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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!  |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help! "
Why are you only questioning women's ability to lable their own size ? |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Why are you only questioning women's ability to lable their own size ?"
My area of interest, I did put " other areas too". |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Why are you only questioning women's ability to lable their own size ?
My area of interest, I did put " other areas too". "
It's always best to keep posts non gender specific and focus on the pathetic labelling that people are forced to use in their profiling.
That's people or members or fabbites. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot of guys put athletic when they are not what size do you refer too"
This is the point, people seem to have definitions confused. It's not a problem as such, but some do get shirty about it. |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Why are you only questioning women's ability to lable their own size ?
My area of interest, I did put " other areas too".
It's always best to keep posts non gender specific and focus on the pathetic labelling that people are forced to use in their profiling.
That's people or members or fabbites. "
Good point, I'll keep that in mind, thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why worry about it..they are only labels. Have a look at the pictures people have and if you like what ya see fill ya boots. If not wander on by. Easy 
T (the curvy, fat, ample one!) X "
Not 'all woman' or 'fuller figured' then?
Hmmmmmmmmm, it's like being in a sweet shop here!! |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help! "
What do you think they are op?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've put large as there isn't a fat option but I do say in my profile that I'm fat. Everyone can click which option they like as long as they have pics who cares |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help! What do you think they are op? "
I don't know.  |
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Nordy. Here are the options available.
Athletic, Slim, Average, Cuddly Ample, Large, Fabulous.
You choose.
Fab did their best.
If one person thinks they are ample and you think they are large it's their perception that goes on the profile but your perception that does the shopping.
e.g Beautiful Vivienne Westwood Dress - translates to me as Fucking hideous floral Sack.
I don't ask the shop why they tried to sell it tho. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's average that usually gets me I don't mind size at all wether they are fat or thin but saying you are average when you are curvy or thin isn't right lol |
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"Nordy. Here are the options available.
Athletic, Slim, Average, Cuddly Ample, Large, Fabulous.
You choose.
Fab did their best.
If one person thinks they are ample and you think they are large it's their perception that goes on the profile but your perception that does the shopping.
e.g Beautiful Vivienne Westwood Dress - translates to me as Fucking hideous floral Sack.
I don't ask the shop why they tried to sell it tho. xx "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's average that usually gets me I don't mind size at all wether they are fat or thin but saying you are average when you are curvy or thin isn't right lol"
What is average? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've put large as there isn't a fat option but I do say in my profile that I'm fat. Everyone can click which option they like as long as they have pics who cares "
Too right, I chose athletic because of my washboard ab.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nordy. Here are the options available.
Athletic, Slim, Average, Cuddly Ample, Large, Fabulous.
You choose.
Fab did their best.
If one person thinks they are ample and you think they are large it's their perception that goes on the profile but your perception that does the shopping.
e.g Beautiful Vivienne Westwood Dress - translates to me as Fucking hideous floral Sack.
I don't ask the shop why they tried to sell it tho. xx "
Oooooo good answer. Consider my cap doffed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive put im fabulous
My pics are there for ppl to decide if they like or not.
And my curves have come and gone over the years of being on here and come back again lol.
We are what we are we dont need a label |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help! "
Op you have your profile as average so when you decided that option.. What was you choosing?? |
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"There needs to be a fat cnut option for me
LOL . xxx is that a him ?yeah"
Dear Fat Cnut.
I have a 'friend' long term. He has a big belly and I get off on it. The rest of him is meaty and rock solid. He'd put himself down as fat.
Last week he said he's going on a diet and losing his tub.... I near shit! I want that tub.. it's bloody lovely.
BUT - if I get messages from wobbly blokes I say no thanks.....
So there is no such thing as one FAT fits all.
I bet you are sex on a stick really. |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Op you have your profile as average so when you decided that option.. What was you choosing??"
oooooooooo It's all kicking off Mabel. We are asking the difficult questions! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Why must we define and label everything within an inch of its life?
How could we define large? Even using dress sizes, or waist size for men won't tell anyone much. A 5' 8" size 16 will look dramatically different to a 5' 2" size 16.
Obviously people using the same label will look different, unless you think there are only 5 or 6 builds that accurately cover the entire population of the world?
Someone "large" could have broad shoulders, big boobs, a jelly belly but slim hips and legs, like me. Or they could be pear-shaped and have a big bum and thighs. Or they could have hourglass proportions and be large all over. Which ones are not large? And what are they instead?
We all have our own idea of what "large" and "slim" and, usually in the case of men, what "athletic" mean. There's no chance of everyone having the same perspective.
If you can think of a system of descriptions everyone can agree on, go ahead and suggest it to the admins.
Until then, the build field is a guideline only and is subjective.
Look at the photos and/or meet them for a social.
This is hardly rocket science. I don't understand why people get so hung up on it.
Someone seeing themself or describing themself in a way you don't agree with, having seen a few photos of them, doesn't make them wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Op you have your profile as average so when you decided that option.. What was you choosing??"
Not sure, so I'm confused too, I know I'm not Athletic, but I'm not large or thin, so I put average. It's just a query about definitions, like Granny crumpet said I shouldn't have made it gender specific, I only did that because I like curvy, ample , large women and that was my thought at the time, certainly don't intend to upset anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There needs to be a fat cnut option for me
LOL . xxx is that a him ?yeah
Dear Fat Cnut.
I have a 'friend' long term. He has a big belly and I get off on it. The rest of him is meaty and rock solid. He'd put himself down as fat.
Last week he said he's going on a diet and losing his tub.... I near shit! I want that tub.. it's bloody lovely.
BUT - if I get messages from wobbly blokes I say no thanks.....
So there is no such thing as one FAT fits all.
I bet you are sex on a stick really."
Love it! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"have to admit i would prefer -- definitions which are easier to define
overweight / obese / morbidly obese
ive put fabulous as its largest "
Athletes can rate on the BMI scale as obese and morbidly obese. How is that easier to define? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"It's average that usually gets me I don't mind size at all wether they are fat or thin but saying you are average when you are curvy or thin isn't right lol
What is average?"
Why do you think it's possible to accurately define it?
How would you go about trying to define it? |
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"I need the label - melted. Not reformable.
I need the label just look at the sodding photos, that's why they're there."
I am sure that I haven't got a clue what you mean.
I'm half sure you've misunderstood what I wrote. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's average that usually gets me I don't mind size at all wether they are fat or thin but saying you are average when you are curvy or thin isn't right lol
What is average?
Why do you think it's possible to accurately define it?
How would you go about trying to define it?"
I wouldn't, it's all a confusion as far as I'm concerned. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I need the label - melted. Not reformable.
I need the label just look at the sodding photos, that's why they're there.
I am sure that I haven't got a clue what you mean.
I'm half sure you've misunderstood what I wrote."
No, I understood.
I was just commenting on the label I'd like to be able to use.
I can't understand why it's not blindingly obvious there's no way to accurately describe, at least without some form of 3D modelling, the build of every person on the planet. We're all different. That's obvious, right? Yet this question keeps coming up.
Bizarre. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's average that usually gets me I don't mind size at all wether they are fat or thin but saying you are average when you are curvy or thin isn't right lol
What is average?"
exactly |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"It's average that usually gets me I don't mind size at all wether they are fat or thin but saying you are average when you are curvy or thin isn't right lol
What is average?
Why do you think it's possible to accurately define it?
How would you go about trying to define it?
I wouldn't, it's all a confusion as far as I'm concerned. "
Well why do you think anyone else should be able to define it?
Ample is bigger than average. Large is bigger than ample. You just have to do your best to fit into a handful of one size fits virtually nobody categories. And look at the photos.
Where's the confusion? |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help! "
Does it really matter...i like my ladies all shapes & sizes so if they turn out to be more curvier than their photo then its more flesh to have fun with. Enjoy the person not their size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why must we define and label everything within an inch of its life?
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Because the scene is built upon the foundation of objectification and classification.
Even 'looking at the photos' (as many have referred to here) reduces the person to a mere object - like a vase or an oil painting.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Does it really matter...i like my ladies all shapes & sizes so if they turn out to be more curvier than their photo then its more flesh to have fun with. Enjoy the person not their size."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Does it really matter...i like my ladies all shapes & sizes so if they turn out to be more curvier than their photo then its more flesh to have fun with. Enjoy the person not their size."
I agree with you, it's just an enquiry into definitions, as I already said, I should have not made it gender or size specific. |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help! "
Imho 'curvy' isn't a size, it's a shape. You can be a curvy size 8 and a curvy size 18.
When it comes to 'large', let's face it, even some men have been known to mis-use it....
If it matters, just ask for a body pic.
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Does it really matter...i like my ladies all shapes & sizes so if they turn out to be more curvier than their photo then its more flesh to have fun with. Enjoy the person not their size.
I agree with you, it's just an enquiry into definitions, as I already said, I should have not made it gender or size specific."
Everyones definition is different so theres kinda no point to me... |
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"I need the label - melted. Not reformable.
I need the label just look at the sodding photos, that's why they're there.
I am sure that I haven't got a clue what you mean.
I'm half sure you've misunderstood what I wrote.
No, I understood.
I was just commenting on the label I'd like to be able to use.
I can't understand why it's not blindingly obvious there's no way to accurately describe, at least without some form of 3D modelling, the build of every person on the planet. We're all different. That's obvious, right? Yet this question keeps coming up.
Bizarre."
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I am there now V.V. I won't mention your shit punctuation which threw me!
I think you've hit the nail on the head. We need 3 photos! It's got to be do able. There are 3d printers .... get on it and make us a fortune. |
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"It's average that usually gets me I don't mind size at all wether they are fat or thin but saying you are average when you are curvy or thin isn't right lol
What is average?
Why do you think it's possible to accurately define it?
How would you go about trying to define it?
I wouldn't, it's all a confusion as far as I'm concerned.
Well why do you think anyone else should be able to define it?
Ample is bigger than average. Large is bigger than ample. You just have to do your best to fit into a handful of one size fits virtually nobody categories. And look at the photos.
Where's the confusion?"
I thought the word ample was banned back in the 80's, - it was banned by Not The Nine O Clock News from memory!!  |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Does it really matter...i like my ladies all shapes & sizes so if they turn out to be more curvier than their photo then its more flesh to have fun with. Enjoy the person not their size."
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Great attitude, just like when you see a pic of soneone which they took a couple of years ago on their holidays, all tanned, relaxed but they have a couple more laughter lines, hair thinning a little.. It's all about having a rapport..
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"Why worry about it..they are only labels. Have a look at the pictures people have and if you like what ya see fill ya boots. If not wander on by. Easy
T (the curvy, fat, ample one!) X "
this..
people get a bit hung up on definitions, their own and what they perceive others to also be.. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I need the label - melted. Not reformable.
I need the label just look at the sodding photos, that's why they're there.
I am sure that I haven't got a clue what you mean.
I'm half sure you've misunderstood what I wrote.
No, I understood.
I was just commenting on the label I'd like to be able to use.
I can't understand why it's not blindingly obvious there's no way to accurately describe, at least without some form of 3D modelling, the build of every person on the planet. We're all different. That's obvious, right? Yet this question keeps coming up.
Bizarre.
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I am there now V.V. I won't mention your shit punctuation which threw me!
I think you've hit the nail on the head. We need 3 photos! It's got to be do able. There are 3d printers .... get on it and make us a fortune."
Most of my punctuation is sunning itself in the garden and I couldn't bring myself to disturb it. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I searched for Weeble as an option but it had wobbled off.
3D printer codes with every profile and then we need not bother with the meet.
This weekend I had a social meet telling me that I'm not fat (I am but I dress well) but that I'm not thin. What's the descriptor for that?
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"I searched for Weeble as an option but it had wobbled off.
3D printer codes with every profile and then we need not bother with the meet.
This weekend I had a social meet telling me that I'm not fat (I am but I dress well) but that I'm not thin. What's the descriptor for that?
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diplomatic..? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I searched for Weeble as an option but it had wobbled off.
3D printer codes with every profile and then we need not bother with the meet.
This weekend I had a social meet telling me that I'm not fat (I am but I dress well) but that I'm not thin. What's the descriptor for that?
diplomatic..?"
. Perfect! Plus he wants the conversion to the second meeting.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry if I offended anyone, it wasn't my intention at all, just an enquiry, maybe I should stick to my animal threads in future.  "
Just remember the forum rules...
Females = special snowflakes who are not allowed to be criticised.
Males = scum.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I say I'm curvy. Some might say I'm large. I describe myself how I wish and those who wanna fuck me will fuck me regardless of what my profile says. I would say I'm not quite large or ample yet though. |
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"Sorry if I offended anyone, it wasn't my intention at all, just an enquiry, maybe I should stick to my animal threads in future.
Just remember the forum rules...
Females = special snowflakes who are not allowed to be criticised.
Males = scum.
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Very funny that made me lol!
Your not scum though your just wankers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry if I offended anyone, it wasn't my intention at all, just an enquiry, maybe I should stick to my animal threads in future.
Just remember the forum rules...
Females = special snowflakes who are not allowed to be criticised.
Males = scum.
Very funny that made me lol!
Your not scum though your just wankers "
I represent that remark  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry if I offended anyone, it wasn't my intention at all, just an enquiry, maybe I should stick to my animal threads in future.
Just remember the forum rules...
Females = special snowflakes who are not allowed to be criticised.
Males = scum.
Very funny that made me lol!
Your not scum though your just wankers "
Have you been spying on me, lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry if I offended anyone, it wasn't my intention at all, just an enquiry, maybe I should stick to my animal threads in future.
Just remember the forum rules...
Females = special snowflakes who are not allowed to be criticised.
Males = scum.
Very funny that made me lol!
Your not scum though your just wankers
I represent that remark "
Excellent mate |
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"Sorry if I offended anyone, it wasn't my intention at all, just an enquiry, maybe I should stick to my animal threads in future.
Just remember the forum rules...
Females = special snowflakes who are not allowed to be criticised.
Males = scum.
Very funny that made me lol!
Your not scum though your just wankers
Have you been spying on me, lol "
Damn ive been spotted again  |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help! "
Ifbyou can see their pictures what's the issue? Choose the one whose size is more to your liking. |
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"I've put down the largest size option...fabulous. Because I am in more ways than one! "
I've also seen slim/athletic people with fabulous on their profile
that it the oddest one of them all i think |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Ifbyou can see their pictures what's the issue? Choose the one whose size is more to your liking. "
I've run out of energy, please read the thread. |
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"I've put down the largest size option...fabulous. Because I am in more ways than one!
I've also seen slim/athletic people with fabulous on their profile
that it the oddest one of them all i think "
Yes I agree, I thought it's a bit of a funny option, not sure why they didn't just stop at large. Anyhoo people can see from my pics all my rolls and tyres so they don't get a surprise when they see me in the flesh for real. |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Ifbyou can see their pictures what's the issue? Choose the one whose size is more to your liking.
I've run out of energy, please read the thread. "
look if your fat your fat, curvy, ample and large all means the same on here just take all three as they are fat |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help! "
Who knows??
Personally I think we should all (men and ladies) put our height and clothes size , together with a few recent, full length body pictures. Face pics should also be recent!
This would ensure that people actually meet the person they think they're meeting - rather than someone twice the size and 10 years older!!
Many on here actually prefer a curvier, fuller figure - and the fact that I'm an old trout doesn't seem to put many people off - so being honest about your size, appearance etc has to be a good thing - right?? Xx |
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"What are the definitions of these sizes, I'm a bit confused and think some of the women are too, I can look at two women calling themselves large and they are both totally different. I also think there is confusion in other areas too. What's going on, help!
Ifbyou can see their pictures what's the issue? Choose the one whose size is more to your liking.
I've run out of energy, please read the thread. "
Ahh poor you lol
I'm pretty sure you have asked a similar question before though op and got similar answers. Definitions are vague at best, much like the VWE or BBC claims made by some. If you like what you see then that's all good. |
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"I've put large as there isn't a fat option but I do say in my profile that I'm fat. Everyone can click which option they like as long as they have pics who cares "
You're not large at all. Curvy maybe !! |
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I don't think there's anything wrong with putting your body size. I prefer for people to know what they're getting when you knock on their door. However, not all people are honest so you still have to expect nothing like their pics. We had a meet Saturday. I put my hair up. The lady kept saying I looked nothing like my pic. She wasn't disappointed but I felt I'd been dishonest. I've just uploaded a pic of me with my hair up. I have a habit of over thinking stuff |
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I had ample,a man said I should change it to curvy. I've put on weight since so I'm going with large. I'm never going to put curvy because my stomach is stretched from childbirth and won't go flat |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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no idea.. OP im with you..curious, because i think its subjective perception...how you see yourself (including how you used to be/want to be) vs how others see you (i cant control this this is down to their previous experiences of 'size')
i say i am curvy..
im attracted to ego size and self obsession, and less is more in that regard
but people get shirty about lots of things, cos they want to be...  |
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Avoid the yellow ones.
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