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Why does this site have so many timewasters?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do guys all here take such delight in wasting peoples time on here? 4 guys this morning arranged to meet today, all 4 asked to meet me, then when it comes to arranging a meet then disappear. l have had fake pics send to me, guys saying they can meet then ask me to travel to them when my profile says l do not travel. I have excellent verifications and yet l still get them. Are men really that sad individuals that they need to do this to us ladies. Time to eave here l think as so few read my ad and take notice off what l am looking for. Men please grow up.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thought , the fantasy , the dream are so much more of a reality than the actual meet for so many men , couples and single women on here .
We reckon a maximum of 20% that say they want to meet actually do . So 1 in 5 .
It's a pity , but that's the way it is ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Indeed, all of us men need to grow up.
I'd also like to take this time to commend all women of the world for their perfection.
Two sweeping generalisations there! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Indeed, all of us men need to grow up.
I'd also like to take this time to commend all women of the world for their perfection.
Quite right "
I knew you'd agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What came first the chicken or the egg? Everyone will all have their own answer.
I'd personally go dolally, if I tried to figure out the opposite sex and gave up on my own sex, many years ago lol
My own personal experience, recently, has left me flummoxed, as to why, we all do, what we do.
I've never once witnessed, a hunter, catch it's prey, to then just leave it untouched.  Yet, on here the hunter soon becomes the pussy! And I refuse to try and fathom as to why this happens. As the list is endless.
I find there's no point in asking "is it them or me?". It's just people and we know ourselves, we're all a little odd, those that say they aren't are the worst 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You see....... here's the thing,,,,,
Whenever someone bemoans their reoccurring failure or vents their frustrations about the behaviour of other site members, they seem happy to ignore the one denominator common to all their misfortunate experiences...  |
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"The thought , the fantasy , the dream are so much more of a reality than the actual meet for so many men , couples and single women on here .
We reckon a maximum of 20% that say they want to meet actually do . So 1 in 5 .
It's a pity , but that's the way it is ......"
FFS it's difficult enough for genuine guys who want to (and actually do) meet as it is, without assholes wasting it for the genuine guys. I just don't get it though, where's the fun in NOT meeting people, AFTER arranging a meet???
That's not having a pop at those who fantasise/dream, if that floats their boat that's just dandy, it's the eejit's who arrange stuff only to disappear that piss me off! |
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"The thought , the fantasy , the dream are so much more of a reality than the actual meet for so many men , couples and single women on here .
We reckon a maximum of 20% that say they want to meet actually do . So 1 in 5 .
It's a pity , but that's the way it is ......"
FFS it's difficult enough for genuine guys who want to (and actually do) meet as it is, without assholes wasting it for the genuine guys. I just don't get it though, where's the fun in NOT meeting people, AFTER arranging a meet???
That's not having a pop at those who fantasise/dream, if that floats their boat that's just dandy, it's the eejit's who arrange stuff only to disappear that piss me off! |
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"In what way do people described as time wasters spoil it for those who don't? I take responsibility for my own experience on fab and don't blame inferred or otherwise, anyone else. "
The number of profiles stating they won't meet single guys due to timewasters, doesn't spoil things as such, but perhaps does show how timewasters actions can be an irritation for genuine people (especially those who're left waiting) |
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"In what way do people described as time wasters spoil it for those who don't? I take responsibility for my own experience on fab and don't blame inferred or otherwise, anyone else.
The number of profiles stating they won't meet single guys due to timewasters, doesn't spoil things as such, but perhaps does show how
timewasters actions can be an irritation
for genuine people (especially those
who're left waiting)"
So then it doesn't affect you then unless you're a time waster? If they don't want to meet single guys, they don't want to meet single guys irrespective of the reason they give. |
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I've never had a no show, I've chatted to people and then it fizzles out or we realised we won't be comparable.
I have my own way of doing things and up to now it's worked.
I'd never blame someone else for another behaviour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been messed about or stood up rtc by couples and single fems as well as single men in the past.
I think some people (M/F/MF/TV) like the thrill of the chase, the teasing messages and flanter, but have no intention of meeting. Swinging and no strings sex is a fantasy to them and one they might never actually turn into reality.
unfortunately the 'dreamers' are not always easy to spot.
Sasha x |
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