FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Long Distance Relationships
Long Distance Relationships
Jump to: Newest in thread
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Do they work?? "
I would say yes...
obviously it depends on how long the distance is and how often you meet up
but both parties have to be committed to it....if one loses interest then there is no point carrying on
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A long distance relationship would work for me, as long as o saw them most weeks or weekends. I like my own space so this would be ideal as long as there is trust and respect anything can work |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Do they work??
I would say yes...
obviously it depends on how long the distance is and how often you meet up
but both parties have to be committed to it....if one loses interest then there is no point carrying on
" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A long distance relationship would work for me, as long as o saw them most weeks or weekends. I like my own space so this would be ideal as long as there is trust and respect anything can work "
True plus love can bridge any distance xxx No rule to say you have to find someone in you own area xxx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If you're independent then they're probably good relationships to be in. If you need someone to be around 24 hrs a day, real life, then it's probably not gonna work.
Skype, and stuff like unlimited texts and calls, make it easy to have a LDR.
You'll probably want to make some plan for the relationship too, so that both parties have an idea what the relationship is and if they want the same as you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It works for us. There's 400 miles in between us, we see each other every month for weekend and every 3 months for 10 days. It's not always easy but we've made it work for 8 years. Lack of sex can be difficult, but that's where FAB comes in handy! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Do they work?? "
Course they can.
Mrs ddc & I used to live up to 6 hrs apart for 5 years. She used to come and see me at weekends, even though often I had to work most of them.
If it's strong enough, love conquers everything
Mr ddc |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Do they work??
Course they can.
Mrs ddc & I used to live up to 6 hrs apart for 5 years. She used to come and see me at weekends, even though often I had to work most of them.
If it's strong enough, love conquers everything
Mr ddc"
100% agree and your a perfect couple too xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It wouldn't work for me if it looked like it would be forever. I'd want my man close enough to see a few times a week at least. Even once wouldn't be enough. I won't commit to anyone who wouldn't be able to give me that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Do they work??
Course they can.
Mrs ddc & I used to live up to 6 hrs apart for 5 years. She used to come and see me at weekends, even though often I had to work most of them.
If it's strong enough, love conquers everything
Mr ddc"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Like any relationship there has to be trust and honesty and it has to be a 2 way street and not a one way street...I prefer relationships where there is not much distance now I have done the long distance thing... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
My ex and I lived 350 miles apart, our relationship lasted a year and we're still great friends.
I know a few other couples who have been 250+ miles apart and it's worked out for them.
I think the most important thing is equal effort from both parties |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I had a friend in Hereford but he was always moaning about the drive down sooooo bye bye
Was it just him making the effort?
I don't drive so yes"
Can see why he would moan then really. There are ways to travel even if you don't drive. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Not tried it and wouldn't want to. And yes I'm incredibly independent as been single for many years so realistically I couldn't live with someone either so close relationship probably wouldn't work either. Being on here is better for me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Depends what you're looking for really. I live just over an hour from one of my partners now, but for about a year I was three hours away. We see each other like, once a month, it's nice and it works for us. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Huddersfield - wigan, we made it work, 12mths we travelled, 12mths we saved... 10yrs later, where still together. own home, baby and married.
Anything will work, if you make it work. Its when you stop trying they fall apart, just like any other kind of relationship.
my opinion anyhow!!!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Had two over the years, neither worked out. One lasted 18 months (both traveled) and the other alittle over 2 years (just me doing the traveling). Will be sticking to local relationships, long distance does not work for me personally. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic