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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The biggest sexual organ is the brain.are you saying when it goes in one ear n out the other it's completelym missing your brain 
And before all you do gooders start jumping up n down,the comment was firmly tongue in cheek |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totally agree but in life they say to recieve you must give to so just curious do you in turn make others feel sexy (not horny as you state) ?  "
I would hope there's tines I do....you would have to ask them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The biggest sexual organ is the brain.are you saying when it goes in one ear n out the other it's completelym missing your brain
And before all you do gooders start jumping up n down,the comment was firmly tongue in cheek"
no I'm saying that just someone saying to me ...oh you are sexy this that and the other doesn't make me feel sexy . I agree the brain is the biggest sexual organ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have never felt sexy.
Even when having sex & they say I'm sexy, I don't feel it.
I just feel bemused that they think/say it about me.  "
its only happened a few times ....sadly |
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Like you intimate its not want you ultimately say but what you do in making another or others feel sexy....on that basis the effort one puts in to achieving such is known by you and felt by others. I was trying to ascertain if you feel you give as much as you ultimately want to recieve...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never felt sexy.
Even when having sex & they say I'm sexy, I don't feel it.
I just feel bemused that they think/say it about me. "
Miss I, really? I find that really sad. You are sexy, and I can just imagine what the men who enjoy those times with you think of you. I hope in the future you can feel as sexy as you are. 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Like you intimate its not want you ultimately say but what you do in making another or others feel sexy....on that basis the effort one puts in to achieving such is known by you and felt by others. I was trying to ascertain if you feel you give as much as you ultimately want to recieve......"
yes I do
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never felt sexy.
Even when having sex & they say I'm sexy, I don't feel it.
I just feel bemused that they think/say it about me. "
Thats really sad. I think the first step is to believe it yourself be kind to yourself then it's easy to accept from others x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never felt sexy.
Even when having sex & they say I'm sexy, I don't feel it.
I just feel bemused that they think/say it about me.
Thats really sad. I think the first step is to believe it yourself be kind to yourself then it's easy to accept from others x"
I'm my own worst enemy & I'm on a bit of a downer on myself at the moment which doesn't help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feeling sexy about yourself is being happy in the skin your in.
I never used to feel good about myself . Fab and some wonderful friends plus mindfulness has made me feel great.
There are some jolly sexy and really brilliant people on here, you know who you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure feeling sexy is down to confidence and I have to say Endorphins.
I always feel great after the gym , although I don't feel sexy getting a sweat on doing it, nor do I feel sexy in my swimsuit when I'm trying to get my half a mile in.
Once I'm home, hair washed and died, then I feel pretty damned good about myself
Sexiness starts from within.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure feeling sexy is down to confidence and I have to say Endorphins.
I always feel great after the gym , although I don't feel sexy getting a sweat on doing it, nor do I feel sexy in my swimsuit when I'm trying to get my half a mile in.
Once I'm home, hair washed and died, then I feel pretty damned good about myself
Sexiness starts from within...."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times "
For sure 
So many people just say it to get a fuck and don't mean it.
Very few actually make me feel sexy or make me want them as they're so lazy. |
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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times "
i think it's easy for men/women to tell you that you look sexy ..... but as you say to be made to feel sexy by someone is one of the biggest turn ons for me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
i think it's easy for men/women to tell you that you look sexy ..... but as you say to be made to feel sexy by someone is one of the biggest turn ons for me xx"
I don't tell people they look sexy, if they don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree. On here its just words. And most will say anything.
However if someone can make you feel sexy or beautiful or even special, then that's a real treasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never felt sexy.
Even when having sex & they say I'm sexy, I don't feel it.
I just feel bemused that they think/say it about me. "
I feel exactly the same way, thank you for putting it so eloquently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree. On here its just words. And most will say anything.
However if someone can make you feel sexy or beautiful or even special, then that's a real treasure. "
Definitely just words on here by the majority.
I have a few send me Goid a Morning messages, but often wonder if it's just a routine of theirs, sending a good morning to all the women in their friends/hotlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never felt sexy.
Even when having sex & they say I'm sexy, I don't feel it.
I just feel bemused that they think/say it about me.
I feel exactly the same way, thank you for putting it so eloquently. "
If you really don't like yourself THAT much, I find it hard to understand that you can still meet people and have sex.
If I hated myself or better put, really didn't like anything about me, I wouldn't be meeting. |
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Even when having sex & they say I'm sexy, I don't feel it.
I just feel bemused that they think/say it about me.
I feel exactly the same way, thank you for putting it so eloquently. "
There's truth in that..feeling sexy is in our own mind..andnot what other tell us.
That's why I can sometime feel I look nice(or sexy..even if Im not) when Im alone dressing up.
I dont feel sexy when meeting ... instead I feel self conscious and nervous.  |
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times "
Indeed - and it can be such a tiny, simple thing that will do it - as simple as a single kiss on a part on your body that hasn't been kissed for a while,or a casual remark.....  |
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times "
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?"
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk "
o h I don't think so . I do get a thrill getting messages from friends on here , be they seductive , teasing or just hello
there are some really lovely people here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?"
I think the OP means the difference between print and words x |
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk "
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
o h I don't think so . I do get a thrill getting messages from friends on here , be they seductive , teasing or just hello
there are some really lovely people here "
It depends how many others they are saying it too Taff |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't."
That is very true. It makes me very cynical on here. I like the ones who chat to me normally, about every day things. Not about my boobs or anything sexual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't.
That is very true. It makes me very cynical on here. I like the ones who chat to me normally, about every day things. Not about my boobs or anything sexual."
Me too, I get so bored of the sexual talk all the time, it's like seriously, is there nothing more to you than flirty banter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
o h I don't think so . I do get a thrill getting messages from friends on here , be they seductive , teasing or just hello
there are some really lovely people here
It depends how many others they are saying it too Taff "
true it does dilute the words if they are being said over and over to many different people.
some guys will say anything to have sexual intercourse with a woman or couple on here.
It depends what the person is looking for and methods of getting it I guess.
For me I love chatting to my pals , I will always complement a lad. I enjoy a social as much as anything. Its great when you get to meet some one yyou have been chatting too.
I think most ladies can guess when a chap is laying it on just for one reason and if they are genuine in their affection |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
o h I don't think so . I do get a thrill getting messages from friends on here , be they seductive , teasing or just hello
there are some really lovely people here
It depends how many others they are saying it too Taff
true it does dilute the words if they are being said over and over to many different people.
some guys will say anything to have sexual intercourse with a woman or couple on here.
It depends what the person is looking for and methods of getting it I guess.
For me I love chatting to my pals , I will always complement a lad. I enjoy a social as much as anything. Its great when you get to meet some one yyou have been chatting too.
I think most ladies can guess when a chap is laying it on just for one reason and if they are genuine in their affection "
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By *P2903Couple
over a year ago
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"I have never felt sexy.
Even when having sex & they say I'm sexy, I don't feel it.
I just feel bemused that they think/say it about me.
Thats really sad. I think the first step is to believe it yourself be kind to yourself then it's easy to accept from others x
I'm my own worst enemy & I'm on a bit of a downer on myself at the moment which doesn't help "
I can be quite the same, P makes me feel sexy sometimes and gives me compliments all the time. But when other people say it I don't believe a word of it, it's all about how you feel inside occasionally I'll have the odd day when I look in the mirror and think hmm Ok not bad then very little effort can make me feel sexy. Other days you could say anything in the world and I wouldn't believe it lol
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't.
That is very true. It makes me very cynical on here. I like the ones who chat to me normally, about every day things. Not about my boobs or anything sexual.
Me too, I get so bored of the sexual talk all the time, it's like seriously, is there nothing more to you than flirty banter "
Does sex talk or flirty banter alone ever actually work? Always seems a little naive and childish to me. It's best just to talk normally to someone maybe with the odd bit of flirting thrown in. Then you can begin to see the true person coming through more. That's what I try to do anyway. |
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
o h I don't think so . I do get a thrill getting messages from friends on here , be they seductive , teasing or just hello
there are some really lovely people here
It depends how many others they are saying it too Taff
true it does dilute the words if they are being said over and over to many different people.
some guys will say anything to have sexual intercourse with a woman or couple on here.
It depends what the person is looking for and methods of getting it I guess.
For me I love chatting to my pals , I will always complement a lad. I enjoy a social as much as anything. Its great when you get to meet some one yyou have been chatting too.
I think most ladies can guess when a chap is laying it on just for one reason and if they are genuine in their affection "
Oh there are some really skillful deceivers around Taff, especially the Dark Triad types.
I saw a good quote recently - "People may doubt what you say but they will always believe what you do."
I agree that words can be pretty meaningless. |
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't.
That is very true. It makes me very cynical on here. I like the ones who chat to me normally, about every day things. Not about my boobs or anything sexual.
Me too, I get so bored of the sexual talk all the time, it's like seriously, is there nothing more to you than flirty banter
Does sex talk or flirty banter alone ever actually work? Always seems a little naive and childish to me. It's best just to talk normally to someone maybe with the odd bit of flirting thrown in. Then you can begin to see the true person coming through more. That's what I try to do anyway."
I think it works for some men and women... Then, they must be very fucking boring |
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't.
That is very true. It makes me very cynical on here. I like the ones who chat to me normally, about every day things. Not about my boobs or anything sexual."
I refuse to talk sex flirting is good but once they start talking sex.and they don't know me it bores me |
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't.
That is very true. It makes me very cynical on here. I like the ones who chat to me normally, about every day things. Not about my boobs or anything sexual.
Me too, I get so bored of the sexual talk all the time, it's like seriously, is there nothing more to you than flirty banter
Does sex talk or flirty banter alone ever actually work? Always seems a little naive and childish to me. It's best just to talk normally to someone maybe with the odd bit of flirting thrown in. Then you can begin to see the true person coming through more. That's what I try to do anyway.
I think it works for some men and women... Then, they must be very fucking boring "
I'm sure you're right. If that kind of shit works for you then you probably are a bit dull I prefer something a bit more grown up myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't.
That is very true. It makes me very cynical on here. I like the ones who chat to me normally, about every day things. Not about my boobs or anything sexual.
Me too, I get so bored of the sexual talk all the time, it's like seriously, is there nothing more to you than flirty banter
Does sex talk or flirty banter alone ever actually work? Always seems a little naive and childish to me. It's best just to talk normally to someone maybe with the odd bit of flirting thrown in. Then you can begin to see the true person coming through more. That's what I try to do anyway.
I think it works for some men and women... Then, they must be very fucking boring
I'm sure you're right. If that kind of shit works for you then you probably are a bit dull I prefer something a bit more grown up myself."
Im not that one dimensional... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't.
That is very true. It makes me very cynical on here. I like the ones who chat to me normally, about every day things. Not about my boobs or anything sexual.
Me too, I get so bored of the sexual talk all the time, it's like seriously, is there nothing more to you than flirty banter
Does sex talk or flirty banter alone ever actually work? Always seems a little naive and childish to me. It's best just to talk normally to someone maybe with the odd bit of flirting thrown in. Then you can begin to see the true person coming through more. That's what I try to do anyway.
I think it works for some men and women... Then, they must be very fucking boring
I'm sure you're right. If that kind of shit works for you then you probably are a bit dull I prefer something a bit more grown up myself."
Great arse by the way |
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"In telling someone they are sexy and making them feel sexy.I get told daily I'm sexy ( goes in one ear and out the other ) but the times someone makes me feel sexy( that's sexy not horny) are the best times
Whats wrong with telling a woman she is beautiful, and she makes you smile with a look and your heart race by saying your name?
It's wasted here on fab, that km kind of talk
I have to agree. Sadly some of the guys on here will say anything if they think it helps their chances of getting their leg over. Women must hear it all the time. They just can't tell the guys who genuinely mean it from the ones that don't.
That is very true. It makes me very cynical on here. I like the ones who chat to me normally, about every day things. Not about my boobs or anything sexual.
Me too, I get so bored of the sexual talk all the time, it's like seriously, is there nothing more to you than flirty banter
Does sex talk or flirty banter alone ever actually work? Always seems a little naive and childish to me. It's best just to talk normally to someone maybe with the odd bit of flirting thrown in. Then you can begin to see the true person coming through more. That's what I try to do anyway.
I think it works for some men and women... Then, they must be very fucking boring
I'm sure you're right. If that kind of shit works for you then you probably are a bit dull I prefer something a bit more grown up myself.
Great arse by the way "
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