creating a rod for their own back. They'll either get abuse, or a thanks for replying massage, which is just more stuff to deal with from someone that they dont want to play with. " I'm quite happy to accept no reply in fact I delete messages from my sent box so I don't see when they've read or deleted! Just a nice surprise if I get a reply | |||
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"It's rarely possible to reply to all messages! And often a 'thank you, but not for me message' will then prompt a 'why not' reply ! " Or abuse on rare occasions from the bitter and immature ones! | |||
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"It's rarely possible to reply to all messages! And often a 'thank you, but not for me message' will then prompt a 'why not' reply ! Or abuse on rare occasions from the bitter and immature ones!" Yes, that too! | |||
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"Whoops I can't view the profile now !! Something I said ?" Sen a message and see if you get a reply | |||
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"Whoops I can't view the profile now !! Something I said ? Sen a message and see if you get a reply " Erm why would I ? | |||
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"Just use the site as you want, let others do the same and accept you won't always get a reply. Simple!" But but but but he wasted minutes of his time carefully crafting those fancy a fuck messages. They deserve recognition! | |||
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"It's taken over a year to lovingly craft thirteen words, some of them almost long words, into a beautiful hand crafted custom profile, I'd have thought the buggers would have at least seen the toilet that went into that and said something eh.... Some folk just make no effort." I would reply to this but I can't be bothered. Oh. Bugger. | |||
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"It's taken over a year to lovingly craft thirteen words, some of them almost long words, into a beautiful hand crafted custom profile, I'd have thought the buggers would have at least seen the toilet that went into that and said something eh.... Some folk just make no effort. I would reply to this but I can't be bothered. Oh. Bugger." But why can't you ..... Lol | |||
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"It's taken over a year to lovingly craft thirteen words, some of them almost long words, into a beautiful hand crafted custom profile, I'd have thought the buggers would have at least seen the toilet that went into that and said something eh.... Some folk just make no effort. I would reply to this but I can't be bothered. Oh. Bugger. But why can't you ..... Lol " Don't question me, dammit! I'll use this site as I like! So there! | |||
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"It's taken over a year to lovingly craft thirteen words, some of them almost long words, into a beautiful hand crafted custom profile, I'd have thought the buggers would have at least seen the toilet that went into that and said something eh.... Some folk just make no effort." Toilet?....doh! Toil....Toil! Christ I hate being an idiot... | |||
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"It's taken over a year to lovingly craft thirteen words, some of them almost long words, into a beautiful hand crafted custom profile, I'd have thought the buggers would have at least seen the toilet that went into that and said something eh.... Some folk just make no effort. I would reply to this but I can't be bothered. Oh. Bugger. But why can't you ..... Lol Don't question me, dammit! I'll use this site as I like! So there! " Why must you use it as you like? | |||
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"Its not thought of as bad manners here to NOT reply some folk get hundreds of messeges so it would be to much to reply to all of them i dont always answer messeges sent to me cus ifi say no thanks to them then i get more messeges from them saying "why dont you want to meet me, slag slapper i didnt want to meet you anyway" type thing !!!!" I replied to my last 'but why?' message. From his reaction, he hadn't wanted to hear the truth. | |||
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"Its not thought of as bad manners here to NOT reply some folk get hundreds of messeges so it would be to much to reply to all of them i dont always answer messeges sent to me cus ifi say no thanks to them then i get more messeges from them saying "why dont you want to meet me, slag slapper i didnt want to meet you anyway" type thing !!!! I replied to my last 'but why?' message. From his reaction, he hadn't wanted to hear the truth. " Haha, I've had that before. I don't understand why people pursue the no thanks with why, what's wrong with me type questions. Total waste of time. | |||
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"OP there's a limit of 100 messages you can send in a 24 hour period now if you as a lady have logged into anymore than 100 messages a day (yes that is possible as men seriously out number us ladies) so if you want to have a good conversation with friends and people that actually interest you there is definitely no physical way you can reply to all the messages you've received that day so take a no reply as a no thank you. Look at it another way would it not be a little soul destroying and a knock to the confidence if you sent your 100 messages to get 100 replies of no thanks not my type? Finally as another poster did mention do your reply to every piece of junk mail you receive through the letter box as those companies have taken the time to send you a nicely crafted advertisement about your services? Or do you simply throw it in the bin? Do you stay on the phone with pushy telemarketers who have taken the time to call you and can't take no for answer? Or do you just hang up on them? " 100 messages. Where's that info from? I was having a few conversations the other day and used well over that amount | |||
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"OP there's a limit of 100 messages you can send in a 24 hour period now if you as a lady have logged into anymore than 100 messages a day (yes that is possible as men seriously out number us ladies) so if you want to have a good conversation with friends and people that actually interest you there is definitely no physical way you can reply to all the messages you've received that day so take a no reply as a no thank you. Look at it another way would it not be a little soul destroying and a knock to the confidence if you sent your 100 messages to get 100 replies of no thanks not my type? Finally as another poster did mention do your reply to every piece of junk mail you receive through the letter box as those companies have taken the time to send you a nicely crafted advertisement about your services? Or do you simply throw it in the bin? Do you stay on the phone with pushy telemarketers who have taken the time to call you and can't take no for answer? Or do you just hang up on them? 100 messages. Where's that info from? I was having a few conversations the other day and used well over that amount " I don't think there's a limit as a site supporter but before I was one, I'd regularly run out of messages chatting to people. | |||
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"Its not thought of as bad manners here to NOT reply some folk get hundreds of messeges so it would be to much to reply to all of them i dont always answer messeges sent to me cus ifi say no thanks to them then i get more messeges from them saying "why dont you want to meet me, slag slapper i didnt want to meet you anyway" type thing !!!! I replied to my last 'but why?' message. From his reaction, he hadn't wanted to hear the truth. Haha, I've had that before. I don't understand why people pursue the no thanks with why, what's wrong with me type questions. Total waste of time." Quite. I usually ignore them but on this occasion I decided to answer for a change. The person in question didn't fit my profile in 6 or 7 different ways, so I had plenty to work with. It was my fault for being so fussy though, not his for ignoring my profile and then asking why. | |||
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"I often message guys first and don't always get a reply. Am I going to waste a nano second of my time fretting about how rude and bad mannered they are? Hell no, I've got better things to do with my time. " Same here. | |||
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"Its not thought of as bad manners here to NOT reply some folk get hundreds of messeges so it would be to much to reply to all of them i dont always answer messeges sent to me cus ifi say no thanks to them then i get more messeges from them saying "why dont you want to meet me, slag slapper i didnt want to meet you anyway" type thing !!!! I replied to my last 'but why?' message. From his reaction, he hadn't wanted to hear the truth. Haha, I've had that before. I don't understand why people pursue the no thanks with why, what's wrong with me type questions. Total waste of time. Quite. I usually ignore them but on this occasion I decided to answer for a change. The person in question didn't fit my profile in 6 or 7 different ways, so I had plenty to work with. It was my fault for being so fussy though, not his for ignoring my profile and then asking why. " I just block people now after a no thanks. I can't be arsed with all the crap that comes back sometimes. They usually message a few days/weeks/months later trying to change my mind or forgetting totally they messaged me before anyway so it stops all that. | |||
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"OP there's a limit of 100 messages you can send in a 24 hour period now if you as a lady have logged into anymore than 100 messages a day (yes that is possible as men seriously out number us ladies) so if you want to have a good conversation with friends and people that actually interest you there is definitely no physical way you can reply to all the messages you've received that day so take a no reply as a no thank you. Look at it another way would it not be a little soul destroying and a knock to the confidence if you sent your 100 messages to get 100 replies of no thanks not my type? Finally as another poster did mention do your reply to every piece of junk mail you receive through the letter box as those companies have taken the time to send you a nicely crafted advertisement about your services? Or do you simply throw it in the bin? Do you stay on the phone with pushy telemarketers who have taken the time to call you and can't take no for answer? Or do you just hang up on them? 100 messages. Where's that info from? I was having a few conversations the other day and used well over that amount " Sorry I should of said the limit doesn't apply if your a site supporter | |||
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"wish people dho I mge, if not interested would reply with some kind of acknowledgement It's manners shock cost not nothkng" Do you reply to junk mail that people put through your door? Same thing. | |||
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"wish people dho I mge, if not interested would reply with some kind of acknowledgement It's manners shock cost not nothkng" You have your answer in this thread. Watch out for the threads where women and couples get a mail from someone they like.. but when they reply get no response back. Funny how attitudes change then. | |||
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"wish people dho I mge, if not interested would reply with some kind of acknowledgement It's manners shock cost not nothkng You have your answer in this thread. Watch out for the threads where women and couples get a mail from someone they like.. but when they reply get no response back. Funny how attitudes change then. " Not from me they don't. I'm picky and respect the right of anyone else to be picky. I never expect replies. It's great if I get them but if not, onward! That some people aren't interested in chatting to me *shrug* | |||
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"wish people dho I mge, if not interested would reply with some kind of acknowledgement It's manners shock cost not nothkng" Innit brah! | |||
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"I cnduo't bvleiee taht I culod aulaclty uesdtannrd waht I was rdnaieg. Unisg the icndeblire pweor of the hmuan mnid, aocdcrnig to rseecrah at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mttaer in waht oderr the lterets in a wrod are, the olny irpoamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rhgit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whoutit a pboerlm. Tihs is bucseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey ltteer by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Aaznmig, huh? Yaeh and I awlyas tghhuot slelinpg was ipmorantt! See if yuor fdreins can raed tihs too. " I didn't know you know Sanskrit | |||
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"I cnduo't bvleiee taht I culod aulaclty uesdtannrd waht I was rdnaieg. Unisg the icndeblire pweor of the hmuan mnid, aocdcrnig to rseecrah at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mttaer in waht oderr the lterets in a wrod are, the olny irpoamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rhgit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whoutit a pboerlm. Tihs is bucseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey ltteer by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Aaznmig, huh? Yaeh and I awlyas tghhuot slelinpg was ipmorantt! See if yuor fdreins can raed tihs too. " It's a fun example but in reality doesn't work. listen / silent rescue / secure live / evil / vile / veil | |||
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"It's a fun example but in reality doesn't work. listen / silent rescue / secure live / evil / vile / veil " Verbs, nouns and adjectives as well as context make it more than a "fun example". Which is why you can read this. Then once you have read this you will have pronounced "read" in two different ways. | |||
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"Yes I know. It's a fun example but doesn't work in reality. Or should I say when longer pieces with deeper meanings are needed. arcs/scar/cars smile/limes/miles/slime arms/mars/rams meats/steam/teams/tames/mates " It says, though, when the first and last letter are correct, so most of your examples don't apply. The rest, mainly, will be clear from the context. | |||
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"There are circa 180,000 active "single" profiles on FB 99% of which are male. So you are part of the majority of participants in the FAB world. Just think of sending a message to a lovely lady or gorgeous couple as buying a lottery ticket........you play because of a small chance you may get lucky. If your numbers don't come you don't write to Camelot saying you are disappointed? Just keep playing one day you will win...............it may only be a tenner but you will think you are a millionaire. Alternatively man up and don't take this malarkey so seriously! " 99%? You counted? That must have taken ages. Did you have to start again when anyone joined or left? | |||
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"Yes I know. It's a fun example but doesn't work in reality. Or should I say when longer pieces with deeper meanings are needed. arcs/scar/cars smile/limes/miles/slime arms/mars/rams meats/steam/teams/tames/mates It says, though, when the first and last letter are correct, so most of your examples don't apply. The rest, mainly, will be clear from the context." This is because when scanning a word the eyes don't move linearly across the word, but to the first and last letter before moving back to the start of the word and Then the eyes read the bits in the middle. This study was first done by the University is St Andrews over 20 years ago, but I think the paper was published about 15 years ago. First and last letter, the type of word (noun, adjective, verb) and context. | |||
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"There are circa 180,000 active "single" profiles on FB 99% of which are male." You never see more than 27K profiles online. In your local area you will have a few hundred to a couple of thousand profiles. There is a ratio of between 7:1 and 10:1 male to female (thank you Peach Perfect for your study!). So if there are 280 singles online in your area there will be maybe 30 and 70 females and over 200 males. So a big difference,but not 99% male. | |||
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