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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just seen a news article regarding a new app where both a man and woman are recorded giving consent to sex and it can be saved and accessed by police etc if an allegation is made.
I think it could be a good idea but may have flaws.
Anyone else seen it or have opinions on it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"seems a good idea but I would suspect a bit of a faff in the heat of the moment."
True i suppose if you are in a taxi going back to someones place specifically for that it could work and maybe also for people on here too |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"seems a good idea but I would suspect a bit of a faff in the heat of the moment.
True i suppose if you are in a taxi going back to someones place specifically for that it could work and maybe also for people on here too "
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That girl who got the footballer jailed she was up for it was in the morning when he said good bye left the hotel room twice to get drinks and food. He was a welsh footballer she was welsh and a football fan she thought it was her birthday till the morning and found out it was a one off. She was not a kid and admitted to being sexual active simple if you don,t want it don,t go back to a hotel room |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"complete flawed any one can change their mind at any point in including after they agree on app  "
Maybe both people should use the app and if at any point the woman says no or stop repeatedly it should revoke consent.. App could run in the background |
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"That girl who got the footballer jailed she was up for it was in the morning when he said good bye left the hotel room twice to get drinks and food. He was a welsh footballer she was welsh and a football fan she thought it was her birthday till the morning and found out it was a one off. She was not a kid and admitted to being sexual active simple if you don,t want it don,t go back to a hotel room"
You know for sure because you were there, right?
Anyone can change their or mind at anytime, knickers on or off regardless of where you are (hotel room, car, back alley etc).
It's a sad moment in time when we have to rely on aps for everything. I can see the benefit in this somewhat but as someone says, as soon as you change your mind a recording means nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even after consent, it can still lead to rape - even though both parties have made a video consenting.
I wonder if the idea of an app such as this will lead to more problems than it would intend to solve?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"complete flawed any one can change their mind at any point in including after they agree on app
Maybe both people should use the app and if at any point the woman says no or stop repeatedly it should revoke consent.. App could run in the background "
will the app be able to say what point she said stop thou theirs a line when concent cant be withdrawn |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It doesn't take into consideration the fact that you can withdraw consent at any time. If someone did something I didn't enjoy and I said 'no, stop' and they then essentially raped it, I wouldn't want them to have a bit of paper that I signed theoretically consenting to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That girl who got the footballer jailed she was up for it was in the morning when he said good bye left the hotel room twice to get drinks and food. He was a welsh footballer she was welsh and a football fan she thought it was her birthday till the morning and found out it was a one off. She was not a kid and admitted to being sexual active simple if you don,t want it don,t go back to a hotel room"
So basically what you said there is:
1. He potentially abused a position of power to get laid with someone who admired him.
2. She was 'old enough to know better'.
3. Because she was already sexually active prior to the incident then it's ok to assume she wanted to go through with it. |
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"It doesn't take into consideration the fact that you can withdraw consent at any time. If someone did something I didn't enjoy and I said 'no, stop' and they then essentially raped it, I wouldn't want them to have a bit of paper that I signed theoretically consenting to it."
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