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Fabswingers, is time up for this site?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Now that single women l know are mostly on tinder or other variations of that lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

Niche dating apps are becoming popular too, so if you like trans / men with beards / s&m , there is probably an app for that.

What can save fabswingers from the mobile hook up revolution?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I found Tinder shit!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A mobile version of Fab perhaps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tinder is indeed crap. It's even shallower than this place.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

doesn't need saving... site is always evolving...

if you aren't the one evolving with it.... its not the site that's in danger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm bored of POF, Tinder, Badoo etc etc, this site has more to offer, love the forums, not tried the chat or cams yet. Probably something I won't bother looking at. If anyone can recommend any other sites let me know

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By *rank EinsteinMan over a year ago

Burton upon stather

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By *rank EinsteinMan over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here"

Usually claiming they were here before with loads of meets and "know what it's all about"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab could offer Fab Girls... They have Fab Guys so why not for women too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now that single women l know are mostly on tinder or other variations of that lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

Niche dating apps are becoming popular too, so if you like trans / men with beards / s&m , there is probably an app for that.

What can save fabswingers from the mobile hook up revolution?

Me...

lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is no one here worth meeting if that is how you see things. However, It works perfectly well for my needs. I'm not on any other site and I've found plenty worth meeting who also think I'm worth it. Result!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here"

Lol, always the way

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

"Now that single women l know are mostly on tinder or other variations of that lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

Niche dating apps are becoming popular too, so if you like trans / men with beards / s&m , there is probably an app for that.

What can save fabswingers from the mobile hook up revolution?

Quite glad i'm not worth meeting...saves me saying no.. My pet hate here is people that say they are athletic when clearly they arent.. we all have our cross to bare I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

best cancel my future meets over the next month

thanks for the heads up OP..I wasnt getting any action

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Works fine for me thank you. If all the men saying it's not working for them left it would clear the clutter and make it easier to find people.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"Now that single women l know are mostly on tinder or other variations of that lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

I suppose it depends on who you are looking for....this isn't a single site to meet single women.

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By *k1986Man over a year ago

local

And there is a fab app for iPhone already

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive struggled with meeting too. I have had shit loads of messages in the 7 weeks I've been here and I've not been attracted to/connected with anyone from all of those messages! Must be summot wrong with me, not giving up yet though and prob going to change my tactics and start initiating contact rather than waiting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now that single women l know are mostly on tinder or other variations of that lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

I suppose it depends on who you are looking for....this isn't a single site to meet single women."

No but also yes. There are singles who want to meet singles who are on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If folk dont like then close door on way out ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive struggled with meeting too. I have had shit loads of messages in the 7 weeks I've been here and I've not been attracted to/connected with anyone from all of those messages! Must be summot wrong with me, not giving up yet though and prob going to change my tactics and start initiating contact rather than waiting "

Always better to go and try to get what you want than to wait for it to come to you. Proactive over reactive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met men from Tinder, POF & Fab.

They were all after NSA sex.

Fab has the forums which makes this a far more fun place to keep coming back to.

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By *rank EinsteinMan over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Fab could offer Fab Girls... They have Fab Guys so why not for women too?"

Its would just be full of single guys pretending to be women with no women on the site because of said fakers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always better to go and try to get what you want than to wait for it to come to you. Proactive over reactive"

Indeed. What I want isn't coming to me so I guess I must go find it

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Now that single women l know are mostly on tinder or other variations of that lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

I suppose it depends on who you are looking for....this isn't a single site to meet single women.

No but also yes. There are singles who want to meet singles who are on here. "

I didn't say there wasn't.

What I did say was, this isn't a single site to meet single people, ie, it is a swinging site where single people wanting to meet other single people happen to be on too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find through out the day I do t get many reply but if ive been i pup all night and message people early hours from say about 4 til 8 I get tonnes of replys I guess people don't use it much but are more frequent users before work

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Now that single women l know are mostly on tinder or other variations of that lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

Niche dating apps are becoming popular too, so if you like trans / men with beards / s&m , there is probably an app for that.

What can save fabswingers from the mobile hook up revolution?

I don't know but I do know that if you don't move with the times you do get left behind. I suspect that people who used contact magazines insisted that they didn't need to change but I bet most of them use the net now.

What do you suggest?

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

I deleted all the other apps once I found this place.

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab could offer Fab Girls... They have Fab Guys so why not for women too?"

I wish!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

weird eh..I was in manchester a couple of months ago..there were a few single women from here in the club...

isnt it amazing that these women were on your doorstep...and a good few go regularly to these clubs...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here"

Those of us who are successful and having fun would never have thought of such a question....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here

Those of us who are successful and having fun would never have thought of such a question...."

I dont always see it as people being unsuccessful...but bordering on lazy/expectant is apt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think more people hook up on pof than here lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm greedy I use all different sites for different reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think more people hook up on pof than here lol "

but I also like meeting groups of people, orgies,clubs,parties etc...

sites that solely cater for 1-1 meets arent really my thing, when I have various options here

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Now that single women l know are mostly on tinder or other variations of that lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

Niche dating apps are becoming popular too, so if you like trans / men with beards / s&m , there is probably an app for that.

What can save fabswingers from the mobile hook up revolution?

Are these women that you know ones you met through Fab or vanilla life?

Because if the former then just maybe they're not purely looking for NSA hook ups - and if the latter then they've little relevance to a swinging website.

I don't think Fab is having any problems or needs to worry about other sites/apps that are designed to cater for a completely different market.

And if you want all the proof needed?

Why do so many single guys join Fab? And of course keep coming back after previously leaving the site?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's fine and doesn't need saving.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think more people hook up on pof than here lol "

POF is shit. Treats everyone like children on there.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here

Usually claiming they were here before with loads of meets and "know what it's all about"

What is it all about anyhow? Wish someone would tell me. I thought it was about ice lollies when I first joined.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's fine and doesn't need saving."

Have you just got up?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think someone is advertising !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think more people hook up on pof than here lol

POF is shit. Treats everyone like children on there."

Are they still barring you from messaging people more or less than 10 years outside your age?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here

Usually claiming they were here before with loads of meets and "know what it's all about"

And deleted their account.......by accident

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think more people hook up on pof than here lol

POF is shit. Treats everyone like children on there.

Are they still barring you from messaging people more or less than 10 years outside your age?"

Yep. Pathetic. I like to rebel & put slightly risky pics up until they get removed!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's fine and doesn't need saving.

Have you just got up?"

Nah, got up at around 11 but had to go to a kids party.

I hate kids.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think all sites/apps have their own up and downs, but find it is mainly single guys that join...leave...re-join...leave expect previous meets to verify them over and over again and when they don't? Spit the dummy out and then do it all over again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Blimey. I like it here. Tinder is wayyyy too public. POF is full of wannabes. Nah, I feel I graduated to Fab, I'm not going backwards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now that single women l know are mostly on tinder or other variations of that lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

Niche dating apps are becoming popular too, so if you like trans / men with beards / s&m , there is probably an app for that.

What can save fabswingers from the mobile hook up revolution?

Let me get this straight... you're asking what function a swinging site has now that the single women you know are elsewhere? Well I'd hazard a guess that it still might be useful for swinging lol and that the set of women you know may perhaps be smaller than the set of women that exist

As for mobile hook ups... I can just see it now... a couple wandering bored around a local museum with their kids decide they fancy a quick soft swap and wonder whether any of the other bored couples feel the same... they whip out their instaswing app and bingo!! the family across the way with the toddlers are gagging for a DP session in the museum car park

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I think people have to remember POF is a dating site and not a sex site and the owners are making it as to how they want it a dating site and not one where people put up dodgy pictures of themselves on there, if they want to do that there are sites such a fab that cater for that rather than than dating...POF is for those that want to date so while it might be crap to some for others they use it for its intended purpose...like people saying on here that fab shouldn't be used for dating, POF shouldn't be used for simply getting your leg over and being dishonest and saying you are looking for more...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think people have to remember POF is a dating site and not a sex site and the owners are making it as to how they want it a dating site and not one where people put up dodgy pictures of themselves on there, if they want to do that there are sites such a fab that cater for that rather than than dating...POF is for those that want to date so while it might be crap to some for others they use it for its intended purpose...like people saying on here that fab shouldn't be used for dating, POF shouldn't be used for simply getting your leg over and being dishonest and saying you are looking for more..."

POF has filters for casual(not that different from how many fabbers use fab)...its a 1-1 meeting site..but I dont think it promotes dating at all.

Now something like match, harmony etc...are very much intended for dating I would imagine.

I met a girl of POF, |I couldnt message her because I had messaged someone for a sexual encounter..that was her filter.

Eventually she contacted me lol..we met up and shagged on the first nite...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

POF has filters for casual(not that different from how many fabbers use fab)...its a 1-1 meeting site..but I dont think it promotes dating at all.

Now something like match, harmony etc...are very much intended for dating I would imagine.

I met a girl of POF, |I couldnt message her because I had messaged someone for a sexual encounter..that was her filter.

Eventually she contacted me lol..we met up and shagged on the first nite..."

Well match people pay for the pleasure of getting their leg over...I dislike match

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find POF/OKCupid way more frustrating than fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

POF has filters for casual(not that different from how many fabbers use fab)...its a 1-1 meeting site..but I dont think it promotes dating at all.

Now something like match, harmony etc...are very much intended for dating I would imagine.

I met a girl of POF, |I couldnt message her because I had messaged someone for a sexual encounter..that was her filter.

Eventually she contacted me lol..we met up and shagged on the first nite...

Well match people pay for the pleasure of getting their leg over...I dislike match "

I'd never use it..anyway, i found U XxXxX

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

POF has filters for casual(not that different from how many fabbers use fab)...its a 1-1 meeting site..but I dont think it promotes dating at all.

Now something like match, harmony etc...are very much intended for dating I would imagine.

I met a girl of POF, |I couldnt message her because I had messaged someone for a sexual encounter..that was her filter.

Eventually she contacted me lol..we met up and shagged on the first nite...

Well match people pay for the pleasure of getting their leg over...I dislike match

I'd never use it..anyway, i found U XxXxX"

Let's have babies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's fine and doesn't need saving.

Have you just got up?

Nah, got up at around 11 but had to go to a kids party.

I hate kids."

Were you the entertainment?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"It's fine and doesn't need saving.

Have you just got up?

Nah, got up at around 11 but had to go to a kids party.

I hate kids.

Were you the entertainment?"

Lib the clown.

Doesn't really have the same ring to it as coco.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's fine and doesn't need saving.

Have you just got up?

Nah, got up at around 11 but had to go to a kids party.

I hate kids.

Were you the entertainment?"

No, but I am kind of like the alcoholic guy you see in films who is the clown children's entertainer who actually despises children.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

" lm wondering who is left on here worth meeting.

That may narrow down your choice a fair bit.

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By *lueeyedbrunetteWoman over a year ago

Wirral

I defo prefer this to tinder or pof, at least you know why everyone is here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All sites are like that.

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By *iouxBWoman over a year ago

Colchester

It suits my needs for which I have more than one agenda and I can check out a People within limits

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is no one here worth meeting if that is how you see things. However, It works perfectly well for my needs. I'm not on any other site and I've found plenty worth meeting who also think I'm worth it. Result!

Yeo , works perfectly for us too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tinder got binned and fab works and as said before we are all on here for fun

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here

Usually claiming they were here before with loads of meets and "know what it's all about"

What is it all about anyhow? Wish someone would tell me. I thought it was about ice lollies when I first joined.

Believe me, it is about ice lollies but not as you knew them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agree 100 percent with this!!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I can't do the swiping thing and I really don't want to meet someone just on their picture.

I'm a Luddite and not worth meeting.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Pof is rubbish these days. Used to be good but now it's full of time wasters.

At least on fab people are verified. The forums are fun and there are socials too. Much friendlier here too x

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

If only you were right, OP, then the REAL SWINGERS here would have achieved utopia, which is baaad, really baaad as we wouldn't be allowed to be here and this place is our salvation so stop with that nonsense talk.

Him (slightly inebriated).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Peaks 'n' troughs...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The site is fine & at the moment it suits my needs. If those were to change though I would maybe have a rethink how I used it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm as shallow as hell and I love this set.tinder pof it's the same as here but without the honesty.Seriously why would a man hoping to get some put his wedding photo with his wife crossed out on a site The photos on hear are at least imaginative

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

22,000 users currently on this site....

Not exactly on its arse....

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"I can't do the swiping thing and I really don't want to meet someone just on their picture.

I'm a Luddite and not worth meeting.

You're well worth meeting IMHO. Even if it was only at a social. I'm looking forward to seeing you again sometime.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Increase the female ratio and more local ones lol

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here

Usually claiming they were here before and "know what it's all about"

Never understood the comment 'know what it's about'

Can someone please tell me what 'it' is about

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here

Usually claiming they were here before and "know what it's all about"

Never understood the comment 'know what it's about'

Can someone please tell me what 'it' is about

There are birds and bees but no one has ever explained how the bird and the bee get it on to me.

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By *rallvalCouple over a year ago

Dunfermline

Quite glad i'm not worth meeting...saves me saying no.. My pet hate here is people that say they are athletic when clearly they arent.. we all have our cross to bare I guess.

How dare you.... Sumo wrestlers are athletes too.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I can't do the swiping thing and I really don't want to meet someone just on their picture.

I'm a Luddite and not worth meeting.

You're well worth meeting IMHO. Even if it was only at a social. I'm looking forward to seeing you again sometime. "

That's very kind of you to say so.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"I always find it amusing when these questions are asked by someone who appears to have not been very successful here

Usually claiming they were here before and "know what it's all about"

Never understood the comment 'know what it's about'

Can someone please tell me what 'it' is about

FAB. It's an ice lolly covered in 'hundreds of thousands' - M' lady

As Parker would have said.

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

I'm enjoying my time on fab, works well for me at the moment too.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"I can't do the swiping thing and I really don't want to meet someone just on their picture.

I'm a Luddite and not worth meeting.

You're well worth meeting IMHO. Even if it was only at a social. I'm looking forward to seeing you again sometime.

That's very kind of you to say so.

I don't think they're meant to get it on together as such. It's more like the song says, EVEN birds and bees to it.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"I can't do the swiping thing and I really don't want to meet someone just on their picture.

I'm a Luddite and not worth meeting.

You're well worth meeting IMHO. Even if it was only at a social. I'm looking forward to seeing you again sometime.

That's very kind of you to say so.

And very true to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not much can save fab

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"I'm enjoying my time on fab, works well for me at the moment too. "

OMG:- Something else we agree on. My liberal crown must be slipping. LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

you sound bitter

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