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By *ike_Literiss OP Man
over a year ago
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l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ?? |
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??"
Get a grip man  |
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??"
Faint heart etc..
Deep breath, message her and tell her! |
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??"
ask a mod to delete the thread..
that you've not met her yet or told her? and you have decided to do so on here is possibly embarrassing for her..
contact her.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should, really be telling her not us. Who knows.. She may feel the same..
Or she may run kicking and screaming. Tell her before you drive yourself, and us  mad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fell for my friend on here told her dated for about two months ended up having a massive fall out now we dont speak atall destroyed a really good friendship.If i were u i keep it quiet until ur really sure but best of luck with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well one of two things could happen now:
She'll be swept off her feet and it's the start of a great romance, or she'll think that this is meant to be a fuck site for no strings sex and nothing too deep she'll run a mile.
Not knowing her I have no idea which she'll choose (or even middle ground).
It's not for me to tell anyone else how to run their activity on here but if it was me I'm not sure I'd have made such a public declaration on here before actually meeting anyone however strongly I felt about them... I hope it doesn't backfire for you. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me? 
No its me
No sorry guys but it is ME 
He's been cheating on us! I bloody knew it
I've reported him for cheating on me  "
Ya know ladies we need to stick together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When the heart goes thumpety thump there is nothing you can do but ride the wave. Whether it is mutual is a different matter.
I once fell in love. It was love at first sight and there was nothing i could do or would want to do about it. I loved her everyday, still do, but she passed away.
I hope it all works out. Good luck |
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??"
Sorry OP, if you haven't even met, then you haven't fallen in love with her, you have fallen in love with your idea of her, based solely on your own rose-tinted ideals of how she will turn out.
Let's face it, if you haven't even met, then you're not even past the 'I wonder if she's real' stage yet.
Sadly even I can't see this ending well, and I'm a hopeless romantic.
(Obviously if I'm wrong, put us down for a couple of sideplates when the wedding list comes out  )
Good luck
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??"
Well dude, you have to meet her first. If all you have done is talk to her via fab well you don't really know her. Get a social meet organised and if she doesn't agree to that then she probably just likes attention! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op my reply in forum was not an invite for you to message me and give me further details
Or me.  "
He can inbox me if he likes. My inbox is feeling a little neglected and would welcome the intrusion even if he is a bloke |
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Sorry OP, if you haven't even met, then you haven't fallen in love with her, you have fallen in love with your idea of her, based solely on your own rose-tinted ideals of how she will turn out.
Let's face it, if you haven't even met, then you're not even past the 'I wonder if she's real' stage yet.
Sadly even I can't see this ending well, and I'm a hopeless romantic.
(Obviously if I'm wrong, put us down for a couple of sideplates when the wedding list comes out )
Good luck
Mr ddc"
Sorry but I'm in agreement with Mr DDC  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Sorry OP, if you haven't even met, then you haven't fallen in love with her, you have fallen in love with your idea of her, based solely on your own rose-tinted ideals of how she will turn out.
Let's face it, if you haven't even met, then you're not even past the 'I wonder if she's real' stage yet.
Sadly even I can't see this ending well, and I'm a hopeless romantic.
(Obviously if I'm wrong, put us down for a couple of sideplates when the wedding list comes out )
Good luck
Mr ddc
Sorry but I'm in agreement with Mr DDC "
You're right to be sorry when agreeing with Mr DDC. It gives him ideas.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just propose and do that Married At First Sight thing. Meet at the altar and let us know after 5 weeks. Maybe have a camera crew follow your every move.
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Who would ever do such a silly thing like that  |
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"Op my reply in forum was not an invite for you to message me and give me further details
Or me.
He can inbox me if he likes. My inbox is feeling a little neglected and would welcome the intrusion even if he is a bloke"
You can inbox yourself if you get really desperate. Don't ask me how I know that.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Just propose and do that Married At First Sight thing. Meet at the altar and let us know after 5 weeks. Maybe have a camera crew follow your every move.
Who would ever do such a silly thing like that "
What could go wrong? He might even get honeymoon sex out of it. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Op my reply in forum was not an invite for you to message me and give me further details
Or me.
He can inbox me if he likes. My inbox is feeling a little neglected and would welcome the intrusion even if he is a bloke
You can inbox yourself if you get really desperate. Don't ask me how I know that. "
Then block yourself for sending unwelcome messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just propose and do that Married At First Sight thing. Meet at the altar and let us know after 5 weeks. Maybe have a camera crew follow your every move.
Who would ever do such a silly thing like that
What could go wrong? He might even get honeymoon sex out of it. "
Sounding very tempting now  |
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Well dude, you have to meet her first. If all you have done is talk to her via fab well you don't really know her. Get a social meet organised and if she doesn't agree to that then she probably just likes attention! "
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"Op my reply in forum was not an invite for you to message me and give me further details
Or me.
He can inbox me if he likes. My inbox is feeling a little neglected and would welcome the intrusion even if he is a bloke
You can inbox yourself if you get really desperate. Don't ask me how I know that.
Then block yourself for sending unwelcome messages.
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You can actually block yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell her. And falling for someone over the internet over a year isn't necessarily translating into how you imagine it. If you don't mind me asking, why haven't you met? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ?? Get a grip man "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op my reply in forum was not an invite for you to message me and give me further details
Or me.
He can inbox me if he likes. My inbox is feeling a little neglected and would welcome the intrusion even if he is a bloke
You can inbox yourself if you get really desperate. Don't ask me how I know that. "
ha I know! Whenever I look at my profile it tells me I emailed myself 9 months ago! |
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"You lot stop being so mean to the poor guy...
Oi! I wasn't mean... I thought I was being quite contructive with my advice?! 
Lol well that's good you don't have to stand in the corner
Phew!! "
Nice to see you back I have missed you |
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"Op my reply in forum was not an invite for you to message me and give me further details
Or me.
He can inbox me if he likes. My inbox is feeling a little neglected and would welcome the intrusion even if he is a bloke
You can inbox yourself if you get really desperate. Don't ask me how I know that.
ha I know! Whenever I look at my profile it tells me I emailed myself 9 months ago! "
I do it so often to remind myself of stuff it just says 'get a grip' in that space. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You lot stop being so mean to the poor guy...
Oi! I wasn't mean... I thought I was being quite contructive with my advice?!
Lol well that's good you don't have to stand in the corner
Phew!! "
Creep .........wasn't me miss honest |
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"You lot stop being so mean to the poor guy...
Oi! I wasn't mean... I thought I was being quite contructive with my advice?!
Lol well that's good you don't have to stand in the corner
Phew!!
Nice to see you back I have missed you "
Awwww... thanks lovely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
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Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about? |
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By *ike_Literiss OP Man
over a year ago
London, Bedfordshire & Hertfordshire |
"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ?? Get a grip man "
If l could l would |
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By *ike_Literiss OP Man
over a year ago
London, Bedfordshire & Hertfordshire |
"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about?"
I speak to her daily and she's 1 l would like to keep for myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about?
I speak to her daily and she's 1 l would like to keep for myself "
Does she want to keep you for herself though? |
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Sorry OP, if you haven't even met, then you haven't fallen in love with her, you have fallen in love with your idea of her, based solely on your own rose-tinted ideals of how she will turn out.
Let's face it, if you haven't even met, then you're not even past the 'I wonder if she's real' stage yet.
Sadly even I can't see this ending well, and I'm a hopeless romantic.
(Obviously if I'm wrong, put us down for a couple of sideplates when the wedding list comes out )
Good luck
Mr ddc"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ?? Get a grip man
If l could l would "
It's like being back at school.on here sometimes ...
Seriously mate , it's a swinging site in case you had forgotten .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about?
I speak to her daily and she's 1 l would like to keep for myself "
It's nice to know men have feelings too but as you speak to her daily just come out and say it. Me personally id rather know how a man feels upfront. Good luck |
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It's bad enough when NSA fucks "fall in love" with you.
It's even worse when someone you've never even met starts hearing wedding bells...you know NOTHING about this so-called woman and things like this, personally, would make me run a mile - Hell, I'd run as soon as someone mentioned not wanting me to meet others (especially if I was only looking for sex).
Of course, she may be real and may feel the same.
Take the plunge, message her and see what happens.
- Amy. x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about?
I speak to her daily and she's 1 l would like to keep for myself "
Do you wish to keep her for yourself as a fantasy or as a real person? |
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By *ike_Literiss OP Man
over a year ago
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"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about?
I speak to her daily and she's 1 l would like to keep for myself
Do you wish to keep her for yourself as a fantasy or as a real person?"
Sorry, but to me, she's both ?? |
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"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about?
I speak to her daily and she's 1 l would like to keep for myself "
She could well feel the same but considering this is a swingers site she may not want to be "kept" |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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people keep reiterating its a nsa and swinging site..
errr its a site where people have interrelations based on subjective wants and desires, plenty it seems meet on here and become couples, fuck buddies freinds...its no different to meeting anywhere else online except here give you the freedom to ask for swinging or nsa...
doesnt mean to say thats what someone wants or will always want..
tell her OP, arrange a meet and whilst caution to your feelings is urged, may it turn out to be everything you were or weren't looking for... most of all, be happy x |
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"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about?
I speak to her daily and she's 1 l would like to keep for myself "
Ahhhhh that old whiff of monogamy. How I well I recall it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"people keep reiterating its a nsa and swinging site..
errr its a site where people have interrelations based on subjective wants and desires, plenty it seems meet on here and become couples, fuck buddies freinds...its no different to meeting anywhere else online except here give you the freedom to ask for swinging or nsa...
doesnt mean to say thats what someone wants or will always want..
tell her OP, arrange a meet and whilst caution to your feelings is urged, may it turn out to be everything you were or weren't looking for... most of all, be happy x"
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about?
I speak to her daily and she's 1 l would like to keep for myself
Do you wish to keep her for yourself as a fantasy or as a real person?
Sorry, but to me, she's both ??"
So why out your feelings here, especially as you say she might see it? It doesn't feel very respectful to someone you have real and strong feelings for.
Teasing and flirting on here is one thing but it doesn't feel like that without her participation.
Outing a fantasy is another matter. Fantasies aren't real and can't get hurt.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"people keep reiterating its a nsa and swinging site..
errr its a site where people have interrelations based on subjective wants and desires, plenty it seems meet on here and become couples, fuck buddies freinds...its no different to meeting anywhere else online except here give you the freedom to ask for swinging or nsa...
doesnt mean to say thats what someone wants or will always want..
tell her OP, arrange a meet and whilst caution to your feelings is urged, may it turn out to be everything you were or weren't looking for... most of all, be happy x"
Absolutely. There's a Fab wedding coming up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??"
Man up
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ?? Get a grip man "
This... You have not met her so how on earth can you fall for her. I don't mean to be rude but you do know the site is for adults don't you! |
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Sorry but I'm in agreement with Mr DDC
You're right to be sorry when agreeing with Mr DDC. It gives him ideas.
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Actually I get rather concerned if too many people agree with me, it's just not normal.
That's why I like doing the little polls in the on-line Telegraph, there's something reassuring about being told "96% of our readers disagree with you"
Looking on the bright side OP, that's the side-plates sorted. Anyone else who agrees will have to start chipping in for the dinner plates |
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"people keep reiterating its a nsa and swinging site..
errr its a site where people have interrelations based on subjective wants and desires, plenty it seems meet on here and become couples, fuck buddies freinds...its no different to meeting anywhere else online except here give you the freedom to ask for swinging or nsa...
doesnt mean to say thats what someone wants or will always want..
tell her OP, arrange a meet and whilst caution to your feelings is urged, may it turn out to be everything you were or weren't looking for... most of all, be happy x
Absolutely. There's a Fab wedding coming up. "
Or a reality check.. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think if you have chatted on a regular basis, you feel that there is real connection between you both and you are finding lots of common interests, you are developing feelings towards her.
Tell her, you may be surprised and find she is feeling the same.
Has happened before on the forums, and will do again.
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Keep your distance. It's unreasonable to add pressure for someone, if they're looking for casual no strings fun. It's also unrealistic to have a relationship in your fantasy, when you have not been together.
Keep a hold of yourself and work out what you're looking for, and then promote yourself here or elsewhere accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry but I'm in agreement with Mr DDC
You're right to be sorry when agreeing with Mr DDC. It gives him ideas.
Actually I get rather concerned if too many people agree with me, it's just not normal.
That's why I like doing the little polls in the on-line Telegraph, there's something reassuring about being told "96% of our readers disagree with you"
Looking on the bright side OP, that's the side-plates sorted. Anyone else who agrees will have to start chipping in for the dinner plates "
And if doesn't work out, I can advise on how to proceed with a divorce |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"people keep reiterating its a nsa and swinging site..
errr its a site where people have interrelations based on subjective wants and desires, plenty it seems meet on here and become couples, fuck buddies freinds...its no different to meeting anywhere else online except here give you the freedom to ask for swinging or nsa...
doesnt mean to say thats what someone wants or will always want..
tell her OP, arrange a meet and whilst caution to your feelings is urged, may it turn out to be everything you were or weren't looking for... most of all, be happy x"
Well said!! Ive been on POF n Tinder n guys saying theyre looking for relationship but actually, treat it as a sex site. So could there be a possibility that there are ppl on a 'sex site' looking for love too?? I also worked at swingers club n ppl have met n fallen in love n still swing as a couple. Who are we to judge where n who to fall in love with. Go for it...ask her for a social n go with the flow |
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This site can be anything you want it to be you can use it as a dating site or an NSA sex site or you can use it as both, the funtimental thing is honesty and as long as you are honest from the get go about your intentions. However you also have to accept that the other person might not want a relationship. People have met their other halfs in stranger situations so why can't fab be one of those situations just because I seek sex with someone does not make me a heartless robot we all have some emotions and you simply can't help who you fall for however it's key to also have self preservation. |
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"This site can be anything you want it to be you can use it as a dating site or an NSA sex site or you can use it as both, the funtimental thing is honesty and as long as you are honest from the get go about your intentions. However you also have to accept that the other person might not want a relationship. People have met their other halfs in stranger situations so why can't fab be one of those situations just because I seek sex with someone does not make me a heartless robot we all have some emotions and you simply can't help who you fall for however it's key to also have self preservation. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely hilarious thread . Totally cheered me up seeing all this advice being given out to a guy who is behaving like a smitten schoolboy !
Keep up the good work
At least the next media report on fab will be that fabswingers is a site where you can fall in love and look forward to marriage ...... before you even meet !
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By (user no longer on site)
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??"
Can you fall in love when you haven't even met yet? |
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Can you fall in love when you haven't even met yet? "
Yes, you can, you don't know for sure until you meet, so caution is advisable, but you can love. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Can you fall in love when you haven't even met yet? "
those on death row do |
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"This site can be anything you want it to be you can use it as a dating site or an NSA sex site or you can use it as both, the funtimental thing is honesty and as long as you are honest from the get go about your intentions. However you also have to accept that the other person might not want a relationship. People have met their other halfs in stranger situations so why can't fab be one of those situations just because I seek sex with someone does not make me a heartless robot we all have some emotions and you simply can't help who you fall for however it's key to also have self preservation. "
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Can you fall in love when you haven't even met yet? "
have heard blokes say the would really love a pint, when they've finished they just off it to the kebab shop and leave the poor pint all drained and empty..
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Can you fall in love when you haven't even met yet?
Yes, you can, you don't know for sure until you meet, so caution is advisable, but you can love."
I'd be inclined to think it's lust not falling in love. |
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By *ike_Literiss OP Man
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"Tell her. And falling for someone over the internet over a year isn't necessarily translating into how you imagine it. If you don't mind me asking, why haven't you met?"
The date for the meet is planned |
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By *iewMan
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"Tell her. And falling for someone over the internet over a year isn't necessarily translating into how you imagine it. If you don't mind me asking, why haven't you met?
The date for the meet is planned "
keep us posted good luck |
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By *ike_Literiss OP Man
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"Op my reply in forum was not an invite for you to message me and give me further details
Or me.
He can inbox me if he likes. My inbox is feeling a little neglected and would welcome the intrusion even if he is a bloke"
Thanks Dan, but l pressed the wrong button as l am finding my way around this site |
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Chating on line is one thing geting to know the person in person another but you can express that you have grown to feel very close through your chats on here and fingers crossed she feels same good luck with it but please let us know xxx |
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By *ike_Literiss OP Man
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Can you fall in love when you haven't even met yet?
Yes, you can, you don't know for sure until you meet, so caution is advisable, but you can love.
I'd be inclined to think it's lust not falling in love."
Pandora, I do not feel it's "lust" (well not 100% but it does show its head, lol) Our conversation has never been about sex, so it just can't be lust. It's just a nice feeling (you do know those feelings you have no control over, right?) ?? |
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"Tell her. And falling for someone over the internet over a year isn't necessarily translating into how you imagine it. If you don't mind me asking, why haven't you met?
The date for the meet is planned "
Good luck, hope the reality is as good as the online persona. |
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"Tell her. And falling for someone over the internet over a year isn't necessarily translating into how you imagine it. If you don't mind me asking, why haven't you met?
The date for the meet is planned
Good luck, hope the reality is as good as the online persona."
Oh Bless ! School holidays are here again. Go for it . |
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Can you fall in love when you haven't even met yet?
Yes, you can, you don't know for sure until you meet, so caution is advisable, but you can love.
I'd be inclined to think it's lust not falling in love.
Pandora, I do not feel it's "lust" (well not 100% but it does show its head, lol) Our conversation has never been about sex, so it just can't be lust. It's just a nice feeling (you do know those feelings you have no control over, right?) ??"
you do what you feel is right good luck |
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"The date for the meet is planned "
If she has read this post, then this is a really good sign that you haven't scared her off (by going a tad ott)
Good luck
But remember, love isn't wanting to be with someone before you discover how loudly they snore, love is wanting to be with someone despite it.
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"l've been talking to a lady on here for a little while now and l know that l am falling head over heels for her. I fancy her something chronic, but we've not met yet.
People, please advise me what to do, as l know she will see this note ??
Can you fall in love when you haven't even met yet?
Yes, you can, you don't know for sure until you meet, so caution is advisable, but you can love.
I'd be inclined to think it's lust not falling in love."
Not for me, pure lust is a totally different kettle of fish - I can do that too, luckily, that's easy on here! |
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"Meet her, its easy to have an online persona, or you could just stay daydreaming about her
Your online persona has fallen for her online persona. You have never met....how could you be "head over heels?" Suppose it is one of those fake profiles we hear so much about?
I speak to her daily and she's 1 l would like to keep for myself "
Speak....or message? It isn't the same!
Wait till she asks you for money for her sick aunt? |
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