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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fact I'm watching tv or the fact I'm a member of a swinging site?
Either way I doubt they'd bat an eyelid.
You're watching a t-girl? 
The swingy thingy.
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I'm watching Kick Ass 2... 
Quite a few close friends know I'm a swingle (is that the accepted term still?) and I doubt any other friends would be particularly bothered. |
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Definitely Shocked.. After all I'm old they think I sit and knit and play Farmville.
My work buddy thinks im hilarious however.
I have got her into Lovehoney and she has bought a body stocking and a basque.
The scratchy pastry cutter wheel is her secret santa this year  I will burst when she opens that in front of the rest of the staff  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Definitely Shocked.. After all I'm old they think I sit and knit and play Farmville.
My work buddy thinks im hilarious however.
I have got her into Lovehoney and she has bought a body stocking and a basque.
The scratchy pastry cutter wheel is her secret santa this year I will burst when she opens that in front of the rest of the staff "
Does she bake?  |
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"Definitely Shocked.. After all I'm old they think I sit and knit and play Farmville.
My work buddy thinks im hilarious however.
I have got her into Lovehoney and she has bought a body stocking and a basque.
The scratchy pastry cutter wheel is her secret santa this year I will burst when she opens that in front of the rest of the staff "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friends would be disappointed that I haven't got involved more and my family would just probably think I'm more of a hippy than they already do (I'm pretty liberal/left leaning compared to them).
I imagine everyone would be fairly curious. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"What would people you know say if they found out you were here doing what you do?
Keep it light.
You know me, what would you say?"
Well, I know you scared the living daylights out of both Ryan and me when you explained your more extreme side.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.
Me
I'm the family angel can do no wrong. They think I'm internet dating "
I'm not the family angel but they do think I'm internet dating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.
On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.
Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream |
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"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.
Me
I'm the family angel can do no wrong. They think I'm internet dating
I'm not the family angel but they do think I'm internet dating "
Only my best friend knows oh & a cousin who is on here with her partner & recognised me from my pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some friends know and our grown up kids.
Our kids are fine about it,we are always doing rather odd things so we don't seem to be able to surprise them any more, or so our daughter said when she turned on the news and there were her mum and dad cycling naked around Piccadilly Circus on one of the naked bike rides.
It's useful to tell them we are going out and where as a bit of a safety thing. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.
On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.
Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream "
Did you take her up on the offer?
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Mr's family know we're here and swing and I don't see mine so I wouldn't really care if they new
Would prefer friend not to know though "
This isn't so much about who knows but what those friends you would rather not know finding out. What would be their reaction, do you think?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mr's family know we're here and swing and I don't see mine so I wouldn't really care if they new
Would prefer friend not to know though
This isn't so much about who knows but what those friends you would rather not know finding out. What would be their reaction, do you think?
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They would probably be mortified
2 aquantences at work know though, 1 its never been spoke about with and the other we talk about it sometimes when we see each other |
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"What would people you know say if they found out you were here doing what you do?
Keep it light.
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They'd say I'd taken my workplace flirting several steps too far and I ought to be ashamed of myself and what have I been doing? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"What would people you know say if they found out you were here doing what you do?
Keep it light.
You know me, what would you say?
Well, I know you scared the living daylights out of both Ryan and me when you explained your more extreme side.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.
On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.
Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream
Did you take her up on the offer?
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No , I just took the iPad and bought her a new one . We never spoke about it again... She is very very conservative |
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"They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.
On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.
Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream
Did you take her up on the offer?
No , I just took the iPad and bought her a new one . We never spoke about it again... She is very very conservative "
That is how the family view me... Conservative. The older crew that is  cousins etc.
My daughter has been told to take all my *stuff and wipe it if I peg it. Would hate to cause heart attacks. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My closest friends know, as does my mother and one of my daughters. All are cool with it (obviously after the 101 questions they asked) so alls good!"
Would the people who don't know suspect?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My closest friends know, as does my mother and one of my daughters. All are cool with it (obviously after the 101 questions they asked) so alls good!
Would the people who don't know suspect?
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The most important people in my life all know, so wouldn't bother me if anyone else suspected.
The only person who don't know is my youngest daughter but she's 22 and has a "FWB" herself so nah, don't think she'd mind either!! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"some of my family are curious as to what happens in clubs and at parties, so I tell them, other family members think I'm a prostitute"
Why would they think that?
I found the curiosity about clubs and parties was fairly surface (no one wants or expects details) and lasted no more than a few weeks. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"They would never believe us! We are far to prim & proper
If you say so. 
I do say so
None of our vanilla friends know at all!
And I very much doubt they would ever guess  "
Even when they found my strange name in your phone? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.
On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.
Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream
Did you take her up on the offer?
No , I just took the iPad and bought her a new one . We never spoke about it again... She is very very conservative
That is how the family view me... Conservative. The older crew that is cousins etc.
My daughter has been told to take all my *stuff and wipe it if I peg it. Would hate to cause heart attacks."
I have arranged for my toy bags and BDSM stuff to go to a friend to sort out if I die. All the relevant bags and boxes are labelled to say they are not to be opened and they are to be sent directly to my friend. |
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"They would never believe us! We are far to prim & proper
If you say so.
I do say so
None of our vanilla friends know at all!
And I very much doubt they would ever guess
Even when they found my strange name in your phone? "
Oh blimey yes!! That was my daughter!
"Mum... Someone called lickety is calling you" just told her it was a nick name so yes still no one suspects us |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"They would never believe us! We are far to prim & proper
If you say so.
I do say so
None of our vanilla friends know at all!
And I very much doubt they would ever guess
Even when they found my strange name in your phone?
Oh blimey yes!! That was my daughter!
"Mum... Someone called lickety is calling you" just told her it was a nick name so yes still no one suspects us "
I'm sure your prim and proper front is intact.
Those that know I am here and what I do were just grateful I stopped being celibate and felt well enough to throw myself into this. When others have found out they have been surprised and commented that they assumed the cleavage was as far as it went.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I suspect one or two friends would disapprove but most would enjoy having a good gossip ! I don't know what my family would think if I was outed. They probably wouldn't believe I was capable of such risqué behaviour |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I suspect one or two friends would disapprove but most would enjoy having a good gossip ! I don't know what my family would think if I was outed. They probably wouldn't believe I was capable of such risqué behaviour "
Being gossip fodder provides a useful public service. It saves someone else from having to be the target. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a few ppl i know actually know im on here my mum being one of them she just tells me to be careful and not to let my dad find out cuz he wud kill me hehe |
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