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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Please don't take this as a judgemental post.

Each to their own etc..

However are there any Fettishes or kinks people mention that you just don't get or leave you scratching your head??

For me it cum tributes and sploshing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh and self sucking men. Really???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

poo, wee and pain.

But like you say I don't judge those who are into it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cock rings, i dont see the attention

or need

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ffs attraction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Feet...huh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Feet, I've had people comment on mine, and I just don't get it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Financial domination,

not what it's about for me at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"poo, wee and pain.

But like you say I don't judge those who are into it."

Yup not for me either. Although the pain thing I do understand why so many do enjoy it

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Please don't take this as a judgemental post.

Each to their own etc..

However are there any Fettishes or kinks people mention that you just don't get or leave you scratching your head??

For me it cum tributes and sploshing

I'm not sure what a cum tribute is but I have totally covered my bedroom with industrial cling film and had an Angel Delight fight!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

feet and trainer sock fettish a dont get

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

some have a fettish for cross dressers

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Deepthroating untill your sick then carrying on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't waste my energy trying to understand other's fetishes just as I don't expect them to understand mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Feet, I've had people comment on mine, and I just don't get it"
I laugh when people used to comment on mine as I know they are horrid that's why I like shoes so much

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Being beaten up, not rough or caning but those that like to be properly beaten

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Please don't take this as a judgemental post.

Each to their own etc..

However are there any Fettishes or kinks people mention that you just don't get or leave you scratching your head??

For me it cum tributes and sploshing

I'm not sure what a cum tribute is but I have totally covered my bedroom with industrial cling film and had an Angel Delight fight!

That does sound like fun though reminds me of a story my friend told me. She was seeing a girl who wanted to do things with angel delight and a hairbrush!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Deepthroating untill your sick then carrying on

This just freaks me out. I'm all for deep throat but I control it. My mouth is to be enjoyed not used

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't waste my energy trying to understand other's fetishes just as I don't expect them to understand mine."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Being beaten up, not rough or caning but those that like to be properly beaten

I know and it's surprisingly common

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"some have a fettish for cross dressers

That's all well and good until they look better than you in the lingerie

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Cock rings, i dont see the attention

or need

They can aid sex for a lot or men

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

"Deepthroating untill your sick then carrying on

This just freaks me out. I'm all for deep throat but I control it. My mouth is to be enjoyed not used "

Yes It does me too Needless to say I deleted and blocked the person who messaged me this question!

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By *trawberry-popWoman over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Pooh!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being beaten up, not rough or caning but those that like to be properly beaten

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As a Newcastle fan you soon get used to having a good hiding now and then

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By *callycatMan over a year ago

Mid Wales

There's no accounting for fetishes...

Tattoos and piercings leave me cold but I love permanent jewellery and bondage gear. Rubber and Lycra are so naff but then I adore satin and lace.

Cross dressing males are of no interest but masculine women have their attraction.

Isn't it amazing we are all different!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's the cuddly animal one for me. Don't get is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am pretty sure this is another one of those urban myths.

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By *xoticloverMan over a year ago

newcastle

"Oh and self sucking men. Really???"

Self sucking not possible

My fetish: girl with hairy forearm.. Strange but true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pregnancy / lactating as a sexual fetish.

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By *otlerCouple over a year ago

Newbury

Walking on mice with stiletto heels , meant to be a genuine fetish i read somewhere

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Being beaten up, not rough or caning but those that like to be properly beaten

Last time I was at Chams there was some really violent porn on in one of the rooms. Was quite off putting!

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By *ady4ladyWoman over a year ago

liverpool

Guys wearing nappies, being babies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am pretty sure this is another one of those urban myths. "

Possibly but it freaks me out. Just the thought of not knowing in general does. Suppose that is part of the thrill for those who enjoy it. I'm a bit of a control freak though so I like to fully inspect the goods first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a playmate who had some great kinks but a few went to far for me.

Sex in a graveyard was fun...for a while. She had a massive foot fetish (first I had ever heard of a woman liking man feet) which I played along with for her but.....

... She wanted to ride me while I sat on the loo and went number two.

A step to far over the line that one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stockings and high heels. Stockings feel horrid to me (both wearing and touching) and high heels are just modern day foot binding. I don't get it.

Totally into ultraviolence though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a playmate who had some great kinks but a few went to far for me.

Sex in a graveyard was fun...for a while. She had a massive foot fetish (first I had ever heard of a woman liking man feet) which I played along with for her but.....

... She wanted to ride me while I sat on the loo and went number two.

A step to far over the line that one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a playmate who had some great kinks but a few went to far for me.

Sex in a graveyard was fun...for a while. She had a massive foot fetish (first I had ever heard of a woman liking man feet) which I played along with for her but.....

... She wanted to ride me while I sat on the loo and went number two.

A step to far over the line that one.

Jeeze anyone brave enough to enter the loo while I am having a dump deserves a medal.

Am sure they would leg it once their eye's start watering

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Feet...huh?"

agreed, I see nothing attractive about feet personally. In fact I'm actually pretty scared of them to be honest. But each to their own as long as no one wants to see or touch mine! Haha T x

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Oh and self sucking men. Really???

Self sucking not possible"

Oh yes it is... I used know this Frenchman who...

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By *1paljungMan over a year ago

Richmond

"feet and trainer sock fettish a dont get"

Yeah really struggle with trainer socks, I mean it's an obvious thing, why sear them?

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

But yes, pretty much everything on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a playmate who had some great kinks but a few went to far for me.

Sex in a graveyard was fun...for a while. She had a massive foot fetish (first I had ever heard of a woman liking man feet) which I played along with for her but.....

... She wanted to ride me while I sat on the loo and went number two.

A step to far over the line that one.

Jeeze anyone brave enough to enter the loo while I am having a dump deserves a medal.

Am sure they would leg it once their eye's start watering

I agree.....I dont even wanna be in there for my own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funniest interview I ever saw was graham norton interviewing Cher...he rang a guy who had a massive fetish for balloons and chatted to him for ages. The balloon fetish guy had listed his interests on his website as balloons and...Cher. Cher spoke to the guy and you could practically hear the guy cream his pants on the phone with a 'Nnnnhhhuuuhh' sound. Ace tv

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is a trainer sock fetish????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fisting.

Sorry don't get it.

But I think there is a difference between a fetish and a kink maybe??

I dunno??

Now can someone pass me the lederhosen and a couple of dwarfs please?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I 'get' nearly everything in that I understand why the fetish might be appealing. Even when they're very deeply sublimated. What I don't get is when people weigh up the reality of the fetish and still consider it attractive.

But I guess that's the thing about fetishes - whatever they are, they're impulse-like and hard to reason cognitively. At the very least it's hard to be logical when there's that level of base attraction for something.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fisting.

Sorry don't get it.

But I think there is a difference between a fetish and a kink maybe??

I dunno??

Now can someone pass me the lederhosen and a couple of dwarfs please? "

Surely the lederhosen will just look like brown trousers on the dwarfs.....you need hotpants.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Oh and self sucking men. Really???"

now be honest if you could, you may be tempted..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fisting.

Sorry don't get it.

But I think there is a difference between a fetish and a kink maybe??

I dunno??

Now can someone pass me the lederhosen and a couple of dwarfs please?

Surely the lederhosen will just look like brown trousers on the dwarfs.....you need hotpants."

No I will be wearing the lederhosen, dwarfs will be dressed as giant bunny rabbits. Derrrr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I joined Alt sex site once thinking it was a type of site to meet Emos or Goths ect, only until I went on the fetish page I had a shock of the A to Z list of kinks and fetishes ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fisting.

Sorry don't get it.

But I think there is a difference between a fetish and a kink maybe??

I dunno??

Now can someone pass me the lederhosen and a couple of dwarfs please?

Surely the lederhosen will just look like brown trousers on the dwarfs.....you need hotpants.

No I will be wearing the lederhosen, dwarfs will be dressed as giant bunny rabbits. Derrrr

Of course...my bad......I don't know what I was thinking.

The bunnies will have table tennis bats and rice pudding won't they...or it would just be weird.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloodletting and watersports

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By *racie14xxWoman over a year ago

portsmouth

Yes nappies and baby fetishes....just no!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think I 'get' nearly everything in that I understand why the fetish might be appealing. Even when they're very deeply sublimated. What I don't get is when people weigh up the reality of the fetish and still consider it attractive.

I'm completely fascinated by people's fettishes and tastes and desires. It's very healthy to have them. Fantasy is a safe way to explore them. It's just sad that sometimes people make fantasy a reality and get hurt or hurt others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Poo

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

Period sex or whatever it's called. Anything menstrual based makes me feel ill

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Extreme pain. Understand light pain to wake up the receptors but don't understand why people enjoy being made to bruise or causing others to bruise for example. Sexual hooligans as opposed to football hooligans in my view. But yeah each to their own and all that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men kissing really makes my burgers repeat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and self sucking men. Really???

Self sucking not possible

My fetish: girl with hairy forearm.. Strange but true"

Self sucking is definitely possible... Get yourself into the cam rooms and you'll soon see thst it is !!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Objectum sexually.. basically giving inanimate objects a life and also having sex with them. There was a girl who was in love with the Berlin Wall.

lets hope she wasn't crushed when the wall came down..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bukkake.....never got how a woman can be sexually satisfied by this?! I get the fact that she has lots of hard cocks over her but she doesn't get any satisfaction from them cumming over her surely?! Or maybe I am just greedy as would not just want to see them wanking but would want fucking too?!! x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounding!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Men kissing really makes my burgers repeat. "

Yet for me watching men kiss is a huge turn on.

Love how we are all so different

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bukkake.....never got how a woman can be sexually satisfied by this?! I get the fact that she has lots of hard cocks over her but she doesn't get any satisfaction from them cumming over her surely?! Or maybe I am just greedy as would not just want to see them wanking but would want fucking too?!! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sounding!"

Yup I just think ouch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Choking.

Nooooooo no just no!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Cock rings, i dont see the attention

or need

They're an accessory surely, not a fetish?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Feet

Foot

Pain

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Feet/shoes

Being a baby

The 3 P's

Having something inserted inside your cock

Car sex. Actually fuckin it.

Granny sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Extreme pain. Understand light pain to wake up the receptors but don't understand why people enjoy being made to bruise or causing others to bruise for example. Sexual hooligans as opposed to football hooligans in my view. But yeah each to their own and all that."

There's nothing I can say to that other than 'it feels good'. Not just the pain (the pain doesn't always feel good) but the control feels good too. Someone else having so much control over you is a huge turn on for many people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounding!

Yup I just think ouch "

I just asked my slave why he likes me sounding him. He said:

1. Stimulating the inside of the cock feels really good. Because the skin inside isn't used to being touched, it's a really intense sensation.

2. It feels really violating having something put inside your penis by someone else. It's a demonstration of their control and that in itself gets him off.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Granny sex

Wait till the Crumpet catches up with you!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sniffing used pantiies you get through the post

Oh, and the word panties

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Feet/shoes

Being a baby

The 3 P's

Having something inserted inside your cock

Car sex. Actually fuckin it.

Granny sex

There are 4P's ... all of them euwww

? and wtf? actually fucking a car? is it female or male? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to there own, as long as they aren`t harming anyone, if it`s between two consenting adults, enjoy yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to there own, as long as they aren`t harming anyone, if it`s between two consenting adults, enjoy yourselves."

Thank you Reverand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Each to there own, as long as they aren`t harming anyone, if it`s between two consenting adults, enjoy yourselves.

Thank you Reverand"

You are welcome my child.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

There are loads of fetishes I'm not into but I can't say there are any I don't understand.

I'm not into cum tributes but I know some men like having hot photos to wank over and I can see how some women might enjoy knowing they are being wanked over.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Other people's used undies

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Smoking - I had an offer of a bj last week on condition that I smoked a cigar.

WTF??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't waste my energy trying to understand other's fetishes just as I don't expect them to understand mine."

Well Said

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Really don't get pegging but lots of people seem to

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I don't waste my energy trying to understand other's fetishes just as I don't expect them to understand mine.

Well Said

Yeah, in the spectrum of human sexuality nothing is that weird.

Keep it legal, keep it consensual and do what you like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sniffing used pantiies you get through the post

Oh, and the word panties"

I prefer " knickers," or " drawers", they make me laugh, and laughter should be a part of it all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't waste my energy trying to understand other's fetishes just as I don't expect them to understand mine.

Well Said

Yeah, in the spectrum of human sexuality nothing is that weird.

Keep it legal, keep it consensual and do what you like. "

nice one mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are loads of fetishes I'm not into but I can't say there are any I don't understand.

I'm not into cum tributes but I know some men like having hot photos to wank over and I can see how some women might enjoy knowing they are being wanked over."

I don't understand most cum tributes, because in most cases the guys seem to be getting off on the fact that their partner *doesn't know or consent*. I don't understand why you'd get off on non-consensual behaviour like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't waste my energy trying to understand other's fetishes just as I don't expect them to understand mine.

Well Said

Yeah, in the spectrum of human sexuality nothing is that weird.

Keep it legal, keep it consensual and do what you like. "

I'm screwed then. Most of what I enjoy sexually is *technically* illegal.

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By *acndaveCouple over a year ago

runcorn

I watched a programme not so long ago about a sexual fetish of helium balloons

they would have balloon popping parties that they would all get off on... just didnt get it very strange.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple over a year ago

andover

first time we saw pony girls..pulling around a trap..very different..connie xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are loads of fetishes I'm not into but I can't say there are any I don't understand.

I'm not into cum tributes but I know some men like having hot photos to wank over and I can see how some women might enjoy knowing they are being wanked over.

Something deep and psychological, perhaps he`s being empowered by it, if she is in charge,lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are loads of fetishes I'm not into but I can't say there are any I don't understand.

I'm not into cum tributes but I know some men like having hot photos to wank over and I can see how some women might enjoy knowing they are being wanked over.

Something deep and psychological, perhaps he`s being empowered by it, if she is in charge,lol"

Sounds a bit rapey to me. Feeling powerful through non-consensual sexual behaviour.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There are loads of fetishes I'm not into but I can't say there are any I don't understand.

I'm not into cum tributes but I know some men like having hot photos to wank over and I can see how some women might enjoy knowing they are being wanked over.

It's like people getting off on sex in public where they are seen by people who haven't consented to being involved.

It's wrong, IMO, and I couldn't do it or get off from it, but wrong and taboo is a thrill for some people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I have a pedicure a guy I meet gets off on the thought of someone playing with my feet, me very confused there FEET

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are loads of fetishes I'm not into but I can't say there are any I don't understand.

I'm not into cum tributes but I know some men like having hot photos to wank over and I can see how some women might enjoy knowing they are being wanked over.

Something deep and psychological, perhaps he`s being empowered by it, if she is in charge,lol

Sounds a bit rapey to me. Feeling powerful through non-consensual sexual behaviour."

Possibly along those lines, but I don`t think they would actually rape, but it may be power over a woman that,s involved.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Munging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are loads of fetishes I'm not into but I can't say there are any I don't understand.

I'm not into cum tributes but I know some men like having hot photos to wank over and I can see how some women might enjoy knowing they are being wanked over.

Something deep and psychological, perhaps he`s being empowered by it, if she is in charge,lol

Sounds a bit rapey to me. Feeling powerful through non-consensual sexual behaviour.

Possibly along those lines, but I don`t think they would actually rape, but it may be power over a woman that,s involved."

I didn't say they could. I just said it was in the same lines.

There's plenty of consensual ways to hold power over a woman sexually. Where she's agreed.

Unsurprisingly when I call guys out in the chatrooms about this kind of behaviour, they're generally very defensive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I have a pedicure a guy I meet gets off on the thought of someone playing with my feet, me very confused there FEET "

A pedicure?

whats the world coming to man!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Deepthroating untill your sick then carrying on

If your good at deep throating you wont be sick, if no gag reflex even better ( so I have been told I am great at it)

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm screwed then. Most of what I enjoy sexually is *technically* illegal."

'Technically'?

I'm intrigued!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There are loads of fetishes I'm not into but I can't say there are any I don't understand.

I'm not into cum tributes but I know some men like having hot photos to wank over and I can see how some women might enjoy knowing they are being wanked over.

Something deep and psychological, perhaps he`s being empowered by it, if she is in charge,lol

Sounds a bit rapey to me. Feeling powerful through non-consensual sexual behaviour.

Possibly along those lines, but I don`t think they would actually rape, but it may be power over a woman that,s involved.

I didn't say they could. I just said it was in the same lines.

There's plenty of consensual ways to hold power over a woman sexually. Where she's agreed.

Unsurprisingly when I call guys out in the chatrooms about this kind of behaviour, they're generally very defensive."

They tend to be the ones who see women as property that they can do as they like with.

I think part of the kick of those kind of cum tributes is the guy saying 'look at the hot piece of stuff I own, that you can only wank over'. It's bragging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm screwed then. Most of what I enjoy sexually is *technically* illegal.

'Technically'?

I'm intrigued!

Common assault. It's not that interesting. You still can't consent to assault in the context of sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me its the whole, "I'm owned by..." thing, I find it a bit demeaning?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm screwed then. Most of what I enjoy sexually is *technically* illegal.

'Technically'?

I'm intrigued!

Come on Officer.....that's just a technicality

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm screwed then. Most of what I enjoy sexually is *technically* illegal.

'Technically'?

I'm intrigued!

A lot of BDSM is a grey area in terms of the law.

It's not possible to give consent to what amounts to assault, for example.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I'm screwed then. Most of what I enjoy sexually is *technically* illegal.

'Technically'?

I'm intrigued!

A lot of BDSM is a grey area in terms of the law.

It's not possible to give consent to what amounts to assault, for example."

R v Brown is the most famous case under this. A group of people quite happily got off on pain, but it was deemed assault and so went through the courts and I believe one chap ended up in chokey.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't get beaning. It's beyond me.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Actually, I lie.

I don't get dredging.

That one is beyond me.