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Nice guys or bad boys / or nice ladies or bad ladies
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cant stand the 'bad boys'..they often come with much negativity...and appear to attract the naive/vulnerable types..the cycle goes on and on...
sometimes you just want to shake someone and say "WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU LETTING HIM DO THIS TO YOU!- WAKE THE FUCK UP" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm nice \ nobody has complained about that \ so far at least \ never seem to suffer on Fab as a result of being my normal friendly self §"
*rings self obsession police  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being Dominated, does not mean you are in a bad relationship, neither does rough sex, it is an enjoyment.
Her"
You're being far too sensible in your opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being Dominated, does not mean you are in a bad relationship, neither does rough sex, it is an enjoyment.
Her
You're being far too sensible in your opinion "
Ok..  I shall be my normal garity self
Her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many of us aren't attracted to them.
Abusive people tend to start off projecting themselves as nice people because everybody likes nice people, then over time they sneak in a bit of abusive behaviour to see what they can get away with.
The more they get away with the more they will try and get away with.
Make your interactions with them hard work and they'll try to make out you're the one with the problem to change you - IF the rewards they get from you are worth it.
If you're hard work and they don't get any reward from it then eventually they will leave you alone. Or they might get violent, and then the police should get involved. In fact you could get the police involved before they get violent if you wanted to, if you feel they're doing anything you can't cope with and is illegal...such as extortion.
I have a soft spot for subs tbh and find their vulnerability and humility very attractive traits and hate to see them being damaged by cunts.
People never fall for abusers, they fall for something that isn't real and by the time they fell they think of the good times and maybe they outweigh the bad times. But no relationship should leave you feeling bad about yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many of us aren't attracted to them.
Abusive people tend to start off projecting themselves as nice people because everybody likes nice people, then over time they sneak in a bit of abusive behaviour to see what they can get away with.
The more they get away with the more they will try and get away with.
Make your interactions with them hard work and they'll try to make out you're the one with the problem to change you - IF the rewards they get from you are worth it.
If you're hard work and they don't get any reward from it then eventually they will leave you alone. Or they might get violent, and then the police should get involved. In fact you could get the police involved before they get violent if you wanted to, if you feel they're doing anything you can't cope with and is illegal...such as extortion.
I have a soft spot for subs tbh and find their vulnerability and humility very attractive traits and hate to see them being damaged by cunts.
People never fall for abusers, they fall for something that isn't real and by the time they fell they think of the good times and maybe they outweigh the bad times. But no relationship should leave you feeling bad about yourself."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being Dominated, does not mean you are in a bad relationship, neither does rough sex, it is an enjoyment.
Her
You're being far too sensible in your opinion Ok.. I shall be my normal garity self
Her"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many of us aren't attracted to them.
Abusive people tend to start off projecting themselves as nice people because everybody likes nice people, then over time they sneak in a bit of abusive behaviour to see what they can get away with.
The more they get away with the more they will try and get away with.
Make your interactions with them hard work and they'll try to make out you're the one with the problem to change you - IF the rewards they get from you are worth it.
If you're hard work and they don't get any reward from it then eventually they will leave you alone. Or they might get violent, and then the police should get involved. In fact you could get the police involved before they get violent if you wanted to, if you feel they're doing anything you can't cope with and is illegal...such as extortion.
I have a soft spot for subs tbh and find their vulnerability and humility very attractive traits and hate to see them being damaged by cunts.
People never fall for abusers, they fall for something that isn't real and by the time they fell they think of the good times and maybe they outweigh the bad times. But no relationship should leave you feeling bad about yourself."
Yep, me me me types like that are all through our society, so it would be really cool if young Fab members (of either sex) could learn from this post!
Strong words but so true, - good on you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm nice \ nobody has complained about that \ so far at least \ never seem to suffer on Fab as a result of being my normal friendly self §
*rings self obsession police "
Really? Is that the most self absorbed you've seen on Fab?
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