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Go on, be brutal
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You didn't ask for help, you asked people to be brutal
I would say your profile is ok as it is except for the last sentance which sounds like a demand."
A demand....nope just a dearly held hope |
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Ok, so...heres the low down!!
You are providing TOO much information about yourself and already painting a picture for everyone before they have even spoke to you.
If your wanting attention from girls you have to get them interested. Ideally, you want your profile to have a bit of mystery....
My suggestion, hold back on the info...takes some things off (what you like to do etc) which...in turn, should provoke women thinking ''hmmm....i wonder what else hes like..blah blahblah''...end result...CONTACT.
Hope that helps dude...happy swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, so...heres the low down!!
You are providing TOO much information about yourself and already painting a picture for everyone before they have even spoke to you.
If your wanting attention from girls you have to get them interested. Ideally, you want your profile to have a bit of mystery....
My suggestion, hold back on the info...takes some things off (what you like to do etc) which...in turn, should provoke women thinking ''hmmm....i wonder what else hes like..blah blahblah''...end result...CONTACT.
Hope that helps dude...happy swinging "
Actually, I disagree.
I'm able to read information, filter out the extraneous and take it from there. Personally I find full profiles beter than one's that you have to spend forever getting information: it's like pulling teeth.
I agree though - I didn't like the last sentence: it does come across as a demand and I'm sure that's not the impression you wish to give.
People are under no obligation to respond to your messages - I think if you start with that in mind you'll save yourself a whole load of grief!
Also, you did say "be brutal" and people have offered their opinions and you're coming across as a little bit narked by some of the replies: people pick up on that. You don't want people to block you before you've even started.
Just my opinion of course.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks sassy, I'm not narkey at all...really. Just my sense of humour. tow people have commented on the last sentence now so am taking the advice. cheers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shall I say what I think this site really needs? A recruitment drive to bolster the number of female members. Perhaps they could put some some small ads in the back pages of certain publications such as Bella, Best, Take a Break, etc, etc. I reckon there are more fems looking to try the swinging lifestyle, yet are too shy to take the 1st step |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shall I say what I think this site really needs? A recruitment drive to bolster the number of female members. Perhaps they could put some some small ads in the back pages of certain publications such as Bella, Best, Take a Break, etc, etc. I reckon there are more fems looking to try the swinging lifestyle, yet are too shy to take the 1st step"
@ Bella, Best and Take a Break!!
You missed out Vogue, Marie Clare and Cosmo!! |
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A salesman who has to slag off the competition’s products in order to sell his own, doesn’t have a good product to sell you… or he would be able to sell it just on its own merits.
I apply this principle to profiles. If a profile writer feels they need to slag off the competition in order to attract people…. I am more than tempted to go and look elsewhere.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A salesman who has to slag off the competition’s products in order to sell his own, doesn’t have a good product to sell you… or he would be able to sell it just on its own merits.
I apply this principle to profiles. If a profile writer feels they need to slag off the competition in order to attract people…. I am more than tempted to go and look elsewhere.
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Well I appreciate where you're coming from but I don't consider myself a product nor this lifestyle choice to be a competition with prizes to be won. But I'll bear what you have to say in mind. |
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