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Do people actually remember the amount of people they have been with? Would you admit the figure? What happens when you go to the clinic for a check and they ask how many in the last 6 months? Do you tell them or make up an amount that sounds more acceptable lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say keeping a record would be pretty sad in all honesty, I have mates that keep count like a randy teenager (they're in their mid 30s ffs). The best relationships are when your partner doesn't feel the need to ask, and you don't need to boast nor feel ashamed. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes. I have a list! "
last time i went to the clinic i took a list with me, with dates and names. Although it might be sad in some people's view, if I didn't have a list and something did come back from the clinic saying I had an issue, who would I contact to advise that they should get checked as soon as possible? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I have a list!
last time i went to the clinic i took a list with me, with dates and names. Although it might be sad in some people's view, if I didn't have a list and something did come back from the clinic saying I had an issue, who would I contact to advise that they should get checked as soon as possible?"
I'm just bitter about not having enough sex to warrant a list  |
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over a year ago
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"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use"
Are we supposed to know their names?  |
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"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use
Are we supposed to know their names? "
Don't you guys have name badges at your parties?? |
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"Been playing 36 years not got a clue how bad is that"
I actually think it's normal to be honest but wanted to ask the question. Could anybody guess to within 50 people and be accurate do you reckon? I wouldn't know where to begin with trying to count.  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use"
It would be useful if you caught something, or wouldn't you tell anyone? |
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"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use
It would be useful if you caught something, or wouldn't you tell anyone?"
How would a first name be helpful? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok I lied lol hehehehe
I have been on swinging scene off and on for at least 10 years over which time me and my first wife played together and have also had two beautiful female FB - remembering how many would be a task, but I recon we are talking about circa 70/80 - yes I am a male tart lol - but on the serious side, always keep my check up , up to date - happy fabbing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been intimate with 12 people, had sex with 8 of those people. Bar two of those people, I could easily contact those people.
Though, in the past year I've only had full penetrative sex with one person and sexual contact with two others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use
Are we supposed to know their names? "
Oh dear , that's us fucked then
We go every six weeks , and every other check is the works . After the first few times we went they all knew we were very active swingers and didn't even ask how many we had been with .
The fact that they give us a full box of condoms every time we go tells its own story though !
Getting checked regularly and being honest is the only sensible thing to do as far as we are concerned .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can think of each person I've been intimate with and could get in touch with them if I ever needed to. The best thing, as others have said, is to get checked regularly so you'd only need to contact the most recent people you've been with, if the worst case scenario were to happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use
It would be useful if you caught something, or wouldn't you tell anyone?"
People should be getting regularly tested anyway so ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't tell ya I was army for 12 years being a male slapper and been in swinging scene for 10 years on n off. So no don't know how many I been with, but its gd what u learn n experience with each different person lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We genuinely haven't got a clue, between us we have led great lives so far and are hoping to carry it on...I honestly couldn't begin to imagine and even if I was to guess it would be scary to admit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the names of every person I've had sex with. Lost my virginity to a guy called Rick, second guy I slept with Nathan, 3rd Michael, 4th Richard, Matthew, Craig J, Gareth, Paul,
Craig H, Will, Craig C, James, Adam, Craig R
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"I know the names of every person I've had sex with. Lost my virginity to a guy called Rick, second guy I slept with Nathan, 3rd Michael, 4th Richard, Matthew, Craig J, Gareth, Paul,
Craig H, Will, Craig C, James, Adam, Craig R
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Craig A, Craig B, Craig C, Craig D... |
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"I don't keep score... I get checked regular at the same clinic for the last 20yrs, they know exactly what I get up to, so no I don't lie and they don't ask anymore "
'feck me' time flies, I've been single for 20yrs I've just shocked myself |
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