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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they're outside of your parameters so know they have no chance (and want to avoid a block!) but still really like your pics / profile so they're having a perve?
Possible disconcerting but also a form of flattery? 
If it starts to bothers you then the block button is there of course ... Good luck! |
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I no I've looked at you a few times but nothing like your talking phew. With me its a case of I'm crap and i mean really crap with name so go off people's avatar if they change it often then i look often as i only click who it is by reperving them. Not sure if that help but hey i tride. Nice avatar by the way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a guy that looked at my profile 7 times in one evening, a went to message him and he has all ts tv's blocked a just found it easier to ignore as with blocks they leave and rejoin, a would suggest take it as a compliment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We get the same, so thinking they must be interested, we send a message, read it, dont reply, but carry on looking "
Absolutely.. We've done that, and to be ignored just makes it worse.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have some profiles we look at often - but not more than once every week at most to perv pics if we are out of age range etc - we are in stealth mode anyway so its not known we do this - we have blocked people who have say winked and we have replied saying not for us but they continue to look - it is a tad creepy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! "
yes I do. Why look at me several times a week and not just message me. I even message them and they did not reply but still carry on looking. It baffles me x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! yes I do. Why look at me several times a week and not just message me. I even message them and they did not reply but still carry on looking. It baffles me x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres a couple of guys on here i perv on once or twice a day. Dont message as rhey live too far amd i have a fb atm x
Its ok i don't mind  "
Thanks bladey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! yes I do. Why look at me several times a week and not just message me. I even message them and they did not reply but still carry on looking. It baffles me x
Sorry "
haha Perv |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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We have a few who repeatedly look at us but never contact us, we take it as a compliment.
Similarly we often look at couples but we are out of their age range but like looking at their pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! yes I do. Why look at me several times a week and not just message me. I even message them and they did not reply but still carry on looking. It baffles me x
Sorry haha Perv "
I'm always in stealth mode so nobody knows when I'm looking |
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"We understand the shy element which is why we don't want to block people..!!
Bloody pervs, what sort of site is this lol "
hahah i recall looking at you earlier :P i hope you aren't referring to moi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres a couple of guys on here i perv on once or twice a day. Dont message as rhey live too far amd i have a fb atm x
Oh so you are the one "
Only looked at yours cause your thread annoyed me yesterxay im afraid. You wpuld have to grovel first haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! "
I had one that had looked my profile 11 times in the last hundred views - so all in a few hours! I contacted him and asked him if he had Alzheimer's! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!!
I had one that had looked my profile 11 times in the last hundred views - so all in a few hours! I contacted him and asked him if he had Alzheimer's! xx"
Love it!! Did they respond? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably showing your profile to their mates down the pub? 
So much for respecting each others discretion lol "
Lol. i just make up random things to explain the unknown... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!!
I had one that had looked my profile 11 times in the last hundred views - so all in a few hours! I contacted him and asked him if he had Alzheimer's! xx
Love it!! Did they respond?"
Not looked at my profile since!  - or gone into sneaky mode!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!!
I had one that had looked my profile 11 times in the last hundred views - so all in a few hours! I contacted him and asked him if he had Alzheimer's! xx
Love it!! Did they respond?
Not looked at my profile since! - or gone into sneaky mode! "
The latter perhaps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is sneaky mode btw?"
Going into your privacy settings and stopping people from being able to see that you've viewed them!
Many women do it - myself included - most men seemingly don't! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So moral of the story if you want to get a message from somebody stalk the shit out of them until they ask what what your doing, then initiate conversation!?
Got it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine the ones that actually look and you don't know about ...
I can imagine very very high. "
To be honest people can look at my pics as often as they like! I used to be a model so being looked at doesn't faze me at all - I just find it puzzling as most of my pics are no different from any you'd find in the littlewoods lingerie section etc! I have very few 'x rated' pictures! X |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! "
I have noticed this yes but I just smile and move on now because I think if they were interested they would have sent me a nice message *shrugs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! "
Why have a profile if you don't want people looking?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes i view a profile aftwr reading a forum comment because im trying to work the person out.
That can easy happen a few times a day..."
That's us a lot of the time. We've had our fair share of 'stalkers' but rather have these then repeated messages from guys even when we haven't messaged back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is sneaky mode btw?
Going into your privacy settings and stopping people from being able to see that you've viewed them!
Many women do it - myself included - most men seemingly don't! X"
Because men want you to know that they've looked!
P.s. Hi lovely xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!!
Why have a profile if you don't want people looking? "
I find it odd that people find it an issue that people look at them, be it people complaining that someone is looking too often or the other one is single guys complaining that other guys are looking at them. There are tools to stop this if it really bothers you, yes it's a bit weird if someone keeps looking without saying hi, but they are doing no harm in looking so let them look,is my view. If I think someone is creepy I will block them. Simple. I will also block if it's someone local that keeps looking, mainly because I don't meet local people and don't want to be recognised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had it with a couple. So we messaged them, turns out they didn't think they were good enough for us so didn't message, after a chat we meet up, went well xx
Glad we looked xx"
agree with this 100%
or for me its the old do i dont i message them question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is sneaky mode btw?
Going into your privacy settings and stopping people from being able to see that you've viewed them!
Many women do it - myself included - most men seemingly don't! X"
I'm a ninja perv  |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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"What is sneaky mode btw?
Going into your privacy settings and stopping people from being able to see that you've viewed them!
Many women do it - myself included - most men seemingly don't! X
I'm a ninja perv "
stealth mode  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think what most people are forgetting is that a very large number of people on this site have no intention of ever meeting anyone, they just use this site for wank fodder ...., |
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I look at the same profiles a lot especially if you post a lot, but those people shouldn't build their hopes up that there is impending Funky Love™ coming their way.
I just don't have a memory so have to click on the profile again to remind me who the poster is. I'm also INCREDIBLY nosey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blimey I'm glad I perve in stealth mode then, stalker alert lol
I look, get distracted go back look again & repeat.....
I rarely check out who looks @ me, if they wanna look then that's fine by me ~ that's what the pretty pics are there for.
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! "
Well, I look at your profile reasonably often...the lady is beguiling
Bt I also made a decision not to use the Fab Cloaking Device. I guess lots more people look, a lot more often, but you are unaware of them. Which is preferable, only you can decide.
I think you are probably on their Hotlist and they look everytime you come up on there. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I look at the same profiles a lot especially if you post a lot, but those people shouldn't build their hopes up that there is impending Funky Love™ coming their way.
I just don't have a memory so have to click on the profile again to remind me who the poster is. I'm also INCREDIBLY nosey."
 I am heartbroken
Not even a teensy weensy little chance of gazing upon your maginficent self???
I guess its a "NO" |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I think what most people are forgetting is that a very large number of people on this site have no intention of ever meeting anyone, they just use this site for wank fodder ...., "
Every now and then I'll browse our looked at us page.
Unverified profiles, with no pics and one line of text (usually "will fill in later") over a year old - be they male, female or couple get blocked. I don't feel any guilt. There's a world of porn on the internet so I doubt they're missing out on wank material by being unable to see us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had this myself and wonder why they dont message but I guess im not their type. I admit ive done it myself but I dont message in case of no reply, as ive had no replies to my messages before to men in the past. |
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"Does anyone else find it weird when people constantly look at your profile and never communicate with you... And I don't mean 1-2 times a week., I'm talking every 2-4 hours.. We don't want to go on s unnecessary blocking spree but it getting bit stalky!! And more than one person/couple!! "
We will now be looking s lot more at you lol xx |
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"I look at the same profiles a lot especially if you post a lot, but those people shouldn't build their hopes up that there is impending Funky Love™ coming their way.
I just don't have a memory so have to click on the profile again to remind me who the poster is. I'm also INCREDIBLY nosey.
I am heartbroken
Not even a teensy weensy little chance of gazing upon your maginficent self???
I guess its a "NO" "
*stares at profile and faps* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it could be that single males look often hoping you get the message n talk to them if you are interested, rather than them taking the time to write a message n have it ignored/deleted or sending a rejection one back......
dammit I've given me secret away now aint i |
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"Im rubbish with names and people change avatars so I forget what profiles I have looked til I get on the pics and think oh yep seen these "
My memory is rubbish too, I even forget pics I've fabbed
On the plus side I get to see new pics all the time .... |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
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Also take into account of you gave posted pics that day... If they are public they'll go onto the new pics thingy n people will view them which will appear like they have viewed your profile
Also I use this ap on my phone and I've backed up and come off fab while viewing a profile before.....when I've gone back on it still loads up on that profile so to someone else I'm stalking but to me I jst didn't come off a profile....
Id agree to take as a compliment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a social with a couple and we all agreed to meet for play at a later date. From that point on the male half was never off my profile, I'm talking about almost hourly over a few weeks. I found it all a little creepy and cancelled the meet. |
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"I look at the same profiles a lot especially if you post a lot, but those people shouldn't build their hopes up that there is impending Funky Love™ coming their way.
I just don't have a memory so have to click on the profile again to remind me who the poster is. I'm also INCREDIBLY nosey."
That's pretty much what I do too. Except yours of course, that arse is my wallpaper... in my bedroom... I have a shrine!  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I look at the same profiles a lot especially if you post a lot, but those people shouldn't build their hopes up that there is impending Funky Love™ coming their way.
I just don't have a memory so have to click on the profile again to remind me who the poster is. I'm also INCREDIBLY nosey.
I am heartbroken
Not even a teensy weensy little chance of gazing upon your maginficent self???
I guess its a "NO"
*stares at profile and faps*"
I "fap'ped" too; x |
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"I look at the same profiles a lot especially if you post a lot, but those people shouldn't build their hopes up that there is impending Funky Love™ coming their way.
I just don't have a memory so have to click on the profile again to remind me who the poster is. I'm also INCREDIBLY nosey.
I am heartbroken
Not even a teensy weensy little chance of gazing upon your maginficent self???
I guess its a "NO"
*stares at profile and faps*
I "fap'ped" too; x "
Then it is decided. We are in love. |
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