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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hot or not??
i think its inconsiderate and would be a very quick way to piss me off if i was subject to loud sex noises (most of which are just comical over the top and mainly faked id imagine)
so for me its a NOT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hot or not??
i think its inconsiderate and would be a very quick way to piss me off if i was subject to loud sex noises (most of which are just comical over the top and mainly faked id imagine)
so for me its a NOT "
Conpletely agree. its the ultimate tease and it would just get on my man tits! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it can be hot especially if you know the person making the noise. Reminds me of living with my ex and her sister and coming home one New Year's Eve to hear her sister getting the pounding of her life. Ex went straight to sleep so I had to lie awake listening to her younger sis being thoroughly fucked in the next room, made me really turned on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"really? Listening to others gets me going!! X"
i prefer the not so noisy.. volume tamed heavy breathing groans n moans..
they can be just as hot and without the volume. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm also having sex or about to and it's one of those moments then I like listening. If it's random then I find it exceedingly annoying."
This I find it quite a turn on if I'm about to have sex too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"depends on the situation, listening to ones parents all a bit
other scenarios may be erotic unless its of the OTT noise variety.."
i remember being at my mums and her neighbours were shagging (her kids in the house).. was a hot night windows were open and she sounded like a animal being slaughtered.. so i went to the window and shouted it too her.. they soon stopped |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends.
I like listening to it on a porno.
I like listening to it at a club.
However I did laugh to myself in a kind of silly girly way at a party and some couple was at it in the pool whilst I was in there. It was not till the music stopped or changed songs you could her loud moaning. That was a not. |
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"depends on the situation, listening to ones parents all a bit
other scenarios may be erotic unless its of the OTT noise variety..
i remember being at my mums and her neighbours were shagging (her kids in the house).. was a hot night windows were open and she sounded like a animal being slaughtered.. so i went to the window and shouted it too her.. they soon stopped"
bet they loved you.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unless its you moaning
nahhh.. i know how i feel when i hear others shagging so im not a screamer or shouter"
I get so lost in the experience I couldn't give conscious thought to if I make a noise or not I don't have that much control, sex for me is about letting go, about lust and passion, being pushed over the edge, driven, taken, pain and pleasure, I know I'm noisey I couldn't stop if I tried and to be honest I wouldn't want to lmfao |
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Gross. It's a big NOT from me. Used to hear my old neighbour screeching like a stuck pig with her ugly greasy haired boyfriend. She then had a home birth and when it started I thought she was shagging. It says something when your sex noises are the same as your labour noises.
Earplugs and elderly single neighbours are now my friend |
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"I get so lost in the experience I couldn't give conscious thought to if I make a noise or not I don't have that much control, sex for me is about letting go, about lust and passion, being pushed over the edge, driven, taken, pain and pleasure, I know I'm noisey I couldn't stop if I tried and to be honest I wouldn't want to lmfao"
Ditto, the noises just kind of come out.
For the amount of conscious effort I'd have to put into being quiet, I don't think there'd be any left to actually enjoy the experience.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Gross. It's a big NOT from me. Used to hear my old neighbour screeching like a stuck pig with her ugly greasy haired boyfriend. She then had a home birth and when it started I thought she was shagging. It says something when your sex noises are the same as your labour noises.
Earplugs and elderly single neighbours are now my friend "
lol made me chuckle..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy to be called a killjoy or a prude on this one, but I think it's imposing your sex on others who didn't ask to be part of it, in the same view as if you were having a wank in the window in full view of the street; how is others being forced to hear it any different to seeing it? |
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"I'm happy to be called a killjoy or a prude on this one, but I think it's imposing your sex on others who didn't ask to be part of it, in the same view as if you were having a wank in the window in full view of the street; how is others being forced to hear it any different to seeing it? "
snap same as my views,, also just because i can demonstrate self control does not mean im not enjoying it,, ive had really intense intimate hot rampant sex and been relatively quiet.
its like those female tenis players... gaffa tape their traps shut and the game would be better :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anna. I get what your saying but making noise is how you let your partner know that they are "
No it isn't. For some, maybe. Not for me. If I'm having to scream in their face then they're doing it wrong. Not everyone is a screamer; it doesn't mean they don't enjoy sex or feel passion: |
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"Anna. I get what your saying but making noise is how you let your partner know that they are "
if i (or anyone else) was whimpering, moaning, groaning, biting their lip, bucking their head back, thrusting their ass back onto you, grinding down on your cock or talking filthy you'd still get the same message than if i (or anyone else) was screaming/ shouting at the top of their voice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anna. I get what your saying but making noise is how you let your partner know that they are
if i (or anyone else) was whimpering, moaning, groaning, biting their lip, bucking their head back, thrusting their ass back onto you, grinding down on your cock or talking filthy you'd still get the same message than if i (or anyone else) was screaming/ shouting at the top of their voice."
Amen to that, it's all about the quiet swearing with me |
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"really? Listening to others gets me going!! X
i prefer the not so noisy.. volume tamed heavy breathing groans n moans..
they can be just as hot and without the volume. "
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I can only go with the porn stuff I have seen as you say artificial screams and moans from woman the noise they make totally puts me off. Nothing but animal grunts from the man is also very BORING.. They never look to be enjoying it..
But of course its just sex not lovemaking.
I did once spend some time watching a couple make love on cam it was really lovely. Would give anything to have what they had that day. sigh
I agree volume is not necessary.. but the sound of men moaning whilst being given a BJ or sex turns me on.
Women sounds dont work at all
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer more of the heavy breathing, moaning and the sounds of my cock going inside her.
I did have one fb who was actually quite loud and she'd be shouting 'oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck'..used to put me off at first but then i just fucked her harder to see how loud she can get lol
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"thats me n anna sat on the prude's bench :D "
Room for another one on your bench?! I'm relatively quiet myself even through amazing sex but get turned on massively when I allow others to lose their self control and vocalise the intensity of pleasure! Think I'll maybe just perch on the end if there's room!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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True, everyone is different. No issues with that at all. That said, if I'm busting out my best moves it's always nice to hear that it's having the desired effect. People clap when a singer finishes a song, or when a footballer scores it's just what you do.... Ever seen a comedian tell a joke and get silence? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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sex noises from partners is slightly different...
i'm on about when your in your home or wherever and suddenly your subject to the vocals of others shagging..
are you of the 'oh its hot, thats turning me on' frame of mind or the 'oh ffs your offending my ears' frame of mind
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No one's mentioned the slap of male thigh flesh against female thigh or bum flesh . ..yum"
i like that sound,, but luckily ive never heard that through my house walls |
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I love listening to people have sex but it Has to be genuine noise. It's why I quite like watching Letsbe have fun.
I like amateur porn but find a lot of it is too quiet for me to really get into it. The professional stuff sometimes seems to false. |
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"I love listening to people have sex but it Has to be genuine noise. It's why I quite like watching Letsbe have fun.
I like amateur porn but find a lot of it is too quiet for me to really get into it. The professional stuff sometimes seems to false. "
Think in a club senario its different though, its hot to watch and listen..
I just dont like inconsiderate neighbours who think its ok to enforce their sexual antics on others who dont wish to hear it
slightly different in your situation knowing who your neighbour is,, but if it was a stranger and they were banging away and you could hear it through walls would you find it hot? |
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"I love listening to people have sex but it Has to be genuine noise. It's why I quite like watching Letsbe have fun.
I like amateur porn but find a lot of it is too quiet for me to really get into it. The professional stuff sometimes seems to false.
Think in a club senario its different though, its hot to watch and listen..
I just dont like inconsiderate neighbours who think its ok to enforce their sexual antics on others who dont wish to hear it
slightly different in your situation knowing who your neighbour is,, but if it was a stranger and they were banging away and you could hear it through walls would you find it hot? "
Ah, ok...Didn't read all of the post lol
I think (depending on who is next door) it might be a bit amusing to begin with but after a while it would grate. I know a friend who's upstairs neighbours were having noisy sex and it drove her to distraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Screaming by default feels false and stage-managed to me. Coaxing the exceptional scream/shout from someone who is normally quiet is far more sexy to me than someone who is always shouting at you. |
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