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When you know it's time to walk away from ur partner
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know how I knew exactly I just did, things had been declining steadily and I began to see him for who he really was and what he had done to me, thats when I knew it was time to end it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you realise that everything is one sided. You are giving love and affection, emotional support, financial support and making all the effort in the relationship and not even getting shown any appreciation for it.
It's time to re evaluate your self worth and realise you deserve better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you realise that everything is one sided. You are giving love and affection, emotional support, financial support and making all the effort in the relationship and not even getting shown any appreciation for it.
It's time to re evaluate your self worth and realise you deserve better."
This.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you're married and exploring without permission? Or just when you know you're not bring honest with yourself, as in living a daily lie, to those who you may care for / think you care for?
Or just when you rarely smile, underestimating a lack of happiness isn't fun I imagine. |
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"When you realise that everything is one sided. You are giving love and affection, emotional support, financial support and making all the effort in the relationship and not even getting shown any appreciation for it.
It's time to re evaluate your self worth and realise you deserve better."
This together with verbal and mental abuse and realising he put himself and alcohol before anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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20 years later after they have fucked the best years away and you are like a wizards sleeve, and no one wants or looks at you anymore. Thats when to leave them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you realise that everything is one sided. You are giving love and affection, emotional support, financial support and making all the effort in the relationship and not even getting shown any appreciation for it.
It's time to re evaluate your self worth and realise you deserve better."
And before you notice he walks out gets a younger (f) and lets you sitting there with 2 kids a mortgage and depression.
If you are lucky you find a "Monster" like I did who stands up for you and tells the ex to stop "bullying" and to piss off. But that is luck and not many find someone like my new hubby... a proper Monster but will a heart of gold |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people I know cant stand the thought of being alone even though they are not happy with the person they are with, And when they do leave a relationship but go straight into another within days |
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" A lot of people I know cant stand the thought of being alone even though they are not happy with the person they are with, And when they do leave a relationship but go straight into another within days "
How do they do it Id rather be alone and happy hence being single 4 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you realise that everything is one sided. You are giving love and affection, emotional support, financial support and making all the effort in the relationship and not even getting shown any appreciation for it.
It's time to re evaluate your self worth and realise you deserve better.
And before you notice he walks out gets a younger (f) and lets you sitting there with 2 kids a mortgage and depression.
If you are lucky you find a "Monster" like I did who stands up for you and tells the ex to stop "bullying" and to piss off. But that is luck and not many find someone like my new hubby... a proper Monster but will a heart of gold "
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I found out on the Wednesday morning he was cheating on me after 20 years together. I struggled with every emotion over the next 2 days. I got home from work on the Friday, gave him a hug, kissed him on the forehead and told him he had to go.
To this day I can't believe how easily I let him go but there was no fight to be had & I have more self-respect than that.
We had talked about swinging as a couple but didn't know where to start. Part of me wishes he could really see me now - not as the ex-wife he collects his children from. I'm happier than I've been in years, I feel alive!!!!
It's taken a long time to see it but he did me a favour
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you realise that everything is one sided. You are giving love and affection, emotional support, financial support and making all the effort in the relationship and not even getting shown any appreciation for it.
It's time to re evaluate your self worth and realise you deserve better." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think very few people walk away from a relationship when they know its time
Most still hang on for a long time after even though they know deep down it's over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was in a relationship with a sociopath partner / one lie after another /. It's a mind game they play / but how did ye guys and girls know when to walk away from bad relationships / over to ye now it friend Paul
When he hit me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When your logged into their Facebook, on nights, and watching the dirty chat between her and other blokes, and arranging to meet them, then coming home next morning and she's just emotionless.
Hence my precence here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you walk into your bathroom and you see your toothbrush and razor in a little corner on the shelf and her makeup, flat iron , curling iron , jewelry, and face cream cover the vanity.
When you walk into your shower and see 50 bottles of half empty shampoo and conditioner bottles , 5 different body washes and 5 multi colored body sponges.
It's time to break up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I woke up one morning after years of putting up with shit but still living him....to feeling nothing. Packed my bags and left that morning after 24 years lol |
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Hard work is what you can expect sometimes. If trust and respect have disappeared and serious communication don't reveal any chances of it being restored, then it may be time to get out.
If things aren't equal, without good reason, then it's time to reflect too.
Any harm done to you is reason to back off.
I've left when respect diminished.
I'm ok with love changing and uncertainty but some things are complete reasons to get out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After many long term relationships i have decided i am not on the same wavelength as women at all, ive seen so much to put me off. I find women attractive enough to sleep with them but thats as far as i can go |
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By *icky999Man
over a year ago
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"When you walk into your bathroom and you see your toothbrush and razor in a little corner on the shelf and her makeup, flat iron , curling iron , jewelry, and face cream cover the vanity.
When you walk into your shower and see 50 bottles of half empty shampoo and conditioner bottles , 5 different body washes and 5 multi colored body sponges.
It's time to break up "
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19 bottles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you walk into your bathroom and you see your toothbrush and razor in a little corner on the shelf and her makeup, flat iron , curling iron , jewelry, and face cream cover the vanity.
When you walk into your shower and see 50 bottles of half empty shampoo and conditioner bottles , 5 different body washes and 5 multi colored body sponges.
It's time to break up
19
19 bottles. "
Get rid of her now |
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