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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Off the "women who don't do blow jobs" thread... If you really liked someone and wanted to meet them, but they wouldn't/couldn't perform a particular sex act for personal reasons, would you still meet them or would that be a deal breaker? |
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"Off the "women who don't do blow jobs" thread... If you really liked someone and wanted to meet them, but they wouldn't/couldn't perform a particular sex act for personal reasons, would you still meet them or would that be a deal breaker?"
can you specify which act?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Off the "women who don't do blow jobs" thread... If you really liked someone and wanted to meet them, but they wouldn't/couldn't perform a particular sex act for personal reasons, would you still meet them or would that be a deal breaker?
can you specify which act?
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Well, blow jobs... I'm not attacking your thread, it just gave me the idea & I didn't want to hijack your thread |
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personally I wouldnt if she didnt suck cock, swallowing I'm not too bothered about.
Anal take it or leave it, I wouldnt say that was a deal breaker however if she was just missionary position I could see sex getting a bit boring.
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"personally I wouldnt if she didnt suck cock, swallowing I'm not too bothered about.
Anal take it or leave it, I wouldnt say that was a deal breaker however if she was just missionary position I could see sex getting a bit boring.
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This guy obviously knows my wife !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx"
All the men I've slept with have known my situation & they've accepted it, didn't push it or put me down for it.
However I have done it twice with one person, he still understood it wasn't a given, and when I couldn't do it at a later date he didn't push the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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depends on the act, there are some things I really like such as water sports, foot play, pegging etc but I don't insist on them if the guy don't like any or all that's fine, kissing and oral is a must for me though if a guy didn't kiss, give or receive oral I wouldn't meet |
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"Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx
All the men I've slept with have known my situation & they've accepted it, didn't push it or put me down for it.
However I have done it twice with one person, he still understood it wasn't a given, and when I couldn't do it at a later date he didn't push the issue. "
Pushing down on a woman can be wrong, i generally find a sucker punch to solar plexus and they soon go down |
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"Off the "women who don't do blow jobs" thread... If you really liked someone and wanted to meet them, but they wouldn't/couldn't perform a particular sex act for personal reasons, would you still meet them or would that be a deal breaker?"
I'm sure they would other things to offer |
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I would still meet them. The only deal breaker for me is if they want to shove something up my arse in which case id politely decline the offer. If they were insistent, I'd politely decline meeting them at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx
All the men I've slept with have known my situation & they've accepted it, didn't push it or put me down for it.
However I have done it twice with one person, he still understood it wasn't a given, and when I couldn't do it at a later date he didn't push the issue.
Pushing down on a woman can be wrong, i generally find a sucker punch to solar plexus and they soon go down "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would still meet someone if they couldn't, or even wouldn't, perform certain sex acts. There is always something different to enjoy.
However, I would have a hard time meeting someone who really enjoyed something I'm not willing to do. For example, I don't like receiving oral. If a guy was very very into giving oral, I would think twice about meeting him simply because I would feel like I wasn't what he really wanted. If that makes any sense...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would depend on the act really. If a guy said he didn't like giving oral then that's great cos I'm not a fan of receiving it. If he didn't like fingering, there'd be an issue! "
Wow u don't like reviving oral ? Why not ? If u don't mind me asking ! |
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"I would still meet them. The only deal breaker for me is if they want to shove something up my arse in which case id politely decline the offer. If they were insistent, I'd politely decline meeting them at all. "
Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would still meet someone if they couldn't, or even wouldn't, perform certain sex acts. There is always something different to enjoy.
However, I would have a hard time meeting someone who really enjoyed something I'm not willing to do. For example, I don't like receiving oral. If a guy was very very into giving oral, I would think twice about meeting him simply because I would feel like I wasn't what he really wanted. If that makes any sense...
-Courtney "
No, no that makes sense. It's like someone who only enjoys bondage meeting someone who's strictly vanilla. |
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"I would still meet them. The only deal breaker for me is if they want to shove something up my arse in which case id politely decline the offer. If they were insistent, I'd politely decline meeting them at all.
Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you "
Cucumbers work better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If someone didn't want to do something that'd never be a deal breaker. We would always respect people's boundaries. However, if someone was adamant that they had to do something, like us rimming them or them peeing on us, that'd be where we walked away |
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"I would still meet them. The only deal breaker for me is if they want to shove something up my arse in which case id politely decline the offer. If they were insistent, I'd politely decline meeting them at all.
Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you
Cucumbers work better "
Are these japes because I'm a veggie? The only thing that goes up my Virgin pert bot is someone's eager tongue. Not too weird for a guy I think. Or anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would still meet someone if they couldn't, or even wouldn't, perform certain sex acts. There is always something different to enjoy.
However, I would have a hard time meeting someone who really enjoyed something I'm not willing to do. For example, I don't like receiving oral. If a guy was very very into giving oral, I would think twice about meeting him simply because I would feel like I wasn't what he really wanted. If that makes any sense...
-Courtney
No, no that makes sense. It's like someone who only enjoys bondage meeting someone who's strictly vanilla."
Exactly!
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would still meet them. The only deal breaker for me is if they want to shove something up my arse in which case id politely decline the offer. If they were insistent, I'd politely decline meeting them at all.
Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you
Cucumbers work better
Are these japes because I'm a veggie? The only thing that goes up my Virgin pert bot is someone's eager tongue. Not too weird for a guy I think. Or anyone. "
A veggie? Now wonder you don't want some meat up your arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would not bother me if I met a lady who did not do bjs . Getting a bj off someone who is not really into it is a turn off xx
As always a gentleman x" Thankyou I do try |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would still meet them. The only deal breaker for me is if they want to shove something up my arse in which case id politely decline the offer. If they were insistent, I'd politely decline meeting them at all.
Damn!! I had that marrow all ready & waiting for you
Cucumbers work better
Are these japes because I'm a veggie? The only thing that goes up my Virgin pert bot is someone's eager tongue. Not too weird for a guy I think. Or anyone.
A veggie? Now wonder you don't want some meat up your arse "
I'm a veggie and I'm not adverse to a bit of meat up my arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Off the "women who don't do blow jobs" thread... If you really liked someone and wanted to meet them, but they wouldn't/couldn't perform a particular sex act for personal reasons, would you still meet them or would that be a deal breaker?"
I don't think that not doing one thing I enjoyed would be a deal breaker.
Not wanting to do anything I enjoyed possibly could be.
Although I'm always happy to meet socially because I'm a people person and enjoy getting to know people,if that makes sense.
An ex girlfriend enjoyed performing oral sex but never wanted to swallow. Didn't affect our relationship at all.
It's all about mutual respect and pleasure isn't it? Or am I just olde fashioned?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Off the "women who don't do blow jobs" thread... If you really liked someone and wanted to meet them, but they wouldn't/couldn't perform a particular sex act for personal reasons, would you still meet them or would that be a deal breaker?"
We won't meet if they don't kiss. Like it too much to not have it at a meet and it just makes a meet feel sterile and regimented. For us anyhoo.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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If someone isn't into all of the exact same things as me then it's fine and vice versa; there are things I like but couldn't possibly do all of them in one session anyway. There are some things I absolutely hate doing so why wouldn't I respect the same in others? The only issue would be if they had a massive list of nos that I would say yes to and vice versa in which case we simply aren't compatible. Or if kissing was out. I love kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Off the "women who don't do blow jobs" thread... If you really liked someone and wanted to meet them, but they wouldn't/couldn't perform a particular sex act for personal reasons, would you still meet them or would that be a deal breaker?"
Depends on what sex act you mean. If it meant no penetration, no kissing, yes it would be, if she wasn't keen on sucking me, or me licking her, probably not, I'd be dissapointed, because I love giving oral, like taking too but can live without it, guess I'm just a giving sort of guy lol |
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