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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having had an amazing meet all day on Sunday. Everything in common and chemistry was there. Then got the dreaded block on whatsapp and profile deleted from fab. What a dissapointment after a great meet. Has this happened often to other guys or couples on here? (And no, I was not bombarding my meet with messages) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Defo chemistry was there but o do suspect the intensity of the whole day was too much and suspect there is another man in her life hence deleting her whole profile |
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"Having had an amazing meet all day on Sunday. Everything in common and chemistry was there. Then got the dreaded block on whatsapp and profile deleted from fab. What a dissapointment after a great meet. Has this happened often to other guys or couples on here? (And no, I was not bombarding my meet with messages)"
If their profile is deleted from fab I would say it's more about them only wanting a one off than it is about you. There could be loads of reasons for that and none of them changes the experience you had on Sunday  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having had an amazing meet all day on Sunday. Everything in common and chemistry was there. Then got the dreaded block on whatsapp and profile deleted from fab. What a dissapointment after a great meet. Has this happened often to other guys or couples on here? (And no, I was not bombarding my meet with messages)
If their profile is deleted from fab I would say it's more about them only wanting a one off than it is about you. There could be loads of reasons for that and none of them changes the experience you had on Sunday "
Thanks for that post. Your right. Nothing changes that fantastic experience! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on."
That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on.
That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years"
Maybe they decided this lifestyle wasn't for them ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on.
That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years
Maybe they decided this lifestyle wasn't for them ?"
Possibly or they have a significant other In there life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on.
That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years
Maybe they decided this lifestyle wasn't for them ?
Possibly or they have a significant other In there life"
Well whatever the reason, you'll never know for sure so no point wasting a second more of your time worrying about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep your chin up. A lot of single guys will testify that it's hard to get meets and you've had one that you really enjoyed. I'm sure there will be other great meets who do stick around. Good luck. |
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"Having had an amazing meet all day on Sunday. Everything in common and chemistry was there. Then got the dreaded block on whatsapp and profile deleted from fab. What a dissapointment after a great meet. Has this happened often to other guys or couples on here? (And no, I was not bombarding my meet with messages)"
Why is it a disappointment ?
How did you know they'd removed their profile ?
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"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on.
That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years
Maybe they decided this lifestyle wasn't for them ?
Possibly or they have a significant other In there life
Well whatever the reason, you'll never know for sure so no point wasting a second more of your time worrying about it. "
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Unless you speak to her again you'll never know the reason why. I wouldn't automatically assume she's in a relationship unless she said something to make you think that. People leave for many reasons, but all of those reasons are about them and what their needs are.
Just file it away as a great experience and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block
Don't take it personal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block
Don't take it personal "
Id consider that a little harsh, I get you like one off meets but by blocking them it could (and this is just my opinion dont block me  ) come across a little arrogant and potentially upsetting for the blocked party. Now I know you're not arrogant at all and good natured, some may not fully understand  |
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"It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block
Don't take it personal "
They're what I refer to as Vampires (always seeking new blood) Like NN they have fun then move on.
Sadly they always turn out to be the most perfect meets as I'm sure you found out?  |
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"Having had an amazing meet all day on Sunday. Everything in common and chemistry was there. Then got the dreaded block on whatsapp and profile deleted from fab. What a dissapointment after a great meet. Has this happened often to other guys or couples on here? (And no, I was not bombarding my meet with messages)"
All the time mate. Learning curve, innit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, that happened to me last year with a very pretty lady from Chester. Great meet, glowing veri, then... nothing. Just stopped replying to my messages completely. All you can do is shrug and move on. It's a shame, but that's Fab for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block
Don't take it personal "
Great idea |
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Try not to take it to heart, people do things for different reasons.
On the positive, you managed to message, communicate and have a great time with a lady from fab so you have something going for you |
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"Id consider that a little harsh, I get you like one off meets but by blocking them it could (and this is just my opinion dont block me ) come across a little arrogant and potentially upsetting for the blocked party. Now I know you're not arrogant at all and good natured, some may not fully understand "
Ahhh, there speaks the voice of someone who hasn't had to deal with a zillion "Just wondering if you'd changed your mind yet" PMs.
(Not me mind, Mrs ddc. Mine are more along the lines of "Don't worry, it happens to lots of men"  )
OP: enjoy the memories, be grateful to fate for the opportunities, and keep smiling.
Good luck
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People are often here for absolutely no strings fun, whether for 5 minutes or all day and may never do repeat meets. One persons great session is another persons so-so meet too.
Enjoy the fun you get and live each day as it comes. And keep an open mind about what people say too - it may not always resemble reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's happens way too often and it's purely the individual not yourself, I wouldn't take it to heart. You had fun that's what matters.
I haven't had this issue personally but I have had the issue of after a meet u don't hear from them for like a few months until they get bored of everyone else or being rejected and want u again and they think dropping a message saying 'I got a free house' will work. That's demoralising. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all. I am fortunate in being a Down to earth guys that gets more than his fair share of meets even if I don't have a 6 pack and past 40! Makes me wonder what most people write to new people is likely to be tosh or think a cock pick saying lets fuck now will impress |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks all. I am fortunate in being a Down to earth guys that gets more than his fair share of meets even if I don't have a 6 pack and past 40! Makes me wonder what most people write to new people is likely to be tosh or think a cock pick saying lets fuck now will impress"
I wouldn't worry and let them carry on, they make the decent guys stand out more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks all. I am fortunate in being a Down to earth guys that gets more than his fair share of meets even if I don't have a 6 pack and past 40! Makes me wonder what most people write to new people is likely to be tosh or think a cock pick saying lets fuck now will impress
I wouldn't worry and let them carry on, they make the decent guys stand out more "
Well I like to think I am a decent and respectful time and almost all the meets I have had have been great. Just frustrated with how this ended! Live and learn |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's happens way too often and it's purely the individual not yourself, I wouldn't take it to heart. You had fun that's what matters.
I haven't had this issue personally but I have had the issue of after a meet u don't hear from them for like a few months until they get bored of everyone else or being rejected and want u again and they think dropping a message saying 'I got a free house' will work. That's demoralising. "
Well yes. At least we both had a great day Sunday whatever else happened after |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the posts. Was certainly an interesting experience. Maybe as I have just come back from Sri Lanka I was more open and chilled as I normally am when I get back from a Buddhist country |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much
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That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much
That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets"
Your profile made me le giggle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much
That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets
Your profile made me le giggle."
'le giggle'
Nice to see a lovely French woman in the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much
That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets
Indeed lol
Your profile made me le giggle.
'le giggle'
Nice to see a lovely French woman in the forums "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block
Don't take it personal
Id consider that a little harsh, I get you like one off meets but by blocking them it could (and this is just my opinion dont block me ) come across a little arrogant and potentially upsetting for the blocked party. Now I know you're not arrogant at all and good natured, some may not fully understand "
I doubt anybody is going to be upset because I have blocked them let's keep it real here
I tell all my meets I'm only after one offs so they know after we have met we won't be meeting again so why would it bother them if I block them? It's not like any guy on here is going to want to stay in touch with me is it? |
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By *oxy666Woman
over a year ago
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When I meet a guy if they are not what I expected I will still be flirty and fun because that's who I am but once out of their company I would not want anymore to do with them. Bit extreme to block and delete tho! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much
That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets
Your profile made me le giggle.
'le giggle'
Nice to see a lovely French woman in the forums "
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Not read any of the thread so forgive me if this has been said....
Yes its happened to me and i was completely baffled by it. Then 2 days later i got a call of some guy not a number i had in my phone but he called me by my name user then my real name. He then asked me if id been shagging his wife. Take from that what you will |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not read any of the thread so forgive me if this has been said....
Yes its happened to me and i was completely baffled by it. Then 2 days later i got a call of some guy not a number i had in my phone but he called me by my name user then my real name. He then asked me if id been shagging his wife. Take from that what you will"
Not had an angry bf or hubby call as of yet. Anyhow onwards and upwards and hopefully a meet shortly to ease my poor confused mind |
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"Not read any of the thread so forgive me if this has been said....
Yes its happened to me and i was completely baffled by it. Then 2 days later i got a call of some guy not a number i had in my phone but he called me by my name user then my real name. He then asked me if id been shagging his wife. Take from that what you will
Not had an angry bf or hubby call as of yet. Anyhow onwards and upwards and hopefully a meet shortly to ease my poor confused mind"
Was a new 1 on me to especially telling the poor sod i had but was as much in the dark as him. You live and learn mate you really do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not read any of the thread so forgive me if this has been said....
Yes its happened to me and i was completely baffled by it. Then 2 days later i got a call of some guy not a number i had in my phone but he called me by my name user then my real name. He then asked me if id been shagging his wife. Take from that what you will"
A woman on here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well it was a weird one. Moved on. If she wants to contact then she can but I won't do any chasing. Was a great day though. Not bad considering I was only back in the UK 12 hours after landing from 3 weeks in Sri Lanka |
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"Well it was a weird one. Moved on. If she wants to contact then she can but I won't do any chasing. Was a great day though. Not bad considering I was only back in the UK 12 hours after landing from 3 weeks in Sri Lanka "
You can hardly chase her since you're blocked  |
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"People are often here for absolutely no strings fun, whether for 5 minutes or all day and may never do repeat meets. One persons great session is another persons so-so meet too.
Enjoy the fun you get and live each day as it comes. And keep an open mind about what people say too - it may not always resemble reality."
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Seems a lot of angst over no strings sex. If after one meet you're upset and confused, how would you have reacted if she couldn't meet you when you asked but then a verification appeared from someone extolling her virtues?
We are all individuals using the site to suit our needs. It suited her to have no further contact with you: get over it. |
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