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Statement of the fucking obvious!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

In these fascinating Fab forums there are many and varied posts. Some ask quite good and relevant questions to which some posters give pat and pointless answers which state the fucking obvious as if it were some well considered philosophical thesis. Try these -

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"In these fascinating Fab forums there are many and varied posts. Some ask quite good and relevant questions to which some posters give pat and pointless answers which state the fucking obvious as if it were some well considered philosophical thesis. Try these -

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

So what?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I can't say I do really care to be honest

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

And your point is?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If those answers were so obvious, a lot of the stupid questions wouldn't be asked.

But whhhhhhhy do you prefer brown sauce to red with a bacon buttie? Because I fucking do. Personal preference. Some will agree, some won't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

Many people lack the honesty to answer a question directly, hence why they'll often spout a platitude cop out instead.

And yes you're right, it does happen a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Some great sofo above.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

quite often the first 2 are all that needs to be said..

one could flim flam and waffle on talking bollocks, but that will do..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

Many people lack the honesty to answer a question directly, hence why they'll often spout a platitude cop out instead.

And yes you're right, it does happen a lot."

Sometimes it's just funny. Sometimes it's highlighting there isn't a definitive answer...nothing wrong with those replies if you don't like it ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

And when the question is one of those, "Do women prefer oral sex or penetration?" type questions, what other answer can be given?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

Many people lack the honesty to answer a question directly, hence why they'll often spout a platitude cop out instead.

And yes you're right, it does happen a lot."

Some of the questions can't be answered any other way, and the replies quoted are honest.

Do women/men like (insert trait)?

It's bleeding obvious that we all like different things. Saying some do, some don't is entirely reasonable and true.

It's a stupid question. The poster usually isn't looking for an answer anyway because it's an ad saying they have the aforementioned trait and trying to make themselves known to those that like it.

They can't possibly have reached 18+ without knowing we all have different tastes and some will like it and some won't.

So, as it's not really a question, a not really an answer would seem fair.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

Many people lack the honesty to answer a question directly, hence why they'll often spout a platitude cop out instead.

And yes you're right, it does happen a lot.

Sometimes it's just funny. Sometimes it's highlighting there isn't a definitive answer...nothing wrong with those replies if you don't like it ignore them.

Or highlighting that the person posting it:

A. Doesn't really want to answer the question

B. Doesn't know the answer but just wants to post something

C. Just wants to annoy the person asking the question, probably because they don't like them

If people want to say 'personal preference' then that's fine, everyone has them, I'm just curious as to how deeper probing would reveal the reasons for those personal preferences?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

And when the question is one of those, "Do women prefer oral sex or penetration?" type questions, what other answer can be given?"

You get some who post "i prefer oral" some say "i prefer penetration" which answer the question asked.

"Some will; some won't" States the obvious.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"But whhhhhhhy do you prefer brown sauce to red with a bacon buttie? Because I fucking do. Personal preference. Some will agree, some won't."

Well, you're wrong, so go sit in your wrongness and be wrong with your brown sauce and your ruined bacon!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

one could flim flam and waffle on..."

Flim flam not a word I've ever heard

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

Many people lack the honesty to answer a question directly, hence why they'll often spout a platitude cop out instead.

And yes you're right, it does happen a lot."

when someone can't or wont accept that certain people wont do x, y or z because they think 'well they're on a site like this and my perception is they should do x, y or z how is it lacking in honesty to say 'that's their preference, accept it'..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

Many people lack the honesty to answer a question directly, hence why they'll often spout a platitude cop out instead.

And yes you're right, it does happen a lot.

Sometimes it's just funny. Sometimes it's highlighting there isn't a definitive answer...nothing wrong with those replies if you don't like it ignore them.

Or highlighting that the person posting it:

A. Doesn't really want to answer the question

B. Doesn't know the answer but just wants to post something

C. Just wants to annoy the person asking the question, probably because they don't like them

If people want to say 'personal preference' then that's fine, everyone has them, I'm just curious as to how deeper probing would reveal the reasons for those personal preferences?"

I think some people expect serious debates all the time forums are for fun. My response depends on my mood.

There's plenty that do actually answer including me (most of the time). So what's it matter when a few are light hearted or don't add to the conversation....

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"But whhhhhhhy do you prefer brown sauce to red with a bacon buttie? Because I fucking do. Personal preference. Some will agree, some won't.

Well, you're wrong, so go sit in your wrongness and be wrong with your brown sauce and your ruined bacon!!!"

That's me licking brown sauce from my fingers with a satisfied, happy, bacon filled tummy.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

one could flim flam and waffle on...

Flim flam not a word I've ever heard

its a term from the military when someone was being less than concise, sometimes to impress with their linguistic prowess or they lacked the gumption to say it how it needed saying..

not sure where it originated..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

Many people lack the honesty to answer a question directly, hence why they'll often spout a platitude cop out instead.

And yes you're right, it does happen a lot."

You also run the risk of being banned if you overstep the mark too

Personal comments should be directed by personal message and not in the forum

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Let people choose from the replies given, just what works for them. Simple answers keep it short, as common sense as some may seem.

The forums are full of stuff that will interest you, or not. Put your attention where its valuable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many posts are repeated over and over again.....People are just bored of replying to them ...hence the above type of replies...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Many posts are repeated over and over again.....People are just bored of replying to them ...hence the above type of replies...

True statement. It begs the question, why bother at all? Every day there is a "kiss, fuck or give STI" post or similar. I never bother to read them and put "Whatever!".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

And when the question is one of those, "Do women prefer oral sex or penetration?" type questions, what other answer can be given?

You get some who post "i prefer oral" some say "i prefer penetration" which answer the question asked.

"Some will; some won't" States the obvious.

That would be fine if the question was, "Do you prefer ...?" but not if the question was, "Do women prefer ...?"

And no, I am not being the grammar/spelling police.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

'Slim in this ear, slim in that ear. Don't you ever yearn for change?'....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Many posts are repeated over and over again.....People are just bored of replying to them ...hence the above type of replies...

True statement. It begs the question, why bother at all? Every day there is a "kiss, fuck or give STI" post or similar. I never bother to read them and put "Whatever!".

just a touch of irony in that answer given the question asked above..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

This or that posts make me laugh. You know "bbc or big white cock" "small tits or big tits ?" Basically the combinations are endless. The answers are always the same, some peeps are for bbc some are for big white cock & some are for both.

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if the thread is more than 2 sentences, i switch off and perv at he profiles replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Many posts are repeated over and over again.....People are just bored of replying to them ...hence the above type of replies...

True statement. It begs the question, why bother at all? Every day there is a "kiss, fuck or give STI" post or similar. I never bother to read them and put "Whatever!".

just a touch of irony in that answer given the question asked above..

You noticed?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Many posts are repeated over and over again.....People are just bored of replying to them ...hence the above type of replies...

True statement. It begs the question, why bother at all? Every day there is a "kiss, fuck or give STI" post or similar. I never bother to read them and put "Whatever!".

just a touch of irony in that answer given the question asked above..

You noticed?

yep, but respect its your preference..

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Those answers are considered and relevant!

It's usually the question which is at fault!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Many posts are repeated over and over again.....People are just bored of replying to them ...hence the above type of replies...

True statement. It begs the question, why bother at all? Every day there is a "kiss, fuck or give STI" post or similar. I never bother to read them and put "Whatever!".

just a touch of irony in that answer given the question asked above..

You noticed?

yep, but respect its your preference..

Whatever!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I blame Facebook

It doesn't matter what the question is

I still blame Facebook

That and xfator

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If those answers were so obvious, a lot of the stupid questions wouldn't be asked.

But whhhhhhhy do you prefer brown sauce to red with a bacon buttie? Because I fucking do. Personal preference. Some will agree, some won't."

Sauce on bacon? Pervert!!!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I am happy to answer very directly

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If those answers were so obvious, a lot of the stupid questions wouldn't be asked.

But whhhhhhhy do you prefer brown sauce to red with a bacon buttie? Because I fucking do. Personal preference. Some will agree, some won't.

Sauce on bacon? Pervert!!!

And?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes I state the bleeding obvious because either the question was so ridiculous in the 1st place or the response I'd like to give with earn me a time out.

I do think it can come across kind of smug at times when quoting those classic one liners though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If those answers were so obvious, a lot of the stupid questions wouldn't be asked.

But whhhhhhhy do you prefer brown sauce to red with a bacon buttie? Because I fucking do. Personal preference. Some will agree, some won't.

Sauce on bacon? Pervert!!!

And?

The bacon should be dry fried, then dip your bread in the pan before making the butty. Anything else is just unnaceptable, in my kitchen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sometimes I state the bleeding obvious because either the question was so ridiculous in the 1st place or the response I'd like to give with earn me a time out.

I do think it can come across kind of smug at times when quoting those classic one liners though.

You are right that some questions are a bit silly.

"Do you like fat thighs or thin thighs; or something in between?"

"Have you stopped fucking tramps bareback?"

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I find a carefully constructed response to many questions on here is ignored, whereas a flippant response will be quoted and answered. Maybe that's why people post idiotic replies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

Many people lack the honesty to answer a question directly, hence why they'll often spout a platitude cop out instead

Feck dont answer to honestly or MOD will put you on the naughty step for 24hrs...

I did answer honestly a question at the weekend and got barred lol

Im may stick to the sitting on the fence answers for a while

And yes you're right, it does happen a lot."

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If those answers were so obvious, a lot of the stupid questions wouldn't be asked.

But whhhhhhhy do you prefer brown sauce to red with a bacon buttie? Because I fucking do. Personal preference. Some will agree, some won't.

Sauce on bacon? Pervert!!!

And?

The bacon should be dry fried, then dip your bread in the pan before making the butty. Anything else is just unnaceptable, in my kitchen."

Then it's a good thing I am not in your kitchen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You will find some topics repeated a few times over a few months, the outcome will never change.

For example, a common topic is often something to do with bareback sex, or pregnant sex. The answer always is the same, some will, some won't do it. Why prattle on for pages and pages, just to come to the conclusion some do, some don't.

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By *atEvolutionCouple over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Some will; some won't"

Does anyone feel enlightened when they read them? What others fall in this category?

________________________________________

Which in itself is a statement of the obvious lol.

Remember Bob Hoskins in the BT telephone ads?

;-) It's Good to Talk

Cat X

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

I think that when people reply with a 'yawn' or some reference to their fab friends on the forum, its rude and makes the poster feel slightly alone ... in this big world - I don't care, nor do those who have been around the forums for a while - but I think its a bit off when we should be encouraging new people to post - I like to hear from someone new - much more interesting as after a while you can predict what certain people are going to say

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By *atEvolutionCouple over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION Swingers Club. Stoke

"I think that when people reply with a 'yawn' or some reference to their fab friends on the forum, its rude and makes the poster feel slightly alone ... in this big world - I don't care, nor do those who have been around the forums for a while - but I think its a bit off when we should be encouraging new people to post - I like to hear from someone new - much more interesting as after a while you can predict what certain people are going to say "

People like affirmation - it helps people to belong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If those answers were so obvious, a lot of the stupid questions wouldn't be asked.

But whhhhhhhy do you prefer brown sauce to red with a bacon buttie? Because I fucking do. Personal preference. Some will agree, some won't.

Sauce on bacon? Pervert!!!

And?

The bacon should be dry fried, then dip your bread in the pan before making the butty. Anything else is just unnaceptable, in my kitchen.

Then it's a good thing I am not in your kitchen

But you haven't tasted my bacon butties... If only they did Michelin stars for bacon butty making....

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