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"I've had people tell me my profile looks intimidating because of my veri's....personally I prefer people with lots of veri's, at least you know they're not usually likely to mess you around "I would never meet anyone with over 20 verifications | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. " No too bad if it's a repeat meet but different peeps then no would have to agree | |||
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"We have a few, mostly are from social meets. Have been told sorry, your too experienced for me.. Which I'd say roughly translates to sorry your just slappers .."All I know it's that I'd love tohave the opportunity to verify the above. 
The number of veris doesn't enter into my equation .
It's all about the people | |||
as I don't get many anymore | |||
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"We have a few, mostly are from social meets. Have been told sorry, your too experienced for me.. Which I'd say roughly translates to sorry your just slappers ..
All I know it's that I'd love tohave the opportunity to verify the above.
The number of veris doesn't enter into my equation .
It's all about the people "Aww sweetie get yourself to the fab social at townhouse, end of August. Lovely club lovely people. | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. " Yep, personally I'd like to think I was more than just another soon-to-be-forgotten person in a production line of conquests to satisfy an unquenchable thirst. | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. " Why does that matter x | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. " What's wrong with June?  | |||
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"People say I have too many. "Lol ! Strange as it seems , they say the same about us too . This thread gives a few reasons , like some are worried about their sexual health , and others want to be more than another conquest . Each to their own . But let me assure everyone that we are probably more aware of the sexual health issues than most . We are checked every 6 weeks , and our hygiene and health is imperative to us . And for those who think they will just be another notch - you are no more likely to be that with us than by meeting someone who only meets twice a year . The difference is that we meet with others regularly , so more often than not we may have a single bi fem or a couple with us , so the variation is there . This makes opportunities for wish list scenarios to be played out . If folk are looking for long term relationships , love , depth , repeat meets , regular meets , then we are not what you are looking for . If however it's lust , carnal desire , the opportunity to push boundaries , or the chance to actually know that you don't have to sit chatting and drinking all night before playing , we might be just right ! We have introduced dozens of newbies to the lifestyle , people who have thought about it , but have been too nervous to try it . So we aren't scary or too hardcore . But we have also given the more seasoned an chance to try the more hardcore type of play , and without blowing our own trumpet , we never fail to satisfy . What gets my goat is the constant cry of quality over quantity , and the assumption that we will just play with anyone . We turn down nine out of ten offers , so that's hardly the case is it ? The fact is that because we are genuine players , and there's never a doubt about what we are and what's on offer , we get way more offers than most . Thus , we are as discerning as the next person . Whether it's a one on one or multiple play , we enjoy it all and make it happen . And will continue to make our and our playmates fantasies become reality . After all , for many of us that's what swinging is about isn't it ? | |||
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"People say I have too many.
Lol !
Strange as it seems , they say the same about us too .
This thread gives a few reasons , like some are worried about their sexual health , and others want to be more than another conquest .
Each to their own .
But let me assure everyone that we are probably more aware of the sexual health issues than most . We are checked every 6 weeks , and our hygiene and health is imperative to us .
And for those who think they will just be another notch - you are no more likely to be that with us than by meeting someone who only meets twice a year .
The difference is that we meet with others regularly , so more often than not we may have a single bi fem or a couple with us , so the variation is there . This makes opportunities for wish list scenarios to be played out .
If folk are looking for long term relationships , love , depth , repeat meets , regular meets , then we are not what you are looking for .
If however it's lust , carnal desire , the opportunity to push boundaries , or the chance to actually know that you don't have to sit chatting and drinking all night before playing , we might be just right !
We have introduced dozens of newbies to the lifestyle , people who have thought about it , but have been too nervous to try it . So we aren't scary or too hardcore . But we have also given the more seasoned an chance to try the more hardcore type of play , and without blowing our own trumpet , we never fail to satisfy .
What gets my goat is the constant cry of quality over quantity , and the assumption that we will just play with anyone . We turn down nine out of ten offers , so that's hardly the case is it ? The fact is that because we are genuine players , and there's never a doubt about what we are and what's on offer , we get way more offers than most . Thus , we are as discerning as the next person .
Whether it's a one on one or multiple play , we enjoy it all and make it happen . And will continue to make our and our playmates fantasies become reality . After all , for many of us that's what swinging is about isn't it ?
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"Seen a few profiles with loads of veri's, is it better to have loads of them? Does it make you want to try for yourself?" I personally believe that it is the quality of the veri's which is often most important, rather than the number. Perhaps I am a bit shallow, but if a woman or couple have lots of veri's from people who I consider far from attractive, then this puts me off. I believe many women and couples apply this kind of thinking even more rigorously in the case of single men on here. They don't like the idea of meeting with an 'any hole is a goal' type of guy, and see these type of veri's as evidence of just that. Furthermore, frequency of meets is obviously also important....a couple a month, or a couple a year over several years implies very different things... | |||
"Seen a few profiles with loads of veri's, is it better to have loads of them? Does it make you want to try for yourself? I personally believe that it is the quality of the veri's which is often most important, rather than the number. Perhaps I am a bit shallow, but if a woman or couple have lots of veri's from people who I consider far from attractive, then this puts me off. I believe many women and couples apply this kind of thinking even more rigorously in the case of single men on here. They don't like the idea of meeting with an 'any hole is a goal' type of guy, and see these type of veri's as evidence of just that. Furthermore, frequency of meets is obviously also important....a couple a month, or a couple a year over several years implies very different things..." So what do ours tell you ? | |||
"Seen a few profiles with loads of veri's, is it better to have loads of them? Does it make you want to try for yourself? I personally believe that it is the quality of the veri's which is often most important, rather than the number. Perhaps I am a bit shallow, but if a woman or couple have lots of veri's from people who I consider far from attractive, then this puts me off. I believe many women and couples apply this kind of thinking even more rigorously in the case of single men on here. They don't like the idea of meeting with an 'any hole is a goal' type of guy, and see these type of veri's as evidence of just that. Furthermore, frequency of meets is obviously also important....a couple a month, or a couple a year over several years implies very different things... So what do ours tell you ?" In your case I am far too distracted by all the pictures to even bother with looking at your veri's (which simply serve to reaffirm the kind of swinging scene you enjoy). I'm not really into (though uptil now I have'nt really tried) a lot of the stuff (dogging type of meets for example) that you seem to enjoy, however, given that you look sexy as hell, I'd still like to meet you and shag you into tomorrow...we might have to discuss circumstances of any such meet however | |||
"Seen a few profiles with loads of veri's, is it better to have loads of them? Does it make you want to try for yourself? I personally believe that it is the quality of the veri's which is often most important, rather than the number. Perhaps I am a bit shallow, but if a woman or couple have lots of veri's from people who I consider far from attractive, then this puts me off. I believe many women and couples apply this kind of thinking even more rigorously in the case of single men on here. They don't like the idea of meeting with an 'any hole is a goal' type of guy, and see these type of veri's as evidence of just that. Furthermore, frequency of meets is obviously also important....a couple a month, or a couple a year over several years implies very different things... So what do ours tell you ? In your case I am far too distracted by all the pictures to even bother with looking at your veri's (which simply serve to reaffirm the kind of swinging scene you enjoy). I'm not really into (though uptil now I have'nt really tried) a lot of the stuff (dogging type of meets for example) that you seem to enjoy, however, given that you look sexy as hell, I'd still like to meet you and shag you into tomorrow...we might have to discuss circumstances of any such meet however "Great answer , have you thought about becoming an mp ? | |||
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"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. Why does that matter x" It matters to me. In my opinion of someone is meeting someone different every night/day of the week (for sex) It would put me off, therefore It would be very highly certain I wouldn't meet them. | |||
"Most of mine are socials so if people are dumb enough to be put off by a mere number then cool, they've self filtered themselves out. " I agree with Steve on this. Like another thread on here about "banning cam veris" I don't view Veris by their number but by their content & possibly the people he Veri is about or who left the Veri. The number of Veris are irrelevant to me as many could be Social Meets rather than sexual prowess or preferences. I prefer my Veris not to be of a blatantly sexual nature, giving a blow by blow account of what occurred. I wouldn't display Veris of that kind. I don't even show my Veris for very long either, but I do display a Summary. If this helps others decide if I'm for them then great. If the number (big or small) is off putting then that's for others to decide & as said previously is someone else filtering out folk for themselves. | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. Why does that matter x It matters to me. In my opinion of someone is meeting someone different every night/day of the week (for sex) It would put me off, therefore It would be very highly certain I wouldn't meet them. " Yes , but the question was why ? You say if they meet someone different every night for sex you wouldn't meet them , why wouldn't you ? | |||
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"Seen a few profiles with loads of veri's, is it better to have loads of them? Does it make you want to try for yourself? I personally believe that it is the quality of the veri's which is often most important, rather than the number. Perhaps I am a bit shallow, but if a woman or couple have lots of veri's from people who I consider far from attractive, then this puts me off. I believe many women and couples apply this kind of thinking even more rigorously in the case of single men on here. They don't like the idea of meeting with an 'any hole is a goal' type of guy, and see these type of veri's as evidence of just that. Furthermore, frequency of meets is obviously also important....a couple a month, or a couple a year over several years implies very different things... So what do ours tell you ? In your case I am far too distracted by all the pictures to even bother with looking at your veri's (which simply serve to reaffirm the kind of swinging scene you enjoy). I'm not really into (though uptil now I have'nt really tried) a lot of the stuff (dogging type of meets for example) that you seem to enjoy, however, given that you look sexy as hell, I'd still like to meet you and shag you into tomorrow...we might have to discuss circumstances of any such meet however
Great answer , have you thought about becoming an mp ? "No, not a calling I had ever consider, but I bet they get upto all sorts of dirty shit in the Houses of Parliment.... | |||
"What amazes me is that people think just because someone has no veries to say they have met and fucked Someone that they are better than than the person that has the verifications... Simple thing is that could have been fucking every day off site... I sure as hell know back in our days of having single profiles we had many a meet that wasn't either from here or gave us a verification. just because someone may meet often doesn't mean they aren't picky. We turn down more than we meet... And enjoy meeting and exploring with new people. For me I have been doing this since I was 24.... And it still amazes me that attitudes can still lead to people actually looking down at those that have lots of partners on sites like this " I understand you're statement and can see your point I really do. I guess it's just the way I'm wired to thinking like that. | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. Why does that matter x It matters to me. In my opinion of someone is meeting someone different every night/day of the week (for sex) It would put me off, therefore It would be very highly certain I wouldn't meet them. Yes , but the question was why ? You say if they meet someone different every night for sex you wouldn't meet them , why wouldn't you ?" I don't find it an attractive trait. | |||
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"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. Why does that matter x It matters to me. In my opinion of someone is meeting someone different every night/day of the week (for sex) It would put me off, therefore It would be very highly certain I wouldn't meet them. Yes , but the question was why ? You say if they meet someone different every night for sex you wouldn't meet them , why wouldn't you ? I don't find it an attractive trait. "
agree, and persuades me to close their profile without going further | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. Why does that matter x It matters to me. In my opinion of someone is meeting someone different every night/day of the week (for sex) It would put me off, therefore It would be very highly certain I wouldn't meet them. Yes , but the question was why ? You say if they meet someone different every night for sex you wouldn't meet them , why wouldn't you ? I don't find it an attractive trait. " Just as we don't find the judgemental ( slut shaming ) attitude an attractive trait . | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. Why does that matter x It matters to me. In my opinion of someone is meeting someone different every night/day of the week (for sex) It would put me off, therefore It would be very highly certain I wouldn't meet them. Yes , but the question was why ? You say if they meet someone different every night for sex you wouldn't meet them , why wouldn't you ? I don't find it an attractive trait. Just as we don't find the judgemental ( slut shaming ) attitude an attractive trait ." We are both happy then | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. Why does that matter x It matters to me. In my opinion of someone is meeting someone different every night/day of the week (for sex) It would put me off, therefore It would be very highly certain I wouldn't meet them. Yes , but the question was why ? You say if they meet someone different every night for sex you wouldn't meet them , why wouldn't you ? I don't find it an attractive trait. Just as we don't find the judgemental ( slut shaming ) attitude an attractive trait . We are both happy then "Yes indeed | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. Why does that matter x It matters to me. In my opinion of someone is meeting someone different every night/day of the week (for sex) It would put me off, therefore It would be very highly certain I wouldn't meet them. Yes , but the question was why ? You say if they meet someone different every night for sex you wouldn't meet them , why wouldn't you ? I don't find it an attractive trait. Just as we don't find the judgemental ( slut shaming ) attitude an attractive trait . We are both happy then
Yes indeed "Damn, just tried to message you guys but can't - age blocked  | |||
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"Just got back to this....I think every person should be judged by their qualities not by the number of veri's. I've been on here for six years. I recently rejoined and people I've met over the years have left me new veri's....so it looks bad for three months! I wouldn't meet someone who had a different veri for every day of the week but lots of veri's is good! Just means to me that the people behind the profile are sociable and fun to be around! Not that I'm ashamed of the number of people I've slept with and met through the site....why should I be? That's what it's all about! If I were a man I would probably be applauded. Thanks to those guys who filter out in lots of veri's though makes my block list a little shorter "Well said you ! | |||
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"No , not at all "That's okay then x | |||
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It's a bit like film reviews... how can someone else's opinion of a film, especially someone I don't know, make my mind up as to whether I'll see the movie? What may be shite in their eyes could be fabulous in mine. We have minds of our own for a reason. | |||
"its better to have quality than quantity " Or quality & quantity xx | |||
"Seen a few profiles with loads of veri's, is it better to have loads of them? Does it make you want to try for yourself?" Most verifications are deadly boring and always say the same thing . You should make your judgement on the content of the profile and pictures. | |||
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"I once saw someone with more than 50 veri's. "Shock , horror !! It's definately true that lots of people on fab prefer those with less veris . A while back , we hid our veris and certainly got more interest . The problem was we attracted messages from so many of the types of people we wouldn't want to meet . Like those who think they are better than everyone else , the primadonnas , the demanding types , the judgemental who insist on quality over quantity , and it was scary ! The last thing we want are people who are going to question why we want to meet others , and how many we will meet over the next month . We do this to have fun . So needless to say we put some veris back up , and lo and behold , the needy types stopped messaging and it's all good again . | |||
"I'd say 95% of my veries are meet veries as I generally meet with the intention of playing because my availability to meet is limited, and at the end of the day I am her to ...shock horror...meet people for sex! If someone thinks I'll just shag anyone that makes me an offer though or that I'm riddled with STI's then great, it's just one less message to read/ignore. Maybe I am a slut, but so be it. I'm enjoying myself when I want to, on my terms, with people who seem to have enjoyed themselves too...but to assume all my sexual encounters are detailed on here, that I'm not 'picky' or that I don't take my sexual health seriously is almost insulting, or it would be if I was concerned about what allegedly open minded people thought about me "Well said! | |||
" Once you have been here a year, if you don't have about 2 a month, I would start to worry that they aren't that popular. "
Sorry to chop up your post but this really made me chuckle.
Just so I'm clear, you'd start to worry about complete strangers not being 'popular' enough for you to interact with?
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"I once saw someone with more than 50 veri's.
Shock , horror !!
It's definately true that lots of people on fab prefer those with less veris .
A while back , we hid our veris and certainly got more interest . The problem was we attracted messages from so many of the types of people we wouldn't want to meet . Like those who think they are better than everyone else , the primadonnas , the demanding types , the judgemental who insist on quality over quantity , and it was scary !
The last thing we want are people who are going to question why we want to meet others , and how many we will meet over the next month . We do this to have fun . So needless to say we put some veris back up , and lo and behold , the needy types stopped messaging and it's all good again . " That's why I often put my fake 250,000 meet summary up. It puts off people I don't want to meet. It shows the people that can't do simple maths. And it lets me know who has a sense of humour.
Different profiles attract different people. My serious profile attracts very few. My fake veri/ summary profile attracts loads.  | |||
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"Loads are better - it means they aren't murdering everyone that they meet "*snorts* You're twisted titz!!! | |||
"I once saw someone with more than 50 veri's. "I'm getting close to 50 veris now, but if people bother to read my profile they will see a lot of them are from socials. Anyway it's my profile I can do what I like with it? Really don't care what anyone else thinks.  | |||
"I once saw someone with more than 50 veri's.
I'm getting close to 50 veris now, but if people bother to read my profile they will see a lot of them are from socials.
Anyway it's my profile I can do what I like with it? Really don't care what anyone else thinks. "Trollope | |||
"Loads are better - it means they aren't murdering everyone that they meet "At least, not til after they've posted the veri | |||
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"I once saw someone with more than 50 veri's.
I'm getting close to 50 veris now, but if people bother to read my profile they will see a lot of them are from socials.
Anyway it's my profile I can do what I like with it? Really don't care what anyone else thinks.
Trollope "You Luvvvvvves me really. | |||
"Loads are better - it means they aren't murdering everyone that they meet
At least, not til after they've posted the veri "I'm getting annoyed My patio has seen better days, it used to lie so perfect, and flat. | |||
"I once saw someone with more than 50 veri's.
I'm getting close to 50 veris now, but if people bother to read my profile they will see a lot of them are from socials.
Anyway it's my profile I can do what I like with it? Really don't care what anyone else thinks.
Trollope
You Luvvvvvves me really. "You are quite simply adorable | |||
"Loads are better - it means they aren't murdering everyone that they meet
At least, not til after they've posted the veri
I'm getting annoyed
My patio has seen better days, it used to lie so perfect, and flat."Simple solution - bury them deeper | |||
"Loads are better - it means they aren't murdering everyone that they meet
At least, not til after they've posted the veri " I knew that was an axe hidden in your clutch bag. | |||
"Loads are better - it means they aren't murdering everyone that they meet
At least, not til after they've posted the veri
I knew that was an axe hidden in your clutch bag."I had it made specially. You should see the handle! | |||
"Loads are better - it means they aren't murdering everyone that they meet
At least, not til after they've posted the veri
I'm getting annoyed
My patio has seen better days, it used to lie so perfect, and flat.
Simple solution - bury them deeper "Jeeze Wyrd their like sardines down there. Maybe I should bury them standing up.. Always fancied raised beds. | |||
"Loads are better - it means they aren't murdering everyone that they meet
At least, not til after they've posted the veri
I'm getting annoyed
My patio has seen better days, it used to lie so perfect, and flat.
Simple solution - bury them deeper
Jeeze Wyrd their like sardines down there. Maybe I should bury them standing up.. Always fancied raised beds. "I wonder what would come up in them | |||
"its better to have quality than quantity " What about having quantity of quality | |||
"I'd say 95% of my veries are meet veries as I generally meet with the intention of playing because my availability to meet is limited, and at the end of the day I am her to ...shock horror...meet people for sex! If someone thinks I'll just shag anyone that makes me an offer though or that I'm riddled with STI's then great, it's just one less message to read/ignore. Maybe I am a slut, but so be it. I'm enjoying myself when I want to, on my terms, with people who seem to have enjoyed themselves too...but to assume all my sexual encounters are detailed on here, that I'm not 'picky' or that I don't take my sexual health seriously is almost insulting, or it would be if I was concerned about what allegedly open minded people thought about me " | |||
"I'd say 95% of my veries are meet veries as I generally meet with the intention of playing because my availability to meet is limited, and at the end of the day I am her to ...shock horror...meet people for sex! If someone thinks I'll just shag anyone that makes me an offer though or that I'm riddled with STI's then great, it's just one less message to read/ignore. Maybe I am a slut, but so be it. I'm enjoying myself when I want to, on my terms, with people who seem to have enjoyed themselves too...but to assume all my sexual encounters are detailed on here, that I'm not 'picky' or that I don't take my sexual health seriously is almost insulting, or it would be if I was concerned about what allegedly open minded people thought about me " | |||
"Depends if the veri's go like this... Met in person 1st June. Met in person 2nd June. Met in person 3rd June. Met in person 4th June. Met in person 5th June. Met in person 6th June. Met in person 7th June. Yep, personally I'd like to think I was more than just another soon-to-be-forgotten person in a production line of conquests to satisfy an unquenchable thirst." | |||
"its better to have quality than quantity What about having quantity of quality " | |||
"I'm put off by loads of veris too, especially the ones where there's multiple meets in a week But I also look at the content of the veris too and check what the people are like . Maybe too much investigation but in short, my health is more important than to meet someone who shags anything anywhere." I'm the same as u and put off by lots of meet veris | |||
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