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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship  ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"View. ...any particular reason you wouldn't look on here? .."
It would be unlikely that I would find someone with similar interests, be at the same stage in life and be as free spirited as myself.
Unlikely, but not impossible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really know what you mean by a 'proper' relationship, but I'm happy to be open minded about meets and see where they lead.
One of my partners I met on a contact site over three years ago and we're still going strong. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol"
I am not 'looking' for a relationship on here or anywhere else. I am open to the idea of being in a relationship again, but, it will only be as and when I stumble across the right person. That might be on here or anywhere else...you never know when you are suddenly going to really 'click' with someone, but, I don't believe it is something you can go looking for.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it come my way yes why not but I'd not say I'm actually seeking as when you look you'll rarely find
Well maybe look was the wrong word ...x
That wasn't a dig far from it x"
I didn't see it as a dig ...x |
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I was one half of a swinging couple and I'd love to meet someone to swing with again, when the timing is right and I like the person enough to Persue things in that way (there no rush for it though) and I feel I'd be more likely to find that kind of relationship on this site as opposed to a dating one |
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"If it come my way yes why not but I'd not say I'm actually seeking as when you look you'll rarely find
Well maybe look was the wrong word ...x
That wasn't a dig far from it x
I didn't see it as a dig ...x"
Good x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't really know what you mean by a 'proper' relationship, but I'm happy to be open minded about meets and see where they lead.
One of my partners I met on a contact site over three years ago and we're still going strong."
A relationship when you do more than just have sex, e.g everyday things together, meet their family, holidays, days out, nights in. ..that sort of thing x |
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol
I am not 'looking' for a relationship on here or anywhere else. I am open to the idea of being in a relationship again, but, it will only be as and when I stumble across the right person. That might be on here or anywhere else...you never know when you are suddenly going to really 'click' with someone, but, I don't believe it is something you can go looking for.."
Agreed, after around two years of actively seeking a relationship I'd given up was more open to one if it came about, I then got chatting to the lass I'm currently dating.
I've read a few posts where couples have met via this site so anythings possible op but take care using a swinging site for dating as you open yourself up for unrecipricated feelings with the likelihood people are here for nothing serious.
And that's not counting all the married/attached people... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not looking as I have my partner, but if I was a single swinger and wanted to be a couple with swinging in the relationship then here is more likely than the Victoria sponge counter in Tesco.com. |
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I do believe there's an upcoming wedding of 2 rather nice and well known cuple that met on here and a better souted cuple you be hard to find. So it does prove the point it can and does happen. All together now awwwwwww bless |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"" I mean a proper relationship"
What does that mean?
Proper?
Like "committed to one only"?
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No not necessarily ...lots of couples are in a loving relationship and still swing but are committed to each other and have their rules and boundaries x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do believe there's an upcoming wedding of 2 rather nice and well known cuple that met on here and a better souted cuple you be hard to find. So it does prove the point it can and does happen. All together now awwwwwww bless "
A well known couple ?...as in famous? ...lol xx |
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"I do believe there's an upcoming wedding of 2 rather nice and well known cuple that met on here and a better souted cuple you be hard to find. So it does prove the point it can and does happen. All together now awwwwwww bless
A well known couple ?...as in famous? ...lol xx"
Hmmm posibly but no i ment well known on the forum |
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I'm not looking for any particular on here I think If it was to happen I would be open minded to the idea. I think you can look too hard for a relationship which can make you come across as desperate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i liked them enough yeah, plus depends what they want out of a relationship as well. My last two relationships started off as fucks, not sure how i ended up in relationships tbh... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a few, as I'm sure most do, whom have found that L word on here. It's worked and still is working for them. Some have left site to be exclusive, some haven't.
I also know some where it hasn't.
So anythings possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"" I mean a proper relationship"
What does that mean?
Proper?
Like "committed to one only"?
No not necessarily ...lots of couples are in a loving relationship and still swing but are committed to each other and have their rules and boundaries x"
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol
I am not 'looking' for a relationship on here or anywhere else. I am open to the idea of being in a relationship again, but, it will only be as and when I stumble across the right person. That might be on here or anywhere else...you never know when you are suddenly going to really 'click' with someone, but, I don't believe it is something you can go looking for.."
No I agree. I am very open to relationships but you need really good openess and communication to make something work on here, it is a minefield. You need to make sure you fully understand each others needs and boundaries as a lot more trust is required in this environment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"However I certainly wouldn't bring a new relationship into the forums I've seen some  moments on here when there has been trouble in paradise "
Understatement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither of us were looking for a relationship, met on our single profiles 2 years ago and have been living together for over 18 months, so yes you can find a relationship here, but as has been said, don't look, if its going to happen it will |
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Personally I'm fed up of being single .
And would love a relationship
Miss the nights out . Meals . Nights in ect ,
Having said that . It would have to be with someone of the same mind set as myself . |
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By *icole33Woman
over a year ago
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I'm single, and whilst I am not actively looking for a relationship on fabs, if I was to meet a man or woman I click with I would be more than happy to have a relationship with someone off here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol"
Nobody ever knows where they will find someone to share their life with, you might go on a site specifically for relationships and end up with a complete berk, yet on here you might find someone who you spend the rest of your life with. You can never know where that person will be.
Good luck, hope you find the one.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not actively seking a relationship but not closed off to the idea of things developing more with a fwb. I think 2 like minded people can form relationship from anywhere, can meet anywhere, even on a sex site. Why not? Not all of us on here are after one offs and just because we are on a sex site does not mean we are not suitable relationship material. Not many people on here are seeking a relationship but who can control when that one person who blows your mind, enters your life?nobody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol"
We met on fab, neither looking for a relationship as such, but here we are x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not actively seking a relationship but not closed off to the idea of things developing more with a fwb. I think 2 like minded people can form relationship from anywhere, can meet anywhere, even on a sex site. Why not? Not all of us on here are after one offs and just because we are on a sex site does not mean we are not suitable relationship material. Not many people on here are seeking a relationship but who can control when that one person who blows your mind, enters your life?nobody."
Id be happy to have a relationship on an 'open' basis, no pressure, no expectations, freedom for both people to do as they please while maintaining utmost respect and honesty at all times. I like the intimacy and companionship but dont like not having my own space and freedom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol
I am not 'looking' for a relationship on here or anywhere else. I am open to the idea of being in a relationship again, but, it will only be as and when I stumble across the right person. That might be on here or anywhere else...you never know when you are suddenly going to really 'click' with someone, but, I don't believe it is something you can go looking for.."
This again for me!
My life is brilliant at the moment - so it would take a pretty amazing guy to give up being single for!
I've had 20 years in two mediocre relationships - I promised myself I'd never waste any more of my life in the wrong relationship!
But yes - no reason why my eventual Mr Right shouldn't be found on here! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol
I am not 'looking' for a relationship on here or anywhere else. I am open to the idea of being in a relationship again, but, it will only be as and when I stumble across the right person. That might be on here or anywhere else...you never know when you are suddenly going to really 'click' with someone, but, I don't believe it is something you can go looking for..
This again for me!
My life is brilliant at the moment - so it would take a pretty amazing guy to give up being single for!
I've had 20 years in two mediocre relationships - I promised myself I'd never waste any more of my life in the wrong relationship!
But yes - no reason why my eventual Mr Right shouldn't be found on here! Xx"
exactly my way of thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol
I am not 'looking' for a relationship on here or anywhere else. I am open to the idea of being in a relationship again, but, it will only be as and when I stumble across the right person. That might be on here or anywhere else...you never know when you are suddenly going to really 'click' with someone, but, I don't believe it is something you can go looking for.."
This exactly, I'm not actively looking, but love can happen in the strangest of places. I would be open to it, if it came along from here. I personally think this is a better place to meet someone, than the numerous dating sites, which seem to be full of fab wannabes anyway. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"However I certainly wouldn't bring a new relationship into the forums I've seen some moments on here when there has been trouble in paradise "
it is nice to see people happy.
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By *pice of life 79Man
over a year ago
lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham |
"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol"
I'm def looking for a relationship and I would most definatly have a relationship with someone off here
I love kinky sex and im not really a jelous guy
If your both like minded then hey why the hell not
I couldn't think of a more exciting relationship my self
Someone who's liberated and open minded and very kinky mmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not actively seking a relationship but not closed off to the idea of things developing more with a fwb. I think 2 like minded people can form relationship from anywhere, can meet anywhere, even on a sex site. Why not? Not all of us on here are after one offs and just because we are on a sex site does not mean we are not suitable relationship material. Not many people on here are seeking a relationship but who can control when that one person who blows your mind, enters your life?nobody.
Id be happy to have a relationship on an 'open' basis, no pressure, no expectations, freedom for both people to do as they please while maintaining utmost respect and honesty at all times. I like the intimacy and companionship but dont like not having my own space and freedom. "
Seems the best way, people shouldn't possess each other and expect someone to conform to their ideals, surely that isn't love, totally agree with you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol
Nobody ever knows where they will find someone to share their life with, you might go on a site specifically for relationships and end up with a complete berk, yet on here you might find someone who you spend the rest of your life with. You can never know where that person will be.
Good luck, hope you find the one.
X"
I'm not looking for one ...just a subject that interested me along with other people's experiences and _iews xx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"No, I don't date. If I did, I would not look for someone on here.
Why would someone from fab not be dating material? Good enough to fuck but not good enough to take home and meet the parents  "
Did I say they were not good enough? Please don't infer something that I did not say.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I don't date. If I did, I would not look for someone on here.
Why would someone from fab not be dating material? Good enough to fuck but not good enough to take home and meet the parents "
View did answer me when I questioned why he wouldn't look for someone on here ...scroll up for his answer xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, I don't date. If I did, I would not look for someone on here.
Why would someone from fab not be dating material? Good enough to fuck but not good enough to take home and meet the parents "
Please don't talk to my future husband like that!!   |
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Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Personally, I've seen a few fallouts here and most times, Fabs has played a part so it's not for me.
A "proper" relationship (which varies on people's opinion) is more than sex. If other aspects don't fit or match, it won't work. When it's right for both of you, great. When it right for one of you, walk away.
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"No, I don't date. If I did, I would not look for someone on here.
Why would someone from fab not be dating material? Good enough to fuck but not good enough to take home and meet the parents
Please don't talk to my future husband like that!! "
What you said you only had eyes for me. Right thats it whos up for a good old revenge fuck. Please form and orderly line in my inbox |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol
Nobody ever knows where they will find someone to share their life with, you might go on a site specifically for relationships and end up with a complete berk, yet on here you might find someone who you spend the rest of your life with. You can never know where that person will be.
Good luck, hope you find the one.
X
I'm not looking for one ...just a subject that interested me along with other people's experiences and _iews xx"
Apologies, good luck with whatever you are doing X |
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol"
Fuck no! |
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol"
There are loads of people on here looking for a relationship. I can't see a problem with it mental attraction even love can pop up anywhere, why not here? All I would say is that it does make some people very vulnerable to the say anything to get a shag brigade (men and women) and people can and do get very hurt. |
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I wouldn't say no to being in a relationship right now. Though I'm not particularly looking on here or elsewhere, I'm just going with the flow of things and letting things develop organically. I find the worst thing to do is to put unneccesary pressure on yourself to find someone. When it's ready to happen it will happen. The lady could certainly come from on fab but you never know. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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I wasn't looking for a relationship. I was looking for a distraction while I found a suitable Dom to have a solely D/s part time thing with.
I stumbled into my relationship and fought hard against it as did he. We gave in eventually and accepted we had feelings for each other. Now it's a pretty full relationship. Vanilla stuff, dating, fetish stuff and swinging together. |
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"I'm not looking for any particular on here I think If it was to happen I would be open minded to the idea. I think you can look too hard for a relationship which can make you come across as desperate "
Some of us are looking for desperate men and women... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone wanna marry me?
Ye ho on then
Unfortunately I don't think we are compatible 
Lifes short sweet let it go   "
See, your love of Frozen is a major stumbling block  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in here seeking a friend with benefits. If something more develops with the right friend then so be it but we would never be each others possessions, would both have freedom to do what we wanted and I would probably not live with anyone again. Like my own space too much plus I have kids which makes things more complicated in the relationship department. I'm happy being single but miss male company. I like to chose when I have that company rather than it being an expectation to be with someone all of the time. I'm not just here to fuck, I like the whole dating and social side of things too, getting to know someone as a person other than in the bedroom. |
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It surely has to be a big plus, if you have a healthy love of sex to meet someone similar on here, then both know the score from the outset, rather than finding out later. I would like to think it has the making of a strong relationship? Discuss... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It surely has to be a big plus, if you have a healthy love of sex to meet someone similar on here, then both know the score from the outset, rather than finding out later. I would like to think it has the making of a strong relationship? Discuss... "
Yes I kind of agree with you ...although I do think it's important to give yourself time and space together and away from the swinging side of things to develop your relationship before adding someone into the mix xx |
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"It surely has to be a big plus, if you have a healthy love of sex to meet someone similar on here, then both know the score from the outset, rather than finding out later. I would like to think it has the making of a strong relationship? Discuss...
Yes I kind of agree with you ...although I do think it's important to give yourself time and space together and away from the swinging side of things to develop your relationship before adding someone into the mix xx"
hehe with enough to keep you busy, you might not need to involve others.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't date. If I did, I would not look for someone on here.
Why would someone from fab not be dating material? Good enough to fuck but not good enough to take home and meet the parents
Please don't talk to my future husband like that!!
What you said you only had eyes for me. Right thats it whos up for a good old revenge fuck. Please form and orderly line in my inbox "
I've only got eyes for every guy on the forums love!
Just call me the forum floosy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt say i would have looked for 1 off fab but wouldnt discount it as many fabbers are also on lots of other sites with a vanilla edge actively looking for partners when you read their profiles. Also have to say i nearly peed me self a few times compairing guys fab profile wordings to the ones they had on dating sites. fab: NSA lookin for lady who loves bum fun vanilla: White knight seeks his princess lmfao best giggle ever lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been happily single for ten years. I've had a few fwb etc which I enjoyed, but was content to accept I'd be single as I found it suited me. And then I bumped into someone on here who blew me away. The whole thing left footed me but we felt what we felt. Life always throws you a curve ball when you're least expecting it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's as good a place as any to meet people, so why not? Have recently updated my profile to say i'd like a boyfriend and it looks like i may have a date this weekend |
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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago
Dunstable |
If you're on here and want a relationship with a like minded person, I would think here is as good as place as any to start....
and if I met someone on here, then why not, at least they know what I like... |
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"Absolutely no way I'd ever date someone from here.
Why? You're on here. What's wrong with other people who are on here?"
Nothing. For some, it's just sex and nothing more. I can't speak for her but I don't see how her being her has anything to do with it, especially as we're all here for different reasons. |
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I know of a couple who were both on here as singles, met, fell for each other, left & are still together a couple of years later.
Me, I'm not here for that reason but I'm open to it. I did get into a relationship on here & we played together but we'd both have left the site together if the time came for it. As if happens it didn't work out & I'm still here. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Are there any guys or girls that are looking for a relationship on here? ..would you have a relationship with someone you'd met on fab? Or don't you consider it to be the place to look? ...I don't mean fb or fwb, I mean a proper relationship ..everyone's _iews are welcome and also it might be a good thread for like minded people to hook up lol
I am not 'looking' for a relationship on here or anywhere else. I am open to the idea of being in a relationship again, but, it will only be as and when I stumble across the right person. That might be on here or anywhere else...you never know when you are suddenly going to really 'click' with someone, but, I don't believe it is something you can go looking for..
This exactly, I'm not actively looking, but love can happen in the strangest of places. I would be open to it, if it came along from here. I personally think this is a better place to meet someone, than the numerous dating sites, which seem to be full of fab wannabes anyway. "
all this.. never say never and for some people to say they'd never date off of here because we are unsuitable material...speak for yourself |
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"I've been happily single for ten years. I've had a few fwb etc which I enjoyed, but was content to accept I'd be single as I found it suited me. And then I bumped into someone on here who blew me away. The whole thing left footed me but we felt what we felt. Life always throws you a curve ball when you're least expecting it. "
Iife just throw me a cerved 1 alright. You mean some selfish sods got in there before me im devastated id even picked you white dress for the big day |
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"I've been happily single for ten years. I've had a few fwb etc which I enjoyed, but was content to accept I'd be single as I found it suited me. And then I bumped into someone on here who blew me away. The whole thing left footed me but we felt what we felt. Life always throws you a curve ball when you're least expecting it.
Iife just throw me a cerved 1 alright. You mean some selfish sods got in there before me im devastated id even picked you white dress for the big day "
White's never been my colour Think of it as your lucky escape!! |
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"I've been happily single for ten years. I've had a few fwb etc which I enjoyed, but was content to accept I'd be single as I found it suited me. And then I bumped into someone on here who blew me away. The whole thing left footed me but we felt what we felt. Life always throws you a curve ball when you're least expecting it.
Iife just throw me a cerved 1 alright. You mean some selfish sods got in there before me im devastated id even picked you white dress for the big day
White's never been my colour Think of it as your lucky escape!! "
Lucky my butt. I kept the recipe |
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Being happily married and on a swinging site , the last thing either of us are looking for is a relationship.
But then I guess we aren't proper swingers because we don't think much of the social side of swinging .
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Id be open to a relationship on here . I haven't had any luck as of late so i came on here to have some no strings fun and dip my toes into the lifestyle.
If I came across someone interested in same as me and we connected I wouldn't rule it out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd willingly enter into a relationship with a fellow fabber. I think that having a partner to swing with is amazing and very intense. even makes the time u spend together more intense and you're giving each other everything and laying your soul bare.
Life's all about living and I think it would be amazing x |
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I wouldn't say I'm outright looking for a relationship but I'm open to the idea. I wouldn't really say I think Fab is the place to look either but stranger things have happened. |
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"I'm not after a relationship but if I was I defiantly wouldn't have one with a guy I met off here "
If you don't mind me asking, why do you feel like that? x |
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"I'm not after a relationship but if I was I defiantly wouldn't have one with a guy I met off here
If you don't mind me asking, why do you feel like that? x"
Because its not something I would do as a couple and I don't think it would be fair to give somebody an ultimatum of swinging or me
I just think if you want a none swinging relationship it would make more sense to find somebody that wasn't on here that way you can just leave it all behind |
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We met on here eight months ago and are now in a proper relationship, as is defined by the vanilla world. We met for a meet but had chatted for a good while before, and as soon as we got together, we really clicked .... in fact we spent more time chatting on the first night than playing, well almost. Neither of us was looking and both had really given up on the idea of either meeting with someone or being able to find someone we could put up with or they would put up with us. But the funny thing is its not about putting up, as we have just gelled and get on so well. Of course, we are still learning about each other .... but its all good. Don't discount where you might meet that special person. |
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Like many, not looking but if it happened, grand.
Would rather meet someone here who is more likely to be open and accepting of my lifestyle than a vanilla site. Then again, there are some judgemental tits on here  |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"" I mean a proper relationship"
What does that mean?
Proper?
Like "committed to one only"?
No not necessarily ...lots of couples are in a loving relationship and still swing but are committed to each other and have their rules and boundaries x"
Well said.. I am in a committed relationship & we swing. Without rules or boundaries there is just chaos
Mrs _d40 xx |
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Being happily married and on a swinging site , we're open to expanding our relationship.
But then I guess we aren't proper swingers because we don't think much of the nsa side of swinging .
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"Absolutely no way I'd ever date someone from here.
Why? You're on here. What's wrong with other people who are on here?"
I didn't say there's anything wrong with people on here at all. I know many fantastic people. I just won't ever date anyone off here. |
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"Being happily married and on a swinging site , we're open to expanding our relationship.
But then I guess we aren't proper swingers because we don't think much of the nsa side of swinging .
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There's no such thing as 'proper swingers'. Everyone does it their own way. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Absolutely no way I'd ever date someone from here.
Why? You're on here. What's wrong with other people who are on here?
I didn't say there's anything wrong with people on here at all. I know many fantastic people. I just won't ever date anyone off here."
I never said I would not be prepared to take someone from here back to meet my dead mum and dad, but that didn't stop it
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"Being happily married and on a swinging site , we're open to expanding our relationship.
But then I guess we aren't proper swingers because we don't think much of the nsa side of swinging .
There's no such thing as 'proper swingers'. Everyone does it their own way. "
We just took Gloswingers post and inverted it.. cos us and Glos are like that |
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