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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's everyone's take on talking during sex? I am personally not a fan, I.don't mind the occasional " ooh yes yes that's good "
But don't like the people that read a porn movie script out,
ha is it just me
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"I so love reading a book to my partner while having sex it is so relaxing  "
Now I can imagine that as part of extended, erotic foreplay relaxing in a lover's arms while they read to you would be an intensely sexual experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i like to tell her how good she tastes when licking her pussy and ass and also how hot she looks in different positions and her moans and love her screaming out when shes cumming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I so love reading a book to my partner while having sex it is so relaxing
Now I can imagine that as part of extended, erotic foreplay relaxing in a lover's arms while they read to you would be an intensely sexual experience."
I Obviously meant that lol
However you are right, it is so an erotic, intense as well as unique experience, creates strong bond... |
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"I so love reading a book to my partner while having sex it is so relaxing
Now I can imagine that as part of extended, erotic foreplay relaxing in a lover's arms while they read to you would be an intensely sexual experience."
I was thinking the same thing! I'd love that as long as fifty shades of tripe didn't make an appearance! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fun we have together after a meet is all about talking , recalling , and generally getting turned on as much by the talking as the doing .
During a meet there's nothing worse than silence , it's so much more horny to hear what people want , like , and compliments are always good .
And finally , when it's just us enjoying each other , we always like to say what we enjoy and whisper in each other's ear our deepest feelings and desires .
So talking is so good for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's everyone's take on talking during sex? I am personally not a fan, I.don't mind the occasional " ooh yes yes that's good "
But don't like the people that read a porn movie script out,
ha is it just me
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Hate it
I don't mind communication but I dis like guys who constantly ask you how that is and if your loving it, sometimes I just want to say shut the fuck up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a bit of talking during a hot session, not along the Alan Partridge lines of "what do you think to the pedestrianisation of Norwich City centre" but makes the sex even better I think!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who would want sex without a word to each other?? I'm not saying you want a running commentary but some feedback is always good!!  "
I like it when your both comfortable and can say when your liking or disliking something and able to ask for what you'd like (like say they do something good with their tongue you feel comfy asking them to carry on or pointing out if you dislike something and known it won't ruin the mood)
But I dislike the type where it's just a constant stream of "do you like that" etc questions as it just feels awkward |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone isn't good at talking dirty then there is nothing worse.
We role play heavily and C talks continually throughout. He's amazing at it and it turns me on so much. We recently played in public in a club and he didn't talk during and I found myself begging him to speak to me. As soon as he did, I had an orgasm.
I crave him doing it now. |
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The best sex sessions have 'phases' / 'section' ........
In some sections the odd phrase be it co-ercive, encouraging or just signalling pleasure received, play a good part in feeding psychies and getting people in their zone - physically too.
Other times.... STFU! it's a killer.
It's knowing what bit goes where really. |
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"Who would want sex without a word to each other?? I'm not saying you want a running commentary but some feedback is always good!!
I like it when your both comfortable and can say when your liking or disliking something and able to ask for what you'd like (like say they do something good with their tongue you feel comfy asking them to carry on or pointing out if you dislike something and known it won't ruin the mood)
But I dislike the type where it's just a constant stream of "do you like that" etc questions as it just feels awkward"
Oh no that's just like reading an instruction manual. There are many more conversations that can be had during sex, fantasy scenarios can be described for instance, suggestions made as to when the hell that crack in the ceiling is going to get plastered........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really enjoy dirty talk when having sex... Turns me on so much more if that be fucking me hard calling me there dirty slut telling me wat to do not asking whilst being fucked from behind or wispering sweet nothings in my ears When there on top.... Or me on top looking me deep in the eye as im moaning loud there voice getting above mine with filthy talk.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers."
Thats hot!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers.
Thats hot! "
Should I continue ? |
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"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers.
Thats hot! "
Only if he says the right thing.
Between strangers it's like one of those messages that make you puke instead of being turned on .......
It's so easy to suddenly think WTF ?? It's like water on flame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers.
Thats hot!
Only if he says the right thing.
Between strangers it's like one of those messages that make you puke instead of being turned on .......
It's so easy to suddenly think WTF ?? It's like water on flame."
Not to a stranger, only with a, partner lol |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I really enjoy dirty talk when having sex... Turns me on so much more if that be fucking me hard calling me there dirty slut telling me wat to do not asking whilst being fucked from behind or wispering sweet nothings in my ears When there on top.... Or me on top looking me deep in the eye as im moaning loud there voice getting above mine with filthy talk..... "
Tugging on my hair too
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers."
now this is what i like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually stand behind a girl and place my hands on hips and leaning in I slowly whisper in her ear every naughty thing I'm going to do to her. Followed by kissing her neck ever so slowly as one of my hands slides into her knickers.now this is what i like "
It does seem to have a high like rate.
Can really tease her if the fingers down her knickers get close to her clit and are so close but you make her wait before caressing it |
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There's men and men. I find im able to take things from men that make me laugh in the face of men and think you creepy man about men but you dirty sexy filthy bastard about men. Wo men know what I mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice to see a beautiful hairy pussy rollergirl."
Why thankyou, it's not to everyone's taste we know but we don't do things to please other people
Those that do prefer it have some variety at least but we do know were in the minority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who would want sex without a word to each other?? I'm not saying you want a running commentary but some feedback is always good!!
I like it when your both comfortable and can say when your liking or disliking something and able to ask for what you'd like (like say they do something good with their tongue you feel comfy asking them to carry on or pointing out if you dislike something and known it won't ruin the mood)
But I dislike the type where it's just a constant stream of "do you like that" etc questions as it just feels awkward"
That's how I feel
I've met a few guys who want me to beg for their cock etc and are constantly asking you what you want next, I don't like that, sex shouldn't be scrpited
But if I was giving a guy a blow job and he asked me to stick a finger up his arse .....that kind of talking is great |
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Sex is the only time I'm quiet. I think of things I want to say but can't bring myself to. Usually bite me or spank me
I do wish I could do it though as I enjoy the odd thing said to me, but not a running commentary or porn style thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice to see a beautiful hairy pussy rollergirl.
Why thankyou, it's not to everyone's taste we know but we don't do things to please other people
Those that do prefer it have some variety at least but we do know were in the minority."
It suits you really well. Nice to see as it's a,rare sight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's everyone's take on talking during sex? I am personally not a fan, I.don't mind the occasional " ooh yes yes that's good "
But don't like the people that read a porn movie script out,
ha is it just me
Hate it
I don't mind communication but I dis like guys who constantly ask you how that is and if your loving it, sometimes I just want to say shut the fuck up "
Agree, I hate a guy telling me how good he is and how much I'm enjoying him. I'll tell him....if it's true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Jools doesn't really talk but I do, usually talking about meets when she did this or be cool if we did such and such.
Sex talk.
Occasionally we write our weekly shopping list
Or discuss what colour we should go with in dining room when we decorate.
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Love it but often depends on the situation. Quickie sex then its a no no
But hot dirty sex then yes.
It can vary from dirty name calling to soft whispers in the ear as his cock slowly enters me from behind. |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I love it but I can't seem to get the words out of my mouth  it's really irritating because I want to join in but I worry I'll say something stupid and spoil the moment and then I just can't get my voice to work  |
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" I don't mind communication but I dis like guys who constantly ask you how that is and if your loving it, sometimes I just want to say shut the fuck up "
I've told a few to 'shut the fuck up', sometimes it's just so off putting when they go on and on!  |
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I always talk dirty. I like to ask for what I want to do next and spare no blushes. My partner talks dirty which really heightens the experience. I've got loads of filthy meets to talk about too.
I actually don't like silent sex. I mean, when I'm down there doing my thing (which usually blows guys' minds) some feedback is good. How else would I know if you were enjoying a particular technique?
Maybe deep throat isn't your thing? Maybe you love the way I gently suck the head whilst gently rubbing it on my bottom teeth and the roof of my mouth before plunging it down my throat. Maybe you love the way I suck your balls, gently rolling them in my mouth? Perhaps you'd like me to very gently run the tip of my tongue up the length of your cock underneath it, til I get to the frenulum, run my tongue over the head, gently probing your hole? You might like me sucking your head gently or, as I like to surprise you, I might plunge it, suddenly, unexpectedly deep in my throat at an angle so that it rubs on the roof of my mouth? Up and down, til I feel the cum rising ....
Where would you wanna cum? I love to rub cum on my tits but you choose.
Or you could wham bam, Thank you ma'am!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends what they are saying and how they say it.......
"Oh yes.....fuck me harder" is fine
If they start telling you about what they did at work earlier, or what they are planning to eat tomorrow..... Then don't expect a second meet lol! |
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"Depends what they are saying and how they say it.......
"Oh yes.....fuck me harder" is fine
If they start telling you about what they did at work earlier, or what they are planning to eat tomorrow..... Then don't expect a second meet lol!"
its really annoying when a shopping list or a bright decorating idea pops into my head mid shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some talking is good, I've ended up in fits of giggles before when someone has said something completely out of context. I think it depends on how well you know that person and your dynamic. So for me, silent sex - no, but non-stop chatting - less talk more action please. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really enjoy dirty talk when having sex... Turns me on so much more if that be fucking me hard calling me there dirty slut telling me wat to do not asking whilst being fucked from behind or wispering sweet nothings in my ears When there on top.... Or me on top looking me deep in the eye as im moaning loud there voice getting above mine with filthy talk.....
Tugging on my hair too
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aww i love tugging on my hair or slapping my ass or the occasional hand around my throat whilst being fucked mmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i like to tell her how good she tastes when licking her pussy and ass and also how hot she looks in different positions and her moans and love her screaming out when shes cumming "
Sorry I don't think good tasting and ass go together, mind you I hate marmite too |
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