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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So we have been getting alot of male attention and that is fine but we are looking at trying MFF and couples, does Mrs have to bi or bi curious in order to get interest? What is it that's not appealing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say formally acknowledging your willingness to engage in same sex activity would certainly help rather than hinder your prospects,,,,  "
Ahem..... well that's only if you are willing to engage in same sex activity of course.....  |
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"So we have been getting alot of male attention and that is fine but we are looking at trying MFF and couples, does Mrs have to bi or bi curious in order to get interest? What is it that's not appealing?"
I really can't put my finger on it. 
Just keep trying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So we have been getting alot of male attention and that is fine but we are looking at trying MFF and couples, does Mrs have to bi or bi curious in order to get interest? What is it that's not appealing?"
I wouldn't contact couples with a straight female as we want female play too. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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ill say it straight from a single female point of view unless she just wants you...when shes got single men to choose, why would she?.it looks like this is all for the male half's benefit.
wanting a three way dynamic is what im looking for..not interested in fulfilling someone else's fantasy unless it pleases me too..equal exchange..just my opinion.good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few straight women and who play with couples, but I cant see your profile attracting them. If the female is straight then saying she's bi to get meets is a shitty thing to do. Just be honest....and patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
I can't imagine that she would  "
So why would a straight couple want a ffm? Or am I missing something? |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
I can't imagine that she would
So why would a straight couple want a ffm? Or am I missing something? "
Because the fem wants to watch her man with the guest, and not join in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
I can't imagine that she would
So why would a straight couple want a ffm? Or am I missing something?
Because the fem wants to watch her man with the guest, and not join in?"
That was the point I was missing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah cuckqueaning...it's the oft forgotten swinging combination, for bi and straight swingers!  "
I've been the third party in that situation with a couple  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Well in that case...... he's offering straight heterosexual sex with a watcher on the side. "
Which is still what most would consider to be an FFM scenario. That's how most FFM's are advertised, except it's more usually the guy doing the watching (and maybe joining in, etc etc etc). |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Ah cuckqueaning...it's the oft forgotten swinging combination, for bi and straight swingers!
I've been the third party in that situation with a couple "
Lucky you! Even better if the fem was 'made' to watch you both! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah cuckqueaning...it's the oft forgotten swinging combination, for bi and straight swingers!
I've been the third party in that situation with a couple
Lucky you! Even better if the fem was 'made' to watch you both! "
No, she was sat in the room next door, though she came in the room to find him fucking me from behind while I was telling him how much I missed him fucking me like a dirty girl... |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Ah cuckqueaning...it's the oft forgotten swinging combination, for bi and straight swingers!
I've been the third party in that situation with a couple
Lucky you! Even better if the fem was 'made' to watch you both!
No, she was sat in the room next door, though she came in the room to find him fucking me from behind while I was telling him how much I missed him fucking me like a dirty girl... "
A scorching hot scenario...makes you feel glad to be alive!  |
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From the opening post I assume the male wants the attention of two women lavished upon him, but the female is not interested in playing with the lady herself.
That doesn't suit us, firstly because C is a voyeur and loves to watch me play, especially with women. And secondly because I love pussy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah cuckqueaning...it's the oft forgotten swinging combination, for bi and straight swingers!
I've been the third party in that situation with a couple
Lucky you! Even better if the fem was 'made' to watch you both!
No, she was sat in the room next door, though she came in the room to find him fucking me from behind while I was telling him how much I missed him fucking me like a dirty girl...
A scorching hot scenario...makes you feel glad to be alive! "
It was fun! I think I'm going to pop it in the stories & fantasies section on here |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Ah cuckqueaning...it's the oft forgotten swinging combination, for bi and straight swingers!
I've been the third party in that situation with a couple
Lucky you! Even better if the fem was 'made' to watch you both!
No, she was sat in the room next door, though she came in the room to find him fucking me from behind while I was telling him how much I missed him fucking me like a dirty girl...
A scorching hot scenario...makes you feel glad to be alive!
It was fun! I think I'm going to pop it in the stories & fantasies section on here "
Yes, please do...and be so kind as to send us a link when you've done so, if you don't mind. You can't beat cuckqueaning erotica, and there is so little of it to be found, sadly.
Well, that is any good, anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So we have been getting alot of male attention and that is fine but we are looking at trying MFF and couples, does Mrs have to bi or bi curious in order to get interest? What is it that's not appealing?
I really can't put my finger on it.
Just keep trying. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe your right but wouldn't you just want to experience it i mean that's what we want to do is experience new things. Maybe we should just stick to mmf instead of looking for mff as both women would be equally satisfied. Were not in it so we have one voyer more for everyone to have equal but satisfying pleasure. |
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"So we have been getting alot of male attention and that is fine but we are looking at trying MFF and couples, does Mrs have to bi or bi curious in order to get interest? What is it that's not appealing?"
If you aren't bi you can't make yourself be so the answer is no.
What exactly are you offering another woman if she were to join you? That might increase your chances or maybe a visit to a club. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"As a single straight female, nothing attracts me in meeting a couple.
Why would it? "
Because you like being what is referred to as a cuckcake? That's a woman who likes to fuck a man while his partner is present, or not present, because it turns the couple on for that scenario to happen.
Of course, if you don't like that sort of play, then no, why would you? You're clearly not that type of single, straight female. Unlike the other single, straight females who are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
I can't imagine that she would
So why would a straight couple want a ffm? Or am I missing something? "
Same reason straight couples want MMF. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
I can't imagine that she would
So why would a straight couple want a ffm? Or am I missing something?
Because the fem wants to watch her man with the guest, and not join in?"
... Or the man fucks both women.
It's odd how men are happy for straight MMF but women get uptight and huffy about straight MFF. |
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
I can't imagine that she would
So why would a straight couple want a ffm? Or am I missing something?
Same reason straight couples want MMF. "
Glad I got this far in the thread...makes total sense to me. |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
I can't imagine that she would
So why would a straight couple want a ffm? Or am I missing something?
Because the fem wants to watch her man with the guest, and not join in?
... Or the man fucks both women.
It's odd how men are happy for straight MMF but women get uptight and huffy about straight MFF. "
I dont get huffy. We have had straight mff a few times with the same person. Both us fems straight. Mr _d40 was lavished in sexiness
Mrs _d40 x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
I can't imagine that she would
So why would a straight couple want a ffm? Or am I missing something?
Because the fem wants to watch her man with the guest, and not join in?
... Or the man fucks both women.
It's odd how men are happy for straight MMF but women get uptight and huffy about straight MFF.
I dont get huffy. We have had straight mff a few times with the same person. Both us fems straight. Mr _d40 was lavished in sexiness
Mrs _d40 x"
My apologies. I should've said some women. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me "
Seems to be that it is just for him? And as women have a vast choice of single guys...without another straight woman in the dynamic....then I can see why the OP is having problems. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
Seems to be that it is just for him? And as women have a vast choice of single guys...without another straight woman in the dynamic....then I can see why the OP is having problems."
Its not the be all and end all im not totally fixed on have a mff but its one of those things i wouldn't mind experiencing. We both want it but Mrs feels uncomfortable with going bi. |
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
Seems to be that it is just for him? And as women have a vast choice of single guys...without another straight woman in the dynamic....then I can see why the OP is having problems.
Its not the be all and end all im not totally fixed on have a mff but its one of those things i wouldn't mind experiencing. We both want it but Mrs feels uncomfortable with going bi. "
Then she shouldn't even consider it, no woman wants to have sex with somebody who is only doing it for her partner to watch. How comfortable would you be with going bi? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
Seems to be that it is just for him? And as women have a vast choice of single guys...without another straight woman in the dynamic....then I can see why the OP is having problems.
Its not the be all and end all im not totally fixed on have a mff but its one of those things i wouldn't mind experiencing. We both want it but Mrs feels uncomfortable with going bi.
Then she shouldn't even consider it, no woman wants to have sex with somebody who is only doing it for her partner to watch. How comfortable would you be with going bi?"
Okay i see your point im selfish and not considerate of how she feels, but she gets all this attention and im very open to her being with these blokes so why cant i have a bit of fun. |
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
Seems to be that it is just for him? And as women have a vast choice of single guys...without another straight woman in the dynamic....then I can see why the OP is having problems.
Its not the be all and end all im not totally fixed on have a mff but its one of those things i wouldn't mind experiencing. We both want it but Mrs feels uncomfortable with going bi.
Then she shouldn't even consider it, no woman wants to have sex with somebody who is only doing it for her partner to watch. How comfortable would you be with going bi?
Okay i see your point im selfish and not considerate of how she feels, but she gets all this attention and im very open to her being with these blokes so why cant i have a bit of fun."
That isn't something that you should be discussing with me.
I look at it this way. Swinging isn't like a bag of sweets where if you get two red ones so should your partner. Your fun shouldn't be had at the cost of your partner doing something she isn't comfortable with or vice versa. If she's happy with ffm where the women don't play with each other why not go with that? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is what im after a mff where both are happy not playing with each but that's hard to find on here believe me iv tried with the majority of the women looking for what we want. |
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"This is what im after a mff where both are happy not playing with each but that's hard to find on here believe me iv tried with the majority of the women looking for what we want. "
I see, I got a bit confused when you said your partner wasn't happy with going bi.
We often have mfm and my partner is straight but it is more difficult due to the ratio of men to women to achieve fmf.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call me naive, but if the female couple is straight then why would she want sex with another woman? Someone enlighten me
I can't imagine that she would
So why would a straight couple want a ffm? Or am I missing something? "
Yes probably the same thing I always miss.. Bizarre I don't understand it either. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"The majority of women are bi or bi curious and they are interested but they get put off when we say the wife is straight. "
Of course they do!! For me I'm more interested in having some fun with the other woman. It's about everyone having a good time. Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes we are looking for ones close by, one we can get to fairly well, but there's one a little bit further that goes on during the day which suites us. |
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