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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been asked how many people I have played with by someone who wants to meet!
I replied it's not really your business!
My question here....
Is it bad manners to ask this or have I taken this the wrong way!
What do you think?
Thanks lovelies.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont answer it, never answer it.
Your on a lose / lose with this one.
If for example you say none, you will be tarred with the time waster brush, or seen as a personal challenge lol
However if it is possibly aheeeem a few they will assume you will do them!! Like its a a done deal.
I would answer well I find the site lovely and I enjoy my time on here pmsl, that will throw em.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I couldn't answer as I have repeat veri's I have social veri's I have been here for over 6 years, it's not because I don't who I had met.
This is a question I wouldn't answer in vanilla land either, it is my business and no one else's. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
It depends how and why they're asking. If it's a general 'how's fab' type inquiry or you're talking about previous sexual encounters generally then it's a pretty innocuous question in the flow of a conversation. If, however they are straight out asking out of the blue then I would wonder at the reason behind such a question. |
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Very odd and non of his beeswax.
Sounds like an insecure slut shamer. A man has numerous partners, he's the man. A woman does the same, she's a slut.
Bullshit double standards.
Nice arse by the way  |
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"Very odd and non of his beeswax.
Sounds like an insecure slut shamer. A man has numerous partners, he's the man. A woman does the same, she's a slut.
Bullshit double standards.
Nice arse by the way "
Lib called me a slag!  it's not actually that many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lib called me a slag! it's not actually that many. "
Sorry, in the interests of unbiased gender discrimination I shall endeavor to call a woman a slag to as I wouldn't want to be labelled for treating the different sexes differently. |
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"Lib called me a slag! it's not actually that many.
Sorry, in the interests of unbiased gender discrimination I shall endeavor to call a woman a slag to as I wouldn't want to be labelled for treating the different sexes differently."
That's very fair of you, mate. Which one? |
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"Very odd and non of his beeswax.
Sounds like an insecure slut shamer. A man has numerous partners, he's the man. A woman does the same, she's a slut.
Bullshit double standards.
Nice arse by the way
Lib called me a slag! it's not actually that many. "
Different banter context |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Lib called me a slag! it's not actually that many.
Sorry, in the interests of unbiased gender discrimination I shall endeavor to call a woman a slag to as I wouldn't want to be labelled for treating the different sexes differently.
That's very fair of you, mate. Which one?"
You're more of a floozy than a stag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lib called me a slag! it's not actually that many.
Sorry, in the interests of unbiased gender discrimination I shall endeavor to call a woman a slag to as I wouldn't want to be labelled for treating the different sexes differently."
I'm used to being called it at work on a regular basis so feel free |
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"Lib called me a slag! it's not actually that many.
Sorry, in the interests of unbiased gender discrimination I shall endeavor to call a woman a slag to as I wouldn't want to be labelled for treating the different sexes differently.
That's very fair of you, mate. Which
one?
You're more of a floozy than a stag.
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I like the image of a stag  |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"I have been asked how many people I have played with by someone who wants to meet!
I replied it's not really your business!
My question here....
Is it bad manners to ask this or have I taken this the wrong way!
What do you think?
Thanks lovelies...."
It could be a valid question but really it depends when the question was asked, context is important.
For instance if it was asked during a meet after the ice had been broken we would give a different answer than if it was a potential meets first question.
As everyone who practices safe sex will know the number of meets a partner has is relevant.
Therefoe it is not bad manners to ask but one has to judge when the right time to ask is. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Lib called me a slag! it's not actually that many.
Sorry, in the interests of unbiased gender discrimination I shall endeavor to call a woman a slag to as I wouldn't want to be labelled for treating the different sexes differently.
That's very fair of you, mate. Which
one?
You're more of a floozy than a stag.
I like the image of a stag "
Damn, it slipped past autocorrect. Possibly because I was still laughing at my phone automatically changing floozy to floppy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think its bad manners but I don't really think it's anyone else's business either.
What time scale is he after ~ a lifetime or in the fab world?!
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"We sometimes ask people if they have had many meets in a conversational way, no ulterior motive.
We've been asked this loads of times and its never offended us.
So, have you had many meets? "
Yes but not recently. Most of them were very enjoyable. How about you?
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I find it an irrelevant question and would refuse to answer it on the grounds of pointlessness.  "
Plus, what does it really mean? Does one count people in clubs who've sucked your nipples or just the people with whom you arrange one to one meets?
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"We sometimes ask people if they have had many meets in a conversational way, no ulterior motive.
We've been asked this loads of times and its never offended us.
So, have you had many meets?
Yes but not recently. Most of them were very enjoyable. How about you?
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The same really, most were great with one horrible exception (another site, another story). We meet socially quite a lot too which we also enjoy.  |
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"I find it an irrelevant question and would refuse to answer it on the grounds of pointlessness.
Plus, what does it really mean? Does one count people in clubs who've sucked your nipples or just the people with whom you arrange one to one
meets?
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I think a nipple suck counts as about 1/4 so you need 4 different people before you can count it as 1 meet.
Ligeria: I prefer 'floozy' to 'floppy'  |
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"We sometimes ask people if they have had many meets in a conversational way, no ulterior motive.
We've been asked this loads of times and its never offended us.
So, have you had many meets?
Yes but not recently. Most of them were very enjoyable. How about you?
The same really, most were great with one horrible exception (another site, another story). We meet socially quite a lot too which we also enjoy. "
Oh and also some of our meets were soft swing. |
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"We sometimes ask people if they have had many meets in a conversational way, no ulterior motive.
We've been asked this loads of times and its never offended us.
So, have you had many meets?
Yes but not recently. Most of them were
very enjoyable. How about you?
The same really, most were great with
one horrible exception (another site,
another story). We meet socially quite a
lot too which we also enjoy.
Oh and also some of our meets were
soft swing. "
I think we'd all like to hear about the horrible exception.....  |
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"We sometimes ask people if they have had many meets in a conversational way, no ulterior motive.
We've been asked this loads of times and its never offended us.
So, have you had many meets?
Yes but not recently. Most of them were
very enjoyable. How about you?
The same really, most were great with
one horrible exception (another site,
another story). We meet socially quite a
lot too which we also enjoy.
Oh and also some of our meets were
soft swing.
I think we'd all like to hear about the horrible exception..... "
It's not something we talk about much but I will say that we learned some very valuable lessons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been asked how many people I have played with by someone who wants to meet!
I replied it's not really your business!
My question here....
Is it bad manners to ask this or have I taken this the wrong way!
What do you think?
Thanks lovelies....
It could be a valid question but really it depends when the question was asked, context is important.
For instance if it was asked during a meet after the ice had been broken we would give a different answer than if it was a potential meets first question.
As everyone who practices safe sex will know the number of meets a partner has is relevant.
Therefoe it is not bad manners to ask but one has to judge when the right time to ask is."
What does "safe sex" have to do with anything? It's an irrelevant question whether people bareback or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been asked how many people I have played with by someone who wants to meet!
I replied it's not really your business!
My question here....
Is it bad manners to ask this or have I taken this the wrong way!
What do you think?
Thanks lovelies...."
I'd just anawer
this is fab I can be whatever you want me be, how many would you like me to have been with?
usually shuts them up. |
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I've been asked a couple of times but it always seems to come with other questions in the same message so I skirt round it, I'm not offended by the question I just don't think it's got anything to do with anyone else! Anyway how would they know if you were telling the truth or not?! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"We sometimes ask people if they have had many meets in a conversational way, no ulterior motive.
We've been asked this loads of times and its never offended us.
So, have you had many meets?
Yes but not recently. Most of them were very enjoyable. How about you?
The same really, most were great with one horrible exception (another site, another story). We meet socially quite a lot too which we also enjoy.
Oh and also some of our meets were soft swing. "
Sounds similar to us.. we love the social side as much as the sexual especially with long term friends.
Our meets have been a mixture of parties, groups, 1-2-1 and full/soft.
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It is an excellent question which can lead to much conversation. However, it's all down to timing. Asking outright before meeting sounds a bit iffy.
For now, give a non-descript answer, go ahead with the meet, make sure a ftiend knows you are going on a date and if in doibt after meeting, bring the meet to a close. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we where already in a relationship and at the stage where secure enough with each other to handle an honest answer maybe I'd ask.. With a potential meet on here I wouldn't consider it a question to ask, nor would I ask for a rating on skill or size,somethings are just better left unasked  |
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They shouldn't ask.
A pointless question.
Some men ask because they think you are dirty filthy slut and want to have sex with you.
Others ask cos they think they'll get a disease and want to keep away from you.
People like them need avoiding. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all - knew I could rely on you all!
I am, now, not meeting said person. I might be on the front page of the tabloids tomoro who knows!! Ha ha!
Hope you all have a good evening
GK  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some guys love it if you've fucked a lot of other guys. But if you don't like the question then you don't have to answer it, like others have said it can also cause you grief (usually from guys you reject). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always ask how many people they have met from here. Never thought it rude as it's a question I wouldn't mind answering myself. "
I don't mind in here that's part of it, just asking as a general life question I just find odd!
It was like the Spanish Inquisition  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been asked how many people I have played with by someone who wants to meet!
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Tell he/she/them to fuck off.
Disclaimer: I'm not just saying that because of your ass. |
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"Always ask how many people they have met from here. Never thought it rude as it's a question I wouldn't mind answering myself.
I don't mind in here that's part of it, just asking as a general life question I just find odd!
It was like the Spanish Inquisition "
And nobody expects that |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"I find it an irrelevant question and would refuse to answer it on the grounds of pointlessness.
Awww go on.
Quite a few "
I thought you were a virgin
OP, I'd answer with "into 3 digits, less than 4 digits (I'm not Gene Simmons ffs) " - if that's a problem then move onto the next totally awesome, humungously funny profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been asked how many people I have played with by someone who wants to meet!
I replied it's not really your business!
My question here....
Is it bad manners to ask this or have I taken this the wrong way!
What do you think?
Thanks lovelies....
I'd just anawer
this is fab I can be whatever you want me be, how many would you like me to have been with?
usually shuts them up."
Stealing this for next time... Or to answer the message I just had asking this exact question in their first line of their first message... |
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