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over a year ago
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?"
Unicorns have to shit, too, you know. |
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?"
If it didn't happen the first few times you mentioned it in other posts then probably not from your own thread. |
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?
If it didn't happen the first few times you mentioned it in other posts then probably not from your own thread."
Yikes..you're harsh 
-Courtney |
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?
If it didn't happen the first few times you mentioned it in other posts then probably not from your own thread.
Yikes..you're harsh
-Courtney"
On occasion I can be, when you see the same thing over and over again.
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results" |
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Your best bet is to stop dreaming / wishing / hoping and enjoy things the way they are .
Then when you have forgotten about it , it will probably happen  |
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?
If it didn't happen the first few times you mentioned it in other posts then probably not from your own thread.
Yikes..you're harsh
-Courtney
On occasion I can be, when you see the same thing over and over again.
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results""
I saw and experiment once where scientist put people in a room for hours. The room had a bunch of doors. People would, after a few hours, begin to try to open the doors, but they were all locked. Then, a majority would give up and just sit in the room. But the people running the experiment would then unlock the doors without saying anything. Only the very few people who tried, yet again, to open the doors were then able to get out.
Just saying...
(and yes, they did eventually let everyone out lol)
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's right the more we look for a thing the more it will delude us, that's why I stopped looking long time ago for what I am after.
Sometimes a dream can be better than reality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?
If it didn't happen the first few times you mentioned it in other posts then probably not from your own thread.
Yikes..you're harsh
-Courtney
On occasion I can be, when you see the same thing over and over again.
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results""
I come on fab everyday expecting a different result but its all the same old crap  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here |
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?
If it didn't happen the first few times you mentioned it in other posts then probably not from your own thread.
Yikes..you're harsh
-Courtney
On occasion I can be, when you see the same thing over and over again.
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results"
I saw and experiment once where scientist put people in a room for hours. The room had a bunch of doors. People would, after a few hours, begin to try to open the doors, but they were all locked. Then, a majority would give up and just sit in the room. But the people running the experiment would then unlock the doors without saying anything. Only the very few people who tried, yet again, to open the doors were then able to get out.
Just saying...
(and yes, they did eventually let everyone out lol)
-Courtney"
Funnily enough that sums our whole species up.
We're typically xenophobic which has been part of our survival for many years, we don't like change or things we don't understand but our curiousness has also led to our rapid evolution to the dominant species on the planet |
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"So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here "
Well, what were you trying to accomplish with your post?
There's been many helpful replies to your post but you've focused on mine, why is that?
I wish you the best of luck with your search, truly. But have realistic expectations and make it happen dreams without action accomplish nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here
Well, what were you trying to accomplish with your post?
There's been many helpful replies to your post but you've focused on mine, why is that?
I wish you the best of luck with your search, truly. But have realistic expectations and make it happen dreams without action accomplish nothing. "
Maybe I read the good advice and took on board what was said but I did find what you said a bit cutting and more than a little hurtful to be truerhful with you.
Please think of others feelings when being so cutting with your comments is all I am asking |
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"So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here
Well, what were you trying to accomplish with your post?
There's been many helpful replies to your post but you've focused on mine, why is that?
I wish you the best of luck with your search, truly. But have realistic expectations and make it happen dreams without action accomplish nothing.
Maybe I read the good advice and took on board what was said but I did find what you said a bit cutting and more than a little hurtful to be truerhful with you.
Please think of others feelings when being so cutting with your comments is all I am asking "
I'm just a realist, you need to manage your expectations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your best bet is to stop dreaming / wishing / hoping and enjoy things the way they are .
Then when you have forgotten about it , it will probably happen "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your best bet is to stop dreaming / wishing / hoping and enjoy things the way they are .
Then when you have forgotten about it , it will probably happen
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This I quite agree with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here
Well, what were you trying to accomplish with your post?
There's been many helpful replies to your post but you've focused on mine, why is that?
I wish you the best of luck with your search, truly. But have realistic expectations and make it happen dreams without action accomplish nothing.
Maybe I read the good advice and took on board what was said but I did find what you said a bit cutting and more than a little hurtful to be truerhful with you.
Please think of others feelings when being so cutting with your comments is all I am asking "
People on here can be rude sometimes, they forget there is a person with feelings on the other end. It's easy to be a keyboard warrior, I would guess and hope that most people wouldnt treat others like that in real life xx |
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"So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here
Well, what were you trying to accomplish with your post?
There's been many helpful replies to your post but you've focused on mine, why is that?
I wish you the best of luck with your search, truly. But have realistic expectations and make it happen dreams without action accomplish nothing.
Maybe I read the good advice and took on board what was said but I did find what you said a bit cutting and more than a little hurtful to be truerhful with you.
Please think of others feelings when being so cutting with your comments is all I am asking
People on here can be rude sometimes, they forget there is a person with feelings on the other end. It's easy to be a keyboard warrior, I would guess and hope that most people wouldnt treat others like that in real life xx"
I would have the integrity and honesty to say the same thing in real life.
I didn't think I was being rude by suggesting the OP takes action rather than hoping a forum post does it for him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?"
Yes.
You are so wrong.
Think about this from a female pov for a minute.
After reading this, if I just wanted a meet- would I pick you?
No. Because you might be clingy.
Or worse needy!
People tend not to be on swinging sites for love- generally its lust!
And this goes for women too. Thats why swinging exists so we can satify our desires without the emotional baggage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?
Yes.
You are so wrong.
Think about this from a female pov for a minute.
After reading this, if I just wanted a meet- would I pick you?
No. Because you might be clingy.
Or worse needy!
People tend not to be on swinging sites for love- generally its lust!
And this goes for women too. Thats why swinging exists so we can satify our desires without the emotional baggage."
Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here
Well, what were you trying to accomplish with your post?
There's been many helpful replies to your post but you've focused on mine, why is that?
I wish you the best of luck with your search, truly. But have realistic expectations and make it happen dreams without action accomplish nothing.
Maybe I read the good advice and took on board what was said but I did find what you said a bit cutting and more than a little hurtful to be truerhful with you.
Please think of others feelings when being so cutting with your comments is all I am asking
People on here can be rude sometimes, they forget there is a person with feelings on the other end. It's easy to be a keyboard warrior, I would guess and hope that most people wouldnt treat others like that in real life xx
I would have the integrity and honesty to say the same thing in real life.
I didn't think I was being rude by suggesting the OP takes action rather than hoping a forum post does it for him. "
I wasn't referring to you, I did in fact contemplate adding I didn't think you've unreasonably nasty, but didn't want to mention anyone and risk breaking rules! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho."
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it."
The forum is the last place I'd look for a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it."
I think that most people are here for lust, but I see plenty of posts from single women looking for relationships here, so it can't be too far fetched and idea.
And I don't write in the forums for meets. I just like chatting and reading people's opinions. Most people in the forum are too far away from me to meet - And I imagine that is similar for others.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here
Well, what were you trying to accomplish with your post?
There's been many helpful replies to your post but you've focused on mine, why is that?
I wish you the best of luck with your search, truly. But have realistic expectations and make it happen dreams without action accomplish nothing.
Maybe I read the good advice and took on board what was said but I did find what you said a bit cutting and more than a little hurtful to be truerhful with you.
Please think of others feelings when being so cutting with your comments is all I am asking
People on here can be rude sometimes, they forget there is a person with feelings on the other end. It's easy to be a keyboard warrior, I would guess and hope that most people wouldnt treat others like that in real life xx
I would have the integrity and honesty to say the same thing in real life.
I didn't think I was being rude by suggesting the OP takes action rather than hoping a forum post does it for him. "
Wasn't that harsh.
Op if you put something on here and you find it "hurtful" perhaps it's time to step away from the Internet. Seen some zingers on here when it comes to cutting comments. Perhaps your over sensitive for some reason.
And as to your question perhaps stop trying so hard to find it. Perhaps it will find you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it.
The forum is the last place I'd look for a meet"
Yes but you wouldn't find many locals I meant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it."
I recon most use it as well for fun that's what I do lol and yes maibe some meets but mostly for the fun of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it."
I personally think it's a good place to look for a prospective partner. Someone who you know is interested in swinging before a relationship start. I'm sure there are lots of couples would disagree its about only lust as they themselves are in love. That said its better to enjoy the experience and if more comes along then great, than purposely looking for it as it will scare off some people on here, you are correct. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it.I recon most use it as well for fun that's what I do lol and yes maibe some meets but mostly for the fun of it."
Thats what I meant by banter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it.I recon most use it as well for fun that's what I do lol and yes maibe some meets but mostly for the fun of it.
Thats what I meant by banter."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's right the more we look for a thing the more it will delude us, that's why I stopped looking long time ago for what I am after.
Sometimes a dream can be better than reality "
Yeah but you keep looking in that bush in your front garden |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's right the more we look for a thing the more it will delude us, that's why I stopped looking long time ago for what I am after.
Sometimes a dream can be better than reality
Yeah but you keep looking in that bush in your front garden "
lol that's right. I need to look further |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it.
The forum is the last place I'd look for a meet"
Same here to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it.
The forum is the last place I'd look for a meet"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To dream about falling in love with someone with the same way of thinking as me or is this just a unicorn dream again?"
Quite a few people found love on here. Quite a few got married/ are getting married. It's possible. |
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it."
I think he meant a small percentage of site users use the forums so rather than make posts where the likelihood of finding someone is very slim actually put effort into the search by searching and finding profiles that could be what the OP is looking for and then messaging them. |
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"So sorry if I have said the same thing twice I am such a bad person I deserve to be told how wrong of me to put the same thread up I will crawl back under my stone and sorry for mentioning it on here
Well, what were you trying to accomplish with your post?
There's been many helpful replies to your post but you've focused on mine, why is that?
I wish you the best of luck with your search, truly. But have realistic expectations and make it happen dreams without action accomplish nothing.
Maybe I read the good advice and took on board what was said but I did find what you said a bit cutting and more than a little hurtful to be truerhful with you.
Please think of others feelings when being so cutting with your comments is all I am asking
People on here can be rude sometimes, they forget there is a person with feelings on the other end. It's easy to be a keyboard warrior, I would guess and hope that most people wouldnt treat others like that in real life xx
I would have the integrity and honesty to say the same thing in real life.
I didn't think I was being rude by suggesting the OP takes action rather than hoping a forum post does it for him.
I wasn't referring to you, I did in fact contemplate adding I didn't think you've unreasonably nasty, but didn't want to mention anyone and risk breaking rules! "
My apologies, I'm used to being torn into for my realistic straight talking opinions  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Can I just say I am neither clingy or desperate yes I am lonely and maybe I get too much time to think when sat in the cab of my truck.
Feeling more positive after all the comments on here |
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it.
The forum is the last place I'd look for a meet"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it.
The forum is the last place I'd look for a meet
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So where do you suggest to get meets as the forum is out of bounds |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it.
The forum is the last place I'd look for a meet
So where do you suggest to get meets as the forum is out of bounds "
The forum isn't out of bounds, it's just that people tend to use it to socialize, not necessarily meet. You could always write a good profile, send insightful messages to people who may be interested in you, go to socials, go to clubs, or hell, you could even try a pub or something. But if you want to use the forum, go ahead, it's up to you.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".Only 1% of the site uses the forum tho.
What does that have to do with it?
Why do you think most people use the forums apart from the banter?
Its to attract meets otherwise you wouldnt do it.
The forum is the last place I'd look for a meet
So where do you suggest to get meets as the forum is out of bounds "
I've met some lovely men through the forums & chatted to more too so I disagree about the forums being out of bounds. |
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