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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For a while now I've noticed the trend against bi males not meeting couples where the guy is straight, now I've had quite a few conversations with the female of couples who would like to meet me but because I'm bi their partner won't meet, why is this? Are they afraid I'll pounce on them the first opportunity, never the case, luckily enough I've met a few couples that don't mind that I'm bi as I respect boundaries and never push, but the majority of couples still won't meet and it's usually down to the guy worrying that there maybe contact  |
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We get the same as a bi couple,even being told we might be riskier disease wise!
We now just reckon if people have that many hang ups we dont want to meet!
Btw always looking to meet bi men here if you are in the North east!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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boundaries are always discussed before the meet and even in the limited messages I send out, I got a message back from one couple saying, "we'd love to meet but my hubby thinks you want him more than me"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"boundaries are always discussed before the meet and even in the limited messages I send out, I got a message back from one couple saying, "we'd love to meet but my hubby thinks you want him more than me" "
Yep some folk have a strange outlook on Bi males
Apparently bi males are not born with the self control function pmsl xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some weird folk around. If a woman said no Anal or watersports, would she spend the whole time worried it might happen?
I'm bi - that means I love straight sex too and I'm more than happy to stick to limits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could never meet a couple with a bi male i am straight and would never have a bloke touch me or my partner ,i am not being funny about it just our personal boundaries |
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"boundaries are always discussed before the meet and even in the limited messages I send out, I got a message back from one couple saying, "we'd love to meet but my hubby thinks you want him more than me" "
Me thinks hubby should get over himself. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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some may think bi males and gay males carry a higher sexual risk
some may consider guys who have previously had sexual contact with another guy offputting... the sexual act that is.
some may be worried that boundaries will not be respected.
some may consider bi guys less macho.
some may be concerned their female partner may be seen to enjoy herself more and that may impact his 'machoness'.
some may be homophobic.
and probably a few other considerations when setting their preferences.
I totally respect the folks who put it on their profile... ie, the bi guys themselves and the couples/fems who don't meet them. It's all cool with me. I wouldn't want to have sexual contact with any one who may feel uncomfortable.
that's my 2p worth...
disclaimer.... I did say 'MAY' many times in the above answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some may consider bi guys less macho.
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Wotcha View mate are ya comin down the pub fa a pint and a game a darts then we can pick a few girlies up on ta way home xx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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oops
and there MAY be a few so far up their own arse that they don't need a bi guy for that sexual act.. 
another disclaimer... not all Bi guys do anal. this one doesn't |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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some may consider bi guys less macho.
Wotcha View mate are ya comin down the pub fa a pint and a game a darts then we can pick a few girlies up on ta way home xx "
yes ok dude... off to find my Wrangler jeans and am sure I have a Lee sweatshirt somewhere ... wouldn't to flounce in with my frills and velvet pantaloons.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"some may think bi males and gay males carry a higher sexual risk
some may consider guys who have previously had sexual contact with another guy offputting... the sexual act that is.
some may be worried that boundaries will not be respected.
some may consider bi guys less macho.
some may be concerned their female partner may be seen to enjoy herself more and that may impact his 'machoness'.
some may be homophobic.
and probably a few other considerations when setting their preferences.
I totally respect the folks who put it on their profile... ie, the bi guys themselves and the couples/fems who don't meet them. It's all cool with me. I wouldn't want to have sexual contact with any one who may feel uncomfortable.
that's my 2p worth...
disclaimer.... I did say 'MAY' many times in the above answer. "
thanks for your input matey |
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By (user no longer on site)
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some may consider bi guys less macho.
Wotcha View mate are ya comin down the pub fa a pint and a game a darts then we can pick a few girlies up on ta way home xx
yes ok dude... off to find my Wrangler jeans and am sure I have a Lee sweatshirt somewhere ... wouldn't to flounce in with my frills and velvet pantaloons.. "
Jeans and a tee shirt Christ you Butch bugger lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't play with bi males as I'm sadistic and like to see the colour drain from my playmates cheeks as I introduce them to my toys. In my experience a straight male never loses that look of "shame" that turns me on.
In my experience bi men like it "spoiling" my fun, so I don't play with them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't play with bi males as I'm sadistic and like to see the colour drain from my playmates cheeks as I introduce them to my toys. In my experience a straight male never loses that look of "shame" that turns me on.
In my experience bi men like it "spoiling" my fun, so I don't play with them! "
Huh don't know about that lol
The thought a you commin at me ass with a 20" dildo would make the colour drain from my face alright xx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I don't play with bi males as I'm sadistic and like to see the colour drain from my playmates cheeks as I introduce them to my toys. In my experience a straight male never loses that look of "shame" that turns me on.
In my experience bi men like it "spoiling" my fun, so I don't play with them!
Huh don't know about that lol
The thought a you commin at me ass with a 20" dildo would make the colour drain from my face alright xx "
aye I bought myself a dildo for anal play about 3 years ago.. it is truly the size of the little finger...
still in the wrapper. |
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Just like every other thread, its down to personal prefferance, if a couple state they wont meet Bi guys accept it and move on.
Just like couples with a straight guy accept it, whe a bi couple put no couples with straight males. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just like every other thread, its down to personal prefferance, if a couple state they wont meet Bi guys accept it and move on.
Just like couples with a straight guy accept it, whe a bi couple put no couples with straight males."
couples I message have nothing about their preference in not meeting bi males, if they did I wouldn't message them, yes thats right, i'm one of the few on here who actually read the profile before messaging them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just like every other thread, its down to personal prefferance, if a couple state they wont meet Bi guys accept it and move on.
Just like couples with a straight guy accept it, whe a bi couple put no couples with straight males."
I for one totally except it lol
Just like ta join in the banter xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have met a few single guys but none of them have been bi, not because we dont want to, but they just havent been bi. My guy has had bi experiences in swinging clubs, on bi night (surprise surprise), its been spontaneous and we've both enjoyed it. My guy is comfortable in his own skin and with his sexuality.
If we met a single guy and he was bi, and all three enjoyed touching each other, then that would be a huge bonus, I'd certainly love it, cos the sight of two guys sucking each other is incrediably erotic to me. My guy wouldnt mind Im sure. But if the guy we meet is not bi then obviously no touching between guys takes place. Even if we met a guy who was bi, then we wouldnt necessarily expect bi play to take place, it just depends on the moment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just like every other thread, its down to personal prefferance, if a couple state they wont meet Bi guys accept it and move on.
Just like couples with a straight guy accept it, whe a bi couple put no couples with straight males.
I for one totally except it lol
Just like ta join in the banter xx "
i'm just waiting for the "each to their own" quote now |
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Have replied with sory we dont meet coupls with bi men before, when we have infact met several... as in the past often a "no your twice our size and we dont meet bbw" has tended to offend in the past.
Though latly w simply took to not answring as it savs the why not ping pong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer meeting other straight people, male and female, simply because we’re better suited, there’s no hidden agendas here, even though a good 70% of couples we’ve spoken to try to change the conversation to fem – fun at first instance, but that’s nothing to do with out reason, we both feel, and yes we’ve discussed it at length, that we cannot offer bisexuals what other bisexuals can, could even say we feel slightly inadequate, and being completely honest if we were both bisexual I highly doubt we’d want to meet straight people ourselves.
Having said that, I personally don’t understand myself why couples with a Bi female have problems meeting Bi men, sounds too much like its ok for one but not the other, but only they could answer that, then again we’re of the mindset that if you’re uncomfortable with anything however small it may seem to others it’s best just to walk away.
Don't let it worry you, there's someone for everyone on here, you seem like a nice enough guy when posting and you’ll have way more fun when you do meet the most compatible people . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't let it worry you, there's someone for everyone on here, you seem like a nice enough guy when posting and you’ll have way more fun when you do meet the most compatible people ."
thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just today, I had a couple email me out of the blue suggesting a meet.
they couldn't do an evening BUT could meet me during a weekday during Schoolhours becuase their kids were at School.
Got some photos sent ot me of the wife.
Then I'm asked if I can pick them up and take them back to mine...
ok.....
then the poster admits he might be able to meet and have some secret bi-fun.
Kinda reads as Hey I can go behind my back and meet a man behind wifey's back.
Asked him if his wife knew about it, and he logged out.
Also noted he was deleting posts almost straight away.
Alarm bells.
Yeh I'm bi-oral but i don't tend to mee guys on their own.
I usually play straight but if the situation arises, i'm happy to play with the hubby too.
Think I just had my first bad experience to be honest  |
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