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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you think you are good in bed?
I've read plenty profiles that claim it. They even have verifications that seem to back up their claims, yet I know people who have met folk like this and been left wondering if it's them as it wasn't great!
Is it all 80% enthusiasm and attraction and only 20% skills? |
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"Being good in bed is entirely down to the person (or people) you're in bed with. If the dynamics are right, it's dynamite. It's such a subjective thing."
this..
if the chemistry connects then its awesome..
and nothing to do with 'lick you till you scream', fuck you all night yada yada bollocks.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good in bed is very much down to attitude. On fab it is possible for ordinary looking women to get all the sex they want without trying. Consequently some are selfish as to what they do for the guys to have pleasure.
On the other hand there are many men who view sex as taking their enjoyment and ignoring the woman's needs. "Lets face it, if she has not cum in 5 minutes she is not going to so I might as well blow my load"
We both try hard to ensure men and women enjoy our meets. Whether we succeed is up for debate but we at least try.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got things I need to improve on massively. Any type of girl on top position I'm shit cos I've hardly ever done it.
Why don't you do Cowgirl?  "
Dont know, can't say I don't like it cos I've hardly ever done it but I prefer the guy on top of me or behind me. Just what I'm used to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being good in bed is entirely down to the person (or people) you're in bed with. If the dynamics are right, it's dynamite. It's such a subjective thing."
^ This.
People get off on such a diverse range of things that it's almost impossible to say.
What I would say though is that for me personally,there are probably things that you can do that most people will like... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think you are good in bed?
I've read plenty profiles that claim it. They even have verifications that seem to back up their claims, yet I know people who have met folk like this and been left wondering if it's them as it wasn't great!
Is it all 80% enthusiasm and attraction and only 20% skills? "
I'm a shit shag let me prove it to you   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had loads of one offs, so not sure if I am good or bad. I guess I am average in bed lol.
One offs don't count lol "
lol so only if you had a partner or married?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had no complaints and everyone I have met has messaged to meet again.
Saying that. it all depends on the person you are in bed with. What one person likes another may hate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have had loads of one offs, so not sure if I am good or bad. I guess I am average in bed lol.
One offs don't count lol lol so only if you had a partner or married? "
Anyone then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's like sales .. Under promise and over deliver. That way you always seem to be doing well "
Now this i can agree on... It is always different depending on the person... The last thing I would want is to say one thing and be something completely different... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have had loads of one offs, so not sure if I am good or bad. I guess I am average in bed lol.
One offs don't count lol lol so only if you had a partner or married?
Anyone then "
lol good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being good in bed is entirely down to the person (or people) you're in bed with. If the dynamics are right, it's dynamite. It's such a subjective thing."
Agree totally, you can be great with one person and not so good with another....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been that long since i have taken anyone to bed with me i doubt i would be any good at all but then i guess that why i dont say im any good on my profile. But i will always try my best |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being good in bed is entirely down to the person (or people) you're in bed with. If the dynamics are right, it's dynamite. It's such a subjective thing."
This. 
Its only ever as good as the worst person..and it changes with every second with every person...soo many factors. Its all about the chemistry, the fit, the dynamics.. I dont claim anything. That is down to my partner to decide.
Its the same with kissing. You may be an amazing kisser but if your partner kissing like a dying squid in a washing machine the kiss will always be crap |
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Surely it's down to chemistry? I had a meet with glowing verifications that was the worst sex I've had since being a teenager 
I always think sex should be a 50/50 split (well, if with one partner). Put in as much as you expect back. No laying there like a sack of spuds. Get in there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am fair to fucking awesome! "
Noted 
As the saying goes, its not how many you have been with..but how many want to come back for more.
Abraham Lincoln Dec 1519.
It said so on the interweb. Must be true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being good in bed is entirely down to the person (or people) you're in bed with. If the dynamics are right, it's dynamite. It's such a subjective thing."
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honest answer? some have said I am fantastic and come back (many times for more). Others have not been impressed. what suits one does not suit another. I find that getting to know the other person is very important. so I tend not to do so well on 'one offs'. Suz on the other hand ... lol |
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"Fuckin' hope so, been practicing for long enough!
How apt is this one?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FRVSSwJYqh0 "
Very good.
Was thinking more...
Room 5 Featuring Oliver Cheatham - Make Luv
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UcHs2f2TSxI |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's subjective. But it's all about chemistry, a connection and the knowledge of your partner's body, and that isn't an instant thing."
Some people are much better at reading partners quickly...I think they are the ones who coukd be considered as 'better' |
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