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over a year ago
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"How freely do you give them?
Will you pitch them fairly openly and freely to people, or like me, are you quite difficult to impress?"
I am very difficult to impress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How freely do you give them?
Will you pitch them fairly openly and freely to people, or like me, are you quite difficult to impress?"
I find accepting a compliment quite hard. You have to invest in a bullshit dick-tectometer, there are some who will say anything to get into your knickers, or in your case crackers...
Face to face genuine compliments are a little easier to distinguish...
I only compliment if its deserving, and only truthfully as i see it...  |
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I am not easy to impress, however, I love to compliment those things I do appreciate.
It doesn't have to be big. If someone has made an effort, or just has a certain je ne said quoi (whatever that is?), I like to let them know it has been appreciated.
Zero effort for me, and hopefully lots of positivity spread around.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn't say I'm easy or hard to impress... If I genuinely feel they deserve a compliment, I will give one and, quite happily so.
I.e. I love what your wearing |
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If I feel they deserve it and I'm genuinely impressed by something I'll happily give a compliment. If we're talking women here then I've got such a wide range of things that impress me that I will throw out compliments quite a lot on even the strangest things.
If I really like you then you'll definitely know about it as I'll really go to town on the compliments. And I will genuinely mean every one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy to give them, I think if they're unsolicited they're more genuine. At work the other day I complimented a customer on her hair colour and said it looked amazing, she blushed almost the same colour as her hair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How freely do you give them?
Will you pitch them fairly openly and freely to people, or like me, are you quite difficult to impress?
I am very difficult to impress"
Any reason why? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Research shows people who give more compliments are more confident themselves and have higher self esteem!
Try and give at least one a day!"
Any links to this research? |
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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago
South of Sleaford |
At a party last week another tgirl told me I was gorgeous. That was lovely and I accepted that she found me attractive. I do not look for ulterior motives. If I find another tgirl or a woman particularly attractive I will compliment them. We all need to be told how great we look don't we! Women accept the compliment gracefully and mostly give one back. Other tgirls initially think I am hitting on them until I tell them why I think they stand out. If I compliment a guy there is often a stunned shock and it is obvious that they do not know how to respond. I then say something like "you look good" and I walk off.
Just my experience. |
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I find it difficult to accept compliments, sometimes thinking they want something in return, an alterior motive, but if I think someone/something deserves a compliment I won't think twice to hand them out! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to compliment people on a variety of things. I like to make people smile . "
I think you look very sensuous Cinnamon, and remember, I don't give compliments often x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love giving compliments, but I find that young ladies in their early to mid 20s don't seem to like them in comparison to women my own age or older. Not sure why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I give them freely but they are always my honest opinion. I like to make people feel good but if I didn't believe what i was saying it would show."
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The key is sincerity - if you can fake that, you're laughing!
But seriously, - I try to find something to compliment (smile, eyes, humour, clothes or whatever) |
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"I like to compliment people on a variety of things. I like to make people smile .
I think you look very sensuous Cinnamon, and remember, I don't give compliments often x"
Thank you Sexy[Brian]  x  I know you don't. 
You of course are a fine figure of a man with a brain.... |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I think it's all to do with personality. I'm one of those annoying optimistic good mood people most of the time (with occasional ranting) and saying something nice to people is part of that. It's never calculated and with my mates I am just as likely to take the piss and wind them up as I am to say I like their new haircut or whatever. |
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