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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

You can't know love if you swing. Whether a couple or a single. The heat of sexual indulgence will melt away true love. Let fantasies be fantasies and take care of your homework.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry.. not quite understanding what your saying here. I think you Maybe saying that if you swing that you can't be in love or know love... Or have I got that wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thanks for letting us know, I'll inform the wife immediately.

As you were folks.

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By *irtyGirlWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You can't know love if you swing. Whether a couple or a single. The heat of sexual indulgence will melt away true love. Let fantasies be fantasies and take care of your homework. "

Are you judging everyone by your own standards?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In other news....some people support chelsea, while others prefer Ferrari.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple  over a year ago

Leicestershire

That's so sad that you feel that way. You will never find love if you don't let it find you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have to say Annie you don't seem to post much but when you do it's often obscure or contraversial.

Would be nice to see more from you on normal threads! x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Okay I guess I did get the jist of the op right.

Why can't you swing and have love, i know plenty of couples that are madly in love and this lifestyle has only brought them closer.

Yes it doesn't work for all but that's relationships for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I have to say Annie you don't seem to post much but when you do it's often obscure or contraversial.

Would be nice to see more from you on normal threads! x"

we adore controversy, do we not? The driving force of our sexuality is our imagination. Not sure I can recognise normal. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have to say Annie you don't seem to post much but when you do it's often obscure or contraversial.

Would be nice to see more from you on normal threads! xwe adore controversy, do we not? The driving force of our sexuality is our imagination. Not sure I can recognise normal. X"

I don't like controversy but I do find your _iewpoints interesting when I see you post whether I agree or not x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well I'm a 'swinger' and I've never been in love so you could have a point there

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Thanks for letting us know, I'll inform the wife immediately.

As you were folks."

don't imagine you inform a woman of anything. She will let you know what she thinks you need to know, when her time dictates.

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By *o new WinksMan  over a year ago

BSE

I will have a pint of whatever the OP is having.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I will have a pint of whatever the OP is having. "
. Well thought out post. The depth of your natural intuition will draw in many like minded people.

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By *o new WinksMan  over a year ago

BSE

Well, I chose discretion as the better part of valour. My true thoughts about the actual content of your posts are probably equally as ill considered, but more inflammatory.

I play hard to get with my (obviously inferior) intellect.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman  over a year ago

Deviant City


"You can't know love if you swing. Whether a couple or a single. The heat of sexual indulgence will melt away true love. Let fantasies be fantasies and take care of your homework. "

what an odd statement.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is no true definition of love , so it's a difficult one to answer .

My understanding of love for my wife is to enjoy spending as much of my time in her company as is possible . To talk openly about everything , to comfort in times of stress , anxiety , sadness . To bring happiness and joy , and cherish no matter what . And perhaps more pertinately to the op , to help her explore her sexuality and support each and every desire she has .

I believe she feels the same way as I do , and our swinging is an extension of our love for each other . So I guess we will have to disagree with the op , and if we're wrong , we don't want to be right

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By *olyCheshireCatMan  over a year ago

Cheshire


"I have to say Annie you don't seem to post much but when you do it's often obscure or contraversial.

Would be nice to see more from you on normal threads! x"

Troll then basically?

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?"
. Why do you ask fatuous questions?

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?. Why do you ask fatuous questions? "

It's a genuine question.

On the thread I bumped you called us all deluded and a boat full of fools, or something similar.

You're always derogatory about swinging and swingers, so why are you looking for meets and why are you on a site for people in a lifestyle you so strongly dislike?

Also, why do you always dodge this question, and, actually, most other questions put to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?. Why do you ask fatuous questions?

It's a genuine question.

On the thread I bumped you called us all deluded and a boat full of fools, or something similar.

You're always derogatory about swinging and swingers, so why are you looking for meets and why are you on a site for people in a lifestyle you so strongly dislike?

Also, why do you always dodge this question, and, actually, most other questions put to you?"

. Now I can answer you. Rather than respond to usual idiocy, characterised as why don't you think what I think. My aim is to foster an open debate. I don't necessarily believe what I post. I think it healthy to re arrange the furniture on occasion though. Otherwise the herd of sheeple just goes, meh.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I just think the op does it to stir the pot slightly whether the op believe what the opening thread is about is another question....love and swinging in my opioin can go together...

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?. Why do you ask fatuous questions?

It's a genuine question.

On the thread I bumped you called us all deluded and a boat full of fools, or something similar.

You're always derogatory about swinging and swingers, so why are you looking for meets and why are you on a site for people in a lifestyle you so strongly dislike?

Also, why do you always dodge this question, and, actually, most other questions put to you?. Now I can answer you. Rather than respond to usual idiocy, characterised as why don't you think what I think. My aim is to foster an open debate. I don't necessarily believe what I post. I think it healthy to re arrange the furniture on occasion though. Otherwise the herd of sheeple just goes, meh. "

Fair enough, however, I wasn't asking why you don't think what I think. I was asking why you are on a site catering specifically for a lifestyle you (appear to) have a serious dislike for.

Devil's advocate, (which sounds better than 'trying to start a row by slating the basis of the site'), is a reason, I suppose.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I just think the op does it to stir the pot slightly whether the op believe what the opening thread is about is another question....love and swinging in my opioin can go together... "

I'd say swinging, (meaning couples swinging), requires love to work for any length of time.

It's a bit different for singles, but still the two aren't mutually exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?. Why do you ask fatuous questions?

It's a genuine question.

On the thread I bumped you called us all deluded and a boat full of fools, or something similar.

You're always derogatory about swinging and swingers, so why are you looking for meets and why are you on a site for people in a lifestyle you so strongly dislike?

Also, why do you always dodge this question, and, actually, most other questions put to you?. Now I can answer you. Rather than respond to usual idiocy, characterised as why don't you think what I think. My aim is to foster an open debate. I don't necessarily believe what I post. I think it healthy to re arrange the furniture on occasion though. Otherwise the herd of sheeple just goes, meh.

Fair enough, however, I wasn't asking why you don't think what I think. I was asking why you are on a site catering specifically for a lifestyle you (appear to) have a serious dislike for.

Devil's advocate, (which sounds better than 'trying to start a row by slating the basis of the site'), is a reason, I suppose."

. Yes I must be banished because ? I don't share your poor grasp of open debate. It's not a row unless you want it to be. Meh

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I just think the op does it to stir the pot slightly whether the op believe what the opening thread is about is another question....love and swinging in my opioin can go together...

I'd say swinging, (meaning couples swinging), requires love to work for any length of time.

It's a bit different for singles, but still the two aren't mutually exclusive."

The most important type of love for anyone single or in a couple is having love for yourself....

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?. Why do you ask fatuous questions?

It's a genuine question.

On the thread I bumped you called us all deluded and a boat full of fools, or something similar.

You're always derogatory about swinging and swingers, so why are you looking for meets and why are you on a site for people in a lifestyle you so strongly dislike?

Also, why do you always dodge this question, and, actually, most other questions put to you?. Now I can answer you. Rather than respond to usual idiocy, characterised as why don't you think what I think. My aim is to foster an open debate. I don't necessarily believe what I post. I think it healthy to re arrange the furniture on occasion though. Otherwise the herd of sheeple just goes, meh.

Fair enough, however, I wasn't asking why you don't think what I think. I was asking why you are on a site catering specifically for a lifestyle you (appear to) have a serious dislike for.

Devil's advocate, (which sounds better than 'trying to start a row by slating the basis of the site'), is a reason, I suppose.. Yes I must be banished because ? I don't share your poor grasp of open debate. It's not a row unless you want it to be. Meh "

Where did I say you had to be banished? I asked why you choose to be here.

For such a fan of debate, you seem to struggle to read what people have actually written sometimes.

It never occurred to you that there was a chance of a bad reaction and a ruck when you post a thread saying swingers are deluded, idiots, incapable of love and whatever else? You really never thought that might get a bad reaction from someone on a forum of swingers?

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I just think the op does it to stir the pot slightly whether the op believe what the opening thread is about is another question....love and swinging in my opioin can go together...

I'd say swinging, (meaning couples swinging), requires love to work for any length of time.

It's a bit different for singles, but still the two aren't mutually exclusive.

The most important type of love for anyone single or in a couple is having love for yourself.... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can't know love if you swing. Whether a couple or a single. The heat of sexual indulgence will melt away true love. Let fantasies be fantasies and take care of your homework. "

There is nothing like a melodramatic, pretentious, and controversy-inducing post to read on a Thursday afternoon. I will continue to believe that I love my husband, with whom I swing.

But then, I'm just one of the sheeple.

I once asked my friend why she didn't want to go to prom and have fun. She said that prom was part of the establishment and we were all only buying into it because we were sheeple. But then I pointed out to her that by joining the ranks of those who said that very same thing, she was really just a sheeple herself, but arguing the other side, trying to be "cooler" (and missing all the fun stuff in the process). She ended up going to prom. I wonder what that says about people.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

love does not know division... it only knows multiplication. when the sad dog is happy it shares the joy of leadlessness with all the other bitches. together they are happy executives employed for our goodness. can we ever leave it? I am thinking the answer is either yes or no!

Just thought I'd try my hand at my own Annie Peel

Oops... for got to add... swinging oh terrible swinging... we are lost meat lumps if we fall into swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?. Why do you ask fatuous questions?

It's a genuine question.

On the thread I bumped you called us all deluded and a boat full of fools, or something similar.

You're always derogatory about swinging and swingers, so why are you looking for meets and why are you on a site for people in a lifestyle you so strongly dislike?

Also, why do you always dodge this question, and, actually, most other questions put to you?. Now I can answer you. Rather than respond to usual idiocy, characterised as why don't you think what I think. My aim is to foster an open debate. I don't necessarily believe what I post. I think it healthy to re arrange the furniture on occasion though. Otherwise the herd of sheeple just goes, meh.

Fair enough, however, I wasn't asking why you don't think what I think. I was asking why you are on a site catering specifically for a lifestyle you (appear to) have a serious dislike for.

Devil's advocate, (which sounds better than 'trying to start a row by slating the basis of the site'), is a reason, I suppose.. Yes I must be banished because ? I don't share your poor grasp of open debate. It's not a row unless you want it to be. Meh

Where did I say you had to be banished? I asked why you choose to be here.

For such a fan of debate, you seem to struggle to read what people have actually written sometimes.

It never occurred to you that there was a chance of a bad reaction and a ruck when you post a thread saying swingers are deluded, idiots, incapable of love and whatever else? You really never thought that might get a bad reaction from someone on a forum of swingers?"

. Ofcourse I expected reaction. It's the nature of the beast to stir when prodded. Largely the reaction is predictable. When made uncomfortable we tend to lash out. There have been some good posts in response. Where the reasoned process clearly holds sway over my post. You however in your viraginous manner, seem content to spit the dummy rather than think. So good luck with that. x

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?. Why do you ask fatuous questions?

It's a genuine question.

On the thread I bumped you called us all deluded and a boat full of fools, or something similar.

You're always derogatory about swinging and swingers, so why are you looking for meets and why are you on a site for people in a lifestyle you so strongly dislike?

Also, why do you always dodge this question, and, actually, most other questions put to you?. Now I can answer you. Rather than respond to usual idiocy, characterised as why don't you think what I think. My aim is to foster an open debate. I don't necessarily believe what I post. I think it healthy to re arrange the furniture on occasion though. Otherwise the herd of sheeple just goes, meh.

Fair enough, however, I wasn't asking why you don't think what I think. I was asking why you are on a site catering specifically for a lifestyle you (appear to) have a serious dislike for.

Devil's advocate, (which sounds better than 'trying to start a row by slating the basis of the site'), is a reason, I suppose.. Yes I must be banished because ? I don't share your poor grasp of open debate. It's not a row unless you want it to be. Meh

Where did I say you had to be banished? I asked why you choose to be here.

For such a fan of debate, you seem to struggle to read what people have actually written sometimes.

It never occurred to you that there was a chance of a bad reaction and a ruck when you post a thread saying swingers are deluded, idiots, incapable of love and whatever else? You really never thought that might get a bad reaction from someone on a forum of swingers?. Ofcourse I expected reaction. It's the nature of the beast to stir when prodded. Largely the reaction is predictable. When made uncomfortable we tend to lash out. There have been some good posts in response. Where the reasoned process clearly holds sway over my post. You however in your viraginous manner, seem content to spit the dummy rather than think. So good luck with that. x

"

Spit the dummy? I asked you why you choose to stay here. It was a straight question, not loaded in any way and a fair question considering the posts you've made about swingers and swinging.

The observation you didn't read my posts is just that, not me spitting any dummies. You suggested I said you should be banished. I didn't say that so you clearly didn't read or didn't understand what I did say. Or you are choosing to misunderstand to try to incite drama.

You choose to believe people disagree with you because they are uncomfortable with accepting your truth. Fair enough. It seems to me that you are the deluded one but we all have our own perspective.

One person's devil's advocate is another person's shit stirrer.

If swinging and casual meets don't make you happy, it doesn't mean it's the same for everyone else. I hope you find what does make you happy because you don't sound very happy at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why are you on the site if you feel so negatively about swinging and swingers?. Why do you ask fatuous questions?

It's a genuine question.

On the thread I bumped you called us all deluded and a boat full of fools, or something similar.

You're always derogatory about swinging and swingers, so why are you looking for meets and why are you on a site for people in a lifestyle you so strongly dislike?

Also, why do you always dodge this question, and, actually, most other questions put to you?. Now I can answer you. Rather than respond to usual idiocy, characterised as why don't you think what I think. My aim is to foster an open debate. I don't necessarily believe what I post. I think it healthy to re arrange the furniture on occasion though. Otherwise the herd of sheeple just goes, meh.

Fair enough, however, I wasn't asking why you don't think what I think. I was asking why you are on a site catering specifically for a lifestyle you (appear to) have a serious dislike for.

Devil's advocate, (which sounds better than 'trying to start a row by slating the basis of the site'), is a reason, I suppose.. Yes I must be banished because ? I don't share your poor grasp of open debate. It's not a row unless you want it to be. Meh

Where did I say you had to be banished? I asked why you choose to be here.

For such a fan of debate, you seem to struggle to read what people have actually written sometimes.

It never occurred to you that there was a chance of a bad reaction and a ruck when you post a thread saying swingers are deluded, idiots, incapable of love and whatever else? You really never thought that might get a bad reaction from someone on a forum of swingers?. Ofcourse I expected reaction. It's the nature of the beast to stir when prodded. Largely the reaction is predictable. When made uncomfortable we tend to lash out. There have been some good posts in response. Where the reasoned process clearly holds sway over my post. You however in your viraginous manner, seem content to spit the dummy rather than think. So good luck with that. x

Spit the dummy? I asked you why you choose to stay here. It was a straight question, not loaded in any way and a fair question considering the posts you've made about swingers and swinging.

The observation you didn't read my posts is just that, not me spitting any dummies. You suggested I said you should be banished. I didn't say that so you clearly didn't read or didn't understand what I did say. Or you are choosing to misunderstand to try to incite drama.

You choose to believe people disagree with you because they are uncomfortable with accepting your truth. Fair enough. It seems to me that you are the deluded one but we all have our own perspective.

One person's devil's advocate is another person's shit stirrer.

If swinging and casual meets don't make you happy, it doesn't mean it's the same for everyone else. I hope you find what does make you happy because you don't sound very happy at the moment."

yes I agree with all you say. That makes me happier. Hope it helps you too. From now on I will only post that which is banal and or cretinous. Kiss, pass, run over with a truck. Do women like pegging, water sports, erotic or ph neutral. Most irregular object you've ever inserted. Marmite yes or no. Oh the bottomless pit of jocular indulgence. Make me laugh, make me angry, make me think. But please spare me the lump hammer of your termagent self loathing. It's not my posts that deter your rationale, it's your own determination to make it as you wish it were. Now, mushroom soup is sexy, agree or not ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can't know love if you swing. Whether a couple or a single. The heat of sexual indulgence will melt away true love. Let fantasies be fantasies and take care of your homework. "

Tripe.

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By *olyCheshireCatMan  over a year ago

Cheshire

Contrarian posts to provoke a reaction...you admit you're a troll then.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I have zero interest in love

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If we loved each other before we started swinging does that mean we no longer love each other?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have sex with the woman I love. I have NSA sex. I have sex where there is a real connection with the other person.

All different. All exist and are definitely not mutually exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If we loved each other before we started swinging does that mean we no longer love each other? "

It means you never really loved eachother to begin with. You're just lying to yourself. Look deeper.

Sheeple.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Contrarian posts to provoke a reaction...you admit you're a troll then."
. Oh stop it sweet cheeks. I bet you say that to all the girls. Weak at the thought........ If you disagree with a statement then post an alternative _iew. Name calling the OP is decidedly stupid and not an opinion against. I hand you the shovel. Dig, pass, avoid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Contrarian posts to provoke a reaction...you admit you're a troll then."
. Oh stop it sweet cheeks. I bet you say that to all the girls. Weak at the thought........ If you disagree with a statement then post an alternative _iew. Name calling the OP is decidedly stupid and not an opinion against. I hand you the shovel. Dig, pass, avoid.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Spit the dummy? I asked you why you choose to stay here. It was a straight question, not loaded in any way and a fair question considering the posts you've made about swingers and swinging.

The observation you didn't read my posts is just that, not me spitting any dummies. You suggested I said you should be banished. I didn't say that so you clearly didn't read or didn't understand what I did say. Or you are choosing to misunderstand to try to incite drama.

You choose to believe people disagree with you because they are uncomfortable with accepting your truth. Fair enough. It seems to me that you are the deluded one but we all have our own perspective.

One person's devil's advocate is another person's shit stirrer.

If swinging and casual meets don't make you happy, it doesn't mean it's the same for everyone else. I hope you find what does make you happy because you don't sound very happy at the moment. yes I agree with all you say. That makes me happier. Hope it helps you too. From now on I will only post that which is banal and or cretinous. Kiss, pass, run over with a truck. Do women like pegging, water sports, erotic or ph neutral. Most irregular object you've ever inserted. Marmite yes or no. Oh the bottomless pit of jocular indulgence. Make me laugh, make me angry, make me think. But please spare me the lump hammer of your termagent self loathing. It's not my posts that deter your rationale, it's your own determination to make it as you wish it were. Now, mushroom soup is sexy, agree or not ?"

Swinging doesn't make you happy so it can't make anyone else happy.

Swinging isn't compatible with love for you, so everyone else must be the same.

I ask you a reasonable question and you do everything you can to avoid answering, including accusing me of suggesting something I didn't and of having a strop, which I clearly haven't.

I suggest you're not happy from your posts and you turn that around too and take it to mean I am self-loathing.

Interesting. Avoidance, deflection and displacement.

And now you suggest I've said you should agree with anything I say. Why? Serious question again. I've given my opinion which conflicts with your statements, but I'm no more saying you have to agree with everything I say than you are saying I have to agree with you. You aren't saying that, right? Since this is merely a debate?

You wanted debate (allegedly). So actually counter my points with some substance instead of trying to pretend I've said things I haven't and it's just not worth your effort. Back up your _iews and your comments. As it is, you've lit the blue touch paper by posting a contentious OP and are now stirring the pot to see how hot you can get it to burn.

Since posting your OP you've not actually addressed anyone's comments on the subject of the thread, which makes it look rather as if debate really wasn't your aim at all.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Contrarian posts to provoke a reaction...you admit you're a troll then..

Oh stop it sweet cheeks. I bet you say that to all the girls. Weak at the thought........ If you disagree with a statement then post an alternative _iew. Name calling the OP is decidedly stupid and not an opinion against. I hand you the shovel. Dig, pass, avoid. "

PMSL

People are disagreeing with you and you're not coming back with anything of substance to support your own claims, you're just casting about dismissive put downs and insults of your own. Admittedly they are slightly more subtle put downs and insults than "troll" but you are still doing exactly the same as you're accusing him of!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Spit the dummy? I asked you why you choose to stay here. It was a straight question, not loaded in any way and a fair question considering the posts you've made about swingers and swinging.

The observation you didn't read my posts is just that, not me spitting any dummies. You suggested I said you should be banished. I didn't say that so you clearly didn't read or didn't understand what I did say. Or you are choosing to misunderstand to try to incite drama.

You choose to believe people disagree with you because they are uncomfortable with accepting your truth. Fair enough. It seems to me that you are the deluded one but we all have our own perspective.

One person's devil's advocate is another person's shit stirrer.

If swinging and casual meets don't make you happy, it doesn't mean it's the same for everyone else. I hope you find what does make you happy because you don't sound very happy at the moment. yes I agree with all you say. That makes me happier. Hope it helps you too. From now on I will only post that which is banal and or cretinous. Kiss, pass, run over with a truck. Do women like pegging, water sports, erotic or ph neutral. Most irregular object you've ever inserted. Marmite yes or no. Oh the bottomless pit of jocular indulgence. Make me laugh, make me angry, make me think. But please spare me the lump hammer of your termagent self loathing. It's not my posts that deter your rationale, it's your own determination to make it as you wish it were. Now, mushroom soup is sexy, agree or not ?

Swinging doesn't make you happy so it can't make anyone else happy.

Swinging isn't compatible with love for you, so everyone else must be the same.

I ask you a reasonable question and you do everything you can to avoid answering, including accusing me of suggesting something I didn't and of having a strop, which I clearly haven't.

I suggest you're not happy from your posts and you turn that around too and take it to mean I am self-loathing.

Interesting. Avoidance, deflection and displacement.

And now you suggest I've said you should agree with anything I say. Why? Serious question again. I've given my opinion which conflicts with your statements, but I'm no more saying you have to agree with everything I say than you are saying I have to agree with you. You aren't saying that, right? Since this is merely a debate?

You wanted debate (allegedly). So actually counter my points with some substance instead of trying to pretend I've said things I haven't and it's just not worth your effort. Back up your _iews and your comments. As it is, you've lit the blue touch paper by posting a contentious OP and are now stirring the pot to see how hot you can get it to burn.

Since posting your OP you've not actually addressed anyone's comments on the subject of the thread, which makes it look rather as if debate really wasn't your aim at all. "

Haven't you worked it our yet vv?? The debate is only valid if it's what the op and their thesaurus say. They don't like you calling them out on some very valid points and so try to make you look like you are trying to get them to conform to some greater plan. I'm all for debate bit this is one of those IDTINDST threads.

Not read so much pretentious guff In ages!

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Haven't you worked it our yet vv?? The debate is only valid if it's what the op and their thesaurus say. They don't like you calling them out on some very valid points and so try to make you look like you are trying to get them to conform to some greater plan. I'm all for debate bit this is one of those IDTINDST threads.

Not read so much pretentious guff In ages! "

Oh oh but now you are resorting to names and insults so your very valid points can't be considered either!

Respond with some substance, darn you, even thought the OP isn't!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like cheese

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Contrarian posts to provoke a reaction...you admit you're a troll then..

Oh stop it sweet cheeks. I bet you say that to all the girls. Weak at the thought........ If you disagree with a statement then post an alternative _iew. Name calling the OP is decidedly stupid and not an opinion against. I hand you the shovel. Dig, pass, avoid.

PMSL

People are disagreeing with you and you're not coming back with anything of substance to support your own claims, you're just casting about dismissive put downs and insults of your own. Admittedly they are slightly more subtle put downs and insults than "troll" but you are still doing exactly the same as you're accusing him of!

"

. Seemingly your ability to always be in the right while appearing dull minded and repetitive is unique. My post was a standpoint. I like people to state theirs. There are responses that do that. Then there are the cartoon characters who don't like what is said. Thus attacking the poster is their default setting. You embody that mindset. You repeat it often. Try forming and posting your opinion on the subject.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Contrarian posts to provoke a reaction...you admit you're a troll then..

Oh stop it sweet cheeks. I bet you say that to all the girls. Weak at the thought........ If you disagree with a statement then post an alternative _iew. Name calling the OP is decidedly stupid and not an opinion against. I hand you the shovel. Dig, pass, avoid.

PMSL

People are disagreeing with you and you're not coming back with anything of substance to support your own claims, you're just casting about dismissive put downs and insults of your own. Admittedly they are slightly more subtle put downs and insults than "troll" but you are still doing exactly the same as you're accusing him of!

. Seemingly your ability to always be in the right while appearing dull minded and repetitive is unique. My post was a standpoint. I like people to state theirs. There are responses that do that. Then there are the cartoon characters who don't like what is said. Thus attacking the poster is their default setting. You embody that mindset. You repeat it often. Try forming and posting your opinion on the subject. "

My questions to you have been perfectly reasonable. I've not insulted or attacked you. Yet again you are making untrue claims to try to claim some sort of attempted oppression.

You claimed you want debate. Asking questions to try to understand your stance would usually be considered a normal part of a debate. Expecting someone to respond to raised points and defend their position would normally be considered reasonable in a debate.

If you want people to give their opinions, ask them, rather than posting something you know will be controversial as though it's a given. Nowhere have you asked my opinion, or anyone else's opinion.

I'm quite capable of forming my own opinion. I was actually trying to work out where you were coming from.

I've a fair idea now anyway.

You clearly don't want any sort of debate, so I'm out. Carry on stirring to your heart's content

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like cheese "

As to be a strong blue cheese

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"Love is a burnin' thing,

And it makes a fiery ring

Bound by wild desire

I fell into a ring of fire.

The taste of love is sweet

When hearts like ours meet.

I fell for you like a child

Oh, but the fire went wild."

So if love is a ring of fire how can the heat of self indulgence melt it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Contrarian posts to provoke a reaction...you admit you're a troll then..

Oh stop it sweet cheeks. I bet you say that to all the girls. Weak at the thought........ If you disagree with a statement then post an alternative _iew. Name calling the OP is decidedly stupid and not an opinion against. I hand you the shovel. Dig, pass, avoid.

PMSL

People are disagreeing with you and you're not coming back with anything of substance to support your own claims, you're just casting about dismissive put downs and insults of your own. Admittedly they are slightly more subtle put downs and insults than "troll" but you are still doing exactly the same as you're accusing him of!

. Seemingly your ability to always be in the right while appearing dull minded and repetitive is unique. My post was a standpoint. I like people to state theirs. There are responses that do that. Then there are the cartoon characters who don't like what is said. Thus attacking the poster is their default setting. You embody that mindset. You repeat it often. Try forming and posting your opinion on the subject.

My questions to you have been perfectly reasonable. I've not insulted or attacked you. Yet again you are making untrue claims to try to claim some sort of attempted oppression.

You claimed you want debate. Asking questions to try to understand your stance would usually be considered a normal part of a debate. Expecting someone to respond to raised points and defend their position would normally be considered reasonable in a debate.

If you want people to give their opinions, ask them, rather than posting something you know will be controversial as though it's a given. Nowhere have you asked my opinion, or anyone else's opinion.

I'm quite capable of forming my own opinion. I was actually trying to work out where you were coming from.

I've a fair idea now anyway.

You clearly don't want any sort of debate, so I'm out. Carry on stirring to your heart's content "

. Oh dear. Have I said something you don't like ?

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By *olyCheshireCatMan  over a year ago

Cheshire

OP, you stated your opinion in a very matter-of-fact sort of way that you knew full well would wind up every loving couple here. That is why I call you a troll. Is that more satisfactorily eloquent?


"If we loved each other before we started swinging does that mean we no longer love each other?

It means you never really loved eachother to begin with. You're just lying to yourself. Look deeper.

Sheeple.

-Courtney"

Hahahaha totes lol'd

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

op i love your dark threads

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