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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you also had them? Where you Keep asking the questions and u might get a yes or no or sometimes a sentence but no question back. How do you deal with them? Do you continue to mail them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny you should say that... I'm the type of person that can hold a conversation and talks for England but I find it very very difficult to ask people questions. So when a conversation isn't started and one just asks me a simple question I find myself just replying :/
I personally just cant ask questions cos I think it's slightly nosey  And like what if u ask a personal one someone doesn't wanna answer? I know a lot of people ask me such questions and I dislike it hence I just don't do the same back but that's what I'm like.
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Haha! No I'm a nosey barsteward so I always say that I won't be offended if you choose not to answer but I ask the question all the same. 
If it's like drawing teeth I sack it off. There's gotta be banter else what's the point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha! No I'm a nosey barsteward so I always say that I won't be offended if you choose not to answer but I ask the question all the same.
If it's like drawing teeth I sack it off. There's gotta be banter else what's the point?"
But there can be banter without getting personal is just my view |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had a couple like that recently, female profiles (but the black silhouette) mailing me with 'hi x' or similar.
I always mail back whoever mails me and then they proceed to give very short answers back and I'm thinking they contacted me so why am I expected to do all the hard work?
I do wonder if it's guys but a couple of them have a few verifications? Anyway, I always remain polite but if they approach me then I don't give out photo's or too much info unless they do first (if I instigate the convo then of course I'll add a pic) |
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"Haha! No I'm a nosey barsteward so I always say that I won't be offended if you choose not to answer but I ask the question all the same.
If it's like drawing teeth I sack it off. There's gotta be banter else what's the point?
But there can be banter without getting personal is just my view "
Of course, but then it depends what you mean by personal... if someone is rude/insulting I'd tell them to sod off but if they ask a question that's too personal, um... i.e. what's your address/postcode is simply say I'm not telling.
I think the way you respond is just as important as the way something has been asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you also had them? Where you Keep asking the questions and u might get a yes or no or sometimes a sentence but no question back. How do you deal with them? Do you continue to mail them?"
I don't waste my time with such people (yes, sadly I have had them), I go for girls with personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you also had them? Where you Keep asking the questions and u might get a yes or no or sometimes a sentence but no question back. How do you deal with them? Do you continue to mail them?"
Literally had this yesterday, tried a few times to keep communication as open as possible but was like trying to get blood out of a stone. So have not replied to their latest one word reply as I also get the impression (as others have said) that they're not really interested.
I say this as I feel if you are interested then it would be easy to have a conversation and not such hard work. T xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't continue chatting if it feels like I'm making all the effort. ..equally I don't like question after question ...it can feel a bit like a job interview so I tend to withdraw in that situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No, I like to talk - in real as well as in writing, so yes and no only answers would drive me nuts. I'd just give up and think they're not interested or interesting to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you also had them? Where you Keep asking the questions and u might get a yes or no or sometimes a sentence but no question back. How do you deal with them? Do you continue to mail them?"
It just becomes pointless. Best to end the conversation on your own terms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, I like to talk - in real as well as in writing, so yes and no only answers would drive me nuts. I'd just give up and think they're not interested or interesting to be honest. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't like talking, but I try to be detailed with my responses, especially if I'm wanting to make a good impression. I'd rather people think I'm dumb than know it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We find the word "when" puts a stop to those type of conversations
"paragraph"
"one or two words"
( and so on and so forth)
"would you like to meet?"
"yes x"
"when"
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Insert tumble"  "
Hahaha it's hilarious because it's true |
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