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What does love feel like?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest every time I've fallen in love its not ended well. They just didn't love me back.
However I would say it should feel like toasted marshmallows. Warm. Comforting and just lovely. And it should make you melt a little if not a lot x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To you?
Spread the 
Don't know. Can't say I've ever found it. As soon as I do OP, you'll be the first to know  "
Ok, same question to you as I asked shag, what about the love you feel for your parents or siblings... What does that feel like? |
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It feels safe , he will always look after me. At nearly 20 years we love each more than ever. Love is feeling complete. Love is letting me be the person I am and only he sees that person. Love is letting me be on fab and letting me live out my fantasies. Love is all consuming and of course love is sexy and sexy and sexy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had it. I guess it feels as good as eating haribos 
Ok how about the love for your parents shag?"
Yes that's a good one and yeah it feels good to them. |
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"To you?
Spread the
Don't know. Can't say I've ever found it. As soon as I do OP, you'll be the first to know
Ok, same question to you as I asked shag, what about the love you feel for your parents or siblings... What does that feel like?"
That's certainly a different kind of love. Similar but different. A blood bond. It's an unwavering connection, where you'd literally give up your life in an instant, to save theirs. No questions asked. The cruel part being you only ever truly feel that love when they're no longer around. When it feels like your heart has been torn from your chest. And your own life suddenly feels incredibly empty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it's totally open behaviour and communication, understanding and honesty towards each other. And just that feeling of content and security, whilst mixed with fun, laughter and some good stuff
Yet to get it, I'm old school though - I think you get one love and that's it, I don't understand people who have like 6 marriages  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To you?
Spread the
Don't know. Can't say I've ever found it. As soon as I do OP, you'll be the first to know
Ok, same question to you as I asked shag, what about the love you feel for your parents or siblings... What does that feel like?
That's certainly a different kind of love. Similar but different. A blood bond. It's an unwavering connection, where you'd literally give up your life in an instant, to save theirs. No questions asked. The cruel part being you only ever truly feel that love when they're no longer around. When it feels like your heart has been torn from your chest. And your own life suddenly feels incredibly empty."
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"To you?
Spread the
Don't know. Can't say I've ever found it. As soon as I do OP, you'll be the first to know
Ok, same question to you as I asked shag, what about the love you feel for your parents or siblings... What does that feel like?
That's certainly a different kind of love. Similar but different. A blood bond. It's an unwavering connection, where you'd literally give up your life in an instant, to save theirs. No questions asked. The cruel part being you only ever truly feel that love when they're no longer around. When it feels like your heart has been torn from your chest. And your own life suddenly feels incredibly empty.
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There's that beautiful little speech in Good Will Hunting, where Robin Williams is talking to Matt Damon. This pretty much sums up what love is for me...
You've never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable. Known someone that could level you with her eyes, feeling like God put an angel on earth just for you. Who could rescue you from the depths of hell. And you wouldn't know what it's like to be her angel, to have that love for her, be there forever, through anything, through cancer. And you wouldn't know about sleeping sitting up in the hospital room for two months, holding her hand, because the doctors could see in your eyes, that the terms "visiting hours" don't apply to you. You don't know about real loss, 'cause it only occurs when you've loved something more than you love yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To you?
Spread the
Don't know. Can't say I've ever found it. As soon as I do OP, you'll be the first to know
Ok, same question to you as I asked shag, what about the love you feel for your parents or siblings... What does that feel like?
That's certainly a different kind of love. Similar but different. A blood bond. It's an unwavering connection, where you'd literally give up your life in an instant, to save theirs. No questions asked. The cruel part being you only ever truly feel that love when they're no longer around. When it feels like your heart has been torn from your chest. And your own life suddenly feels incredibly empty.
There's that beautiful little speech in Good Will Hunting, where Robin Williams is talking to Matt Damon. This pretty much sums up what love is for me...
You've never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable. Known someone that could level you with her eyes, feeling like God put an angel on earth just for you. Who could rescue you from the depths of hell. And you wouldn't know what it's like to be her angel, to have that love for her, be there forever, through anything, through cancer. And you wouldn't know about sleeping sitting up in the hospital room for two months, holding her hand, because the doctors could see in your eyes, that the terms "visiting hours" don't apply to you. You don't know about real loss, 'cause it only occurs when you've loved something more than you love yourself."
 I believe I felt love with my first love. The bottom sentence is exactly how I felt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rest my case on the last two ladies comments.
Better off without, its far too dangerous.
Just turn up, get used, be happy, thank them and send them a box of choccies 
Far less painful. |
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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago
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"I rest my case on the last two ladies comments.
Better off without, its far too dangerous.
Just turn up, get used, be happy, thank them and send them a box of choccies
Far less painful."
Well said penny x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love is a delicious torment - when I am with him I can't quite believe he is in my life, I savour every moment. Whether or not the love is reciprocated has no bearings on the depth and intensity of my love for him, xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So to everyone that posted negatively myself included.
How many completely didn't think of your parents live for you during your child hoods.
As actually that felt quite awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been in love so no idea
only ever had one relationship in all my life and I never loved him
I've often wondered what it would be like to have somebody in your life you actually wanted to go home for |
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"I've never been in love so no idea
only ever had one relationship in all my life and I never loved him
I've often wondered what it would be like to have somebody in your life you actually wanted to go home for"
It feels like... Big spoon, little spoon... it just fits. they each have their place, and what the fuck would i know about love... im 22  ahahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amazing. ... exciting..warm.. contented. .. until it goes wrong
Then love can be theeeeeeee most painful feeling in the world...
Love can make you feel on top of the world or rip you apart.... not sure I want to love again in fear of going through the pain.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me?
Acceptance, mainly. Someone who you can be yourself around.
Someone who makes me laugh and puts a smile on my face. When you try and do lots of small special gestures and not just the big grand flashy things.
Someone who wants you even on the bad days, when you don't even want to be in your own company!
And - this happened once! - someone who showers you, towels you, dresses you for bed and combs your hair and ties it up after you've been sick all over their parents' bathroom.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When it goes wrong, its makes the sane, logical, respectful; fall to pieces, nothing else will matter, the world is ending, ripping itself apart and you're trying to holg it all together, hoping it'll be alright and at the same time shouting why? why? all I ever did was love you with my heart and soul, WHY?
You can keep love.... its more dangerous than than the atom bomb for your sanity |
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By *o30Woman
over a year ago
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As Tina Turner once sang, "what's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a second hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart
When a heart can be broken" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, I don't think I experienced love until I had kids, the commitment and responsibility towards them that is unconditional, and my acceptance of who they are, is something bigger than anything else I thought love was. If you give up your self centred behaviour and put the other person above yourself, and they do the same for you, that is what I see as love. But if all you think about is what you get from that person, I don't feel there is love in that kind of relationship. |
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"To be honest, I don't think I experienced love until I had kids, the commitment and responsibility towards them that is unconditional, and my acceptance of who they are, is something bigger than anything else I thought love was. If you give up your self centred behaviour and put the other person above yourself, and they do the same for you, that is what I see as love. But if all you think about is what you get from that person, I don't feel there is love in that kind of relationship."
Yup, altruism is the evidence of love. |
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