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When people say your stuck up because you turned them down
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"some people really can't take being turnt down hahah
Ah well! Delete and move on."
Yeah that's what I do I don't even give them the satisfaction of a reply |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
when we first started out, we didn't really know how to say no nicely, this couple kept on asking again and again and again if we would play with them. When we eventually said no, they said they didn't like asian women anyway and blocked us!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had this yesterday as well as "you have just turned down the best thing that could've happened to you" oh have I? Lol "
Hahahah that's brilliant!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"some people really can't take being turnt down hahah
No they can't. Was it a woman you rejected ?"
Women and a few guys as well I don't even want to meet guys but they still insist on messaging me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say no ones ever took it badly ive spoke to. I count myself lucky though it sounds pretty common x"
I haven't had any abuse from saying no thanks either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get abuse a lot but all from guys i dont want to meet so doesnt bother me one bit. The response that makes me despair is "So what? Its just sex. You dont have to find me attractive." Difference between most men and most women right there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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send them a dirty reply, like:
Just kidding. i have no standards at all and will fuck anyone. In fact you really turn me on and i'd like to suck your cock real deep, i got my legs wide open anf flicking myself off thinking about you. You still want me?
Then block them before they reply.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get abuse a lot but all from guys i dont want to meet so doesnt bother me one bit. The response that makes me despair is "So what? Its just sex. You dont have to find me attractive." Difference between most men and most women right there."
Exactly I like to only have sex with women that I find attractive don't agree with the whole any holes a goal concept |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say no ones ever took it badly ive spoke to. I count myself lucky though it sounds pretty common x
I haven't had any abuse from saying no thanks either "
I don't get abuse for saying no thanks either. They are just relieved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say no ones ever took it badly ive spoke to. I count myself lucky though it sounds pretty common x
I haven't had any abuse from saying no thanks either
I don't get abuse for saying no thanks either. They are just relieved. "
Shurrup are they! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"send them a dirty reply, like:
Just kidding. i have no standards at all and will fuck anyone. In fact you really turn me on and i'd like to suck your cock real deep, i got my legs wide open anf flicking myself off thinking about you. You still want me?
Then block them before they reply. "
Sometimes i'll reply "Hang on just seeing if i can lower my self esteem enough. Nope no sorry it just won't budge!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get abuse a lot but all from guys i dont want to meet so doesnt bother me one bit. The response that makes me despair is "So what? Its just sex. You dont have to find me attractive." Difference between most men and most women right there.
Exactly I like to only have sex with women that I find attractive don't agree with the whole any holes a goal concept "
And you shouldn't looking like that! Well done on the physique |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get abuse a lot but all from guys i dont want to meet so doesnt bother me one bit. The response that makes me despair is "So what? Its just sex. You dont have to find me attractive." Difference between most men and most women right there.
Exactly I like to only have sex with women that I find attractive don't agree with the whole any holes a goal concept
And you shouldn't looking like that! Well done on the physique "
Thankyou your body is great too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say no ones ever took it badly ive spoke to. I count myself lucky though it sounds pretty common x
I haven't had any abuse from saying no thanks either
I don't get abuse for saying no thanks either. They are just relieved.
Shurrup are they! "
I meant they are relieved when I turn them down. Defo gutted when you turn them down.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say no ones ever took it badly ive spoke to. I count myself lucky though it sounds pretty common x
I haven't had any abuse from saying no thanks either
I don't get abuse for saying no thanks either. They are just relieved.
Shurrup are they!
I meant they are relieved when I turn them down. Defo gutted when you turn them down. "
I know what you meant
They're not relieved when you turn them down...behave yourself lady! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just today these are the responses ive had when i say "thanks but youre not my type".
What is your type?
Why does it matter?
Didnt want to fuck you anyway fatty.
Your 40 be grateful anyone wants you.
Fuckin freak
Stupid old slapper didnt want to fuck you anyway.
Classy guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The worst ones are when you get a message from the woman in a couple saying hello and then the bloke messages to say no thanks "
Hahhahah oh mate I've been there as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The worst ones are when you get a message from the woman in a couple saying hello and then the bloke messages to say no thanks "
I swear to God I've had that the other way round
Some guy mailed me once from a couples profile next day I got a right snotty message from his Mrs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The worst ones are when you get a message from the woman in a couple saying hello and then the bloke messages to say no thanks
I swear to God I've had that the other way round
Some guy mailed me once from a couples profile next day I got a right snotty message from his Mrs "
Haha but they're happily in love of course, and both want to swing.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Well it's your loss!"
Uh not its not I would feel a sense of loss if I valued something. No loss if we turn down a gopper!
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I hate that expression it should be banned
Just makes me think ....childish twat when people say your loss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""Well it's your loss!"
Uh not its not I would feel a sense of loss if I valued something. No loss if we turn down a gopper!
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Got that right hahah really don't get why they say that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Well it's your loss!"
Uh not its not I would feel a sense of loss if I valued something. No loss if we turn down a gopper!
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Your loss you've missed out on meeting a bitter miserable fucker ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one likes be rejected
Some are mature enough to take it graciously though "
I sent someone the "thanks, but you're not really my type" message last week and was told : "Good manners and respect isn't your type! Well good luck with all the chavs pikeys and rapists on here then!"
Reader, I blocked him..... |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
I have had this more times than I can count. To be fair, it usually comes either after a random friend invite I refused to accept (ie, never chatted before), or when asked how big my cock is and I responded with the customary "2 inches", lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had the abuse ones but feel the " Why what's wrong with us" message leaves us with a moral dilemma. Do we say why and get abuse or just delete."
I really don't get why people ask this sort of thing after a polite no thanks. If I get a no thanks I just assume they don't fancy me sexually and wish them well. |
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Sometimes i'll reply "Hang on just seeing if i can lower my self esteem enough. Nope no sorry it just won't budge!"
Love that reply"
I thought it was crass especially on a thread about abusive/rude messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes i'll reply "Hang on just seeing if i can lower my self esteem enough. Nope no sorry it just won't budge!"
Love that reply
I thought it was crass especially on a thread about abusive/rude messages"
If i get abuse i have no problems being sarcastic in response. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
What I want to know, why do some women get abusive if I don't want to meet them? Surely everyone has the right to say no? Am I automatically supposed to feel "grateful" 'cause am a guy and therefore accept every "offer" even if am not attracted? |
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Is that even allowed!
I'm off to read the rules 
