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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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No.
I hate it when people either fail to read my profile and message me, or read it and ignore my preferences and message me anyway.
Or live so far away that there is more chance of meeting Channing Tatum than them.
But thats just me  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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why do you think you are "entitled" to a reply....... honest question?
whats the different between no reply and "yey, you go champ!! not for us!!!!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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There's nothing more annoying than people who don't read the site FAQ's & instead put threads like this up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is annoying.....
But you get used to it..
It mostly women that do it....
They drop their standards on here....
But they don't seem to notice !!"
No, we don't drop our standards on here. That's the point. |
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Oh... I can think of loads of things much more annoying..
How about when you're sat in a public toilet and you've just realised that there's no loo roll left. That's surely more annoying than no message.
Or what about Justin Bieber.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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It's more annoying going on the bike to the shop and bag splitting spilling shopping over road
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
I don't know if my mama raised me differently but it's usually polite to reply back to a persons question.
I'm not saying for them to say 'yes come meet me now and fuck my brains out'
I'm just looking for an acknowledgment, sorry but some people need to get off there high horses.
It's always nice to know what you can do differently but without a response you won't know what your doony wrong lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if my mama raised me differently but it's usually polite to reply back to a persons question.
I'm not saying for them to say 'yes come meet me now and fuck my brains out'
I'm just looking for an acknowledgment, sorry but some people need to get off there high horses.
It's always nice to know what you can do differently but without a response you won't know what your doony wrong lol "
How will getting a "Sorry you're not my type" reply help you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if my mama raised me differently but it's usually polite to reply back to a persons question.
I'm not saying for them to say 'yes come meet me now and fuck my brains out'
I'm just looking for an acknowledgment, sorry but some people need to get off there high horses.
It's always nice to know what you can do differently but without a response you won't know what your doony wrong lol "
So im supposed to reply back to all of the 234 unread messages in my inbox? I like to think I have a life away from fab   |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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Almost as annoying as getting a message from someone who obviously hadnt read my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didn't we do this yesterday, and the day before, and the day before that ? Delete all your sent mail, get on with life, come back later and you'll either have a reply of you won't, no big deal then carry on with life again. Don't stress over things you can do nothing about. |
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"It is annoying.....
But you get used to it..
It mostly women that do it....
They drop their standards on here....
But they don't seem to notice !!"
That properly made me giggle.
My standards are at the same level as they were ten years ago. Sadly the standard of forum whinging has also remained the same! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"It is annoying.....
But you get used to it..
It mostly women that do it....
They drop their standards on here....
But they don't seem to notice !!
clearly not low enough though eh.. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if my mama raised me differently but it's usually polite to reply back to a persons question.
I'm not saying for them to say 'yes come meet me now and fuck my brains out'
I'm just looking for an acknowledgment, sorry but some people need to get off there high horses.
It's always nice to know what you can do differently but without a response you won't know what your doony wrong lol "
It's nothing you're doing wrong it's just you don't suit what that particular person is looking for.
For example if you were to message me....
You: hi would you fancy meeting?
Me: no thanks
You: why?
Me: not my type
You: why?
Me: because I like tall good looking caucasion guys.
You: (insert some insult here)
The no response is surely better than having a load of women tell you exactly what they don't like about you.
Take the no reply as a 'not interested/not their type'
It's time consuming to have to explain why you don't want to meet a particular person and it often ends with having insults thrown at you so why bother. Easier to just not reply, or even easier again do what I do and turn all message filters on and message people myself. |
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
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Do you send a polite no thanks to every flyer/ advertising leaflet posted through your front door?
Of course you did read the site FAQ didn't you? Below
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There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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Always delete your sent messages, so you'll never know if its read deleted or not, plus you'll feel better about yourself |
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"That chattery noise magpies make when pissed off is more annoying
Beg to differ... seagulls at 5am are way worse! "
Wood pigeons are the worst...they repeat the same dirge over and over, rather like guys whinging about getting no replies.... |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
and also I have read the FAQ but that doesn't mean I'm happy about it lol.
Anyways I'm enjoying the covno's here and the replys. At least I know some real people do exist on this site
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
Learn.
Fast."
Maybe I should change my approach lol.
Give me another month on this site gonna have to start going to a few events |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, we don't hate it in the slightest bit. If we don't get a reply we assume that it means they aren't interested an that in our book is absolutely no problem whatsoever.
What we actually hate is people getting bitchy and peeved because we don't reply ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
Learn.
Fast.
Maybe I should change my approach lol.
Give me another month on this site gonna have to start going to a few events "
Just accept that you won't appeal to everyone on here as in life in general. Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
Learn.
Fast.
Maybe I should change my approach lol.
Give me another month on this site gonna have to start going to a few events "
Why don't guys believe or take notice of important things!!?? It's NOTHING to do with your approach, you could send the most charming whimsical messages in the world or you could send a message saying you stick crayons up your arse, all that matters is what you look like.
If you don't get that much attention from females in the real world then you're absolutely fucked on here because they literally have thousands of people wanting them. |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
Learn.
Fast.
Maybe I should change my approach lol.
Give me another month on this site gonna have to start going to a few events
Why don't guys believe or take notice of important things!!?? It's NOTHING to do with your approach, you could send the most charming whimsical messages in the world or you could send a message saying you stick crayons up your arse, all that matters is what you look like.
If you don't get that much attention from females in the real world then you're absolutely fucked on here because they literally have thousands of people wanting them. "
I get I'm not everyone's cup of tea but surely there must be a few women that like me.
That's if the real world says anything to go by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
and also I have read the FAQ but that doesn't mean I'm happy about it lol.
Anyways I'm enjoying the covno's here and the replys. At least I know some real people do exist on this site
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We are not real. We are robots manned by Fab owners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
Learn.
Fast.
Maybe I should change my approach lol.
Give me another month on this site gonna have to start going to a few events "
Learn as an adult we don't always get our own way. |
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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When, like me, you have hundreds of shitty messages a day you would ignore most of them too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
Learn.
Fast.
Maybe I should change my approach lol.
Give me another month on this site gonna have to start going to a few events
Why don't guys believe or take notice of important things!!?? It's NOTHING to do with your approach, you could send the most charming whimsical messages in the world or you could send a message saying you stick crayons up your arse, all that matters is what you look like.
If you don't get that much attention from females in the real world then you're absolutely fucked on here because they literally have thousands of people wanting them.
I get I'm not everyone's cup of tea but surely there must be a few women that like me.
That's if the real world says anything to go by"
That's the thing, it's not about liking someone, not first off anyway. It's the initial attraction that decides if anything is going to progress.
Women can get shags easily on here and in real life, on here they are looking for guys that they fancy, guys they find attractive, fantasy type guys. If you understand that not every woman is going to fancy you, why are you getting annoyed when the ones that don't find you attractive don't message you back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
No.
I hate it when people either fail to read my profile and message me, or read it and ignore my preferences and message me anyway.
Or live so far away that there is more chance of meeting Channing Tatum than them.
But thats just me "
All of this. |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"That's the thing, it's not about liking someone, not first off anyway. It's the initial attraction that decides if anything is going to progress.
Women can get shags easily on here and in real life, on here they are looking for guys that they fancy, guys they find attractive, fantasy type guys. If you understand that not every woman is going to fancy you, why are you getting annoyed when the ones that don't find you attractive don't message you back? "
It's because I'm not getting massages from anyone ( apart from guys lol)
And I get Im new here, but no messages in 5weeks with 70 odd views a day. There either must be a glitch or my hairs not as good as I think   |
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"Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
and also I have read the FAQ but that doesn't mean I'm happy about it lol.
Anyways I'm enjoying the covno's here and the replys. At least I know some real people do exist on this site
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that exactly what I think it is
your being slightly arrogant thinking everyone's gunna reply
And like you said your not used to getting your own way
Says more bout you than the person you sent the message to |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"Hmm I guess I'm gonna have to change my ways on here (not used to no getting my way)
and also I have read the FAQ but that doesn't mean I'm happy about it lol.
Anyways I'm enjoying the covno's here and the replys. At least I know some real people do exist on this site
that exactly what I think it is
your being slightly arrogant thinking everyone's gunna reply
And like you said your not used to getting your own way
Says more bout you than the person you sent the message to"
You live and you learn, love x |
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"It's because I'm not getting massages from anyone ( apart from guys lol)
And I get Im new here, but no messages in 5weeks with 70 odd views a day. There either must be a glitch or my hairs not as good as I think "
But you are a legend - just look at your hair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But you are a legend - just look at your hair!
You telling me! My hair alone's a catch
(That's a joke btw before you guys think I'm more arrogant than I am) "
Maybe the ladies are scared they might mess it up in the heat of passion so that's why they don't reply ?  |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"But you are a legend - just look at your hair!
You telling me! My hair alone's a catch
(That's a joke btw before you guys think I'm more arrogant than I am)
Maybe the ladies are scared they might mess it up in the heat of passion so that's why they don't reply ? "
Valid point pal, should I shave it off? Ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But you are a legend - just look at your hair!
You telling me! My hair alone's a catch
(That's a joke btw before you guys think I'm more arrogant than I am) "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But you are a legend - just look at your hair!
You telling me! My hair alone's a catch
(That's a joke btw before you guys think I'm more arrogant than I am)
Maybe the ladies are scared they might mess it up in the heat of passion so that's why they don't reply ?
Valid point pal, should I shave it off? Ladies "
I was joking bud, don't change to attract people, be yourself. |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"But you are a legend - just look at your hair!
You telling me! My hair alone's a catch
(That's a joke btw before you guys think I'm more arrogant than I am)
Maybe the ladies are scared they might mess it up in the heat of passion so that's why they don't reply ?
Valid point pal, should I shave it off? Ladies
I was joking bud, don't change to attract people, be yourself."
I need you to train me in a gym. My hair your bod, the Fabworld won't know what hit them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But you are a legend - just look at your hair!
You telling me! My hair alone's a catch
(That's a joke btw before you guys think I'm more arrogant than I am)
Maybe the ladies are scared they might mess it up in the heat of passion so that's why they don't reply ?
Valid point pal, should I shave it off? Ladies
I was joking bud, don't change to attract people, be yourself.
I need you to train me in a gym. My hair your bod, the Fabworld won't know what hit them! "
At near on 20 stone I think they would ! |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"But you are a legend - just look at your hair!
You telling me! My hair alone's a catch
(That's a joke btw before you guys think I'm more arrogant than I am)
Maybe the ladies are scared they might mess it up in the heat of passion so that's why they don't reply ?
Valid point pal, should I shave it off? Ladies
I was joking bud, don't change to attract people, be yourself.
I need you to train me in a gym. My hair your bod, the Fabworld won't know what hit them!
At near on 20 stone I think they would !"
Im 13 and a half, got a long way to go although all my weight isn't muscle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's the thing, it's not about liking someone, not first off anyway. It's the initial attraction that decides if anything is going to progress.
Women can get shags easily on here and in real life, on here they are looking for guys that they fancy, guys they find attractive, fantasy type guys. If you understand that not every woman is going to fancy you, why are you getting annoyed when the ones that don't find you attractive don't message you back?
It's because I'm not getting massages from anyone ( apart from guys lol)
And I get Im new here, but no messages in 5weeks with 70 odd views a day. There either must be a glitch or my hairs not as good as I think "
Right just had another look at your profile cos it's been tweaked since the other day, looks better, however...
Take away the stupid picture with the phone covering your face, the other public picture should be your avatar.
Profile content is quite good, bit of humour in the first sentence. Because you are a man and men do struggle on here, take away all negative words, cant's, won'ts, don'ts etc. Say you are a big hairy man and leave it at that. Take away the bollocks about phones, just say you're willing to exchange numbers. You have a foot fetish so you can leave that on if it's important to you, as a guy I would advise not limiting your target audience but if it's important to you it should stay. I'd take away the being good with your tongue part, again limits your target audience, not every woman enjoys being mopped out and even if they do they'll tell you what to do with your tongue, (us fab women are hardly shy wall flowers) As for the pictures, just say something like you'll always send face pictures with your message so appreciate the same.
Again that's not a sure fire guaranty that you'll get messages and responses but it's making the best of what's available.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But you are a legend - just look at your hair!
You telling me! My hair alone's a catch
(That's a joke btw before you guys think I'm more arrogant than I am) "
The first sign of a sense of personality and humour. Not intended as patronising.
Getting interest is a form of art. |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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I don't let the little things bother me |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
I don't let the little things bother me "
Thanks that's what I'm gonna do from now on too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
I don't let the little things bother me "
What about the big things ?! |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
I don't let the little things bother me
What about the big things ?!"
Big things always bother her.. She's a screamer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's the thing, it's not about liking someone, not first off anyway. It's the initial attraction that decides if anything is going to progress.
Women can get shags easily on here and in real life, on here they are looking for guys that they fancy, guys they find attractive, fantasy type guys. If you understand that not every woman is going to fancy you, why are you getting annoyed when the ones that don't find you attractive don't message you back?
It's because I'm not getting massages from anyone ( apart from guys lol)
And I get Im new here, but no messages in 5weeks with 70 odd views a day. There either must be a glitch or my hairs not as good as I think
Right just had another look at your profile cos it's been tweaked since the other day, looks better, however...
Take away the stupid picture with the phone covering your face, the other public picture should be your avatar.
Profile content is quite good, bit of humour in the first sentence. Because you are a man and men do struggle on here, take away all negative words, cant's, won'ts, don'ts etc. Say you are a big hairy man and leave it at that. Take away the bollocks about phones, just say you're willing to exchange numbers. You have a foot fetish so you can leave that on if it's important to you, as a guy I would advise not limiting your target audience but if it's important to you it should stay. I'd take away the being good with your tongue part, again limits your target audience, not every woman enjoys being mopped out and even if they do they'll tell you what to do with your tongue, (us fab women are hardly shy wall flowers) As for the pictures, just say something like you'll always send face pictures with your message so appreciate the same.
Again that's not a sure fire guaranty that you'll get messages and responses but it's making the best of what's available.
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He hasn't asked for profile advice. |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"That's the thing, it's not about liking someone, not first off anyway. It's the initial attraction that decides if anything is going to progress.
Women can get shags easily on here and in real life, on here they are looking for guys that they fancy, guys they find attractive, fantasy type guys. If you understand that not every woman is going to fancy you, why are you getting annoyed when the ones that don't find you attractive don't message you back?
It's because I'm not getting massages from anyone ( apart from guys lol)
And I get Im new here, but no messages in 5weeks with 70 odd views a day. There either must be a glitch or my hairs not as good as I think
Right just had another look at your profile cos it's been tweaked since the other day, looks better, however...
Take away the stupid picture with the phone covering your face, the other public picture should be your avatar.
Profile content is quite good, bit of humour in the first sentence. Because you are a man and men do struggle on here, take away all negative words, cant's, won'ts, don'ts etc. Say you are a big hairy man and leave it at that. Take away the bollocks about phones, just say you're willing to exchange numbers. You have a foot fetish so you can leave that on if it's important to you, as a guy I would advise not limiting your target audience but if it's important to you it should stay. I'd take away the being good with your tongue part, again limits your target audience, not every woman enjoys being mopped out and even if they do they'll tell you what to do with your tongue, (us fab women are hardly shy wall flowers) As for the pictures, just say something like you'll always send face pictures with your message so appreciate the same.
Again that's not a sure fire guaranty that you'll get messages and responses but it's making the best of what's available.
He hasn't asked for profile advice."
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
I don't let the little things bother me
What about the big things ?!
Big things always bother her.. She's a screamer "
Ha! Uhmmmm... we've never met right OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
There's nothing more annoying than people who don't read the site FAQ's & instead put threads like this up "
This. It's simple, no reply=not interested.
You thinking you are what they are looking for them, doesn't mean they agree.
Do yourself a favour, don't bother with the sent box. Send your messages, then forget them. Even delete them, if they are interested, they will let you know, if they're not, then it will save you getting your knickers in a twist over it.  |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
I don't let the little things bother me
What about the big things ?!"
Ehhh... I feel differently about them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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As rants go that was pretty tame |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do think it's because ladies get unindated with messages.
I cannot get through mine to be honest I don't read alot as iam unable to.
It's just there is more men on this site than ladies I think. |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
I don't let the little things bother me
What about the big things ?!
Big things always bother her.. She's a screamer
Ha! Uhmmmm... we've never met right OP? "
Nah I just read your profile lol, see ladies I do read |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"I do think it's because ladies get unindated with messages.
I cannot get through mine to be honest I don't read alot as iam unable to.
It's just there is more men on this site than ladies I think."
So would you say I tickle your fancy? |
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
At least have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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No point in ranting, no point in whining. First of all you have to understand that single males outnumber just about everyone on the site. So there are so many choices for females and couples. Can you imagine how many messages they receive? Consider yourself lucky that at least your post has been read. If you float someone's boat they will reply.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do think it's because ladies get unindated with messages.
I cannot get through mine to be honest I don't read alot as iam unable to.
It's just there is more men on this site than ladies I think.
So would you say I tickle your fancy? "
Your not my cup of tea but it's not because you are not attractive, it's just a preference thing for me. |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"I do think it's because ladies get unindated with messages.
I cannot get through mine to be honest I don't read alot as iam unable to.
It's just there is more men on this site than ladies I think.
So would you say I tickle your fancy?
Your not my cup of tea but it's not because you are not attractive, it's just a preference thing for me."
Fair enough, that's one less to cross of the list lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my forum topics hasn't got a reply. Can OP, and all guys who think everything should have a reply, please reply to it just coz i want a reply.
TIA. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of my forum topics hasn't got a reply. Can OP, and all guys who think everything should have a reply, please reply to it just coz i want a reply.
TIA.
Couldn't find it or I would have "
Whatever... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
maybe the lesson to take from this thread should been a change in mindset....
think of everything as a "no" until told otherwise (they way no angst and a happy smile when you do get something back... that way no disappointment) rather that thinking of everything as a yes |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"My profile clearly states that i won't be replying to messages if people choose to still message to that's their problem not mine "
In your case that's understandable. But yeah from now on if I get a reply it's a bonus, if not. No harm done.
Plenty of things left to do in the real world
(Sugar I left the clothes in the washing machine) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile clearly states that i won't be replying to messages if people choose to still message to that's their problem not mine "
Been a week since I changed my profile, it just says, not meeting, just here for the forums.
IV had about 50-60 messages since.
3 with I know your not meeting but... And the rest just hadn't read it. I'm not replying, nobreason to write a reply, as they clearly can't read! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if my mama raised me differently but it's usually polite to reply back to a persons question.
I'm not saying for them to say 'yes come meet me now and fuck my brains out'
I'm just looking for an acknowledgment, sorry but some people need to get off there high horses.
It's always nice to know what you can do differently but without a response you won't know what your doony wrong lol "
Next time you meet a woman off her ask her to tell you how many unread messages she's got lol.
Then you'll see why most go with the site rule of no reply = no thanks.
Also it's got nothing to do with manners what you sent was in essence and unsolicited letter
Do you reply to every junk mail flyer and ring up every take away that drops 's a menu through your door going "hey thanks for the menu but I don't think you're the take away for me" |
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Dont know why people keep saying this.. I often do not reply if they specifically ask to meet. Clearly they dont read well so I feel it is a waste of time.
Also if you reply to someone it gives them the chance to message again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I currently have none of my looking for boxes ticked, so if anyone messages me, they will get the warning - not looking for men, women, a couple etc etc.
I had it that way, with filters off, so if someone on the forum wanted to chat about a topic, they could and I am more than happy with that.
So I might not reply to someone who does message anyway, because my profile says I am not looking and they have had that warning already come up. So I can't do much more than that really.
Just take no reply, as not interested and not as a personal insult. It is not meant that way. Here, is the law of numbers, weighed heavily against men. The real world is a whole different ball game.
Positivity is the way forward and is what attracts people. |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"I currently have none of my looking for boxes ticked, so if anyone messages me, they will get the warning - not looking for men, women, a couple etc etc.
I had it that way, with filters off, so if someone on the forum wanted to chat about a topic, they could and I am more than happy with that.
So I might not reply to someone who does message anyway, because my profile says I am not looking and they have had that warning already come up. So I can't do much more than that really.
Just take no reply, as not interested and not as a personal insult. It is not meant that way. Here, is the law of numbers, weighed heavily against men. The real world is a whole different ball game.
Positivity is the way forward and is what attracts people. "
Fair enough to that, I'd like to point out that I'm talking about women who are actively looking for an 'NSA meet' and I've only messaged those who ask to do so in there profile info.
I get there's loads of idiot guys on here who make you feel as though it's not worth your time.
My point would be not to paint everyone with the same brush.
Some people like white, others like blue. Me personally I prefer a turtle green lol |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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What's the betting that a fair few of those unanswered messages were sent to people who made it plain on their profile they aren't looking for you?
I get lots of messages from, for example, smokers or men with cock avatars.
I'm not in the least bit concerned whether it annoys them that I don't reply because it apparently didn't matter to them that it might annoy me to hear from them, when my profile clearly states I'm not interested in them.
I reply, using my time, when I want to, not when an entitled stranger dictates that I must.
If you want to spend your time sending a message, it's your time so it's up to you. You don't get to choose what other people do with their time.
Rant over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like most have lots of messages. Im nothing special it just appears that many cast the net so far in the hope of a catch. My preference are height and build. They message I click on profile look at the statistics then ignore as unfortunately 99% send a cut a paste message without reading my profile, so why the devil should I reply. It certainly is not us women having bad manners and ignorance its the senders who waste our time that are the ignorant ones. |
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"I like most have lots of messages. Im nothing special it just appears that many cast the net so far in the hope of a catch. My preference are height and build. They message I click on profile look at the statistics then ignore as unfortunately 99% send a cut a paste message without reading my profile, so why the devil should I reply. It certainly is not us women having bad manners and ignorance its the senders who waste our time that are the ignorant ones. "
Here here |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
What's the betting that a fair few of those unanswered messages were sent to people who made it plain on their profile they aren't looking for you?
I get lots of messages from, for example, smokers or men with cock avatars.
I'm not in the least bit concerned whether it annoys them that I don't reply because it apparently didn't matter to them that it might annoy me to hear from them, when my profile clearly states I'm not interested in them.
I reply, using my time, when I want to, not when an entitled stranger dictates that I must.
If you want to spend your time sending a message, it's your time so it's up to you. You don't get to choose what other people do with their time.
Rant over "
IF you read the comments you'd know I'm talking about girls who want to be messaged and our actively looking for NSA meets (with me fitting there criteria)
But it's alright only guys get slagged off for doing that |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
I've blocked messages from everyone. So I don't get that problem Just have enough time to reply to people I'm interested in, have met already or people I have been talking to. Been fortunate enough to have people show interest or reply nicely with a "no thank you..." Simple, no worries and I still get to chat in the chat rooms to friends |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"I've blocked messages from everyone. So I don't get that problem Just have enough time to reply to people I'm interested in, have met already or people I have been talking to. Been fortunate enough to have people show interest or reply nicely with a "no thank you..." Simple, no worries and I still get to chat in the chat rooms to friends "
Yeah I think I need to get off my phone and use the proper site on my lappy, and start using the chat rooms on here |
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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Doesn't bother me at all. I'm used to it by now. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
What's the betting that a fair few of those unanswered messages were sent to people who made it plain on their profile they aren't looking for you?
I get lots of messages from, for example, smokers or men with cock avatars.
I'm not in the least bit concerned whether it annoys them that I don't reply because it apparently didn't matter to them that it might annoy me to hear from them, when my profile clearly states I'm not interested in them.
I reply, using my time, when I want to, not when an entitled stranger dictates that I must.
If you want to spend your time sending a message, it's your time so it's up to you. You don't get to choose what other people do with their time.
Rant over
IF you read the comments you'd know I'm talking about girls who want to be messaged and our actively looking for NSA meets (with me fitting there criteria)
But it's alright only guys get slagged off for doing that "
At least half the guys that don't fit my criteria and still message me probably think they fit my criteria and that they deserve a reply too.
You object to me commenting on men doing it, (even though I'm looking primarily for men, so that's the experience from which I'm speaking), and yet you're complaining it's "girls" not replying to you, (because, presumably you are messaging women, so that's your experience)? Hypocrite much? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"What's more annoying is people that think they should get cos they gave even though what they gave wasn't wanted by the getter."
But it was wanted. The OP decided he fits their criteria and they're actively looking so clearly he deserves a reply. What the other party thinks is apparently not relevant. |
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You know what us annoying
when you actually reply to a message and say nope dnt wanna chat
not interested etc
they reply with why not?
And want a whole conversation and justification
For heavens sake
just drop it |
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"What's more annoying is people that think they should get cos they gave even though what they gave wasn't wanted by the getter.
But it was wanted. The OP decided he fits their criteria and they're actively looking so clearly he deserves a reply. What the other party thinks is apparently not relevant."
Exactly |
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"Can't believe this thread is still going....
You telling me, I'm feeling quite chuffed lol  "
I wouldn't be lol its pathetic
just drop it and accept it not everyone is gunna be interested
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"What's more annoying is people that think they should get cos they gave even though what they gave wasn't wanted by the getter.
But it was wanted. The OP decided he fits their criteria and they're actively looking so clearly he deserves a reply. What the other party thinks is apparently not relevant."
Sorry love I'm guessing I touched a nerve, and as you can tell its ticked you off slightly. Think about how men feel when they send 10 messages to 10 different girls and get 0 replies back.
Once again all of whom want to be messaged and are actively looking for NSA meets with me fitting the bill.
Although I'd like to add after this thread, 2 lovely girls have messaged me and I'm continuing to speak to them with a potential meet soon.
Wish me luck guys x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...than Jeremy Hunt. Nothing. Except possibly Michael Gove and Russell Brand. Imagine being stuck in a lift with those three. Just saying."
Actually, that's wasted here. I'm going to start a new thread. See you over there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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No, it means they're not interested, why do you need a message saying as much! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"You know what us annoying
when you actually reply to a message and say nope dnt wanna chat
not interested etc
they reply with why not?
And want a whole conversation and justification
For heavens sake
just drop it "
I love those.
I got a 'why not?' reply a few weeks ago. I usually ignore them but this time I told him, honestly, pointing out all the ways in which he didn't match what my profile clearly says I'm looking for, and how he'd made no effort at all on his own profile.
Apparently that wasn't what he wanted to hear because he replied to tell me I'm arrogant and blocked me.
I'm arrogant? He was the one didn't bother to read my profile and/or thought he was special and it didn't apply to him!
And he did ask!
He's since left the site. I wonder why. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"What's more annoying is people that think they should get cos they gave even though what they gave wasn't wanted by the getter.
But it was wanted. The OP decided he fits their criteria and they're actively looking so clearly he deserves a reply. What the other party thinks is apparently not relevant.
Sorry love I'm guessing I touched a nerve, and as you can tell its ticked you off slightly. Think about how men feel when they send 10 messages to 10 different girls and get 0 replies back.
Once again all of whom want to be messaged and are actively looking for NSA meets with me fitting the bill.
Although I'd like to add after this thread, 2 lovely girls have messaged me and I'm continuing to speak to them with a potential meet soon.
Wish me luck guys x
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No nerve touched, I'm used to seeing entitled men moaning about not getting a reply.
You seem to have missed that just because you think you meet their criteria doesn't mean you do.
You are not owed anything by anyone on here. Acting as if you think you are will put women off, as a lot of the replies on here demonstrate.
A no reply is a no thanks. And for the record, I message men who interest me. Sometimes they don't reply. I know how it feels without needing to imagine it. I don't take it personally.
A no doesn't feel any better than a no reply. And I've had no thanks replies too. |
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"I'm used to seeing entitled men moaning about not getting a reply."
Blimey, is Lord (redacted for discretion) pm-ing you too? It's that fugging Duke of Edinburgh that won't leave us alone.
Op: I reckon cheese on toast landing wrong-side down is worse.
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"I'm used to seeing entitled men moaning about not getting a reply.
Blimey, is Lord (redacted for discretion) pm-ing you too? It's that fugging Duke of Edinburgh that won't leave us alone.
Op: I reckon cheese on toast landing wrong-side down is worse.
Mr ddc"
Or a pain au chocolat, with little chocolat! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I'm used to seeing entitled men moaning about not getting a reply.
Blimey, is Lord (redacted for discretion) pm-ing you too? It's that fugging Duke of Edinburgh that won't leave us alone.
Op: I reckon cheese on toast landing wrong-side down is worse.
Mr ddc"
No Lords but I've had a premiership footballer (apparently) message me recently |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
I once got a message from a guy that didn't fit my preferences that were clearly stated on my profile. I was going through my inbox and I replied with a:
"Thanks for your message, unfortunately I don't feel the attraction. All the best and happy swinging"
He proceeded to say was it because of his race and would I ever reconsider. It just makes me feel really awkward to have to explain myself so I don't let anyone message me anymore, I wink or message people and delete sent messages and if I get a response I'm well chuffed to have the attraction reciprocated. I don't feel hard done by if I don’t meet their preferences. I know I'm not going to be everyone's cup of tea |
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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However the forum rules state that no reply means no interest. Would you prefer lots of rejection messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing more annoying than seeing a profile that has commented in the forum from nr where u liive so u click on to have a peek only to find out youve been blocked by said profile for no apparent reason  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just hate it when you message someone and they read it and fail to reply.
Atleast have the decency to say I'm not your cup of tea.
Sorry rant over
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It's like playing the euromillions and crying when you don't win. Just buy your ticket and don't panic about what numbers come out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm guilty of reading a message and not replying immediately and often get distracted by something. If, a few hours later, I still haven't replied, I'l mark it as unread again so I don't forget about it |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"It's like playing the euromillions and crying when you don't win. Just buy your ticket and don't panic about what numbers come out.
Now that really IS annoying! "
Tell me about it that's 2 quid down the drain, at least the messages on here are free |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's very simple
No reply
No interest
I had someone get very demanding for reasons why
My mistake was replying to his 2nd message with not my type sorry
Clingy much  |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"We can't answer everyone, but you have probably got more posts on this feed than you have ever had in replies to your messages lol "
Minus the few stalkers I'm finding on here who are commenting everywhere I go (you know who you are love)
It's been a blast speaking to all you lot.
Deffo had more replies on here then il prob's ever get in my messages.
But that's all part of the Fab exprience |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"...Deffo had more replies on here then il prob's ever get in my messages.
But that's all part of the Fab exprience "
So it's not been a total loss.
Thus proving the old adage that LAM threads do attract people's attention & when we reply there's a right bunch of moany fkrs on Fab that can't resist that little urge to reply... thus continually perpetuating to yet more LAMs (to the slaughter).
Now why did we join Fab again?
Oh yeah - fancy a fuck anyone?
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"[Removed by poster at 26/07/15 14:53:07]
Il repost for your benefit
find you arrogant n you rub me up the wrong way
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Guess that goes for both of us darl.
Hope you find what your looking for.
Happy Fabbing x |
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By *r Jelabi OP Man
over a year ago
North London |
"Now do the grown up thing and ignore each other's posts if you rub each other up the wrong way"
Feel like I'm back in primary school here, I'd suggest you send us both to the naughty corner. But I'm not her type as stated on her profile lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you send a message just saying hi, fancy a fuck, you look sexy blah blah, then deleting without replying is very fair.
If you send a message that is well written, thought out, relates to their interests and includes pics etc, then its polite to respond with a message, even if its just a no thanks. Deleting without a reply in that case I think is ignorant.
If you said hello to someone in the street and they blanked you, you would think that was ignorant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now do the grown up thing and ignore each other's posts if you rub each other up the wrong way
Feel like I'm back in primary school here, I'd suggest you send us both to the naughty corner. But I'm not her type as stated on her profile lol "
That could be arranged if you keep bringing it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you send a message just saying hi, fancy a fuck, you look sexy blah blah, then deleting without replying is very fair.
If you send a message that is well written, thought out, relates to their interests and includes pics etc, then its polite to respond with a message, even if its just a no thanks. Deleting without a reply in that case I think is ignorant.
If you said hello to someone in the street and they blanked you, you would think that was ignorant.
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I actually had a next door neighbour go into a 3 year strop over me blanking her in the street. I'd only just moved in and didn't know who she was, plus didn't hear what she said either coz i was chatting to my mate and my mate asked who *neighbour* was as they'd just said hi to me and i turned round to see who it was and said idk and asked if they'd said hi to her coz my mate talks to anyone and everyone.
Honestly 3 years strop over something i didn't know about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But you are a legend - just look at your hair!
You telling me! My hair alone's a catch
(That's a joke btw before you guys think I'm more arrogant than I am)
Maybe the ladies are scared they might mess it up in the heat of passion so that's why they don't reply ?
Valid point pal, should I shave it off? Ladies
I was joking bud, don't change to attract people, be yourself.
I need you to train me in a gym. My hair your bod, the Fabworld won't know what hit them! "
I'll take your hair, mines not long for this world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you send a message just saying hi, fancy a fuck, you look sexy blah blah, then deleting without replying is very fair.
If you send a message that is well written, thought out, relates to their interests and includes pics etc, then its polite to respond with a message, even if its just a no thanks. Deleting without a reply in that case I think is ignorant.
If you said hello to someone in the street and they blanked you, you would think that was ignorant.
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Difference is on the street, 50 plus blokes aren't saying hello at once to a lady trying to get into her knickers ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A get in average 50 messages a day so I just don't have the time to reply to all , when a was away for 3 weeks a cam back to just under 200 messages a deleted the lot, I have now installed filters |
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Why do people assume and get in a strop when they send you a message and you don't reply ... geeee I've sent messages been ignored blocked lol move on get on as you will do it to someone yourself at somepoint |
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