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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of the poor single men threads.
Last two men full of it, I'll meet you on X day at X time. Can't wait to meet you, blah blah blah. Hi, are we still meeting? Silence. Messages read. Still silence.
So, single men. Reap what you sow |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What all of us
Oh you have proved you are tonight.
Is that so. I'll not argue 1 becouse I can't be botherd and 2 your obviously on 1 tonight so I'll just smile sweetly "
Just ignore me tonight, you're a nice guy. |
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"What all of us
Oh you have proved you are tonight.
Is that so. I'll not argue 1 becouse I can't be botherd and 2 your obviously on 1 tonight so I'll just smile sweetly
Just ignore me tonight, you're a nice guy. "
That much I know. Sorry your feeling down x |
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Big hugs Miss I.
Any no show is crappy, but 2 in a row is really pants.
(So bad I'm not even going to try to do my usual 'Importance of Being Earnest' quip  )
Just remember that any no show is not a reflection on you, but on them. Try not to get your hopes up too soon next time - I never believe they'll turn up right up until the last minute, and even then I'm all  in disbelief.
Big hugs again
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"No,they are all full of shit."
No they're not and you know it!
If you're little hissy fit is indicative of your behaviour, maybe they decided to dodge the bullet.
If a single man had started this thread he'd have been ripped a new one, told to change his selection process etc.
It's nsa sex with strangers: hardly worth busting a blood vessel over! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"No,they are all full of shit.
No they're not and you know it!
If you're little hissy fit is indicative of your behaviour, maybe they decided to dodge the bullet.
If a single man had started this thread he'd have been ripped a new one, told to change his selection process etc.
It's nsa sex with strangers: hardly worth busting a blood vessel over! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Big hugs Miss I.
Any no show is crappy, but 2 in a row is really pants.
(So bad I'm not even going to try to do my usual 'Importance of Being Earnest' quip )
Just remember that any no show is not a reflection on you, but on them. Try not to get your hopes up too soon next time - I never believe they'll turn up right up until the last minute, and even then I'm all in disbelief.
Big hugs again
xx
Mr ddc"
Not sure they were no shows, sounds like messages went cold after chatting. Happens a lot on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've got to kiss a few frogs before you meet a Prince.
I suspect your next meet will be awesome. Law of averages and all that. We cant all be arses all the time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Big hugs Miss I.
Any no show is crappy, but 2 in a row is really pants.
(So bad I'm not even going to try to do my usual 'Importance of Being Earnest' quip )
Just remember that any no show is not a reflection on you, but on them. Try not to get your hopes up too soon next time - I never believe they'll turn up right up until the last minute, and even then I'm all in disbelief.
Big hugs again
xx
Mr ddc
Not sure they were no shows, sounds like messages went cold after chatting. Happens a lot on here."
I think they were just generally babying her after she threw her toys out of her pram and started hating on all single men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Least you didnt get ready, go to the pub...chat with him(them) for 5 mins...then them go to the bar and not come back leaving you sat there like a proper bellend haha
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Ooh that's not very nice  |
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If you're little hissy fit is indicative of your behaviour, maybe they decided to dodge the bullet.
If a single man had started this thread he'd have been ripped a new one, told to change his selection process etc.
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Not by me he wouldn't, I still remember one particularly frustrating weekend we had on a previous site in our early days. So I remember exactly how she, and everyone who experienes this, feels. I know we're meant to become hardened to it, but it is hard and sometimes you have to make allowances when the frustration just makes you want to vent.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the ones who claim they have a FB and are desperate to meet a couple - you contact them or they contact you, have a lot of banter then zippo ! no further contact - full of shit.
Shame that it spoils it for the genuine single guys of which for a short while I was one and I didn't even get a sniff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a similar experience a few weeks back, arranged a social, date time etc, messaged the morning of the meet to confirm then nothing. My final message was to say I take it they had changed their mind and wished them well. Gave it a week then blocked them. Only took a few seconds per text, not really wasted my time so no hassle. Really not worth stressing over things like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not nice and plain rude but it does happen to everyone. I am a great believer in Karma and that the people that have let you down will get there just rewards.
I hope the rest of your weekend is better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had five no shows in one night OP. The thing is I knew they were all full of shit and wouldn't turn up but was going to the club anyhow . Par for the course on this site full of fantasists. Good job it was in a club. I only realised half way thro the night that they were all no shows. Didn't stop me having fun. Afterwards some had excuses (2 nans died how unlucky!) and wanted to meet again. Err.. how do I say this politely? ? I can't - 'fuck off.'
Chin up OP. The sites full of them hugs |
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I was stood up 4 times in a row, when I 1st joined. The flood of messages had been daunting, so discovered filters pretty quick, lurked in forums and followed the advice threads, so wasn't my selection process, all were verified by meet!
Some just don't want to meet for real, the fantasy and a wank are enough for them. It's shitty, I left for a while, but I came back and have now met some damn lovely blokes! Chin up, tits out, xxx |
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"I was stood up 4 times in a row, when I 1st joined. The flood of messages had been daunting, so discovered filters pretty quick, lurked in forums and followed the advice threads, so wasn't my selection process, all were verified by meet!
Some just don't want to meet for real, the fantasy and a wank are enough for them. It's shitty, I left for a while, but I came back and have now met some damn lovely blokes! Chin up, tits out, xxx"
That's the spirit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a similar experience a few weeks back, arranged a social, date time etc, messaged the morning of the meet to confirm then nothing. My final message was to say I take it they had changed their mind and wished them well. Gave it a week then blocked them. Only took a few seconds per text, not really wasted my time so no hassle. Really not worth stressing over things like this."
Men or women ? |
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over a year ago
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"I had a similar experience a few weeks back, arranged a social, date time etc, messaged the morning of the meet to confirm then nothing. My final message was to say I take it they had changed their mind and wished them well. Gave it a week then blocked them. Only took a few seconds per text, not really wasted my time so no hassle. Really not worth stressing over things like this.
Men or women ?"
Woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a similar experience a few weeks back, arranged a social, date time etc, messaged the morning of the meet to confirm then nothing. My final message was to say I take it they had changed their mind and wished them well. Gave it a week then blocked them. Only took a few seconds per text, not really wasted my time so no hassle. Really not worth stressing over things like this.
Men or women ?
Woman."
You must be mistaken. Women don't do that. Only men. |
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"Of the poor single men threads.
Last two men full of it, I'll meet you on X day at X time. Can't wait to meet you, blah blah blah. Hi, are we still meeting? Silence. Messages read. Still silence.
So, single men. Reap what you sow "
Or you are chatting to them and suddenly the block you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a similar experience a few weeks back, arranged a social, date time etc, messaged the morning of the meet to confirm then nothing. My final message was to say I take it they had changed their mind and wished them well. Gave it a week then blocked them. Only took a few seconds per text, not really wasted my time so no hassle. Really not worth stressing over things like this.
Men or women ?
Woman.
You must be mistaken. Women don't do that. Only men. "
It probably was a man in disguise |
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"Its not nice and plain rude but it does happen to everyone. I am a great believer in Karma and that the people that have let you down will get there just rewards.
I hope the rest of your weekend is better. "
I can honestly say in seven years it's never happened to me. Not because I'm gorgeous and irresistible but because I don't allow my time to be wasted.
No response to messages: move on.
Unable to find a time to meet: move on.
Unable to have social meet during my lunch hour/at the station after work so if no show I don't miss my train: move on.
Decide to work from home/tidy my knickers draw if no show I had plan b and c.
That's what's worked for me and the fact this is fantasy: sex is on offer. Some people act as if they've been offered a kidney, then the offer withdrawn! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a similar experience a few weeks back, arranged a social, date time etc, messaged the morning of the meet to confirm then nothing. My final message was to say I take it they had changed their mind and wished them well. Gave it a week then blocked them. Only took a few seconds per text, not really wasted my time so no hassle. Really not worth stressing over things like this.
Men or women ?
Woman.
You must be mistaken. Women don't do that. Only men.
It probably was a man in disguise "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Awww OP it's frustrating for sure but I think it's the nature of the site at times.
you'll probably find like buses they will all reply to you at once!
Chin up x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why i only do spontaneous meets coz you don't even know if you're gonna want sex when it's time for you to meet or be in the mood for a social even.
I have planned meets in the past but it just pisses me off, i don't look forward to planning sex or my social life. I'm a free spirit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I needed to rant last night. Of course I don't think everyone is full of shit.
I just think if you arrange a date & time to meet & you change your mind, it doesn't take much to tell them.
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By *AJANCouple
over a year ago
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"Least you didnt get ready, go to the pub...chat with him(them) for 5 mins...then them go to the bar and not come back leaving you sat there like a proper bellend haha
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True.
I prefer a cancellation than a guy promises you that he will do you million things you get all horny and when you start having fun he is the worst shag ever.  |
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This is exactly why I no longer do one on one socials or first meets outside of a club.
If they don't turn up to a group social I still have plenty of friends old and new to chat to, if they don't turn up to a club there's plenty others to choose from.
I've wasted far too much time in the past and now don't waste it or stress anymore. If someone really wants to meet me I post where I'll be. Even then I'd still estimate 9/10 who say they're coming to a club or social to meet me don't turn up! Grow a pair!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is exactly why I no longer do one on one socials or first meets outside of a club.
If they don't turn up to a group social I still have plenty of friends old and new to chat to, if they don't turn up to a club there's plenty others to choose from.
I've wasted far too much time in the past and now don't waste it or stress anymore. If someone really wants to meet me I post where I'll be. Even then I'd still estimate 9/10 who say they're coming to a club or social to meet me don't turn up! Grow a pair! "
My pair have grown enough thanks, any bigger & I'll topple over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I needed to rant last night. Of course I don't think everyone is full of shit.
I just think if you arrange a date & time to meet & you change your mind, it doesn't take much to tell them.
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True. And we all need to rant at times. Mine lasted 20 mins yesterday then i felt better. |
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over a year ago
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"I needed to rant last night. Of course I don't think everyone is full of shit.
I just think if you arrange a date & time to meet & you change your mind, it doesn't take much to tell them.
True. And we all need to rant at times. Mine lasted 20 mins yesterday then i felt better. "
Yep, shit day at work yesterday didn't help either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No,they are all full of shit."
Was going to comment on this but remembered the op is female therefore fab protocol indicates we must be full of sympathy
There there *in the voice of sheldon*  |
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over a year ago
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"I needed to rant last night. Of course I don't think everyone is full of shit.
I just think if you arrange a date & time to meet & you change your mind, it doesn't take much to tell them.
True. And we all need to rant at times. Mine lasted 20 mins yesterday then i felt better.
Yep, shit day at work yesterday didn't help either "
Aw, well hope you're enjoying the weekend, it's sunny here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No,they are all full of shit.
Was going to comment on this but remembered the op is female therefore fab protocol indicates we must be full of sympathy
There there *in the voice of sheldon* "
No, I don't want sympathy!! Send a "Fancy a fuck?" message instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not all us men are bar stewards some of us are genuine open minded and yes a little mad as well lol
I know. I was just ranting last night. "
Aw bless we all need to let off steam every now and then you ever need someone to rant at just shout always a good listener  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Love you too
Mmwah!
There, there...
Pat me on the head at the same time too please
How about a nice cuppa?
Everything's better with a nice cuppa tea.
Biccy?"
What biscuits do you have? My favourites are lemon puff ones. Bloody lovely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol ur still my 2nd favourite on here.
I know that sounds cheeky but out of all the thousands on here its pretty good goin lol "
Who are you talking to? |
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"My heart bleeds
Love you too
Mmwah!
There, there...
Pat me on the head at the same time too please
How about a nice cuppa?
Everything's better with a nice cuppa tea.
Biccy?
What biscuits do you have? My favourites are lemon puff ones. Bloody lovely "
Just bought some chocolate digestives... any good? |
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"Lol ur still my 2nd favourite on here.
I know that sounds cheeky but out of all the thousands on here its pretty good goin lol
Who are you talking to?"
yourself op |
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"Lol ur still my 2nd favourite on here.
I know that sounds cheeky but out of all the thousands on here its pretty good goin lol
Who are you talking to?
yourself op"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was stood up 4 times in a row, when I 1st joined. The flood of messages had been daunting, so discovered filters pretty quick, lurked in forums and followed the advice threads, so wasn't my selection process, all were verified by meet!
Some just don't want to meet for real, the fantasy and a wank are enough for them. It's shitty, I left for a while, but I came back and have now met some damn lovely blokes! Chin up, tits out, xxx"
"Chin up, tits out" I love that!!! |
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over a year ago
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"Lol ur still my 2nd favourite on here.
I know that sounds cheeky but out of all the thousands on here its pretty good goin lol
Who are you talking to?
yourself op
Thank-you, but only 2nd favourite? I've never been so offended in all my life "
It prob does sound quite cheeky but I figure honesty is better than blowin hot air |
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"Lol ur still my 2nd favourite on here.
I know that sounds cheeky but out of all the thousands on here its pretty good goin lol
Who are you talking to?
yourself op
Thank-you, but only 2nd favourite? I've never been so offended in all my life "
It prob does sound quite cheeky but I figure honesty is better than blowin hot air |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was stood up 4 times in a row, when I 1st joined. The flood of messages had been daunting, so discovered filters pretty quick, lurked in forums and followed the advice threads, so wasn't my selection process, all were verified by meet!
Some just don't want to meet for real, the fantasy and a wank are enough for them. It's shitty, I left for a while, but I came back and have now met some damn lovely blokes! Chin up, tits out, xxx
"Chin up, tits out" I love that!!! "
My tits are often out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My heart bleeds
Love you too
Mmwah!
There, there...
Pat me on the head at the same time too please
How about a nice cuppa?
Everything's better with a nice cuppa tea.
Biccy?
What biscuits do you have? My favourites are lemon puff ones. Bloody lovely
Just bought some chocolate digestives... any good? "
Ooh, yes please xxx |
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"Least you didnt get ready, go to the pub...chat with him(them) for 5 mins...then them go to the bar and not come back leaving you sat there like a proper bellend haha
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I always pre-check the toilet window for an emergency exit................ oh, that's on a blind restaurant date, sorry! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women do the same miss, remember over 90 percent here are dreamers in the search results lol."
I don't!! I have never not turned up or not at least messaged them to say I couldn't meet in plenty of time. Manners maketh the man and all that crap |
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"Women do the same miss, remember over 90 percent here are dreamers in the search results lol.
I don't!! I have never not turned up or not at least messaged them to say I couldn't meet in plenty of time. Manners maketh the man and all that crap "
No, no , in keeping in line with the original post, you're therefore tarred with the same brush, I'm afraid! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You only have yourself to blame! Now if you removed that pic of you in that terrible yellow top you may get a bit luckier. "
Oi!! How dare you
I'm looking at that top as I type. Not sure about the new Norwich home kit for next season to be honest. |
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"You only have yourself to blame! Now if you removed that pic of you in that terrible yellow top you may get a bit luckier.
Oi!! How dare you
I'm looking at that top as I type. Not sure about the new Norwich home kit for next season to be honest."
Lol.
Its their loss by the way. If you where closer and I had a meet arranged I would not be missing out. That sexy bum and a lovely set of sparklers too they must be mad. |
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"You only have yourself to blame! Now if you removed that pic of you in that terrible yellow top you may get a bit luckier.
Oi!! How dare you
I'm looking at that top as I type. Not sure about the new Norwich home kit for next season to be honest.
Lol.
Its their loss by the way. If you where closer and I had a meet arranged I would not be missing out. That sexy bum and a lovely set of sparklers too they must be mad. "
Haha!! Thanks xx Maybe their wives didn't give them any pocket money to go out with |
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over a year ago
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"I've had 2 men cancel on me this week. Most annoying. Grrrrrrrrrr!!"
I have no problem if they cancel, it's when they don't that I get angry. Especially when I can see they've read my message on the day we are supposed to be meeting & still can't say no I don't want to anymore!!! |
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"I've had 2 men cancel on me this week. Most annoying. Grrrrrrrrrr!!
I have no problem if they cancel, it's when they don't that I get angry. Especially when I can see they've read my message on the day we are supposed to be meeting & still can't say no I don't want to anymore!!!"
Thats just disgusting xx I always turn up when planned if i cant meet at least i have the balls to say so xxx I wouldnt want to let a lovely woman like you down xxx Though must admit last time i went to reading i was let down by an older woman myself with no reason as to why xxx Spent the whole night in the travelodge in the centre xxx |
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"I've had 2 men cancel on me this week. Most annoying. Grrrrrrrrrr!!
I have no problem if they cancel, it's when they don't that I get angry. Especially when I can see they've read my message on the day we are supposed to be meeting & still can't say no I don't want to anymore!!!
Thats just disgusting xx I always turn up when planned if i cant meet at least i have the balls to say so xxx I wouldnt want to let a lovely woman like you down xxx Though must admit last time i went to reading i was let down by an older woman myself with no reason as to why xxx Spent the whole night in the travelodge in the centre xxx"
It is just rude, whether they are men or women doing it. |
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"I've had 2 men cancel on me this week. Most annoying. Grrrrrrrrrr!!
I have no problem if they cancel, it's when they don't that I get angry. Especially when I can see they've read my message on the day we are supposed to be meeting & still can't say no I don't want to anymore!!!
Thats just disgusting xx I always turn up when planned if i cant meet at least i have the balls to say so xxx I wouldnt want to let a lovely woman like you down xxx Though must admit last time i went to reading i was let down by an older woman myself with no reason as to why xxx Spent the whole night in the travelodge in the centre xxx
It is just rude, whether they are men or women doing it. "
It sure is and your a great looking woman too xx There loss xx |
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over a year ago
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"Least you didnt get ready, go to the pub...chat with him(them) for 5 mins...then them go to the bar and not come back leaving you sat there like a proper bellend haha
Nooo!!!
Awkwaaaaard
Yesssss! Oh well "
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All that needs to has been said already. I'll just say hope your weekend as been better since. And don't forget I want a brew at the very least next time I'm Reading way! |
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"Not just single men who's full of shit you's women are just as bad"
At the risk of putting my head above the parapet and taking Flak.... he isn't wrong.... and some Couples in here need to take a long look at themselves too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had three no shows this week mainly i think because i made it implicitly clear that it was a social only!
Lose count of how many ive blocked this week mainly due to not reading my profile!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Now if I say I'll meet I always meet. I've not let anyone down by not showing or ignoring messages. But I've had 11 single verified women not turn up and ignore messages so it's not always guys that are let downs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All that needs to has been said already. I'll just say hope your weekend as been better since. And don't forget I want a brew at the very least next time I'm Reading way!"
Of course, you know I'd love to meet you socially xx |
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