Depends on the organiser I guess. The ones I organise at Chams have no requirements. Anyone can go on the list,there was a size 6 that asked to be on the list once.
I think the banner 'bbw night' just gives some larger ladies more confidence that people will want to play with them when they are there as some are quite nervous of 'normal' club nights.
I certainly don't stand on reception checking people's clothe sizes to make sure they are big enough lol |
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Lol thanks for the reply.
I love big ladies. I'm sure most on here are confident to a certain extent but it must be great for them going there knowing its them people are after wanting to play with. |
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"Depends on the organiser I guess. The ones I organise at Chams have no requirements. Anyone can go on the list,there was a size 6 that asked to be on the list once.
I think the banner 'bbw night' just gives some larger ladies more confidence that people will want to play with them when they are there as some are quite nervous of 'normal' club nights.
I certainly don't stand on reception checking people's clothe sizes to make sure they are big enough lol "
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"Depends on the organiser I guess. The ones I organise at Chams have no requirements. Anyone can go on the list,there was a size 6 that asked to be on the list once.
I think the banner 'bbw night' just gives some larger ladies more confidence that people will want to play with them when they are there as some are quite nervous of 'normal' club nights.
I certainly don't stand on reception checking people's clothe sizes to make sure they are big enough lol "
I should hope not Evie make it a boring night for you |
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"Don't think there is one, all the ones I've been to have been open to all ladies but knowing the admirers prefer woman of size.
I wouldn't go to one now"
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"Don't think there is one, all the ones I've been to have been open to all ladies but knowing the admirers prefer woman of size.
I wouldn't go to one now
Why? "
because I don't class myself as a bbw |
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"Don't think there is one, all the ones I've been to have been open to all ladies but knowing the admirers prefer woman of size.
I wouldn't go to one now
Why? because I don't class myself as a bbw"
You're a 16, I'm a 16, it's not a small size really |
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"Don't think there is one, all the ones I've been to have been open to all ladies but knowing the admirers prefer woman of size.
I wouldn't go to one now
Why? because I don't class myself as a bbw
You're a 16, I'm a 16, it's not a small size really "
I don't remember saying it was a small size, I'm now a 14. I said I don't class myself as a bbw.We all see ourselves differently.
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"I got told I was too thin once I did ask if they had gone to spec savers  "
I had that at chams at the bbw bash, A guy I liked and I actually approached him and he said no sorry, your too thin for me. I wasn't sure how to take it. |
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"Don't think there is one, all the ones I've been to have been open to all ladies but knowing the admirers prefer woman of size.
I wouldn't go to one now
Why? because I don't class myself as a bbw
You're a 16, I'm a 16, it's not a small size really I don't remember saying it was a small size, I'm now a 14. I said I don't class myself as a bbw.We all see ourselves differently.
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This is why I asked. I love all ladies but like 18+.
I would say anything over 12 is big but who am I to judge. |
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"I got told I was too thin once I did ask if they had gone to spec savers
I had that at chams at the bbw bash, A guy I liked and I actually approached him and he said no sorry, your too thin for me. I wasn't sure how to take it. "
Same thing happened to us .
We went to Chams a couple of years ago , and didn't know beforehand it was Bbw party . It didn't really matter to us and as it was an 80 mile trip we thought why not .
Well , I don't think we had ever had a night there where Sabrina felt so out of sorts . The usual foray of guys following was now nil . Not much flirting and all the larger women were having a great time .
So we went to the jacuzzis and had a bit of a play with each other , again being pretty much ignored until a young couple ( she was slim ) joined us and we found a quiet spot upstairs for a play . They hadn't realised it was a Bbw party either and had the same issue as us . Lack of interest in the thinner lady .
So when threads talk of preferences , there truly is a genuine preference for the larger ladies on here , it's not just guys saying it to look good .
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I would consider bbw as anything size 16 plus. But like evie said everyone is aloud to go it just makes us bigger girls feel more comfortable and confident |
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Anything over a 12 is big?
Good fuckin' god!
16 is the UK average now.
Besides, a 5' size 12 will look very different to a 6' size 12.
Comments like that actually make me wonder if there's any point me losing weight because I'll still be "big" apparently.
FFS. |
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You can't really say what size is or isn't a bbw its all subjective.
Plus clothes size is an erroneous measurement because a 5'1" size 16 lady could look (and percieve herself, and be percieved) entirely differently to a size 16 5'10" lady.
Diamonds I wish you were going to the Beach Party- not because of your (now svelt) body but because your personality is Big and Beautiful xx |
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"Anything over a 12 is big?
Good fuckin' god!
16 is the UK average now.
Besides, a 5' size 12 will look very different to a 6' size 12.
Comments like that actually make me wonder if there's any point me losing weight because I'll still be "big" apparently.
FFS."
Do it if it makes You happy xx |
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"Anything over a 12 is big?
Good fuckin' god!
16 is the UK average now.
Besides, a 5' size 12 will look very different to a 6' size 12.
Comments like that actually make me wonder if there's any point me losing weight because I'll still be "big" apparently.
FFS.
Do it if it makes You happy xx"
It'd make me feel shitty to put all that effort in - and even to get to a 16 would be a huge task - and then be told I'm still big.
So fuck it. I'm not going to bother. I can do as I like, not struggle, and continue to eat what I like and stay big, or I can deny myself, work and sweat and still be big.
Losing weight is difficult for me; a real battle. I've just realised it is not worth it.
Pass the Ben and Jerry's. |
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"Anything over a 12 is big?
Good fuckin' god!
16 is the UK average now.
Besides, a 5' size 12 will look very different to a 6' size 12.
Comments like that actually make me wonder if there's any point me losing weight because I'll still be "big" apparently.
FFS.
Do it if it makes You happy xx
It'd make me feel shitty to put all that effort in - and even to get to a 16 would be a huge task - and then be told I'm still big.
So fuck it. I'm not going to bother. I can do as I like, not struggle, and continue to eat what I like and stay big, or I can deny myself, work and sweat and still be big.
Losing weight is difficult for me; a real battle. I've just realised it is not worth it.
Pass the Ben and Jerry's."
Because of something one man said? |
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"Anything over a 12 is big?
Good fuckin' god!
16 is the UK average now.
Besides, a 5' size 12 will look very different to a 6' size 12.
Comments like that actually make me wonder if there's any point me losing weight because I'll still be "big" apparently.
FFS.
Do it if it makes You happy xx
It'd make me feel shitty to put all that effort in - and even to get to a 16 would be a huge task - and then be told I'm still big.
So fuck it. I'm not going to bother. I can do as I like, not struggle, and continue to eat what I like and stay big, or I can deny myself, work and sweat and still be big.
Losing weight is difficult for me; a real battle. I've just realised it is not worth it.
Pass the Ben and Jerry's."
I wouldn't let a crass comment put you off.
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"Anything over a 12 is big?
Good fuckin' god!
16 is the UK average now.
Besides, a 5' size 12 will look very different to a 6' size 12.
Comments like that actually make me wonder if there's any point me losing weight because I'll still be "big" apparently.
FFS.
Do it if it makes You happy xx
It'd make me feel shitty to put all that effort in - and even to get to a 16 would be a huge task - and then be told I'm still big.
So fuck it. I'm not going to bother. I can do as I like, not struggle, and continue to eat what I like and stay big, or I can deny myself, work and sweat and still be big.
Losing weight is difficult for me; a real battle. I've just realised it is not worth it.
Pass the Ben and Jerry's."
You are far more intelligent that that |
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"Anything over a 12 is big?
Good fuckin' god!
16 is the UK average now.
Besides, a 5' size 12 will look very different to a 6' size 12.
Comments like that actually make me wonder if there's any point me losing weight because I'll still be "big" apparently.
FFS.
Do it if it makes You happy xx
It'd make me feel shitty to put all that effort in - and even to get to a 16 would be a huge task - and then be told I'm still big.
So fuck it. I'm not going to bother. I can do as I like, not struggle, and continue to eat what I like and stay big, or I can deny myself, work and sweat and still be big.
Losing weight is difficult for me; a real battle. I've just realised it is not worth it.
Pass the Ben and Jerry's.
You are far more intelligent that that"
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