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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets?? "Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on.... | |||
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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets?? "Be single, tall, handsome, gym-fit, intelligent, educated, wealthy, have a sense of humour and well-endowed Other qualities are not so important | |||
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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Be single, tall, handsome, gym-fit, intelligent, educated, wealthy, have a sense of humour and well-endowed
Other qualities are not so important "Hmmmmm maybe I should change my age preferences  | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on...."Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on... | |||
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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on..."Afraid so ... | |||
"Well from our experience most do what you've done, which is come on here and ask the question, they don't usually come back so there must be some good advice handed out "UNLOS rarely come back..... Many on here do not take the advice...continue to fail and leave. Don't be one of them....take the advice, build your profile to suit you...be clear on what you offer and what you seek. Do have a few more pics. Don't message randomly...tailor messages to the profiles that suit you and that you suit them. Think about clubs or socials? Post a meet and wait for folks to contact you. Feel free to check my profile (yours will be different to reflect YOU) but it works for me with lots of meets. | |||
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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets?? "For a start, may i suggest you quit whining about not getting meets and suffer in silence like the rest of us. | |||
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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks "Typical response but that's why your an add on .... | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ...."Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess? Sorry....I didn't realise.... | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise...."Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too. | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise...."Are single ladies an add on,or is that exclusive to single guys. | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise...."
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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too."I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience. | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience. "Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples. | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples."Dunno, don't really do clubs...never needed to really. And that may be, but there are still plenty of couples and other singles who like singles so it's not a worry of mine. Doesn't matter who or what you are, there will be someone who wants you and plenty who don't....but we all swing, so lets not divide ourselves up and call each other add ons or whatever, just having a partner doesn't make you some higher tier than me or the other singles on here. | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Dunno, don't really do clubs...never needed to really. And that may be, but there are still plenty of couples and other singles who like singles so it's not a worry of mine.
Doesn't matter who or what you are, there will be someone who wants you and plenty who don't....but we all swing, so lets not divide ourselves up and call each other add ons or whatever, just having a partner doesn't make you some higher tier than me or the other singles on here. "This single guy (christos) is bloody lovely, easy on the eyes as well as being a really nice person, he will never struggle for meets.  | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Dunno, don't really do clubs...never needed to really. And that may be, but there are still plenty of couples and other singles who like singles so it's not a worry of mine.
Doesn't matter who or what you are, there will be someone who wants you and plenty who don't....but we all swing, so lets not divide ourselves up and call each other add ons or whatever, just having a partner doesn't make you some higher tier than me or the other singles on here.
This single guy (christos) is bloody lovely, easy on the eyes as well as being a really nice person, he will never struggle for meets. "There you go Christos sorted  | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Dunno, don't really do clubs...never needed to really. And that may be, but there are still plenty of couples and other singles who like singles so it's not a worry of mine.
Doesn't matter who or what you are, there will be someone who wants you and plenty who don't....but we all swing, so lets not divide ourselves up and call each other add ons or whatever, just having a partner doesn't make you some higher tier than me or the other singles on here.
This single guy (christos) is bloody lovely, easy on the eyes as well as being a really nice person, he will never struggle for meets.
There you go Christos sorted "Would be very happy to see this guy again! Shame he's so far away!  | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ...."Someone's sharpened their kitty cat claws.... | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Dunno, don't really do clubs...never needed to really. And that may be, but there are still plenty of couples and other singles who like singles so it's not a worry of mine.
Doesn't matter who or what you are, there will be someone who wants you and plenty who don't....but we all swing, so lets not divide ourselves up and call each other add ons or whatever, just having a partner doesn't make you some higher tier than me or the other singles on here.
This single guy (christos) is bloody lovely, easy on the eyes as well as being a really nice person, he will never struggle for meets.
There you go Christos sorted
Would be very happy to see this guy again! Shame he's so far away! "Now you just made me  but thankyou! Xx | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on...."Its hard for single guys keep going and trying andaybe in a year or so you will have a meet | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples."Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that. -Courtney | |||
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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney"No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation. We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'. As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney
No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation.
We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'.
As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger "I'm not a swinger and not afraid to say it. It's old people who live in the past hanging onto the Swinger ideal,when it's really just people having sex with others in a non-monogamous situation. It's not really accepted to call a club a sex club or a site a sex site,even though the ultimate outcome is to find other people to have sex with. Dress is up how you want,if it makes you feel better about it,call it socialising with a happy ending,but it's sex. Get out of the past and step into the modern world. You don't have to meet single people,you can avoid places that don't let them in,leave sites who encourage single people to fornicate,if it offends you to be associated with them. If they class themselves as swingers that is their prerogative,not your call to tell them they aren't. Incidentally,how much did you make from charging non-swingers to access your swinging venue and websites? I bet that pained you to take their money. | |||
" No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation. We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'. As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger "I realise that you are comparatively new to swinging, so I'll forgive your ignorance! | |||
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Probably from single guys but hey, beggars can't be choosers  | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney
No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation.
We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'.
As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger "You did call singles 'add ons' That's pretty rude. I'm single now, but still see myself as a swinger, i have done this as a single, as a couple, with friends, met singles and couples, been involved in all kinds of scenarios and shall continue to do so, so I'm not going to divide my time up into chunks and re categorise myself for every time I play differently...I firmly believe I believe I belong under the umbrella of swinger. The origins of swinging may be from couples sharing, but things evolve, swinging no less than anything, I believe it now covers everyone interested in sex and all it's facets as a passtime, not solely couples looking for couples, and I think acceptance of people is a good thing, not to stay stuck in the past and how things were. It's where the scene is now with the rise if the internet and easier accessibility, it's not word of mouth and classified ads any more...welcome to the new world | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney
No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation.
We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'.
As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger
You did call singles 'add ons'
That's pretty rude.
I'm single now, but still see myself as a swinger, i have done this as a single, as a couple, with friends, met singles and couples, been involved in all kinds of scenarios and shall continue to do so, so I'm not going to divide my time up into chunks and re categorise myself for every time I play differently...I firmly believe I believe I belong under the umbrella of swinger.
The origins of swinging may be from couples sharing, but things evolve, swinging no less than anything, I believe it now covers everyone interested in sex and all it's facets as a passtime, not solely couples looking for couples, and I think acceptance of people is a good thing, not to stay stuck in the past and how things were. It's where the scene is now with the rise if the internet and easier accessibility, it's not word of mouth and classified ads any more...welcome to the new world "Unlike Coutney, we respect your point of view it's a pity she couldn't accept we are entitled to ours. End of the day it's also about supply and demand. Too many single guys and not enough demand for them either by the small percentage of couples that do seek them or single ladies. | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney
No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation.
We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'.
As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger
You did call singles 'add ons'
That's pretty rude.
I'm single now, but still see myself as a swinger, i have done this as a single, as a couple, with friends, met singles and couples, been involved in all kinds of scenarios and shall continue to do so, so I'm not going to divide my time up into chunks and re categorise myself for every time I play differently...I firmly believe I believe I belong under the umbrella of swinger.
The origins of swinging may be from couples sharing, but things evolve, swinging no less than anything, I believe it now covers everyone interested in sex and all it's facets as a passtime, not solely couples looking for couples, and I think acceptance of people is a good thing, not to stay stuck in the past and how things were. It's where the scene is now with the rise if the internet and easier accessibility, it's not word of mouth and classified ads any more...welcome to the new world
Unlike Coutney, we respect your point of view it's a pity she couldn't accept we are entitled to ours. End of the day it's also about supply and demand. Too many single guys and not enough demand for them either by the small percentage of couples that do seek them or single ladies."
I respect you have your own point of view. I don't respect you talking about people as if they are objects to add to you sex life. I also don't like others speaking for what they consider to be the majority of other people. I wanted to make it clear, as part of a couple, that you might have your point of view, but I disagree with it, thereby having my own point of view. I believe my response to you was far less rude and abrasive than your responses to others above.
-Courtney | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney
No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation.
We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'.
As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger
You did call singles 'add ons'
That's pretty rude.
I'm single now, but still see myself as a swinger, i have done this as a single, as a couple, with friends, met singles and couples, been involved in all kinds of scenarios and shall continue to do so, so I'm not going to divide my time up into chunks and re categorise myself for every time I play differently...I firmly believe I believe I belong under the umbrella of swinger.
The origins of swinging may be from couples sharing, but things evolve, swinging no less than anything, I believe it now covers everyone interested in sex and all it's facets as a passtime, not solely couples looking for couples, and I think acceptance of people is a good thing, not to stay stuck in the past and how things were. It's where the scene is now with the rise if the internet and easier accessibility, it's not word of mouth and classified ads any more...welcome to the new world
Unlike Coutney, we respect your point of view it's a pity she couldn't accept we are entitled to ours. End of the day it's also about supply and demand. Too many single guys and not enough demand for them either by the small percentage of couples that do seek them or single ladies.
I respect you have your own point of view. I don't respect you talking about people as if they are objects to add to you sex life. I also don't like others speaking for what they consider to be the majority of other people. I wanted to make it clear, as part of a couple, that you might have your point of view, but I disagree with it, thereby having my own point of view. I believe my response to you was far less rude and abrasive than your responses to others above.
-Courtney "That is not how you came across so let's leave it there. | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney
No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation.
We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'.
As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger
You did call singles 'add ons'
That's pretty rude.
I'm single now, but still see myself as a swinger, i have done this as a single, as a couple, with friends, met singles and couples, been involved in all kinds of scenarios and shall continue to do so, so I'm not going to divide my time up into chunks and re categorise myself for every time I play differently...I firmly believe I believe I belong under the umbrella of swinger.
The origins of swinging may be from couples sharing, but things evolve, swinging no less than anything, I believe it now covers everyone interested in sex and all it's facets as a passtime, not solely couples looking for couples, and I think acceptance of people is a good thing, not to stay stuck in the past and how things were. It's where the scene is now with the rise if the internet and easier accessibility, it's not word of mouth and classified ads any more...welcome to the new world
Unlike Coutney, we respect your point of view it's a pity she couldn't accept we are entitled to ours. End of the day it's also about supply and demand. Too many single guys and not enough demand for them either by the small percentage of couples that do seek them or single ladies."
We all indeed are entitled to our views...
I was just trying to give you mine....ad an actual single bloke, it's a good site to meet on, both couples and singles, and to meet up with other singles to meet as a couple...i honestly think it's not that difficult for a single guy to get alot of different experiences through this site...I don't feel like I'm in some massive majority of males and struggle because of it, I really have and do enjoy my time on here...maybe I'm lucky, maybe I'm reading profiles and talking to the right people, maybe I have realistic expectations, maybe it's just not as hard to interact with people as some folk think, I dunno...that's my take on it anyhow | |||
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"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney
No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation.
We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'.
As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger
You did call singles 'add ons'
That's pretty rude.
I'm single now, but still see myself as a swinger, i have done this as a single, as a couple, with friends, met singles and couples, been involved in all kinds of scenarios and shall continue to do so, so I'm not going to divide my time up into chunks and re categorise myself for every time I play differently...I firmly believe I believe I belong under the umbrella of swinger.
The origins of swinging may be from couples sharing, but things evolve, swinging no less than anything, I believe it now covers everyone interested in sex and all it's facets as a passtime, not solely couples looking for couples, and I think acceptance of people is a good thing, not to stay stuck in the past and how things were. It's where the scene is now with the rise if the internet and easier accessibility, it's not word of mouth and classified ads any more...welcome to the new world
Unlike Coutney, we respect your point of view it's a pity she couldn't accept we are entitled to ours. End of the day it's also about supply and demand. Too many single guys and not enough demand for them either by the small percentage of couples that do seek them or single ladies.
We all indeed are entitled to our views...
I was just trying to give you mine....ad an actual single bloke, it's a good site to meet on, both couples and singles, and to meet up with other singles to meet as a couple...i honestly think it's not that difficult for a single guy to get alot of different experiences through this site...I don't feel like I'm in some massive majority of males and struggle because of it, I really have and do enjoy my time on here...maybe I'm lucky, maybe I'm reading profiles and talking to the right people, maybe I have realistic expectations, maybe it's just not as hard to interact with people as some folk think, I dunno...that's my take on it anyhow "Swinging moved on from being wife swapping years ago. As for only a small percentage of couples looking for singles? A quick search of profiles in any area disproves that. Singles are as essential an element of 'swinging' (whatever the mysterious gods of swinging have chosen for a definition!) as couples. Where would the threesomes be, MMF or MFF, Where you the ganbangs be, Where would the all female events be - without singles? There's no hierarchy. No pecking order. No league table of worthiness. Just people - single or in a relationship. And all are as important and welcome as each other. A | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney
No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation.
We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'.
As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger
You did call singles 'add ons'
That's pretty rude.
I'm single now, but still see myself as a swinger, i have done this as a single, as a couple, with friends, met singles and couples, been involved in all kinds of scenarios and shall continue to do so, so I'm not going to divide my time up into chunks and re categorise myself for every time I play differently...I firmly believe I believe I belong under the umbrella of swinger.
The origins of swinging may be from couples sharing, but things evolve, swinging no less than anything, I believe it now covers everyone interested in sex and all it's facets as a passtime, not solely couples looking for couples, and I think acceptance of people is a good thing, not to stay stuck in the past and how things were. It's where the scene is now with the rise if the internet and easier accessibility, it's not word of mouth and classified ads any more...welcome to the new world
Unlike Coutney, we respect your point of view it's a pity she couldn't accept we are entitled to ours. End of the day it's also about supply and demand. Too many single guys and not enough demand for them either by the small percentage of couples that do seek them or single ladies.
We all indeed are entitled to our views...
I was just trying to give you mine....ad an actual single bloke, it's a good site to meet on, both couples and singles, and to meet up with other singles to meet as a couple...i honestly think it's not that difficult for a single guy to get alot of different experiences through this site...I don't feel like I'm in some massive majority of males and struggle because of it, I really have and do enjoy my time on here...maybe I'm lucky, maybe I'm reading profiles and talking to the right people, maybe I have realistic expectations, maybe it's just not as hard to interact with people as some folk think, I dunno...that's my take on it anyhow
Swinging moved on from being wife swapping years ago.
As for only a small percentage of couples looking for singles? A quick search of profiles in any area disproves that.
Singles are as essential an element of 'swinging' (whatever the mysterious gods of swinging have chosen for a definition!) as couples. Where would the threesomes be, MMF or MFF, Where you the ganbangs be, Where would the all female events be - without singles?
There's no hierarchy. No pecking order. No league table of worthiness. Just people - single or in a relationship.
And all are as important and welcome as each other.
A"Nicely put, I like the community feel of it all, I talk to all sorts of folk, some I meet, some have gone on to be good friends, I never saw the division of certain groups as an issue...I mean, we're all just people right? We interact....it's what humans do | |||
"i just find it interesting they never did answer the question whether single women were merely an add on as well.... just an observation......." Add-ons, I am afraid; nobody ever meets us  | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience. "I'm also in a couple on here yet both me and my BF do far better in terms of meets on our individual profiles. I've met couples, single guys and single girls from my solo profile and he's met many single girls. He also has no public pics, a shadow avatar and a two line profile. So I think there is no key method other than patience, not having any expectations and not being a dick when there is some reciprocal interest. In a nutshell. | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets??
Get a female partner to become real swingers not an add on....
Must take note....apparently i'm not real then either, I'm just an add on...
Afraid so ...
Utter bollocks
Typical response but that's why your an add on ....
Ah...your the ones who decide who's what I guess?
Sorry....I didn't realise....
Not at all. Fact is only a small percentage of swinging couples will be interested in single men. Good luck with the single women on here too.
I've been in a couple on here and been a single, fact is for me, it's much more effective being a single...had way less interest when in a couple so what you say doesn't stack up at all in my experience.
Well we can only express our view. Websites and those clubs that admit single men tend to over charge them and restrict there numbers at events. As stated most couples are looking for other couples.
Why the need to be so rude? And if you're not trying to be rude, you're coming off that way anyway (at least to me). We meet singles, both men and women, and we certainly don't view them as "add ons." It is a mutually beneficial situation. And while many couples are looking for other couples, many are looking for single as well...especially single women! Please don't say you are only expressing your view, then spout off what most other couples are looking for. We don't see anyone as an add on and wouldn't talk about other humans we want to have sex with like that.
-Courtney
No intention to appear rude and apologises if it came across that way. We base our view on over 15 years in the scene, having run a swingers venue and managed a website. We think single guys get a rough deal but some don't help themselves with attitude and over expectation.
We do maintain though that the majority of couples seek other couples and the origin of swingers came from 'wife swappers'.
As for single ladies they used to be called Unicorns as they were rare but that was before it became trendy to call yourself a swinger
You did call singles 'add ons'
That's pretty rude.
I'm single now, but still see myself as a swinger, i have done this as a single, as a couple, with friends, met singles and couples, been involved in all kinds of scenarios and shall continue to do so, so I'm not going to divide my time up into chunks and re categorise myself for every time I play differently...I firmly believe I believe I belong under the umbrella of swinger.
The origins of swinging may be from couples sharing, but things evolve, swinging no less than anything, I believe it now covers everyone interested in sex and all it's facets as a passtime, not solely couples looking for couples, and I think acceptance of people is a good thing, not to stay stuck in the past and how things were. It's where the scene is now with the rise if the internet and easier accessibility, it's not word of mouth and classified ads any more...welcome to the new world
Unlike Coutney, we respect your point of view it's a pity she couldn't accept we are entitled to ours. End of the day it's also about supply and demand. Too many single guys and not enough demand for them either by the small percentage of couples that do seek them or single ladies.
We all indeed are entitled to our views...
I was just trying to give you mine....ad an actual single bloke, it's a good site to meet on, both couples and singles, and to meet up with other singles to meet as a couple...i honestly think it's not that difficult for a single guy to get alot of different experiences through this site...I don't feel like I'm in some massive majority of males and struggle because of it, I really have and do enjoy my time on here...maybe I'm lucky, maybe I'm reading profiles and talking to the right people, maybe I have realistic expectations, maybe it's just not as hard to interact with people as some folk think, I dunno...that's my take on it anyhow
Swinging moved on from being wife swapping years ago.
As for only a small percentage of couples looking for singles? A quick search of profiles in any area disproves that.
Singles are as essential an element of 'swinging' (whatever the mysterious gods of swinging have chosen for a definition!) as couples. Where would the threesomes be, MMF or MFF, Where you the ganbangs be, Where would the all female events be - without singles?
There's no hierarchy. No pecking order. No league table of worthiness. Just people - single or in a relationship.
And all are as important and welcome as each other.
A" | |||
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"You have to be 6'2+, dark hair, blue eyes, 9+ inch cock, well toned body, "Yes please | |||
"Whats a guy got to do on here to get some meets?? "Desperation ain't sexy, dude | |||
